So if dem leave dis idiot, he for kuku strip her naked inside a moving vehicle. Some men can’t control their hormones, when they see women. Justice should take its course.
KingSatan: As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.
Cheers!
You just reminded me of the numerous advice my grandad use to give me, growing up as a child. Cheers boss
I thought all the evacuees has been shouldering the cost of quarantine and feeding amounting to the tune of N297,000 or am I mistaken? The looting in this administration knows no bounds, make una continue.
I’m not a hypocrite, but the day the news will be announced of the demise of El Midget of Kaduna. Walai I go throw party for my goons, kill cow Nd buy plenty alcohol.
GOFRONT: Hanty Kemi, pls Is there any update about ElRufai??........Kemi, I know you won't fail to keep us abreast about any development from Gov EL rufai.....
Pls continue to feed us with those Sweet breaking News of yours!!!.......Your breaking news so sweet me like I Spill the sperm whenever I masturbate with a Fressia vaseline in my left palm....
Nothing beat the Reliability of your kind of Information......
Pls keep a watchful eye on ElRufai
Nothing go sweet me pass the news of the demise of the midget of Kaduna. I go throw party for my area.
johnlegend01: Oga Professor, I disagree vehemently!!!
I am a Mining Engineer by study and by profession by God's Grace. I can categorically confirm that commercial explosives were being conveyed from an explosive company in the South west to a quarry in the South south. EOD (Explosive Ordnance Disposal) officers of the Nigeria Police were escorting the said explosives. The explosives detonated because the truck went in flames, according to report. Whether that cause is true or not is another case entirely. The one true fact is that "EXPLOSIVES IN A TRUCK DETONATED". The impact of the explosion is what you saw, while some witnessed ground vibration, air blast and noise.
For those that want to believe Mr Professor, try to check online videos of blasting done in quarries to know what explosives can do to rocks.
Check this video to understand the power of explosives.
In addition, some people said it was a bomb. Bomb explosives are different from commercial explosives. You would notice that there was no trace of fire or burn on and around the location.
You’re very correct and the only commercial explosive available in Nigeria is dynamite. Dynamites are used for controlled explosions or shape charge, that’s why mining and seismic companies uses it. Moreover it doesn’t leave fire or burn marks, unless it’s used on a building with fire conductors inside. I’ve seen it at work firsthand, so I’m speaking from experience.
akanbiaa: Sorry about that, I knew people who were close to me back then too that lost their building but they did not fight back because they did not have the necessary documents needed to prove beyond reasonable doubt that they got the land through the legal channels, such that they would have been eligible for compensation. But I got the reason for your frustration May our Future be better than our present and past.
akanbiaa: Do you mind sharing your encounter with El Rufai and if he actually did wrong to you did you take him to court if no why ?
He brought down four(4) of my uncle’ Buildings inside Gwarinpa estate in one(1) day, only a few hours apart. I was there helping to move out personal effects, when the bulldozers brought down the buildings. So pls leave me to vent my frustration and hatred for the midget the best way I know how. Thank you
akanbiaa: What I know is that I have personally encountered common people more wicked and heartless than the worst politician. And when you point a finger at a person 3 points back at you.
My brother if you saw the wickedness of the midget(El-Rufai) and how he wrecked people’s lives/livelihoods you will never wish him well. I witnessed it firsthand, so don’t come here and be telling me of 3 fingers pointing back at me. Kapish
I prefer to pray for the thousands of people you rendered homeless in fct, during your days as minister for fct. Useless midget, if you survive this, then I know God is partial.
Eteka1: All these analysis is meaningless. You are talking about high velocity/low velocity. What do you think dynamites meant for blasting hard rocks will do? these things aren't toys. Dynamites are very high explosives that's why they are widely used in mining.
The explosion caused by one stick of dynamite is really massive. Imagine what happens when a truck loaded with hundreds of sticks catches fire.
@Eteka1 you’re absolutely right, dynamites are used for blasting rocks by quarries and when combined are very powerful. I’ve had the opportunity to use some working with a seismic company, I promise you it’s not something th play with. @gamalnasser you have been right all along, but not everything is a conspiracy theory. the only explosive available in Nigeria right now in large quantities capable of creating such devastation and shock wave is dynamite. Glycerine is not readily available and your vbied theory is flawed.
Trizyd: There will be residue, it doesn't turn to dust, it might* not be at the sight of impact. If you can't find residue, then how are you so sure it was truck?
There is another thread where police is claiming responsibility for the Akure bomb blast. Maybe now, y’all will leave GamalNasser alone. Since his theory has been proven and buttress by the NPF.
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