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Culture / Re: List Of Ooni’s New Queens & Their Profiles by ArchAngelos999: 10:12am On Oct 29, 2022
Dshocker:
Ashawo king

Won o ni jere e

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Crime / Re: Nathalie Maillet Shot Dead By Husband, Franz Dubois by ArchAngelos999: 9:02pm On Aug 17, 2021
Una go just rush read headline dey comment nonsense. Unless your Fox River is a cemetery then shut up

EXLOVER:
So many people act before thinking, i know you love the woman so much, you shouldn't have take life away from her, you should have walked out of the scene like a man, buy some buzz and smoke some weed. Their a lot of pvssy to go round in the world. Your wife is 53, you've been enjoying her pvssy for many years, you just caught her pants down with a lady not even a guy.


So many pvssy azz men walking around with dikc, now he's going to spend the rest of his life in Fox River. Damn


Wetin toto dey do people for this world...
Religion / Re: Ahmad Amadi: Why I Converted To Christianity - Leader Of Muslims Against Terror by ArchAngelos999: 3:53pm On Aug 15, 2021
Read the post first, don't be lazy

InaNla:
Hallelujah
Religion / Re: Ahmad Amadi: Why I Converted To Christianity - Leader Of Muslims Against Terror by ArchAngelos999: 3:50pm On Aug 15, 2021
It is either you didn't read the post or you did but don't understand Christianity

Fahdiga:
He has seen the light. Only punks slams their heads while throwing bombs and beheading people

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Politics / Re: Lagos Free Zone: US Mission In Nigeria To Facilitate Increased Investment by ArchAngelos999: 3:07pm On Aug 03, 2021
Interesting read but your summary of the African society is misdirected even though it appears to be the current situation. However, there is a lot that happened on the way to the current state. The book by Walter Rodney, "How Europe Underdeveloped Africa", explains the cause for the effect which you described which continues to be reinforced by the same effect

Dagger111:
Iro nla. Last last, na wetin we go get be this:

SOCIALISM: You have two cows, and you give one to your neighbor.

COMMUNISM: You have two cows, the government takes both and gives you milk.

FASCISM: You have two cows, the government takes both and sells you milk.

NAZISM: You have two cows, the government takes them and kills you.

CAPITALISM: You have two cows, you sell one and buy a male. You multiply your cows and there is economic growth. You sell them, you retire and you live on your profits.

MODERN CAPITALISM: You have two cows, you sell one and buy a male. You multiply your cows and you buy those of your neighbors. The latter become your shepherds, you pay them in monkey currencies and they die poor.

AMERICAN SOCIETY: You have two cows, you sell one and you have to make the other one to produce milk like 4 cows. By dint of producing beyond her capacity, she dies. You take a consultant to understand this death.

FRENCH SOCIETY: You have two cows, you go on strike because you want a third.

GERMAN SOCIETY: You have two cows, you modify them so that they live 100 years, eat once a month and treat themselves.

CHINESE SOCIETY: You have two cows, you sell milk to your compatriots and you produce plastic milk to export to the rest of the world.

BLACK/ AFRICAN SOCIETY: You have two cows, you eat them all the same day and you dream that donors or the international community give you others. You turn to God and hope for miracle cattle. You fast 40 days and 40 nights without eating or drinking so that the cows will fall from heaven. At the end, you die in extreme poverty.

Awon werey people.
Politics / Re: DSS Feeds Igboho’s Aides With ‘Engine Oil’ Soup – Pelumi Olajengbesi, Lawyer by ArchAngelos999: 2:07pm On Jul 31, 2021
You are obviously just looking for attention. Those of us seeking Yoruba Nation are allies with our Ibo brothers seeking Biafra.

Talk another thing

Nbotee:
Hahahahahaha.... E don reach una... Those yoruba agitators making fun of Nnamdi Kanu oya ooo gather here
Politics / Re: 2023: Northerners Can’t Be Forced To Vote Southern President – Baba-Ahmed by ArchAngelos999: 10:57am On Jul 31, 2021
According to dishonourable Aishatu Dukku that is how god created them
BigDick70inch:
Really??

Never heard/seen/met a sane northerner all my life........

I wonder if God put a brain in their head at all........

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Romance / Re: What Was Your Worst Experience When You Visited Your Partner Unannounced? by ArchAngelos999: 10:50am On Jul 31, 2021
I tire for the guy o. Person wey no dey cook for you tidy rice, stew and fried fish for the guy and him get mind to call am deputy. If say him be no 1 he for pursue the guy, but him excuse himself as deputy wey him be

Kobicove:


Know your place, the guy you met was the main guy...you were the deputy or side guy grin

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Politics / Re: How The Bini Used And Sold The Igbos As Slaves For Centuries - Reno Omokri by ArchAngelos999: 8:58pm On Jul 22, 2021
This is incredibly ignorant of you. It is only idiots that sacrifice facts to maintain false beliefs. Imagine a hypothetical situation where you don't want to know who killed your father because the facts point to your uncle

FreeStuffsNG:
Hmmm. Just like to shake table. I appreciate reading about the origin of the foreign names in Warri but don't want this kind of stuff on slavery that do not bind us shared in this manner in our history books now that history is back in the school curriculum.
More studies are required because we are in the era of history revisionism especially from that same axis of Nigeria he mentioned.
Foreign Affairs / Re: More Than A Billion Seashore Animals Cooked To Death In Canada Heatwave(pic) by ArchAngelos999: 10:29am On Jul 19, 2021
alphaNomega:
These extreme climate changes are as a result of the earth's orbit and axial tilt, something we have little to no control over.

By the current position of the earth within the Milankovic cycle we should be having an ice age right now, that we are not is due to ghg emissions. We have greatly influenced climate

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Crime / Re: Military: Why We Didn’t Kill Katsina Schoolboys’ Abductors by ArchAngelos999: 9:15pm On Dec 20, 2020
you just read a report that said they neutralized bandits but at the same time it was an unarmed combat. don't you think? did the bandits drop their guns to fight Nigerian army while in custody of the boys? sycophancy is a terrible disease

post=97248035:
Jibrin said following the abduction of the boys, the minister led a delegation, including the Service Chiefs and the National Security Adviser, to Katsina and Kankara.

He said the minister gave the rules of engagement, directing the troops to ensure that the abducted boys were rescued without casualties and within the shortest time possible.

He said, “Following the directive, the troops closed in on the abductors from four different fronts, including the reinforcement that was made from other divisions, to ensure that the entire location was sealed off.

“The bandits were all under siege and they were fully aware of that, feeling the impacts of the presence of the troops both from the air and on the ground.


Some Swines, children of hate, Frustrations and perdition are so pained that non of the boys were killed.
That would have been their happiness.
May that death you are always happy to read locate you before next year Insha Allah.
(Quote this comment if you are one of such swines and bad news lover.)

We thank God that these boys returned peacefully and in one piece to their parents.
Politics / Re: Protest Erupts In Katsina Over Kidnap Of School Children by ArchAngelos999: 4:01pm On Dec 13, 2020
Truthissupreme:
This is a lie we northerners are safe sipping our camel urine.

Non Muslims stay off this, it is our cracked skull not yours

All praise to Buhari peace be upon him


you are mad, I like you ��
Religion / Re: Please Help!! How Do I Genuinely Give My Life To Christ? by ArchAngelos999: 9:23pm On Oct 11, 2020
there a lot you need to understand but I'll just drop one and if it piques your interest then ask me to continue.

God does not, cannot and will not kill or endorse killing. areas I'm the Bible where it purports God to kill was the writer's ignorance

1 John 1:5
[5]This then is the message which we have heard of him, and declare unto you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all.

Luke 9:53-56
[53]And they did not receive him, because his face was as though he would go to Jerusalem.
[54]And when his disciples James and John saw this, they said, Lord, wilt thou that we command fire to come down from heaven, and consume them, even as Elias did?
[55]But he turned, and rebuked them, and said, Ye know not what manner of spirit ye are of.
[56]For the Son of man is not come to destroy men's lives, but to save them. And they went to another village.

tobechi74:
I experienced similar ordeal until
I began to read the Bible for myself instead of waiting for pastor sermon.
Things began to change the moment I began to read the Bible. I discovered more ethical issues. God servant instructing wild animals to devor children for mocking his bald head. I remembered my youngest brother had earlier mocked my granddad for having wrinkled face. My grand dad laughed at the boy . If he could wave such aside without getting angry,why would a prophet of God kill children for such? While I was battling with the best way to make sence of this? The story of God killing the man who tried to save the ark of the covenant disturbed my spirit. By now, you must have guessed that I have a phobia for violence and death.


The numerous death stories made me anxious that I stopped reading old testament and concentrated on new testament. The Gospel God was a God of Love, compassion and forgiveness.I found it impossible to reconcile the two. It is either they are two different gods or one God who repented . I prefer to go by my third explanation + MAN PERCEPTION OF GOD CHANGED OVER THE YEARS. The old testament toman perceived God the same way they perceived their elders- one to be obeyed blindly and feared. Jesus saw God as a friend to be loved and treated as equal to oneself . Jesus philosophy seemed to resonate with me.


As I studied further, I realized a variation in the teaching of Paul. Jesus seemed to break down patriarchy. Paul supported patriarchy. Jesus taught faith and works as requirement for salvation. Paul promoted only works. I am saddled with the same task of reconciling the two.


I chose to stick with a mentor. It is easier than for a growing child to combine series of mentors and trying to find a middle line amidst the cobtrafiction. No two individual think exactly in the same way. ..Jesus is the mentor . . His philosophy is more humanistic.
Focus more on Jesus and less on the Bible to give your life to Jesus

https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/10/religion-vs-spirituality-what-is-the-difference/
Politics / Re: Zahra Buhari Joins EndSARS Protest by ArchAngelos999: 8:30pm On Oct 11, 2020
if you had a brain it would have told you I didn't say other units were absolved. if you had a brain you would have known that an endless list of hashtags would have be difficult in respect to coordinating the protests. if it was not coconut water you had in your dense cranium you would have known that #EndPoliceBrutality covered all units. Also the fact that I stated that even the posture of the #endsars was against all forms of human rights violation.

stupid coward, what have you done for human rights. idiots like you will be silent when police is about to arrest you unjustly

don't quote me again. fool

buygala:


You sha had to add being disrespectful to your being very stupid grin

These Special Anti Whatever Squads of the Police act like each other...in any case, they even wear the same jackets with the only difference in inscription being whatever follows the 'Anti' ....So Nigerians who find it hard to read anything lump them all up as SARS..

And yes, many officers are members of different squads at the same time ..

Go and watch the video of the guy in delta who was alleged killed by Sars and his Car driven away ..Go read the inscription on that Vehicle and tell me if it's SARS...

Stop being stupid Sir

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Celebrities / Re: Obafemi Hamzat Shares How SARS Harassed Him by ArchAngelos999: 9:39pm On Oct 10, 2020
see how this bastard changed the narrative with his subtle accusation. these guys are evil

"If we employ violence or destruction to drive home our grievances, we will also be hurting ourselves"
Politics / Re: EndSARS: Imoru Police Station Vandalized By Residents Of Ijebu Ode by ArchAngelos999: 9:22pm On Oct 10, 2020
oga shut up, you have never been a victim

Coronavirus84:
There is curse in the land of this country, Sincerely am once a victim of SARS harassment but nevertheless I can't totally support the dissolution of this SARS in the society rather for the federal government to Reform SARS. Armed robbers and the criminal Yahoo boys are the people sponsoring this #ENDSARS matter so they can be free in the society.
Car Talk / Re: Innoson Backs The #ENDSARS Protest by ArchAngelos999: 9:11pm On Oct 10, 2020
same thing happened to me. sevilla v inter, we were asking them what we did they no gree talk. many guys just close mouth. I later fly fence run.

globalresource:


I'm not a criminal.

It seems you reason from the back

I was once watching football and this guy's just came packed everyone they can lay hands in a bus. Without any reason. I intimidate them with my ID card

I learnt them collected money before they released them for just no reason. So are u telling me they are criminals?

It is simpletons like u that is making this country go backward

Maybe you wait till u are harassed or a family member. Nobody will tell u before u add your voice

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Politics / Re: Zahra Buhari Joins EndSARS Protest by ArchAngelos999: 8:57pm On Oct 10, 2020
your essay was not well thought out.

SARS has been focused on because they have been causing hurt and harm to a lot of innocent people. these other units you talk about are not mentioned because they don't interface with the innocents as much.

growing up as a Nigerian i can see why you sound like a brainwashed slave, so the millions protesting are yahoo boys the ladies are prostitutes. if you were sensible you would understand that even criminals have a right to fair hearing and the penalty for cybercrime is not death.

by pushing #endsars we are pushing against all forms of human rights abuse be it from the military or whatever.

i hereby implore you to not just be an armchair critic and do something that will benefit you children


buygala:
I don't stand with #EndSars..I stand with #ReformSars particularly and #ReformtheNigerianPoliceForce..

As e dey go now, the #EndSars protests have been hijacked by Yahoo boys, prostitutes protecting their Yahoo Boy Customers, and even armed Robbers, kidnappers and murderers �

I detest SARS Officers for their high-handedness and abuse of power, but these SARS guys are a part of the Police force particularly dreaded by hardened criminals....this is because these criminals know these SARS guys are also hardened crooks themselves and are licensed to act swiftly and ruthlessly to curb crime�

You don't cut off your head just because your nose is ailing�
SARS as presently constitited have abandoned their primary assignment of apprehending armed robbers..after all SARS means "Special Anti-Robbery Squad...they have now taken or upon themselves to do EFCC's Job of apprehending Yahoo boys abi na suspected Yahoo boys, and have extended that to harassing citezens who make the mistake of appearing fresh, young and have the guts to have laptops and phones on them�

That nonsense must stop...but that does not mean SARS should be scrapped..They are an absolutely necesary evil�

In the whole mad hysteria which is the #endsars protest, Nigerians forget that there are more deadly police departments like the SACS (Special anti cultism Squad)
IGP X-Squad
Special Anti-Kidnapping Squad .

All these Squads are very joyless and are fully licensed to be as brutal, if not more brutal than the SARS Everyone is shouting about..
If the Police want to be mischievous, they will disband SARS and move all its officers to these other deadly squads for them to continue 'the Lord's Work"�

Shebi i have read of a case where Soldiers connived and kidnapped a young boy in Imo State, under the guise that he was being arrested on arrested on suspicion of being a Yahoo Boy..

After kidnapping the young boy and forcing him to pay more than 1million naira to them, they killed the boy, dumped his body in the bush, and made away with his Lexus Es350 car..This happened late last year abi na this year sef..

Because of that, why haven't we called for #EndNigerianArmy?�

I still remember how some officers of the same Nigerian Army killed many policemen while aiding the escape of a fugitive kidnapper in Taraba State..

We didn't call for #EndNigerianArmy because of that..

Point is..the fact of the existence of some Renegades in an organisation does not make that organization totally useless or worth discarding..

If the #EndSars protesters are truly serious, let us also end Nigerian Army because of their atrocities as well
Politics / Re: EndSARS Protesters Shut Down Force Headquarters In Abuja, Demand To See IGP by ArchAngelos999: 8:00pm On Oct 10, 2020
sorry o mr. dick, you clearly don't know about Nigeria's military heads of state history

Ikillbrokehoes:
Lol soldiers of these days are pussies
Politics / Re: EndSARS Protesters Shut Down Force Headquarters In Abuja, Demand To See IGP by ArchAngelos999: 7:57pm On Oct 10, 2020
you obviously don't know history to be calling for military takeover. Didn't even the obvious complicity of the military in today's insecurity tell you they are as bad as politicians?

fireback:
this would have been the best time to plot a coup in nigeria. but I think no soldier is ready for that right now.
Politics / Re: EndSARS Protesters Shut Down Force Headquarters In Abuja, Demand To See IGP by ArchAngelos999: 7:28pm On Oct 10, 2020
you dey ment?

crispus09:
IGP should address them now,I see if this protest extend to Monday military will be called in.
Celebrities / Re: Stephanie Okereke Linus Celebrates Her 38th Birthday Today by ArchAngelos999: 8:09pm On Oct 02, 2020
you too much

naiirablog:
This girl never grows old. Grew up watching her.
These where the real talents. Now They are just posting just ads.
One good thing about a good name is that it continues speaking, even when you're off.


In the old books, it is written about this story of a man, who did not have a good name, but great wealth;

Hush The Son Of PUPPy
A certain rich man, a Nigerianite. Who left his father’s house crossed seven seas and dwelled in a far away country. A great small city called the land of Dubai. He pitched his tenth in Palazzo and named it Hedonae. For to himself he said, My feets had caused me to sojourn in a strange land, where my soul shall indeed find pleasure. And then, he had thought to himself saying “I will take on a new name for indeed a new dawn has come.

And so had he changed his name, from Rammon the son of Abbas to Hush the son of Puppi.

And although he had no handiwork,his hands and houses were filled with many goodly things. In his balcony was a great company of gold, bare spices and precious stones, talents of silver, pillars of diamond and papers of money.

And his fame traveled abroad. And the sons of men in his home country and beyond recoiled and said one to another; ‘what manner of man is this? that worketh not and yet eateth and drinketh than the workman.

He sweateth not, but yet lives on an ivory throne. For in the morning he Rides on the wings of a bird across seven countries, and in the night a large boat takes him to heaven. His bed chamber is clothed with Versace and his robe is of pure Gucci.

The desolate voices of Timaya and his brethren Phyno, had cried also in the wilderness saying;

Tell thy persons! Tell thy persons! For Ye have been warned yet you refused, You were counseled yet you heeded not. But the wind will blow soon and the anus of the fowl will behold reproach.

‘For something cannot arise from nothing. And light cannot come from so stark a darkness.,or a mighty stream from the barren desert.

And Lo, there was not an answer

Then the next year, the man had given out 12 bags of almond and thrown a feast. He hired for himself music men and praise singers amongst them was a a great newsman from his homecountry called Freezer the first borne of Fridge. Who after being drunk with strong wine, had together joined him as they made merry in his courts all day. And their souls were glad indeed and their spirits rejoiced and then he he began to sing his psalms and his hymns mocking at honesty, jeering at struggle.

HERE ARE THE PSALMS OF HUSH THE SON OF PUPPI AS HE MINISTERED UNTO FREEZER THE FIRSTBORNE OF FRIDGE INSIDE HIS COURTS.


For labor is Vanity. And strong struggle killeth the spirit. And righteousness a great folly.

Woe unto he in my home country that tilleth his vineyard while the sun assaults his flesh.

Woe unto he among the kindred of Lagos that watereth, for he is blind in his folly and his affliction betides his soul.

For the son of man, came neither tilling nor watering and yet repeath his harvest a thousand fold. And my janitor and gardener earns more than thy doctors and engineers.

For the inheritance of the labourer have i taken as mine. And the rewards of the crafty have i possessed in a strange land.

There fore will I lift up my voice unto the hills and i shall rejoice and laugh at my adversaries and yes a great laugh, i shall laugh, i shall jeer at my enemies who scorned me, in the season of my affliction.

I shall mock at the deadlocked artisans, who wear not expensive raiment.
I shall spit at their sons and daughters with inferior jewelries.
I shall kick at the preachers who built monuments of virtue and not of gold.
I shall flaunt and show forth my gold, my anklets of frankincense and my raiment of versace and my crown of Gucci.

For the age of dignity is Forgone.
And virtue is now an illusion, and integrity is the comfort of the blind.
But wealth and riches shall endure in the house of the cunny and the swift handed forever and ever Sela.

And it came to pass that he’s fame spread even more round about like wild fire and yea a great fame in the land of Facebook, in the city of twitter and at the mount of Instagram, millions of likes visited his doorsteps every morning. Many young men arose in thousands inspired by his sermons and said to him “Show us the way. ‘Show us the way . And the souls of the daughters of men yearned after him. Many a voice of the latter cried saying “lie with us just a night.

However a few Old priests and guardians had chastised their children, depart from him for he worketh iniquity, He reapeath were he soweth not and his prosperity is from beelzebub.

But many did not listen.

Then after a while, foreign spies from the west and of whom he had stolen their gold were sent to try him. And lo they had gone like thieves in the night. Their pale white skins hidden under the cloak of darkness and under the guise of shadow. For months they hid themselves, watching, praying, preying and binding their time.

And behold and like a flash they had struck. While Hush the son of puppi and his mate, Wood the son of Berry were still in their courts crumpled by slumber at dawn The strong men had broken Into it and had held them captives.

And the leader of the band had cursed and prophesied unto them saying Verily Verily! I said until you thy
cup is now full, and the anus of fowl hath now seen an open reproach. For a thief and a hypocrite thou art. In the morning thou put on the garment of a successful merchant and in the night the robe of a robber. By the power vested in my hand thou has been declared under arrest, for it is written, For To Him that decreeth a thing it shall be established. And it was so, that Hush the son of Puppi and his friend Wood the son of Berry were binded by their hands, and taken to another land across the ocean to be tried for prison.

And the voices of Timaya and Phyno who had cried also in the wilderness had come to the remembrance of the son’s of men saying one more time.

Tell thy persons! Tell thy persons! You have been warned and you refused, You were counselled yet you heed not. Now the wind has blown and the anus of the fowl has seen reproach. Oh what a tragedy! Oh what a tragedy!.




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Nairaland / General / Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by ArchAngelos999: 5:58pm On Oct 01, 2020
You have come again. For the second time, if you have any personal opinion you wish to express do so without twisting scripture.

How can you say marriage is man's idea and not God's? Was it Adam's idea? God clearly joined them together Genesis 1 and 2, Matthew 19
How can you also say that Eli had to choose between serving God and raising his kids as if they are mutually exclusive?

Zechariah's inability to have a child cannot be attributed to God's will and shouldn't be used to support your claim.

By claiming the necessity of both parents or the importance of the male parent you are also endorsing and encouraging marriage

Marriage truly might not be for everybody or with everybody. But don't twist scripture to support your opinions. If you have any respect for God desist from such



tobechi74:
1) thinking that marriage is compulsory for everyone
If marriage were compulsory, Jesus would have done so.I am not against the idea of getting married. I am only saying marriage is not for everyone. The assumption that one can only be fulfilled while married is false . Many propeller of this fallacy quote the Bible to back up their claim.


It is not good for man to be alone

It is not good for anyone to be alone . Eve was to be a companion and not a marriage partner . One can feel alone while being married . The verse only validates the fact that no one is an Ireland. We need someone to lean on . Marriage is a concept created by man to bring order in the society. No one has been arrested for choosing to remain single.


Many of us get married because we need kids. There are many orphans down there craving to get married. Go adopt them . Except off course you are searching for your own child to shower selfish love .

Everyone is meant to have children. Eli the priest was not meant to have children as that would disturb his mission on Earth so his wife womb was shut for years. Having a wife would not affect his goal. After persistent prayer, he finally had a child. He had to choose between disciplining his children or spending time in the church. He chose the later. His children became wayward.

Zaccharia was another priest who had difficulty in having a son.It was not until he was very old that he was permitted too. This tells us that those who are called to work in God institution are not meant to have children as that could affect their work .They are permitted to have a helper, a partner, a wife ,a maid etc.

This brings me to the only reason to get married .We should get married when getting married enables us to achieve our life purpose.

Jesus knew his mission on Earth .He knew it involves wandering from one place to another spreading the message. The stress of travelling with his family all the Tim would slow down his movement. He could not afford to take them to the mountain and through the sea. He knew his message would invoke the wrath of the pharasees who would happily transfer their aggression to his wife and children . Peter who was already married had to leave his wife behind to follow Jesus. His wife must have felt sad as a result. His children must have been angry with their father for being unavailable. It is better not to get married than to abandon your partner midway. one had to pace way for another.


Marriage is settling down . Those whose purpose involve moving around have no business settling down.A Catholic priest could be posted to three different countries in a year as part of missionary work. Relocating their family all the time would prove cumbersome. This is why Catholic priest do not get married. I am not condemning clergy who get married. I only ask that each should examine the nature of his calling. One who is fixed at a particular place to grow an already planted church can marry. Missionaries who go about converting people and planting churches can abstain.

2) raising a child without a father figure

If the father is dead or divorced, there should be a man he should look up to to play the role of a father
Infant living with just their dad found out that they are 2-6 month ahead of schedule in personal and social skills

Amount of time father spends with child is one of strongest predictor of empathy in adulthood

The more the father is involved,the more easily the child makes open ,receptive and trusting contact with new people in his life.

Children of divorced parent who lived with their mother are 37.5% more likely to need professional treatment for emotional and behavioral problem.

When fathers are not involved, girls show sign of being antisocial,headstrong, hyperactive.Both boys and girls showed sign of over dependency on the mother.

Boys who live with their father after divorce tend to be warmer,have a higher degree of self esteem,more mature and more independent than boys who do not.

The most important factor by far in preventing drug use is a close relationship with dad.

Living in homes without dad is correlated with suicide among children and teenager than any other for both sexes.

Girls raised in father absent times tend to go to extreme in their relationship with male.

Primary school children without father are less likely to be popular with peers and more hostile to adult.

Daughters who lived with their mother are 92% more likely to divorce than daughter or 2- parent family

3) Obeying Elders blindly.
We know what elders ask of us is wrong but we do them anyway.
Two ears ago, My uncle summoned his children on his sick bed and instructed the first son to take over his law firm. This was the same son who resented studying law and only studied the course to please the dad. The same dad has asked him to forfeit his personal ambition.

The young man was literally unhappy as he managed the firm. He obeyed bitterly. He poured out his aggression on the entire staff.  

Obedience should be done out of love rather than duty. When an act is carried out of duty, the relationship with those around is diminished. 

I had to tell him that he was not bound to his late father wish. He could simply employ a trusted fellow to manage the firm while he supervises periodically.



Children should be made to do things out of duty in the beginning.As they grow up, duty should be gradually replaced by love. Love is a better teacher than obligation.  Duty is mechanical and externally motivated by a sence of obligation . Love makes it easier. Love transform responsibility to joy. A sence of  duty warmed by a love for humanity creates the best result.

I have seen a girl  reject suitor so they can take care their aging parents. While the act is commendable,It should be done out of love and not out of society expectation so she doesn’t regret it taking care of aged parent should be done from the bottom of her heart and not as a debt she owes you.  

The factory worker who constantly looks at the clock for it to be five o click to drop his tools work out of duty and not out of love .  Such a man will have lots of regret when he finally retires. Christianity is one religion built out of love rather than a sence of duty. God love the world that he gave his son……He did not owe the world. No one would punnish him for non compliance.To  be a great teacher, begin by loving children. To be a great auto-mechanic, begin by loving automobile.

4) punnishing Rebels
The society teaches us certain norm, rule and tradition to maintain order and expects us to obey then. Society tells us how we should eat, dress,think and behave in general. Those who obey are praised and rewarded for good behavior.Those who do not are called rebels. Are rebels really terrible people?   Are rebels black sheep?

Rebels are individual who refuse to do what others are doing . They are non robot.His life is dictated by his own reasoning. He does not like been told what to do. They question the status quo and deviate from it when necessary. Rebels crave independence. They create their path.Rebels try to be themselves and find freedom in an overly oppressive rule structure.

Some rebels are not interested in the society aggreing with their they have no intention of changing the society.He simply renounces the wrong act in himself and leave society to change when she feels like. Such rebels believe in the saying :  LIVE YOUR LIFE THE WAY YOU WANT TO AND LET ME LEAVE MY LIFE MY OWN WAY.

Such rebel change the life for himself and is ready to face whatever trouble it may bring on his way .When the female journalist drove a car fully aware of the law against driving for women, she was an individual rebel. She was arrested and sentenced to prison. Today, women are allowed to drive vehicles in Saudi Arabia . When Mubarak Bala refused to believe in Islam, he was taken to the psychiatric hospital, a place where deviant are kept .

Another group of rebels are interested in making sure the society moves in their direction. They spread their ideal to people, convert them ,  raise a group , engage in mass protest, strike,to change the status quo..These rebels encounter strong opposition from the society. These rebels are willing to face torture,and death to push their ideology. Many a time,they end up dead before their ideal is realised.They would rather die than withdraw their teaching. They live with the  saying : WE WILL ALL DIE ONE DAY. I CHOOSE TO DIE WHILE SPREADING THIS IDEAL.

Jesus is an example of such rebel.He recruited disciples, taught them new teachings, instructed them to spread the teaching, challenged the money makers in the temple . He was subsequently arrested and crucified. Today, Christianity is world largest religion.

Reverend Father Martin Luther is another Catholic rebel who was expelled from the Catholic Church for non conformity. His rebellion led to the protestantism.

The northern part of Nigeria is trying so hard to curtail its rebel. First, Mubarak Bala has been arrested for propagating anti – Islamic teaching and insulting Prophet Mohammed on social media.   A musician has been sentenced to death for mocking the prophet in his song.   While courtesy demand we respect other people belief, This has raised lots of question. Is Nigeria a secular or Islamic country,?  Does blasphemy law has a place in this civilised period?

These rebels were aware of the  likely consequences of their actions. Their moral courage to choose to undergo these  ordeal plants a seed in the mind of others. The death of one rebel leads to the growth of more rebel. The death of Stephen led to the birth of Paul. History shows that the death of a rebel does not really shut down their idea. I forsee a lot of nonconformist springing up from the northern part of the country.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/08/the-rise-of-religious-rebels-in-the-north/
Nairaland / General / Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by ArchAngelos999: 5:50pm On Oct 01, 2020
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Politics / Re: Remi Tinubu: How I Became A Born-Again Christian While In Exile In USA by ArchAngelos999: 10:10am On Sep 29, 2020
i didn't say you shouldn't love them. I'm addressing your blatant misuse of Christ's teaching of love to justify and encourage the lifestyle which contradicts Christ's, not even just that but even making it seem that Christ himself encourages it.

Refrain from such. Repent

tobechi74:

Kindly go to the dictionary and find out the meaning of analogy. Asking one to love homosexual is different from supporting homosexual
Politics / Re: Remi Tinubu: How I Became A Born-Again Christian While In Exile In USA by ArchAngelos999: 10:35am On Sep 28, 2020
interestingly there is nothing like Pentecostal


Maxymilliano:



It's really interesting to know that Anglican God is different from that of Pentecostal
Politics / Re: Remi Tinubu: How I Became A Born-Again Christian While In Exile In USA by ArchAngelos999: 10:34am On Sep 28, 2020
by your twisted analogy incest is okay. your spouse also is free to "love" ie have sex with anyone and everyone, family, friends, in-laws, colleagues etc and you should only encourage her. rape is also justified as you are to "love" people irrespective of how they react to you.

if you must preach sin peach sin. Don't distort and twist Jesus teaching. It is clear you are a deceiver and not a Christian. As no Christian will twist sacred words and use it to encourage profanity.



tobechi74:
Congratulations to her. Are you a born again, let us learn to preach universal love for all irrespective of sex.

Son: what does the Bible teach about homosexuality and masturbation.

Dad: I do not know and I do not care to know

Son: But you are a Christian

Dad: yes, A Christian who follows the teaching of Jesus. Christ alone and not the Bible.

Son; But Bible contains Jesus teaching

Dad: true. It also contains the teaching of Paul,the teaching of Moses , the teaching of Elijah and many other teaching. As a Christian, I accept the teaching of Jesus Christ.

Son: Ok, Now what did Jesus teach about masturbation and homosexuality.

Dad: Jesus never mentioned any of them literally but he showed us with illaustration how to treat those whose views are different from ours.

Child: How?

Dad: He never condemned the adultrous woman, he visited tax collectors, he dined with sinners. He showered them with love.

Son : does that mean they won’t go to hell?

Dad: would you derive Joy in Watching your loved one in hell?

Son: No I won’t

Dad: good.

Dad: sex is a way of expressing Love. There are different stages of love. The first is love directed to oneself. A child grows up loving himself.Using sexual analogy, the child derives Joy playing with his body, his genital. Jesus said Love thyself.


Son : hmm

Dad: The second is Love of similar specie.The child begins to extend the love to those of closest to him+ family, friend,tribe etc. A boy plays with a boy.A girl plays with a girl. Using sexual analogy, this is homosexual. Christ preached Love your neighbor.


Son : I see

Dad: The third stage of love is where one loves those different from oneself .Jesus said Love your enemy.your enemy is your opponent, opposite,one with a different view. Sexually, one is attracted to the gender different from him.A boy is attracted to a girl and vice-versa.

Son :

Dad: One who hates masturbators and homosexuals and love heterosexual is no different from one who loves others over himself and his peers.Such person is in a third stage of love.


Son : which is the best.

Dad: All of the above.The fourth type. The pansexual. The attraction to all . Self, male, and female. It is universal love. Agape love. Love without condition.


https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/20/a-christian-dad-and-son-conversation-on-homosexuality/
Celebrities / Re: Michael Ilesanmi And Angela Deem Wedding Photos: She Says She Can't OBEY HIM by ArchAngelos999: 3:19pm On Sep 15, 2020
oluseyiforjesus:
White people will always be sincere
She can't obey someone who is her last born mate na

My question is:
God created Adam n Eve white, where did we now see dis black skin dat has reflect in our heart

If we have answer to ds question let's start solving our problems from there.....

Where did you see white in your Bible
Politics / Re: How Petitions On Tinubu’s Bullion Vans Landed Magu In Trouble by ArchAngelos999: 6:31pm On Jul 10, 2020
make u and tinubu dey whine unaselves. apc north is carrying out a serious assault against his ambition

OkutaNla:
Ok.
Politics / Re: How Petitions On Tinubu’s Bullion Vans Landed Magu In Trouble by ArchAngelos999: 6:28pm On Jul 10, 2020
Judeerons32:
They still will link Asiwaju to any news. Sometimes I wonder those who shout bullion vans if they are not mischievous or just plain stupid. If u take Asiwaju to court. Did u see the contents of the vans? Do you know how much were in the vans assuming it was money? Is there a law against banks transporting 5million in bullion vans? Assuming he says that's what it was. Really how the bullion van and Asiwaju is tied to Magu travail just bests my imagination everytime I read it. Some people just don't get tired.

this is politicking at its peak. Apc north don't want to give south ticket so the narrative is being sold right now so that Tinubu can be put out of the way, that's all that matters.

why didn't the source from villa say that are angry that he did not follow up on Ganduje? so u see, is politicking
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Dubai Company Excludes Nigerian Applicants From Vacancies by ArchAngelos999: 11:16am On Jul 09, 2020
fake news. I've done searches and saw nothing like this

budosky:
Dubai Based Company Looking For African Workers Categorically Excludes Nigerians

This stuff is now getting real.

After the arrests of some Nigerian fraudsters in Dubai, some Dubai companies have taken a very harsh steps towards Nigerians seeking employment.

A good example is the attached image.

So pathetic how a stupid act by one can cause serious harm to all.
Food / Re: We Just Killed A Civet Within My Compound {Pictures} by ArchAngelos999: 1:51pm On Jul 07, 2020
I'm for or against, just answer me this. Why is eating this animal different from eating a goat or a cow

Vianna:
Nigerians eat anything, even rodents. Well it's common in Africa generally tho, it's a survival technique. Reasons the whites call us all sorts .. we've literally failed to glide along with evolution.

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