₦airaland Forum

kaen1317:
There's no joy in paying for sex. It's sweeter to toast or hunt a girl for it and sweetest when u finally crack the treasure box.

The same box one useless guy dey wash body inside??
By and large people interviewed have one of two reasons: poor satisfaction with wife or to avoid stress/rigmarole of dating.

Very few women consider satisfying spouse as important. Most men just want to come. The wife can stay without orgasm for years and he won't care. Most women lie there like a log or form "I am not so much into sex, it is not food Na".

In reality dating and seeing a pro are hardly different. Most girls have multiple bfs now. So the stress is hardly worth it.

A pro may even have more control over her sexual health. She can dictate use of condom. Whereas a so-called gf might do raw with her particularly generous bfs as a reward. You might be one of them.

My main problem with seeing a pro are two: that she could be a married woman or is being pimped against her will. Nothing known about her background. It also demeans a woman in a very open and sad way. Having to stoop so low and open her legs for teenagers, old men, riff-raff and all.

The patron forgets that he should work on communication in his marriage. The wife might do better after that. Or officially marry a second wife if possible.

hmm, na wa

Is like the Indian football team story we heard as kids.

How India used juju score too many goals that they were banned by FIFA.

Right now in Niger, after watching Nollywood films, they will be claiming 9ja women used juju to score so many goals.

vicdom:

Emir Sanusi's own came today! I feel no sympathy for him whatsoever. The politics that gave him the crown deemed it fit to humiliate him by using some individuals with kolanut and tobacco stained teeths to water down his powers.

An 800 year old emirate has been balkanized just to get at one man. They don't care what is destroyed as long as they achieve their evil and vindictive objectives. In their world, no tradition is too sacred and no action is too unbecoming. Anything is possible...

The bill was presented on Monday, passed on Tuesday and signed into law on Wednesday. When it comes to settling petty scores and witchunting perceived enemies, the APC deploys supersonic speed and alacrity. They can exhume a decaying corpse just to get at someone.

I have never seen a congregation of people so deeply in love with wickedness, division and hate. Even amongst them in the party, there is no love lost. They never congregate to plan good, only evil.

I said it before and I am saying it again, the APC is too vindictive and intolerant to unite this country. They enjoy divisions, strife and conflicts.

Rochas Okorocha should get ready, while Saraki should prepare for round2. Meanwhile, I heard they sent an emissary to Lagos to tell them how to end godfatherism. We all know who that message was meant for.

When APC is done with their agenda, we shall all wear the wailing garment together...

No o. Application forms are now gold dust. No new wailers. We're bursting at the seams already. Too many people.

They should go form another group. Zombie Purgatory & Reformation Association: ZOMBPRA. That "zomb" needs to still sound in it. To remind them of current status until reformation is completed.

Hmmmm

kurupt1:
You see the way Okorocha, Sanusi,Tinubu,Amaechi all fought GEJ a good man with falsehood.,they are all paying for it gradually.
So shall your day of reckoning Lauretta Onochie a.k.a ngeneukwenu will come.You can take that to the bank!

God of Jonathan is faithful o.

He reminds me of the 12 Beatitudes (Blessings) of Jesus during Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 5:3-12. 5th & 9th are especially apt. (5) Blessed are the meek, For they shall inherit the Earth. (9) Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God.

GEJ's meekness was called "cluelessness".

He went alone as VP to see creek militants to make peace for Yar'Adua. Detractors were calling him a militant.

As president, Sambo his VP didn't volunteer or risk his life to go see Boko Haram to make peace.

Bia, Mazi Ned, nor let this young thing suck all your energy finish o.

You still FIVE other wives at home.

pressplay411:
Well said.
Let's blame the body language on bad blood on both sides still healing. We're all humans and learning life as it happens.

But should an attempt to divide the nation be declared a public holiday? That's my concern. Perhaps as you said, it could be a tribute to honour the dead and a reminder of our strength as a unified entity with a better trust and equality.

I pray we get it right some day soon.
Our strength is actually truly in our diversity.

True and we all pray for that.

I think remembering it is an admission of our collective failure that it could happen. And foremost of course, honoring the victims, as you pointed out.

In 1984, French President Francois Mitterrand & Germany's Helmut Kohl held hands at a war Memorial in Verdun, France. 70 years earlier, the battle at Verdun during WW1 was the longest and most brutal during the 4 years of war. There were 800,000 victims including missing, dead and injured.

France allowed German soldiers onto French soil for the ceremony. With both French & German flags draped over the memorial tomb.

See link: https://rarehistoricalphotos.com/kohl-mitterand-verdun-1984/

Lots of French people opposed it. But Mitterrand went ahead. It marked the beginning of a new Franco-German relationship. Strongest in Europe today together.

Vikky014:
Have u ever heard of kidnapping in Nigeriadont worry when u make ur own money just stay put

He neva know how far.

As the guy probably nor get money he nor dey fear kidinappa.

I know several people lining up to leave for North America. All said if Buhari won the election, they'll. All processing their move now.

Some of them believed so much in Nigeria just years back. Some left well-paying jobs to do private business.

Now fuel cost alone in last few years has rendered business hardly profitable. Poor economy is not helping.

Their kids are at risk of kidnap.

One paid 4m Naira ransom to be released. Just an average guy trying out private business.

Many people in govt positions in Nigeria have their families tucked away abroad.

pressplay411:
Yea. I that has not been properly handled. I read govt actually made some commendable efforts at damage control to unify us again. But what do you suppose govt does?
Honouring it with a Biafra public holiday might actually do more harm than good. Don't you think?

A lot more could have been done. And can still be done. This is where the youth should focus. Not Afonja & Ipob name calling.

The bolded depends on which perspective one sees it from.

Compensation for loss of Igbo people's assets and bank accounts was grossly inadequate. Yes, money was initially tight after the war. But by 1972 oil was booming and by 1973 Gulf crises led to oil price hike. Money was flowing. Udoji award to workers could have been halved. The rest going into more compensation for Igbo people.

Despite the "No victor, no vanquished" declaration of Gowon, the body language and general attitude of FG showed otherwise.

It took Shagari govt, after 13 years exile to pardon Ojukwu. A major mistake.

There should have been a national conference on Biafra war much earlier. Where all parties can express their views freely. And to find lasting solutions to prevent such secession bids in the future.

Because FG failed to "own" the civil war narrative in a way acceptable to all, various groups now capitalise on that lingering sense of injustice, pain and perceived marginalization.

We cannot deny that some of those who have distinguished themselves the most doing national assignments are and were Igbo people. Like Jaja Wachuku, Jerome Udoji, Prof H. Nwosu of NECON/Electoral Commission, Dora Akinuli, Joy Ogwu, etc. So continued marginalisation is our collective loss.

Civil War Remembrance day would be about tribute to those who perished on both sides collectively? Why would that be a bad thing?
If we have not civilised to the point of doing so without causing problems, then we have a long way to go.

Vanity crew storming here soon.

The money some people spend on parties in Nigeria is over 90 million Naira.

To each his own.

pressplay411:
True, I have always said Igbo's are supposed to be a blessing to Nigeria but for their sense of superiority complex which makes them proud to other tribes.
God blessed Igbo's with Diligence but the devil corrupted it with Pride.

However, not all Igbo's are proud. I have some pretty down to earth ones but their consensus as a tribe exhibits pride.

To balance this stereotype;
Yoruba's are blessed with Humility but no brotherly love. Most Yoruba's die from family feuds.
Hausa's are blessed with Brotherly love but wrong religious choice.

So, we actually are a balanced nation if we start learning the our cultural strengths and correcting our weaknesses.

This is only possible by the Grace of God and Humility of all.

As for pride and Igbo, I partly disagree. It takes a great deal of resilience and self belief to come out of the crushing defeat of Biafra war stronger. It wasn't easy.

Also the republican and relatively individualistic nature of Igbo means they can be rightly proud of personal achievements.

Not addressing the War properly has left unhealed wounds and stifled reconciliation.

It might seem like we have moved on. But we have not. We just suppressed it. What we see now is like PTSD from that war. Affecting us nationally.

I am not Igbo by the way.

We are not having it! Prof Ishaq is an Ipob youth in disguise. DSS should probe any possible links with Mazi Kanu.

Congrats to all candidates who did well. Commiserations and better luck next time to others.

So in Africa anytime anybody committs a crime and get caught, people start yearning for a strip show like Lalastic yearns for the biggest, longest Burmese python.

Pervets many for the continent o.

People just dey form religiosity and holy holy for nothing.

safarigirl:
Welcomed by the hundred or so people in the State Assembly? Okay

Assembly members who for a few millions or promise of automatic ticket at next election will agree to anything. Lol.

Evil people.

RIP to the late Victor.

OyiboOyibo:
Karma is a bitch...Sanusi wanted Change then and now they have taken it to the Next Level

Northern affairs tho.. E no concern me

Sanussi went full force to smear GEJ. Plucking NNPC missing figures from the air. Later drastically revising down still without any proof.

His CBN position misled people to believe that he must be correct.

So gained APC/Buhari much traction to ride to power wearing anti-corruption toga.

Now we all see how the economy, employment levels and currency have gone South since.

Still governors should not tamper with traditional institutions anyhow. Just out of vengeance or spite. It's totally immoral and dilutes the sanctity of it, albeit being technically legal.

Firstorderwizard:
This country is a big challenge to world civilization.

I am telling you.

ugo4u:
In an environment where excellence and merit is the watchword, just like the cedar of Lebanon the Igbos always flourish.
Like the Jews the Igbos have success ingrained in their DNA, in the nearest future the Prime minister of Britain will be an Igbo man.
Save this for posterity sake.

An Igbo woman might make it to Downing Street number 10 first. Fact is all tribes do well in the right environment. Although politics is not that lucrative in Europe. The status and the chance to make a real impact still makes it worthwhile.

Fact is people eat worse in other countries. From cockroaches to cats to spiders. Any lower creature seems ready food to eat. We only choose according to culture, tradition, beliefs and appeal. No matter what you eat, some culture somewhere will frown on it.

Beef that we eat like no tomorrow, cows are sacred to some folks somewhere.

To each his own.

Well, your worst enemies have always been those around you. Most "friends" are there to benefit from you. Most are only happy hearing tales of woe from you. So they can mock you behind your back.

Yes, true friends can give you connections and contacts that can elevate you. But such are very rare.

Very few friends mean far fewer complications in life.

Who's to say those "friends" didn't drug or somehow incapacitate him or challenge him to enter the pool knowing he cannot swim?

RIP.

Well, your worst enemies have always been among those around you. Most "friends" are there to benefit from you. Most are only happy hearing tales of woe from you. So they can mock you behind your back.

True friends can give you connections and contacts that can elevate you. But such are very rare.

Very few friends mean far fewer complications in life.

RIP.

Traditional rulers who carry themselves well have nothing to worry about. In fact they are revered. Genuinely.

They have traditional roles in their domains. Like settling inheritance, family, community and local issues better than any law courts can.

Those monarchs too busy at home d000oing the above are not seen at birthday parties, visiting celebrities in their Lekki homes or seen in every gathering, of them detractors say they are too traditional, stay too much in their Palace, blah blah blah.
Hugging limelight by travelling all about is good. But how much time have you to attend to the traditional roles in your domain. It is their acceptance that made you king to begin with.

The constitution gives them the job of being custodians of tradition and culture. They should focus on those.

Just like average humans, monarchs who meddle too much and pokenose into politics, will always get served badly.

Lol.

A lucrative business in fact.

RIP.

Tragic dying for a country whose wealth the elite are tearing apart to eat like vultures do to a carcass.

RIP.

Tragic dying for a country whose wealth the elite are tearing apart to eat like vultures do a carcass.

grandstar:
We all have emotions and we should construct our words in such a way that it will be constructive without hurting. Learn how to tell someone to go to Blazes and he'll be looking forward to it.

I doff my heart for Seun as he was quite young when he started and the site now has over 2m members.

Yes, Seun needs to improve the site but why don't you suggest to him politely? (Read Proverbs 15:1)

Bandwidth is expensive hence watching video on their bandwidth is a no no. Even now, they are struggling with bandwidth

Seun's biggest problem is that revenue is not comensurate with the traffic to the site.

So what happened to Nairalist since you seem familiar with Seun's business?

I found Nairalist far more interesting but it stopped suddenly.

Seun refused to tell us what happened when we asked him many years ago. The first time i got the impression that Seun probably takes us for granted. He could have simply explained why it stopped.

That brings us to one of the major problems Nigerian businesses have. They become complacent once some profit starts coming in.
They forget that to keep profit rising, you must offer more to existing customers to keep them. Then attract new ones to grow.

Karemarealty288:
Its not rape ..he had their consent...hunger , poverty and android phone(porn) cos it...if its rape why parading the girls naked while baba is fully clothed with his mischievous pencil pionter mouth feeling like Tupac.....nonsense and ingredients.

Under age kids CANNOT give consent. That is the law sir. They have not yet reached the mental capacity to make sound, well-thought out decisions in their own interest.

Yes there's massive poverty. Lots of people still produce the number of kids they cannot adequate provide just breakfast daily. Let alone clothes, proper food, healthcare, education, etc.

Even the old man looks poor. He exploited the kids' poverty and innocence.

Parading them unclad is stupidity. Nobody should be paraded unclad.

For every offence there is a punishment. We should strive to have a country where the law & law enforcement work.

Very nice. I see huge potential.

Well, we should expect more of this. More ice are melting and sea level will keep rising. In 50 years many cities by the sea will have disappeared completely.