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Good stadia. But they might be empty during the game. The country has a small population and half of it (women) will likely not be allowed to watch the games. I remember empty seats in South Africa WC.

Or will they allow lots of fans from other countries for free (free match tickets) come in just to watch the matches?

hammer6F:
SEE WAT A GROWN ASS MAN IS WRITING.

I DON DEY FEAR SOME TYPE OF PEOPLE FOR THIS WORLD.

SEE WHERE SEX DON CARRY U REACH...

FCUCKING THE CHILD MOTHER IS NOW MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE CHILD LIFE.

U DID NOT EVEN CONDEMN OR FELL BAD FOR THE MURDER OF THE CHILD.

TELL ME WAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN U AND ANIMAL?

That may be this is an insult to an illiterate. Not to someone who deals with humans and their most intimate stuff routinely. And knows that many people are far worse than animals. We are human animals. When you ignore reality and do not understand yourself or temperament, you can do worse than an animal. Animals are by and large harmless. Even predators only kill to eat or to prevent danger. to self and young ones. Boko Haram, all the rapists, killers, ritualists and all are supposed to be human beings.

I saw a step-son, a neighbour , nearly stab his step-father to death. Over 25 years ago. A caring man. We all saw how he looked after them and brought them up. Many other cases I know.

Go ahead and have many step-kids. May God help you. If you think experience has no value, it will teach you a lesson.

Did I in anyway justify his killing? He needs to face death or jail for his actions is not condemnation? Can you even comprehend what you read?
What will raining curses on him achieve at this point? Nothing. What will achieve something is for people to know what they are getting into. Do not marry a divorcee or a widow with kids just out of pity. That pity may end up badly for all involved. That way such stories that touch can be avoided.

Nigerian are too sentimental/emotional and refuse to be analytical. Hence we repeat same mistakes over and over.

By the way, writing caps is rude. It is equivalent to shouting. Although your words sum up your attitude well enough.

I advise people to be careful before taking on step-children, especially men marrying women with many kids. I have mentioned this on several threads here before.


In my observation, most step=kids never appreciate what you did for them. With time they might even cause your marriage to their mum to fail. Especially if they make money fairly young and feel they can now care for their mother.

If you cannot take bullshit, your reaction to their behaviour is what will make headlines.

Not saying this dead boy was at fault. But certainly bad blood would have existed between them for whatever reason.

He will now face life in jail or death for his actions. I pity both families.
A man should be a man and let things slide.

RIP.

Okuchris:
to be sincere,I'll collect it.
Its a gift

Ok nothing wrong with it.
Even if I was a lady I'd think carefully before accepting such from a stranger. Be sure nothing is expected in return. Unless one is reay to return the favour one way or another.

Okuchris:
won't you accept?

I am a guy.

You first answer yes or no. It's just good manners to answer a question before asking yours.

But I certainly wouldn't need a car gift.

Okuchris:
won't you accept?

I am a guy.

You first answer yes or no. It's just good manners to answer a question before asking yours.

Nice.

Okuchris:
some people can be so Lucky

You call that luck Miss?

Would you accept such a car from a secret admirer?

Beremx:
Fine woman.


I wonder when Nigeria is going to have a female president. I just dey wonder!

Kemi Adeosun, Diezani Madueke and Pat Ette will be perfect candidates. Because you need something counterfeit, incomplete or corrupt about you to rise in Nigerian politics. Women won't be an exception.

Wise women will heed this advise and enjoy their marriage.

But some over-sabi rebels without a cause will just argue for nothing without making any sense. Later they will open a new account with a new moniker to lament how hubby has got another woman and seeking our advise.

wiseone28:

france in world cup :
1986 : no african player
1998 : 4 african player
2006 : 10 african player
2018 : 17 african player
2022 : full african player

John Tigana was central midfielder in 1986 Squad. He had such a fantastic link up with Michel Plantini in attack then.

Tigana was born in French Sudan (now called Mali). He has been manager of Marseilles, Monaco, Lyon, Bordeaux, Fulham (London, UK), etc.

Blacks have been in some other European squads for long. Mario Coluna was captain of Portugal national team that reached semi-final of 1966 world cup. A black man from Mozambique. Eusebio, another black man was the super star of that Portugal team just like Cristiano Ronaldo is today.

greggng:
How do i get to Croatia it seems their women are great

Ah! Balkan and Eastern European women are super hot o. You will see tall pretty babes like this and you wonder how they select Miss World.

So sad. RIP.

Sometimes it's like a crime to be born in 9ja.

I guess nobody predicted heavy rains that can flood such areas.

Flash floods do happen, but how did the authorities respond here?

In reality this is not as easy as it sounds. This is Africa.

Most women still expect the man to pay all the bills. Irrespective of the woman's income.

So one must consider the nature of their relationship and how much involved in their marriage the woman's family are.

What is the man's profession and can he secure at least a 100k job in Kaduna?

Is the woman understanding and won't mind footing the bills respectfully for 6 months to one year while the hubby seeks a new job? Or will her visiting relatives start making snide remarks about "how some lazy men rely on their wives to survive these days".

If you consider all these, what should be easy on paper can suddenly become more complex.

post=69418999:
No be small tin

Winning world cup is magical. The euphoria that erupts nationwide lasts for weeks. Fortunate to witness France'98 home win. Like now Africans/Caribbeans or other blacks were in it aplenty: Zidane, Desailly, Henry, Thuram, Karembeau & Vieira.

IAmAmbrose:
My country just won the worldcup and if you are doubting my nationality lehme speak French
common serve her?
Serve her beer Mercy Ewu

post=69416296:
The diversity of the French squad is in the image of this beautiful country that is called France,


Here js a link of the players dancing to some lovely Makossa songs on the plane.....

Africans: We supporting France cause they’re just another African Team

World: Haha no they’re not

French National Team: pic.twitter.com/HVmgT1y1Ds

— The Voice of God. (@mbowzay) July 6, 2018

Africans and grooving.

eagleeye2:
Can we just ignore this matter as the presidency and the woman in question ignored our ranting.

That is exactly what the powers that be always hope. That we will soon forget because we have a short memory.

If this matter gets bigger and bigger, they will just release 3 or 4 Chibok girls from where they kept them. And nobody will remember Kemi Oluwole NYSC certificate again.

Autopsy urgently.

Oh they have already buried them. Perhaps without one.

In 9ja people will ask "will autopsy bring them back?"

It can be carbon monoxide from bad fuel/gen, contaminated food, deliberate poisoning/murder.

But we only want GOD to do miracles even for things we can do ourselves.

CAPSLOCKED:

MAMA TELL US THE TRUTH AND STOP DECEIVING BELIEVERS USING GOD'S NAME.

WE KNOW YOU EITHER STOLE OR BOUGHT THAT CHILD BECAUSE BIOLOGICALLY.. NO LIVING FEMALE HUMAN ABOVE 50 CAN BEAR CHILD.

FORGET THAT MIRACLE TALK, SOME OF US KNOW TOO WELL TO BE FOOLED.

Not entirely correct. Average age of menopause is just over 51 years, but a few up about 55. Yes you see premature menopause (under age 40) and early menopause (under age 45) more often these days. But some over 50s are still there.

If this woman grew up the old way, with less fatty food and if her female blood relatives typically begin having periods (menarche) later in life like from above 13 or 14 years, she probably had her first period at same age too. Which could mean delayed menopause well above the average age of 51.

My only concern is that peri-menopause (quite likely at that age) would have decreased her chances even further at age 52 or thereabout that she conceived.

In Nigeria most people choose to claim miracle instead of telling us they used assisted reproduction or even surrogacy. This encourages TTC people to keep waiting for miracle when using available technology might actually help. Especially women still under 40 who might still have higher success rates with assisted reproduction.

Hmmmm

Curious science.

Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.

I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period.

So After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.

So back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US. I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.

Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it. I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened, but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me...

Honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable, too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death..

Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come?

Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

Dude you had no right to slap her. That is in fact a crime and in some countries will give you jail time and criminal record that can ruin your career as a healthcare professional, lawyer, banker and several jobs.

I wonder how difficult is it to understand that nowadays you're only a shareholder in your girlfriend. Until wedding night lots of girls still bleep around. So that around 35% of firstborn kids belong to another man outside.

Now imagine that USA guy visited, she gives an excuse why she cannot see you that week/weekend in in order to bleep her Yankee dude. You bleep her the following week. If by chance she met the Yanke guy during her fertile period, gets preggy, two months later she might give you the great news. Next thing is a quick wedding before belly gets big.

Another scenario is if the USA guy was single, before you know it, he'd have organised fiancee visa for her. Next thing you hear is she's in USA.

You seem unaware of reality on ground. The reason she's remorseful is you're probably the only eligible/single guy among her boyfriends.

An acquaintance nearly went crazy about two years back. He has a great job and pampers his gf. Before proposing to her he decided to check her social media accounts. He nearly had a heart attack. The beautiful, gentle & religious babe he paid school fees and rent for and others had boyfriends left and right, local & international. He's yet to recover from it. Of course she begged and all that. The dude moved on.

Best thing is not to even check their account because most are at it. Some are just too smart to be caught. Just hope for the best.

Speakdatruth:
She really could be 18. She could just be naturally big.

A relative finished university in 9ja at around 19. Only in Nigeria does her size look incompatible with 18. I have seen some age 16 like her in the West. Many kids grow like agric fowl these days.

Olalan:
Having a dishonest partner is no doubt terrible, but of late it seems females are master in the game of telling lies

Lol. When it comes to lies women are experts.

Even those that have dated 40 men claim to have only dated 2 or 3.

2buffagain:
Ignore what all these kids are saying.
Any relationship that requires a change in lifestyle from you that YOU DON'T WANT is not a relationship you should be in, no matter "how lucky you should feel to be in it".

People CAN change in a relationship, but it has to be a change that is in alignment with where you want to be. E.g you are not fit but dating a person into fitness, you probably have an interest in being healthy so would easily follow them to change your lifestyle. But in this case, you have no interest in slaying.
Maybe you should be with a more simple guy?


Since "body arts" isn't your thing, you might find it too hard and not worth it trying to compete with all the slay queens who all these things come easy to and who are no doubt eyeing your rich extroverted boyfriend right now. If he likes to go to parties a lot, all it takes after a few drinks is for that girl who meets his visual spec to be giving him dutty wine and he will last like a couple of weeks. Prepare to be cheated on to stupor if you already "don't know if you can cope" and yet choose to continue.

Awon Nkechi tin wo bobo e

If it was any other thing, I would talk about compromise and yada yada, but when it comes to a man's visual taste, that is something we can't even play with EVEN IF WE TRIED. I'm sure you've heard it said several times that men are visual.

Sure He sees something in you that he isn't seeing in these physical girls (loyalty, homeliness, etc), but the fact he is always trying to change your look shows that he too is making a mistake. Sooner or later, one person will have to grow up.

A very mature comment.

Many comments I have read here show how shallow and materialistic many people have become.

What the guy needs is a trophy wife. To parade about and get accolade and approval from friends and family. There are many ready to be one.

While dressing up nicely is a good thing but doing it OTT each time can be a drag. You can dress simple, be comfortable and look good.

He finds some good attributes in OP but not fully to his taste.

The guy has money but needs to learn more about human nature. He also needs to be himself and try too hard to use his bride to impress others.

@OP you can sit him down and tell him firmly that you appreciate his generosity and care. But you're a simple person. That you are proud of his economic success but you'd love him even if he had far less money. That you'd prefer to dress simple and comfortable. But would dress appropriately to big events.
Then of course try to dress nice & simple. You can both reach a compromise. If you continue to tag along just to please him, you might become tired and resentful. Especially when you will have kids and household to manage too.

SalamRushdie:
Maybe if he was in the team they wouldn't have made it this far

Tor!

Many Western national teams are doing it.
In 1998, Eric Cantona was probably the best known French footballer. France Manager Aime Jacque overlooked him. Because he "Kong-Fu" kicked a fan in a premier league match years before and was too controversial.

This year France overlooked Benzema because of his past legal matters.

Controversial top players are being left out to maintain better team spirit in a quintessential team game like football.

In 1996, Cantona derided Didier Deschamps as a mere water carrier (for his humility). In 1998 Deschamps lifted FIFA World Cup as captain. He's France manager playing in the final tomorrow.

Money is talking. Rather money of those who know how to use their oil money well.

Nobody will make such concession for African countries.

He should be doing this at Daura and allow young dynamic people take charge of government.

LazyNairalander:
Somebody also told me his from calabar speaking part of Cameroon. Nigerians and claiming great achievers eh.
I fear una.

Why do they use microscope to trace anyone who commits crime in countries they were born & raised abroad to Nigeria? If they are sport stars then nobody traces their origins to us?

Part of English-speaking Cameroon was part of Nigeria Eastern Nigeria until 1960s. They left after a referendum. That their grandmother is probably a Yoruba woman, does it make it impossible for their granddad to be from former Nigerian part of Cameroon?

WisdomFlakes:
I always believed Benin is an underrated city in Nigeria. It used to be capital of old midwestern region and Bendel, so a lot south-south elite from bendel are still grounded there. I think it is the six largest on that list not seventh.

You're correct. Lots of Deltan & some Bayelsan families still live there. Anyway, it's still one of the 7 or 8 cities in Nigeria with over one million people.

The diversity is just amazing. A guy from Lagos was posted there as area manager of a big company many years back. He still insists his 8 years or so there remain his most stress-free period of his adult life.

You with creation of more states & more state capitals, Federal presence in old capitals like Enugu, Kaduna, Ibadan, Benin have reduced. These were the few cities with aerodromes/airports back in the early 1950s when Queen Elizabeth visited Nigeria.

Kaduna Nzeogwu had only one retirement plan before the January 1996 coup: to return to Benin & run an hotel. Hotels are still everywhere in Benin till today.

neezar:
mbappe is from Cameroon tho

some people just add adeyemi for the nigga name

His Middle name is Adesanmi.

His junior brother is called Adeyemi.

Only Kylian's adopted brother Joris Kembo Ekoko (of Congo-Zaire origin) had no nigerian middle name.
But all three boys are footballers.

Some say his father's mum is a Nigerian lady.

I nor see anything there. The hips just wide like tray.