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The thing pain her.

Who wants to waste time with someone puff-headed because of her dad's money.

Guysmumudondo.

Meanwhile the ex has moved on with fresher ones.

It takes a super-fool to date a fool.

godox2:
Buhari did not lie, every politician will give attention to who voted him first because they believe in him.
The only mistake is to say it as it is on air. Remember GEJ era, yoruba were not in the corridor of power as SE and SS.
The question you should ask is, what is the result of when GEJ appoint SE and SS in his cabinet? If the constitution gave GEJ powers to appoint whoever he wishes to then and SW did not cry, why should you cry?
THIS IS THE CONSEQUENCE OF PUTTING YOUR EGGS IN 1 BASKET.
Next time learn how to play POLITICS.

Who cares? Did it stop VVF, almajiri and child brides in the core North? Did it stop poverty in the zones, no? It was still GEJ who built hundreds of Almajiri schools 14 new fed universities. Who cares about appointment? The country is doomed anyway.

I know appointing Igbo by OBJ & GEJ is what pained zombies. I remember each state is represented in every cabinet.

I remember Doyin Okupe & Abati as key members of Aso Rock team under GEJ.

How does appointing elite of your tribe help the poor of your tribe?

No sane president openly divides a country with careless utterances. Whoever wins an election, he/she becomes gov/president of all constituents irrespective of tribe or party affiliation. Unfortunately your likes and Buhari have little understanding of democratic tenets.

The fair thing is the rain falls on everyone, same as the sun shines on all.
I am not Igbo, but Igbo are more interested in leaving Nigeria since 1967. Not token political offices. Never mind the few greedy elite filling pockets.

Only parasites are holding them back. Communist block used high walls and millions of soldiers to cage people. The walls still feel. You cannot stop those yearning for air freedom. Go through all of human history. From colonialism to Apartheid. Freedom finally came. Why waste time now?

What they do with themselves in Biafra is not our business.

jamesharryson:
U won't allow Nigeria to be dimesmembered when u have already divided the country? Contunu

Into 97% & 5% in fact.

Everyone with domestic staff is potentially vulnerable. The staff could be blackmailed into working with criminals.

He could easily have got the dose wrong & kill him. Or suffer a bad reaction to the chemical used to drug him.

Thank God for his life.

iamclime:
It is very possible that the lady really knows nothing about her boss's background in crime. As the sayings go: Akoba adaba, Olorun ma je a ri! Isale oro legbin!

Some of the big men with "legitimate" businesses like schools, transportation, real estate and others are into all kinds of nefarious stuff. Should we go blaming the teachers, drivers, PAs, engineers, accountants and others working for them? By all means arrest if it helps the investigation and bring the full extent of crimes to light. But innocent ones should be freed.

iamnicer:

She dey crush while CR7 dey bypass them for anything serious except smashing. Until after 3 kids.
Imagine if it was Mikel or Odemwingie showing motherless kids here.

yeyerolling:
Lol. Nigerians who abuse wizkid and davido go keep mute. Hypocrisy

Of the highest order.

MsNgo40:
You are correct my brother.
See that's what I can't seem to understand.
The Biblical Christianity that I've been raised in doesn't promote that "die by fire" thing.
Never heard of that concept in my life until I came to NL.
That must be a Nigerian brand of Christianity....
We can never, ever win souls to Christ by being self-righteous & dogmatic all under the guise of being an alleged "warrior for Christ" (meanwhile completely excluding/omitting the Fruit of the Spirit--which is Christ' character) which I see repeatedly in this section of NL. Unfortunately, all I see is a predominate amount of folks who just.....umm...well let me stop and quiet down.
Anyhow, to those who can't see Christ (The Son of God-Christ) in us "followers of Christ"....I apologize. Please don't let that turn you away from attempting to know Who He is and can do in your life.

In modern times, we are more than "catmatic" sef. Even "pythonmatic".

Truth is as Africans running churches, we're basically reverting to African cosmology that we're truly and innately comfortable with . But in a way we somehow think is modern and acceptable. Under the umbrella of Christianity.

Christianity has become a one-stop shop of life encompassing spirituality, social life, entertainment, protection, marriage, business & social connections, prosperity, hope etc. Pragmatism is at the heart of it.

Why go to babalawo (marabou) when the church can prophesy & work to destroy your real or perceived enemy metaphysically holding back your economic progress, fatherhood, motherhood, career, etc? Why go clubbing if you can dance azonto to your heart's content in church? Why allow elders in your family be involved in your marital decisions when your pastor can tell you the wife/hubby God as chosen for you?

So with all these various African needs now provided in church, the populations of modern churches have exploded. There is a massive population shift from old Western churches to African churches.

A distant relative once said that she cannot just continue attending churches where they do not "see" and be caught unawares by the enemies.
I foresee more innovations from even smarter MoGs in the future. Soon your ICT, financial services, shopping needs and more will be incorporated into church duties. Do not ask me how they will do it considering they are charities that do not pay taxes. But they will find a way. They already run schools, universities, hospitals, real estate, etc.

She must be from environmental sanitation people. Sweeping the streets.

No paternity test has confirmed that he impregnated both.
Naive jambites could have been bedded by several guys during freshers' week.

We nor dey there.

Na dem say dem say.

Iyajelili:
Wail wailer wailest. Your eye go soon clear

Abeg Wailers' application forms are good dust now. We will not admit her or any other fifth columnist.

Good. But I wonder if they were not prime targets for kidnappers if they would have done so.

Faith without work is dead.

Prayers when you have the power and means to make a positive difference but you do not, is just like mere mockery.

This applies to all in a position of power in any sector.

Kokaine:
i will hire him, set him up and him to jail. because inside or outside my company, he is a risk

God bless you.

Unless job advert includes applicants should demonstrate proof of practical proficiency in Cybersecuruty.

Beautyaddy:
I can see some are Nigerians and the ones at the back look more like people from Haiti.

The problem is with the one that stated that she's from Nigerian...what asylum does she want to claim?

Now the ones hopefully from Haiti might have a better chance of having their asylum granted.

That lady's saying she's Nigerian, her mannerism shows she has "tey" in yankee.

That baby she's backing probably has yankee blue P. She wan to sort herself in Canada. Trump's America don too hot.

Her own will be to to quickly born a Canadian baby, then "wangle" herself through the system. Better chance in Canada than USA right now. You sabi 9ja resourcefulness.

Trump winning in USA took most of them by surprise. They were among the 10m irregular residents Obama wanted to help out but Congress refused. They were pinning their hopes on H. Clinton, who lost.

As for some fresh travelers from 9ja, nothing you can do to convince them to shun travelling if they cannot do it legally. They will travel anyway.

olaboy33:
Pls disregard!

that is not the buhari (Nigeria president) we all know

That picture is from the painter's archive. Painted when Jonathan was in power, Buhari & many people were still looking fresh. They still had energy & full belle to be "shouting clueless, corruption". Now they are all dry, tired & perplexed that common rats are chasing them out of their house now.

IKON360:
so one trophy in 2005 has turned to 'trophies' shey? Hmm when last did you fellows win EPL? How about FA cup? Or Carling cup? Or anything at all?

You have demonstrated a complete lack of football knowledge. How many teams have won Champion's league since 1990? Same clubs often take turns to win

LFC has won Champions League 5 times. 11 European trophies in total.
Last of 7 FA cups was 2006. Lost final to Chelsea in 2012.
Last of 8 League Cup wins was in 2012.

We may not have won premier league/First Division since 1990 but we have won it 18 times. ManU only overtook us a few years back to reach 20.

Many modern football followers are glory hunters, not rooted in the history or culture clubs they claim to support. Abrahamovic money effect.

Liverpool was one of the few clubs to give black players a chance to play football professionally. John Barnes was even made captain of Liverpool. Only very few players like Viv Anderson, Paul Parker, Paul Canoville and a few others came before him. Who were regularly thrown bananas when playing in First Division as Premier League was called then.

It paved the way for all the black players that followed. What you now take for granted to see Lukaku, Pogba, Sterling, Mendy, and Henry, Kanu, Drogba, Mikel, Essien & others a bit earlier.

IKON360:
Liverpool fans too like history, history of trophies they won before I was born

So you were a baby in 2005 when we last won Champions League.

Wow! I knew kiddies abound on NL for sure. But not this much.

Only Chelsea & ManU with copious Russian & American money have managed it just once since then. Liverpool lost another Champions League final in 2007.

mukina2:
is liverpool a team?

Not just a team. It is the most successful sporting institution in UK. With ManU as a distant second.

erico2k2:
Bross these are Robots at work . We have men welding and fabricating in the plants in Nigeria . Our level never reach like dis .

People have forgotten that to get money in the past, you had to go into a bank. No ATM. Just because you can collect money from ATM now does not mean you don't get money OTC anymore.

Automation does not mean no more old fashioned manufacturing.

With time, automation will come. It is expensive.

Even top car brands like Mercedes, Toyota, General Motors, BMW do not make their own car batteries, tyres, spark plugs, car jacks, cables and hundreds of other car parts. Many other industries feed into the automobile industry creating millions of other jobs worldwide.

Saintsammurai:
You cannot pay Evil with Evil... yeah the husband has a side chick, well 90% of rich married men out there have side chicks all over the world... Though i am not in support of cheating but its not like the husband is maltreating the wife, she claimed to have suffered with him, but i am 100% sure that the husband in question is still taken care of the family financially... She do not have to place a curse on the side chick, it wont even work.. because she is not to be blame... he husband is at fault here.. She could report the husband to the elders in his family and believe me, the husband will apologise to her.... The side chick is just using him to cash out like every other opportunist out there.. Its not her fault. Even the wife swearing might be a fault

To begin with which power did pastor use to make her hubby rich?? Are we sure no human parts are buried that church?
Jesus urged the rich to share their money to the poor. Here some dey go use church make money. 9ja funny sha.

No wonder some armed robbers even pay tithes.

It seems ogun owo is everywhere these days.

Stereotype. There are oyinbo with all the bad traits and worse of some Nigerians. Be it online fraud, rogue traders, narcotics, etc

Nigerians stand up to Europeans. Sometimes Nigerians make them realise their ignorance about world affairs and injustices, current & historical, of oyinbo people towards Africans. Oyinbo always want to set the agenda & determine the narrative. Disputing it with them does not endear you to them. But they'll grudgingly respect you though.

I stopped caring about being liked or not long ago. I nor care. Just give me my respect, dignity & space as a human being. You can be Hitler incarnate, na your wahala be that o.

Stereotype. There are oyinbo with all the bad traits and worse of some Nigerians. Be it online fraud, rogue traders, narcotics, etc

Nigerians stand up to Europeans. Sometimes Nigerians make them realise their ignorance about world affairs and injustices, current & historical, of oyinbo people towards Africans. Oyinbo always want to set the agenda & determine the narrative. Disputing it with them does not endear you to them. But they'll grudgingly respect you though.

Very bad.
And no visible police badge o.

Wizaugpet:
"If u Love someone that doesnt Love u, it means u are waiting for a Ship at Airport."

Mehnnn! This is my Qoute of the Day...

But most 9ja marriages have no mutual love involved. The men even love more. Reason is this. As a man you chase a lady that attracts you. An iota of love is at least there. If after dating & sex you still stick to her considering the choices and options out there.

But women have to wait to be wooed. It is not uncommon for a lady to complain that only weirdos and funny people approach her. We often jokingly say "na village people dey use 4G on you" and such jokes.

But at long last she will have to accept one of those "weirdos" as a hubby, even if not her type at all. As the clock begins to tick and pressure from family mounts. She will then choose pragmatism in dating.

She will console herself with stuff like: he's caring, he has a good job, he offers me economic security, my friends and family like him, etc. But true love from the heart is often missing. Therein lies the first error. Nothing can replace love. Not money, pragmatism, opinion of others, etc.

Indeed many have boarded a ship at the airport & a plane at the seaport. Just that those means of transport (marriages) never really took off or set sail.

Annie939:
but women hardly cheat because they have self control

Nope. They know the consequences of being caught is more severe. Culture induced discipline. So they are much more careful.

They cover their tracks far better. That is why quite often only DNA test shows it years later. Imagine how few do DNA test and failure rate so high.

Do you know how many have been undone by smartphone lately? Through suspicious hubby/bf hacking into account. Or just by looking through her phone chat. I know one whose wedding plans was cancelled. Lately.

Women get more opportunities to cheat. If they want to. Because the average looking lady will be hit on sometimes. Pretty ones often.
But a guy must go through the rigmarole of chasing and spending money first. But a woman can siddon jeje and men come and ask her out. She has to just say yes after a little shakara of course.

Women also had a biological incentive previously. Until about 60 years ago contraception was not widespread. So preggy had consequences. Now tradition and culture have faded. Now anything goes.

hopilo:
The two brothers have been going on well together until the wives came in

No biggie.

After all you are supposed to leave your family and be joined with your spouse.

The Bible that says so does for a reason.

Modern naturally do not want extended family. If at all, it must be the woman's family.

Now that both guys have earned good cash & can stand on their own, the women would even welcome separation "codedly". Now more control over their hubbies.

It was going to happen at some point anyway. Wives just made it happen sooner.

enabledgoddess:
Agreed, she hasn't acted properly; but do not entertain the thought she might be cheating. please trash out the issue with her and place your foot on the ground as a man. why allow her to take a loan from a man? that alone sells you short. secondly why allow a stranger drive your kids ? oh please sort it out rather than sit at a corner sucking over whether she is cheating or not. y[b]ou lost your respect the moment you allowed segun drove them away in your presence. [/b]

Actually I respect him keeping his cool there. It is his wife who embarrassed and disrespected him by secretly going to meet Segun with their kids in tow.

Any action there could have caused a scene in front of the kids. His behaviour at the filling station is commendable. It gives him the opportunity to now dig deep to see what's going down, if anything. Without the wife suspecting his next move too much. Because the wife is already secretive. She'd continue with Segun secretly anyway.

OP's mistake began when he tolerated her taking loans from Segun. He should have paid off the loan once he found out. And prohibit her taking more loans.

A male friend that meets up with your wife that you do not even know?
If he did not see them, would she have told him of seeing Segun that day? Most likely not. How often has she secretly met Segun in the past? Does Segun even come to see her regularly at her business premises?

Something is clearly off.

It has gone beyond putting his foot down. The wife might be naive & innocent BUT he needs to know more:

How long have they been friends? How much exactly has Segun loaned her?
The way things are going now, Segun could have fathered at least one of the kids. It maybe why Segun feels obliged to give loans. He might also be giving regular cash gifts aside. And maybe the Sunday PM meeting was just a regular family time for Segun. It is happening in 9ja these days.

These are speculations of course. But reflects the reality on ground in a few cases I know of.

goingape1:
and one mugu will later want to marry this woman! (our mothers of tomorrow)

our women are only useful for phucking and dumping and nothing else.

Well, until artificial wombs become commercially viable, you're stuck with one my friend. Unless you want no kids.
Joke aside, the society is contributing to waywardness.

A society that worships money, material wealth and yet does not provide an enabling environment for real economic growth, employment or welfare safety net.
As humans, many will inevitably be looking for the easy way out. For a young lady, a relationship of sexual nature would be one of her first options. And most are from good homes.
It's a pity really.

castrol180:
But she's a model and look doesn't has anything to do in that but height and structure...work on yourself and do a kind of working out

No mind them.
At least a woman who represents the type of natural beauty of our strong grandmothers. Her skin looks lovely too. Not bleached.

Maybe they want anorexic oporoko-looking people defined as beautiful by Oyinbo.

Our beauty is mainstream people, not those that resemble oyinbo standard.

2shure:
Was it dat the driver was doing 150 on the freeway or wat
Sotay d scrap turn drop top by fore by force
I mean convertible
Reach say men the battery sef get collusion run from stand enter ground.
Most of these pussy cats drive like drunks.
1 once travelled frm benin to warri.
For nite o.
Around 8pm
Ono see as everybody hearts dey dia mouth
Driver wan tear speedometer
Say who dey road.
I gat to caution am before he come dey drive 100mph
Wtf

Many drivers are really reckless o. I once took a cab drop in Las Gidi.
The driver must be above 55 years old. He got into road rage with a girl likely below 25 years old. From her driving & posture in her car, the girl must have just learnt driving recently.

This baba was swerving recklessly into her path. I was shocked. I cautioned him that I am not paying him to "comangoandie o". Please let her be, she's a little girl, maybe still nervous when driving". He did not even mind me. How can a man of that age be swearing and swerving angrily and cursing a girl young enough to be his last born child?

That was after he was driving anyhow, using one hand and ordering someone to buy rice from "oni-rice" and keep for him o.
I just wanted to get off the cab. But I had to catch another transport to get elsewhere before too dark.

No respect for life at all.