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CelebritiesRe: Actor Clems Onyeka Killed By Stray Bullet In Asaba This Afternoon by aspirebig: 9:06am On Oct 15, 2014
Deepfreezer:
please lets not politicize this. say R.I.P and move on.
I just noticed that most details of my post didn't appear . The post is incomplete. Most of our leaders buy gun for thugs and cannot retrieve them back, later these guys use the gun the rob the state and the poor defenceless people. This is not a matter of politicising anything,except if you are not living in Nigeria. Most of the robbers and kidnappers in Nigeria today were once political thugs or relations of those thugs.

Rip to the dead.

The way people die these days is terrible.God help us.
CelebritiesRe: Actor Clems Onyeka Killed By Stray Bullet In Asaba This Afternoon by aspirebig: 9:33pm On Oct 14, 2014
4bobo:
Rip to the dead. Why is asaba becoming deadly for robbery? It was a popular lady last week. Now another one. I think people need to be careful when going out especially those troubled areas. Whenever you see a bullion van let it disappear before you take action.
That governor should also learn from fashola
Well,personally I think our leaders are not doing enough to fight crime. Politicians buy guns for thugs to fight, kill and silence opposition groups in order to gain political power and seek political office and appointment.
CultureRe: Reason Why Modern Nigerians Will Not Speak Their Native Tongue by aspirebig: 5:48am On Oct 08, 2014
It is a bad trend, most modern days couples cannot even speak their languages, so now will their children learn it ? Most people prefer speaking English to their native language. It in the next 100yrs, some languages will be history as they would have gone into extinction.

Mods FP tins pls....
Christianity EtcRe: Should A Christian Pray Back To Sender Prayer? by aspirebig: 5:23am On Oct 08, 2014
Very well ooo. In fact, is it good for you to fold your hands and allow your enemies finish you? It is written that "Since the days of John the Baptist, the Kingdom of God suffereth violence and the violence taketh it by force. In the process of possessing your possession, back to sender is allowed. No time.If someone send you an arrow of poverty, sickness, untimely death, ,joblessness, childlessness, you are allowed to reverse the arrow back to the sender.

In fact, back to send is a serious prayer point. If you love your destiny, never play with such prayers.

This life is a battle field, they earlier you know this the better.
Christianity EtcRe: Alcohol And Immorality By Pastor Adeboye by aspirebig: 5:20am On Oct 08, 2014
But some Churches will never preach about immortality, drinking or bribery. They concentrate on riches.....Na waooo.
HealthRe: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by aspirebig: 11:33pm On Oct 07, 2014
dancok:
thanks bro ur post tell me I can still make it.
In as much as we are all in NL doing faceless chats, I told myself that whatever I am contributing here by my posts should affect people positively.

Go to the churches and see how many babes that are in their early, mid and late 30s looking for hubby. Some in their 40s, still they are not depressed. Pls do not use your tongue to promote your little problem to become something big . Depression can lead to someone committing suicide, losing focus in life, mental problems,having inferiority complex, feeling totally dissatisfied with yourself and life generally, getting angry easily, not seeing anything good in others etc. It is a serious problem , as it can be spiritual too. So rise up to this and see it resolved before it is out of hand.

I will advice op to go for deliverance in MFM as a matter of fact, gey close to God. When someone is in that mood, it goes beyond ordinary sometimes. Your destiny is your personal project in life, guide it and protect jealously. Once the blessings of God locate you, even you will not believe where you will be in the next few years, serious. It is real.
FamilyRe: Should Working Wives Share Household Expenses With Their Husbands? by aspirebig: 4:29pm On Oct 07, 2014
Before? Why are they called helpers? From olden days wife do assist the husband. No b today.
TV/MoviesRe: Many Nigerian Actors Live On Past Glory—ramsey Nouah by aspirebig: 4:21pm On Oct 07, 2014
Very right. Most of them are seeing the threats coming from the younger ones.

#rushingintopolitics...

Yeye dey smell.
SportsRe: Obafemi Martins Named MLS Player Of The Month For September by aspirebig: 4:16pm On Oct 07, 2014
Well deserved. The guy has been doing very well lately.
CareerRe: Nigerians And Their Graduate Mentality by aspirebig: 4:13pm On Oct 07, 2014
It is better to be a graduate than not.


But if you choose to do conductor job after you grad,that one is personal.
HealthRe: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by aspirebig:
Op,
You need to wake up and know that you are in a serious problem and face it.
How can one be depressed because you are 30? I think there is more to it.
What do you do for a living? Have you graduated and no job? Have you learned a trade and no money to establish yourself? Are you still living with your parents? Are you frustrated seeing your peers doing great and you are have nothing to offer? Are you comparing your self to others? Are you thinking of that woman / man that left you for another person and got married and you are still single? Are you thinking of when are you going to rent your own flat,build your own house,buy your jeep or travel abroad annually for holidays?
Do you want to relocate to abroad?

Whatever it is,pls bros,calm down. Such thinking has led many to early graves. Better plan yourself,your time. Write down your plans,table them before God,before you know it,it will become past tense.

You should thank God that you are alive,people that have acquired all those things that you are looking for now die everyday.A trip to the hospital will make you appreciate God better.

At 30,you can plan yourself towards a better future,it is not too late.Remember that time and tide wait for no man.

Clubbing,womanising,partying will only take away your focus and resources from you. For how long will you club,womanise,party? The earlier you wake to reality the better. I know guys that graduate from uni at 28 to 30,did nysc,got job,marry,buy ride and by 40,they have the 2 or 3 kids they wanted and are already living in their personal house. It is about focus.
Car TalkRe: Have You Taught A Spouse To Drive? by aspirebig: 3:24pm On Oct 07, 2014
It is simple.
Enroll her in DS and teach her the basic driving skills at home.

It is better for the two of you,also it saves your lives,save you from unnecessary quarrels when teaching her driving.
EducationRe: Tehn Is Calling All School Leavers To Apply For TNRI Scholarship by aspirebig:
I wish some of these self centred big men that has houses in every state capital and Abj, London, Paris, NY, Dubai, etc with each having compound with fleet of cars like 7 to 10 rides with about 5 of those rides being SUV, can do the same thing too.

If you like acqiure a trillion pounds in your bank account, if you fail to help mankind, your money is nothing but "money miss road".

Well done to those that have deemed fit to assist the less privileged ones in our midst. God bless you all.

This reminds me of Lucky Dube of blessed memory hit track, Blessed is the hand that giveth.
FamilyRe: Are You Satisfied With The Life You're Living? by aspirebig:
As my username name implies. I am ASPIRING BIG full time. Satisfy ke, wen the groove just dey start? Na wa oo for this op ooo.


I am NOT satisfied with the life I am living, no, not yet at all.

Though, I am doing fine now, ever thought why Dbang did Oliver twist, his best hit ever.

I believe in God and I know that I am not in my final bus stop in life yet. I am still young,there are still more to achieve, to do, to learn, to know, to research and even acquire in life. I love new challenges, being satisfied can make you to be complacent, filling like a G, thinking you have arrived before you know it you are living in the past and you will be overtaken by current events in this crazy and fast paced changing world.

One of the secret of life of living a fulfilled life is to keep giving yourself a new challenge, rack your brain, get active and be
productive.Be happy, live in peace with your fellow human.

Simple SS1 Economics or ECN 101 taught us that man is simply insatiable in nature. So I do think your satisfaction point is someone else hungry point, it is relative.
SportsRe: Siasia Or Keshi: Who Do You Prefer? by aspirebig: 2:15pm On Oct 04, 2014
Keshi all the way.
Siasia should first try his trade outside Nigeria to other African countries. This will give us a better platform to judge them or compare them better.
Why are you guys comparing a home based coach and SOK with multiple foreign coaching experience including coaching in USA.
FamilyRe: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by aspirebig: 7:07am On Oct 04, 2014
bobblue: A cheating wife has broken the covenant of marriage and is not really a wife...a nagging wife, most wives nag, and there is alot of stuff that we married men do not know, I am learning...I would recommend this book - 'The garden of peace - A marital guide for men only - by Rabbi Shalom Arush - it is a MUST read for every married man...it WILL change your marriage - GUARANTEED!
Thanks bobblue, You have just shared knowledge by releasing this information.
FamilyRe: Which Is Worse? A Cheating Or Nagging Wife by aspirebig: 7:04am On Oct 04, 2014
None
SportsRe: Keshi Has Lost It - Victor Ikpeba by aspirebig:
Ikpeba, well said. But remember that the same team building gave u chance in Monaco, where they later referred to u as "Prince", despite the fact that your father was NEVER a king in the city of Monaco.

The same team building gave chance to score Nigeria' s second goal against Brazil in Atlanta 96.

The same team building gave you chance in the SE squad, if you have a younger brother among those invited, would you have said this same thing? Honestly, answer me ooo?That is Nigeria for you.

The last thing I check," Change is the only constant thing in life".

And, you don't change a winning team, but at as the last count, SE were far from being a winning team,the non rookies invited in the SE last two matches couldn't beat less rated and known Congo in our backyard in Calabar or SA in their home, in fact, SA nearly beat us. I know that there is no underdog in the world football again but the place of history cannot be totally be ignored. That is why most often, sports analysts go to fish out record of teams past matches, know how many winning or loss does each has, and how many draws too.

The way the new coaches to come after Keshi will be criticised too, it is left to be seen. We are waiting,
Even our Afcon team last year were criticised b4 their match against Ivory Coast. Uneasy is the head that wears the cap...
Since the days of westerhof, all the Bert Volt, or what is hs name and Siasia, Amodu etc which of them has brought home Afcon Cup?

When Keshi has issues with player, it is always Keshi's fault . When all saw what happened with
Osaze's case both with Keshi and WBA and how those white saddists in WBA and their sponsored journalists nearly finished his career that non of the Epl clubs ever want to have anything with him again, despite his exploits in WBA. Till 2moro, Osaze remains the one of their best goal scorers in WBA, it is still in their books as record.

On the issue of Yobo, he later settled with the big boss and apologised, before he went the WCup in Brazil. Now, he has quit the national team after his 100 caps record.Age is telling and guy has tried.

Uche brothers,I think their case is being used as selling point for the newspapers sport pages. They should come and let this issue be addressed once and let's move forward.

As for Martins,Emenike, honestly I think those guys and Kelechi ihanachor should be in SE team now.All those guys that scored for Congo against Nigeria are young chaps. I do not agree with the big boss for excluding most of these guys in the team either.

As for Ideye, no comment.

Keshi is not perfect and so is every living soul.
FamilyRe: Please What Causes Some Men To Stay Too Long During S*ex by aspirebig: 10:19pm On Oct 03, 2014
I think it is better you take time to discuss this your partner. Also let him know how you suffer during the sex and it is jot fun anymore to you.

As for the heat, get a gen pls b4 som1 will soffocate to 6feet o pls. Haba, na so e bad reach? Sex in hot condition is not the best.

Also know that due to individual differences, some people like sex more than others.So try to strike a balance.
FamilyRe: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by aspirebig: 9:53pm On Oct 03, 2014
Op, I just finishing watching sport tonigh on channels tv, I saw a dude without his hands, he lost the hands in an accident at the age of ten, do you know what? This man plays table tennis very well with his mouth and he is happily married.The man never thought of killing himself despite jot having hands, abeg op , you dont have problem jor....
I believe your case is not as bad as that shared above.

Lighten up, have positive thinking friends, engage yourself with good people and stop thinking about death.
PoliticsRe: Has Electricity Improved In Your Area Recently? by aspirebig: 9:01pm On Oct 03, 2014
This is not an issue to be discussed again.

Which improve, abeg something else.

#Buyfuelforgendaily....
CultureRe: Blood Money: How Real Is It: Share Ur Stories. by aspirebig: 8:58pm On Oct 03, 2014
Op,

There is a way that seems right to man, the end is destruction.

You better work hard to be comfortable in life than thinking of killing fellow man to get rich overnight.

A word is enogh for the wise.
CultureRe: Blood Money: How Real Is It: Share Ur Stories. by aspirebig: 8:48pm On Oct 03, 2014
Op, op, op, how many times did i call u?

There is a way that seems right to man, the end is destruction.

You better work hard to comfortable in life than thinking of killing fellow man to get rich overnight.

A word is enogh for the wise.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Hilarious Names Of Nollywood Movies by aspirebig: 8:42pm On Oct 03, 2014
Ever heard of the ffg names?

Blood money
Bomboy
Aki na ukwa
University babes
Osuofia in London
Ebola
August meeting
Full moon
Living in bondage
EducationRe: Most Underrated Courses In Nigerian Universities by aspirebig: 10:44pm On Oct 02, 2014
Nursey and primary education.
philosophy.
History
Animal sc
Soil sc
Some language education, I dont wanna mention the languages, so I wont offend the people from the area or those that read such courses. I leave you to figure them out yourself....lol
Social studies education


Omo, wen i reach uni,come hear some courses name, I fear fear ooo.
SportsRe: Comments By The New NFF President On Stephen Keshi by aspirebig:
Stephen Okechukwu keshi, (SOK) Favourite Delta state son, I know. The only person in the world alive to have won Afcon as a player and coach.

Amaju Picnnick, who art thou? I have never heard of him b4 anyway. Lets see how it goes.

Frankly speaking, Keshi has really paid his dues in Nigeria football, retain him or not, he is a star and remains Nigeria's no 1 coach .

What is the big deal, you sack Sia1, employ SOK, sack SOK, employ Sia1.Then sack Sia1 again , employ Chukwu or Eguaveon or Oliseh.

Nigeria football rotating coaches since atlanta Olympics games 1996.#dreamteamsoccergoldmedallists. First in Africa.


Wait, I just saw this Amaju now.

No b this man wey go use banger blow off him face sometimes ago?

They have rush him abroad for plastic surgery?
Maybe no him ooo.lol
CelebritiesRe: Ini Edo Tweets About Her Crashed Marriage by aspirebig: 10:10pm On Oct 02, 2014
Op, which kind of question is that ?

Coming to NL to ask if IE cheated on her hubby?

Na only you waka come oo

Only God that know the truth. I cannot say or judge .
FamilyRe: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by aspirebig: 10:05pm On Oct 02, 2014
[quote author=cococandy]Story time...

When I was in school there was this man I met at friend's wedding. Mr B.
He started asking me out seriously and trying his best to drive down from ph to owerri to come and pay me surprise visits at school.

Many of my hostel mates then knew him because he would come without informing me and if I wasn't around,he would wait outside the gate until I come back. Sometimes he would go if I came back late and then my friends would tell me ''that man been come again o. Ha''

One day he opened up and told me his pastor saw my picture on his phone and told him I was the one God revealed to him as his (Mr B's) wife. grin
Kept putting pressure on me to give him my parents' contact so that he'll make his 'noble' intentions known to them.
All that 'apparent' seriousness was to make me feel his a good guy with good intentions and make relax around him enough to open my legs.

As an asidesadI've even heard of guys going as far as introductory marriage rights to get into the pants of a very strict principled lady and disappear once their mission is accomplished. So don't think every single girl dating a married man knows he's married)

Continues..

Until one evening I received a message 'leave my husband alone. Go and find your own. Husband snatcher # **unprintable names**'

I was surprised no be small. So I called the number and confirmed truly that that was his wife. Mr B would travel all the way from ph to owerri to woo me and form Mr romantic while denying his wife at home.

The sad thing was that after trying to convince madam B that I didn't have anything to do with her husband like she thought and didn't even know he was married,she still saw me as the enemy while ignoring the fact that the onus of protecting their marriage rested on both of them and not me the single girl outside.

Well I tried to make her see that I was on her side but she was blinded by stupidity.

Kept saying she knew how her husband uses ladies and dumps them that it would soon be by turn to be dumped and her loving husband would soon go back to her.
That I should not think I've won as I'll be dumped like a piece of rag and he'll be with her the madam(main chick grin)
................................................................

That's the mindset some women have when their husbands cheat on them. It's always the fault of the girl outside. She seduced him. She charmed him. She did this or did that. Forgetting that the man made the first move of betraying his marriage by looking outside to start with. A man who's determined to cheat will cheat. Even if all the single girls outide reject his advances he'll do it with a married woman. The cheater is the only constant in that equation. He's the one that needs to be changed if a different result is desired.

I'm not saying this because I think women don't cheat. I'm saying it because it is women who are more unrealistic when cheated on.
That's what I like about men sha. Cheat on him and he sees the problem which is you.
But cheat on some women and they'll leave their problem(the man) and face the girl

Incomplete story..,.
CultureRe: The Spirit Of Lagos by aspirebig: 9:44pm On Oct 02, 2014
The spirit of opportunities.
The spirit of hold up...the spirit of stress.
Wicked landlords, dubious agents...
HealthRe: US Sends Medical Experts To Study How Nigeria Tamed Ebola by aspirebig: 11:50am On Oct 02, 2014
I am waiting for when US and other world power will come to Nigeria to learn the following:
- how to fight bad governance
- how to fight corrupt politicians
- how to fix bad roads
- how to build good schools and get well stocked libraries with up to date books and technology, happy and well renumerated teachers, lecturers, strike free educational calendar.
- how to fix electricity and ensure all the country can celebrate steady power supply
- how to pay govt officials less and make political offices less lucrative, let only those who really want to SERVE, get the opportunity to serve not those who want to be served like our senate members, house members and legislators, councillors, LGA chairman, etc
- how to reduce cost of governance generally
- how to build good hospitals within the reach and affordabilty of the common man with modern equipment and facilities with a law that all public
office holders must not travel abroad for any medical check up, then equip the hospitals with latest technology and experienced and well renumerated Doctors , nurses and other medical personnels needed.
- how to remove and stop recycling the same old people in our system and also build checks to monitor public funds, grants from government, contract T and C.
- how to create job for the teeming youth in reality, not on the pages of newspapers...
- how to put people in position based on merit not by favourism, nepotism, tribalism or Godfatherism and Godmotherism.
- how to pay pensioners their money as at when due and not allowing our heroes past to suffer, queue under the sun in their late 70s and 80s in order to get their merited entitlements after serving their father's land for many years and some die in the process and their families never get to collect the entitlement .
- how to bulid houses at an affordable rate for the poor citizens, most houses schemes allocations,projects are hijacked by the rich people in the society and it never gets to the poor it was built for.....
- how to make our public office holders to start using the public transportation system like it is done in the western world.
- how to resign honourably in public office, if found guilty of corruption, misappropriation, stealing of public funds,certificate forging....
- how to give us the breakdown of our excess crude oil accounts, and how the excess billions of dollars disappeared...
-how to stop the bribery of the judiciary to alter the judgement of court cases and give pass a wrong judgement, where the innocent will go to jail and the culprit will be a free man walking in the street and go to the church for thanksgiving..

Abeg, wetin God go judge plenty oooooo
TravelRe: On Nigerians And The 'must Travel Mentality' by aspirebig: 11:48pm On Oct 01, 2014
Sanchez01: I understand for Nigeria but at least, show an ounce of respect by getting latest pictures of Nigeria, particularly Lagos. Your pictures are taken in Lagos but that was a long time ago. Rather than see 'molues' you'd likely end up seeing BRT buses; though are still few but 'Behind' and decent molue buses now.

Things are changing and so are times.
Which long time ago, lets say the truth people. Those pictures represent the today pix of Lagos. The only difference is that molue buses is now reduced in number.I understand thst once their papers expired, they won't be renewed. That is the strategy BRF used to phase them out. Leave that thing,even Abj and Ph, is full if traffic now, unlike in the 90s.

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