Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Taiwo Odukoya Is Dead by ayandee: 7:01pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
My husband got his first job after NYSC through a career fair Pastor Odukoya organized in his church. My husband never attended his church and just got info about the fair from a friend. The fair was made open to the public and a lot of companies came and recruited people. He was happy to have that job at that time.
I wish churches could have more of that.
Rest in Peace Pastor Odukoya. You've touched lives in very special ways. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Julius Malema Supporters Beat Up Whites Protesting 'Racist' Song in SA (PICS) by ayandee: 2:46am On Aug 05, 2023 |
Suspect33: Chase the whites and watch S.A become like Nigeria, bunch of untamed savages SA would be worse than Nigeria. At least, Nigerians love to work. I mean we love industry. The majority of black south Africans especially the men, love to live by the day. Once they are paid salaries, they disappear from work and return only when they become broke. |
Travel › Re: Seeking Honest Advice: Considering Relocating Abroad - Need Your Thoughts by ayandee: 3:07pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
Love800: Tank u.
Also, can u tell me what express entry entails. What is it all abt. I hear of it alot but got no clue what it looks like.
Tank u Visit the express entry thread in the travel section of Nairaland. You will find all the information you need there. |
Travel › Re: Seeking Honest Advice: Considering Relocating Abroad - Need Your Thoughts by ayandee: 1:19pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
Love800: If am not a graduate, i cant run express entry? Just asking. No, you can't. You need at least a BSC or HND. |
Crime › Re: Pastor At Kidnapped US Girl's Funeral In 1975 Charged With Her Murder by ayandee: 5:40pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
In the 1970s, there was huge respect for pastors and religious leaders so they got away with a lot of things. I guess that was why the police didn't press further. When they interrogated him and he denied seeing her, they just took his words for it. If it was today, they would have probed further. |
Travel › Re: Seeking Honest Advice: Considering Relocating Abroad - Need Your Thoughts by ayandee: 1:29pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
Alejo2000: Hello fellow Nairalanders,
I find myself at a crucial crossroad in life and would greatly appreciate your valuable insights and diverse perspectives. I have worked diligently in a private organization for 15 years, managing to save up to N20 million. Additionally, I own a 3-bedroom apartment. and a few plots of land in three different states in Nigeria.
Current Situation: Recently, I was disengaged from my job, and this has prompted me to contemplate a major life decision. I am 45 years old, and my wife is 42 years old. Together, we have three children, two of whom are in secondary school.
Contemplating Relocation: Given the circumstances, I have been seriously considering the possibility of relocating to another country with my family via study route. Two countries have caught my attention: the UK and Canada. I believe that I still have around 15 years of active career working life by the Grace of God, and I am open to exploring new opportunities abroad for the betterment of my family's future.
Reasoning: The motivation behind this move is to provide my children with a better education and quality of life while also embracing new experiences. However, I am fully aware that this is not without risks, as it would involve utilizing my lifetime savings and making a fresh start in a foreign land.
Seeking Your Advice: I humbly seek your honest advice and opinions on this matter. Here are some key points to consider:
Family considerations: How will relocating impact my children's education and overall well-being?
Age and career transition: Is starting anew in a foreign country feasible, considering my age and accounting background as my profession?
Financial stability: Should I be concerned about using my savings for this move? What steps can I take to ensure financial security in a new country?
Visa and immigration: What are the challenges and best practices in obtaining permanent residency in the UK or Canada?
Job opportunities: How promising is the job market for accountants in these countries? Are there viable prospects for career growth?
Investment options: Alternatively, what investment opportunities in Nigeria can provide a stable income stream for my family?
Conclusion: I am deeply grateful for any advice, personal experiences, or suggestions you can provide. Your valuable insights will play a significant role in shaping this crucial decision for my family's future.
Thank you all for taking the time to read and respond to my post. Your support means a lot to me and will help me make an informed choice.
Warm regards, You don't have to go to Canada via study route. Like someone advised, learn French aggressively for one year. I mean learn it like your whole life depends on it. Attend french classes, listen to French people talk, speak French and become very comfortable with it. Depending on how much progress you have made studying, you can go to Togo or other francophone countries for 2 months for language immersion. Then write TCF canada or TEF Canada. You will spend money learning This was what I did. I didn't go to Togo though. This way, you can preserve your 20million and use it for proof of funds when you get invited to apply for Canada PR. Join the Canada TEF thread and the express entry thread in travel section. If you are considering this route: 1. Find out if you are eligible for FSW on Canada dot ca using good ielts score plus B2 french. If you have a masters already, that will be a plus. 2. If you are eligible, apply for credential evaluation with WES Canada. 3. Start your French journey and while at it, write ielts general. 4. With your language scores and WES report, create an express entry profile. When you get invited, apply for PR. Not an easy route but it's doable. |
Romance › Re: Married But In Love With Someone Else by ayandee: 2:18pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
JayDaily2: You allowed your wife to use contraceptives, that may be the roots and the cause of most of her problems, women should avoid contraceptives, It's balances hormones and pollutes the mindset of a woman therein causing unnecessary behavioral switches.
The brain of a woman is naturally unstable, When she adds contraceptives to that, expect drama. true. That thing distorts one's mood. |
Travel › Re: Ojodu LCDA, Ikeja Donates Buses For The Ease Of Movement For Residents by ayandee: 9:26pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
DeLaRue: It can't all be about buses or public transport.
The number of Nigerians who take public transport daily is less than those who do not.
To the latter group, and particularly if you live in a rural area, N8,000 every month for 6months will go some way. If the govt increases the amount, that's even better. Tge biggest problem with distributing money is how to get it to the people who need it. I just can't see how it will happen.
But generally, Nigeria is not only about people who have the loudest voice on social media. A government has to look at solutions that work best across all sections of society I agree. Distribution is not an issue if the political will is tthere.During elections, politicians and their party members go to interior communities to get votes . They should apply the same effort in distributing palliatives. |
Travel › Re: Where Can I Legally Relocate To In 6 Months Time? by ayandee: 4:21pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Leandah: Hello Nairalanders,
Please I need people with first hand experience to advice me on the best country that I can legally relocate to in the next 6 months with my son (Not UK pls). I was planning towards December 2024 initially but the situation of things in the country currently has made it become a thing of urgency, before the small savings I have is totally wiped off with forex and inflation rates.
Apply for Canada study visa so you can start studies in January. There is a Canada study thread in the travel section. Canada is English speaking. Depending on the funds you have, you can either go first then have your son join you in about 3 to 6months of your arrival.
At the same time, apply for studies in Europe (Sweden, Germany etc). You have to learn the languages for integration.
I would really appreciate suggestions/recommendations.
Thank you. |
Crime › Re: EFCC Arrests Ex-Convict, 54 Others For Alleged Internet Fraud In Oyo by ayandee: 10:35pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
placeofallure: This Tijesunimi is actually a total disgrace to the name he bears. How could you Tijesu and be a criminal mastermind? You are not actually Tijesu, you belong to the devil! Radarada! that name got me too. Only parents who are committed to Christ like pastors, and devoted workers give such names. Only God knows what went wrong. |
Career › Re: With My 450k Salary Am Not Still At Ease. by ayandee: 5:37pm On Jul 08, 2023 |
cremedelacreme: Those saying 450K is more than enough to buy a land and start building do not really understand how expensive things are in Nigeria today. I earn slightly above what the OP mentioned, but believe you me, it's not been easy. If you live in Lagos, Abuja or PH and you are married with kids, you will understand. A 2 bedroom flat in an average neighborhood is over 700K. Cost of fuel and car maintenance is over 60/70K monthly in recent times. School fees for 2/3 children is over 200K per term (600/800K annually). Feeding takes over 100K monthly. Utilities and other miscellaneous dey ooo. Best thing na just to save enough and japa. You have a perfect understanding of the situation on ground. |
Celebrities › Re: Anita Brown Posts The Receipt Of Cash She Received From Davido by ayandee: 12:30am On Jun 29, 2023 |
MarketDispatch: Interesting but why did she publicize his phone number and address in USA, and even his driver's licence details. That's very wrong. She should know better. Identity theft is real. |
Politics › Re: Seyi Tinubu: The First Son - Meets NASS Members by ayandee: 9:23pm On Jun 11, 2023 |
There will be no external cabal in Tinubu's presidency. The family themselves na cabal. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by ayandee: 3:08pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Aurelius1: HND Elect/Electronics Engineering. Quit that job. What dos your wife do? |
Family › Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by ayandee: 2:41pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
Ismael97: I've never been loved because I don't know what love means at all. I was a posthumous child. Lost my dad when my mum was pregnant. Shortly after birth, I lost my mum. I have no siblings. I lived with relatives who maltreated me so much that I thought they even had issues with my late parents cos I have never seen such dehumanizing treatment before except only in movies. Up till now, I hate people due to the psychological impact of the maltreatment I got from the people I lived with. I like been alone most times because I trust nobody, I can't confide in people because I feel nobody got my back. I was so determined to at least get education for myself and today I am glad I did. However I am still struggling So sorry about what you went through. It really must have been tough. I know it's hard to do but you can start by reaching out to others around you and showing love to them. You need to heal. |
Crime › Re: I Was Offered ₦71M To Withdraw The Case - Timothy Adegoke's Wife by ayandee: 9:45pm On Jun 05, 2023 |
omoiyalayi: I hope d people tha advice you not to collect the money will be around you till your old age for financial support
Money wey u for collect
Killing the man will not bring the dead back to life
I hope the judge award huge sum of money to you in addition with sentencing the man if not wetin u gain ?? Now, she can bring a civil suit against the estate of Adedoyin and get money. She can sue them for millions and even establish a foundation in memory of her husband. |
Crime › Re: Adegoke's Murder: Hotel Receptionist, Adesola Sentenced To 2yrs Imprisonment by ayandee: 2:37pm On May 31, 2023 |
I am sure she got a lighter sentence on account of plea bargaining. She must have provided the missing links which made the conviction of the main suspect possible. |
Crime › Re: Court Sentences Rahmon Adedoyin To Death By Hanging Over Adegoke's Murder by ayandee: 3:00pm On May 30, 2023 |
Christistruth03: I hear say na him late brother be the degrees holder Na him dey use am pose No wonder. Abalajo! |
Crime › Re: Court Sentences Rahmon Adedoyin To Death By Hanging Over Adegoke's Murder by ayandee: 2:45pm On May 30, 2023 |
DOptical: If found culpable, that's good for him. Also, The herbalist shouldn't be let be. They should be hanged! All those useless herbalist or Alfa doing black magic or whatever shouldn't be allowed to live!
My grandmother talked about the old days.. Herbalist were all about healing herbs back then.. No black magic whatsoever and there was no problem walking around in the dead of the night.. And one wonders why a PhD holder and university founder like Adedoyin would be involved in ritual practices to the extent of killing a human. His education did nothing to refine him. What sort of education did he get? Baffles me. |
Education › Re: 11,350 Teachers Write Professional Exams As Lagos Leads by ayandee: 12:40pm On May 22, 2023 |
marlow1962: Being a civil servant in Nigeria is the quickest way to sell yourself into slavery. It depends on the level of government you work with. Federal Civil servants have a lot of leverage. They have a lot of time on their hands for business, their salaries are paid on time and they belong to good cooperative societies where they can get loans at very minimal interest rates for business. |
Investment › Re: FCMB Founder, Subomi Balogun Is Dead by ayandee: 3:34pm On May 19, 2023 |
He was a philanthropist, a compassionate man. |
Romance › Re: I've Courted My Fiancee For 5yrs And I Never Touched Her Hand- Nigerian Man by ayandee: 5:07pm On May 10, 2023 |
Waywardson6: See as the fiancee WooWoooo die. Of course, you won't be tempted to touch her na. That's why truly, marry person wey fine, so that even when you're angry, the sight of them will make you happy. I don't just get, fiance WoWo, fiance come WoooootooooWoooo. Hypocrites. From their faces, we already know their political party. That woman is beautiful. Look at her closely. She's a black beauty |
Car Talk › Re: Help! My Car Is Always At The Mechanic by ayandee: 12:43pm On May 07, 2023 |
Labragadaya: I bought a 2002 Toyota Camry as my first car in October and for the first 2-3 months the car performed pretty well.
However lately, from January it has been one problem to the other.
From overheating to coil problem to spark plug problem and others.
The recent issue with the car is that the car doesn’t hold slow anymore.
That is the car goes off at slow speeds. I’ve changed coil, changed spark plug, ringed engine twice all to no avail.
This has caused a huge hole in my pocket as I’ve even had to borrow to pay for some of these repairs.
Just yesterday in a bid to resolve this issue, I took the car to another mechanic and he told me my engine block had washed and that even if he grinded the valve the holding slow issue won’t stop. I inquired about the cost of replacing the block and purchase alone was close to a 100 thousand. I’m just tired and frustrated, I need advise, do I sell the car or do I repair this?
Is this mechanic trying to extort me. Experience car users please advise That car is 21 years old already. Just sell it. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Are People Only Coming To Church For Welfare Mostly? by ayandee: 12:28pm On May 07, 2023 |
Omooba77: I discovered any Sunday we have welfare Sundays, especially food, medical, the attendances always soar, but not so or normal Sunday. Happy Sunday........ Welfare is one of the reasons for which the church was created. Deacons were even appointed in the early church for that purpose. The Bible says they had things in common and no one lacked. Church must do welfare. I attended a church in South Africa where they had a kitchen pantry full of items- milk, eggs, fruits, snacks, rice and veggies. Members in need will go in there and pick whatever they wanted. The pantry was usually filled up on Saturday ahead of Sunday service. There's so much hardship in Nigeria and no social safety net, so it's OK if people come to church for welfare. I urge Christians to join the welfare team in their churches and donate whatever they can afford to improve church's welfare funds. |
Travel › Re: Nigerians, What Is It Like To Live In Canada In Winter? by ayandee: 3:40am On May 07, 2023 |
13sense: Nigerians, How do you feel in Canada winter? What is it like?
Please, write or share your experience.
Thanks I live in Manitoba. The truth is from December to mid-April, the cold is brutal, I mean the type that can make you lose your fingers and toes if you stay too long in it without proper clothing. Invest in good jackets, thermal wears, mittens, warm socks etc. Ontario, British Columbia and some other provinces aren't as cold. |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage To Perform At King Charles III Coronation by ayandee: 8:03pm On May 01, 2023 |
Jemex003: Safe journey and great performance our dearest sister. But don't let them deport you like our Obiscam deport ke? Tiwa is British citizen |
Education › Re: Crying Is Permitted — Lecturer Tells Students Sitting For Their Examination by ayandee: 1:04am On Apr 29, 2023 |
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Career › Re: I Am Approaching 40 And Am Scared My Dreams Are Not Realistic by ayandee: 5:45pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
otipoju: Look for Scholarships and tuition free schools in Europe.
You don't plan travel with disposable income. You make it a priority and do it in stages.
You have too many conflicting goals. Choose one and focus on it. hmmm. This is so true about traveling. |
Career › Re: I Am Approaching 40 And Am Scared My Dreams Are Not Realistic by ayandee: 5:30pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
Zeewirld: Seeing a lot of persons advicing him not to give birth again. While some were asking why he decided to get marry early. I believe that children are blessings.
Most seems to forget that not marrying early doesn't means that the funds would have been expended on anything productive.
The young man is confused, scared and most likely facing mid-life crises.
I would encourage you to perish the thoughts of comparing yourself with your mates.
In addition,I would advise you peruse DEEPLY the messages/posts on this your page made by the following persons: @spiralwedge ;@VCMoneyInsights;@Davidsol;@hollamie;@ayandee;@Oluwomonext212;@Lionize and finally read the post by @obaidan.
Wishing you all the best. You are right. While it is important to be stable before marriage, financial stability is not a determinant. My husband and I got married when we didn't even know what exactly we wanted to do. We just enjoyed each other's company and wanted to be together. In our first 2 weeks after marriage, we both slept on a blanket, no mattress because we had spent all our savings on getting a room and parlor. Then, Lagos landlords were asking for 2 years upfront rent plus agreement and commission. We struggled to pay it. Family helped with the wedding (you know yoruba families and weddings). He was working a 28k job, then had a 60k job then lost that job and had no job. But one thing we did was to continue to develop our selves. He had HND then started BSC about the time we got married and at some point we had to make a decision between renewing our rent with the severance cheque from his last job and paying his university tuition fees. Our child was one year at that time. Guess what? We paid his school fees with that money. God saw our heart and gave me a federal job without any connection and we paid the rent. He got an IT job and started earning way more than me. Long story short, we are in Canada and sometimes we used to laugh over those times. * Warning: You can only do this with someone with whom you share the same values. I repeat values are important. |
Career › Re: I Am Approaching 40 And Am Scared My Dreams Are Not Realistic by ayandee: 2:03pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
greatopec: Good day Nairalanders I will be 40 on Oct 19 this year and I am scared the kind of life I have always desired may not be achievable. Let me list these things that worries me so that you can probably advise me or assist me in achieving any of them. 1) By 40 I had wished I will be living in my house with cars in my garage Current situation- I am a salary earner who eagerly waits for the salary to drop before my family can eat conveniently every month. 2)I love cars and driving. Was thinking of getting a good car for Uber business. Current situation- I have not been able to gather enough money to buy a car for Uber or personal use. 3)Seeking greener pasture abroad. Current situation- I have not been able to have enough disposable income to even get a passport to start with in the first place. 4)Self development. I had interest in programming so I decided to learn coding and all that. I started with free code camp and also this thread by iyenimofe on nairaland has been so helpful https://www.nairaland.com/1383359/learn-web-design-live-nairaland/6#17571611 The issue I have progressing is that of enough data subscription to watch more tutorials. 5)Acquisition of at least Masters. I have a passion for learning and self development but I struggled to have my HND with distinction. Gathering enough funds to start my masters program has been an uphill task.
Little about my background I am an HND graduate I have a sister who am responsible for also. I have a wife and two kids. I work 8-5weekdays I am glad you came to this realization. Not too late. Your wife has a lot of potential as NCE holder. Get a small space in a building around your area and let her start a creche/pre-school. She may need to do a short training course in montessori education usually, one month and design a programme that will help children of age 6months to 4 years. I don't know how this will work with her egg business but I would have loved she combines the two. If she shows dedication and genuine interest in early childhood he education she can transition into a school later on. Banks support school owners who have potential for growth. I have seen people do this and now they even have secondary schools. Programming is good. You need to push yourself hard enough to create time for it. It's rewarding if you have the skills. |
Education › Re: LASU Bread: Lagos State University Launches LASU Bread Bakery by ayandee: 10:34pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Zonefree: Stop patronising mediocrity. University in 21st century producing bread to generate funds is a big low. It's a university for crying out loud! They should go into inventories like Biogas waste management and collaborate with government if they truly want to generate funds. Producing ordinary bread that our dearest daughter Ahnie can produce inside her 2 by 2 kitchen is laughable. Good point. Our universities need to connect with industries, identify their needs and challenges and proffer solutions. Industries can fund those researches. |
Politics › Re: Ekweremadu Accused Of Using Stranger To Save Family Members From Transplant Risk by ayandee: 3:33pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
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