₦airaland Forum

amiibaby:
Drunk or not u abandoned him for crying out loud

That isn't a crime.

Margy:
Sense of dressing...zero
Skills...excellent
Wife & kids....beautiful
Money & fame.. yes
My ideal man...NO!

Oya haters!...i dey wait

Who is the hater if not you? Talking down a sporting legend who doesn't even know you exist.

zulex880:
He's the Mandela of your pussy, He paved the way for others and ever since then you have being enjoying it

She was raped at the age of 11. If you cannot be sensitive to that then why comment at all. And if you support that then may the same thing happen to your daughter.

Muslims should break away and form their own country if they cannot accept and live peacefully in Nigeria as it is.

mmilinaliugwu:
Greetings fellow nairalanders,
A relation is presently battling with skin discolouration which i was made to understand is vitiligo.
I need advice on how to assist the young girl because she is presently depressed owing to this strange illness.
I will appreciate any advice on how to stop the spread or totally cure it if possible.
Thank you.

There is currently no cure for vitiligo. You should take her to see a dermatologist to see if she may benefit from some experimental treatments though.

PrecisionFx:
An earning is an earning, An income. is an income.


In developed nations every earning or income is taxed.

That is not true at all. In pretty much every country in the world non-profits and religious organizations are never taxed. The personal income of the people that work there can be taxed but the organization itself is exempt from taxes.

hopefulLandlord:
cuz they're making profit?

Non-profit organizations are allowed to make profit. The legal issue is that making profit is not their main purpose of existence. They survive on voluntary donations made in exchange for nothing.
They also provide a useful public service which complements the work of the government. That is why they are exempt from paying taxes.

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

You are 39 years old. Your options of conceiving now were already slim, consider it a miracle that you even got pregnant. If you lose this one you might not get another. As for the boyfriend you'd better forget about him. He doesn't care about you.

closerange:
Nope, that is Paul with his son and Peters daughter.....

Yeah you're right. I see the dreads now.

That's a picture of Peter with his kids not Paul.

SalamRushdie:
If what ever poor leadership he has delivered in Ekiti will be a thousand times better than this quasi democratic cum communist set up Buhari is running then it should tell you a lot about how disappointed I am in the Buhari govt

We are all disappointed in the Buhari govt. It has fallen woefully short of expectations. But as bad as Buhari is, it is an insult to compare him to Fayose. If you don't think things can get much worse in Nigeria then wait until Fayose becomes president and you will really hate this country.

SalamRushdie:
Funny as it sounds and no matter how unprepared Fayoses style of governance is one thing is certain it will be a thousand times more purposeful than the current corrupt and evil communist set up we are under

What exactly is purposeful about Fayose's governance in Ekiti state? What has he achieved apart from sharing rice and hundred naira notes once in a while?

Bibidear:
Nigeria isnt working anymore

Nigeria has never worked, but breaking up the country is not the answer. There is more to be gained for all of us together than separated.

Arthurwinner:
Well I'm not that super rich but I'm buoyant enough as God may have it...
To be very precise ....
I started dating this lady not too far from now and it have been moving nicely buh, lately i noticed some change in her attitude since she became very sure that I really love her...

For the past month we discussed about marriage and I told her that I'm going to marry her and truly I want to cos it feels like I CAN'T stay without her.....

But the problem is that since then whenever she's around I don't feel like coming back to my house after work cos all she does is to collect money for this or for that and when I try to tell ha that I don't have she always threatening to break up with me, every time I give her money to buy something that is when everything in the market becomes costly, sometimes I look at her and inmy mind I be lik'e "shey Dis gal no know say I sabi d price of all d things she dy lie abwt''
but I keep cool for the sake of peace...

Abeg can you imagine that a brown powder (Zara) she told she bought for 9k I checked it out and its sold for 3k... since night I haven't talked to her but as usual she's packing her bag now....I know in her mind she's waiting for me to beg her or she leave ......

What do I do FAM .....I truly love her

She is a greedy woman. If you say you love her then get ready to spend all your life's earnings on her. And don't complain if she leaves you for a richer guy. Some people sef.

jrerico1:
thanks very much, the doctors report at 2011 is in page 5, please check it

We need more information about her symptoms. What exactly is she complaining of? You said she's bringing blood out of her mouth. When did that start? What else is going on? Somebody might be able to give you professional advice if you provide more details.

Since the days of highlife music Nigeria has been borrowing Ghanaian sounds. No be today.

Penalty82:
1 Corinthians 7:4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband:and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own but the wife.

5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.



During fasting, sex for husband and wife is not allowed.

The very scripture verse you just quoted said that a wife's body belongs to her husband and vice versa. Any denial of sex even during fasting must be by mutual consent. Pls don't let the old King James English confuse you. If the wife does not give her consent the husband has no right to deny her sex, otherwise he is pushing her into temptation.

He is not yet ready to get married. It's either you wait till he's good and ready or you move on to someone else who is ready. Things like these cannot be forced ever.

yasmina85:
My BF and I have been together fo years (6+). We both have good jobs, we're both well in our 30s, I think we love each other (I sure do) and we get along fine.

3 years ago, he wanted me to move in but I said no, not before marriage.
Since then, it's been the status quo. We spend time together either at his place or mine.
When I bring up going to my father he deflects with something like "don't worry, it's coming"; "I'll go when I'm ready, be patient"...

Last year, I got mad and sort of gave him an ultimatum.He said he would but was still draging his feet.
I became bitter, he felt over pressured and we started fighting and arguing for everything.
We eventually broke up and spent almost a year appart. He came back 6 months ago and things are like when we first met

The problem is, I feel like for him, it's a whole new relationship and we have to let it mature like any new RS.
For me, we just took up where we left so we've been dating long enough. He either commit or leave me alone.

I don't want to lose him but I can't do this anymore. I really don't know why he can't bring himself to at least do the door knocking.

Please what can I do ??

attackgat:
Hmmmmmmm

The Igbo nation masively supported an Ijaw man to be president in the last election but an Anambra man wont let an Enugu man be president?

Igbo dont need the presidency of Nigeria, there other things more important than that.

I think the esteemed Rev Fr. Mbaka was talking about what would happen in the hypothetical scenario that Biafra becomes a reality. In-fighting amongst different local interests within the Igbo nation will become much worse than it is now.

Why going after the girl? Maybe she wasn't aware that your husband was married in the first place. Face your husband and leave the girl alone.

honestwife:
Hello house,
I have been been a nairalander for many years and i just need advice because am so devasted. I got married to my husband 7years ago with 3beautiful kids ,a girl and 2 boys

My husband is that perfect men any woman would ever prayer for.i have never suspected him for once not until last year september that i saw some frequent call from a particular no, i decided to take the no and store on my own phone,,i suspected he was cheating but i did nit have any evidence to prove it.

So last month,i activated an automatic call recording on his phone and here i am, all my doubt were confirmed, i decided not to ask him as i laid down my own plans too, i took his phone and scan his whatapp QR code and i deactivated the notification so he wont know. So with this, i was able to veiw all his chat directly from my phone through this chat i saw that the lady was around at his place yesterday morning and i travelled in the eveningbecause we dont live in the same state due to transfer

i took my children to my sisters place and i travelled, looo and behold this lady was wearing only paint and bra in my husbands room although i gave both of them good dirty slap of thier life, and i told her i have details of his guy and that i was going to call and let him know the kind of girl she is

so now to cut the long story short this lady has a fiance which is planning to wed her because i got to her instagram page and facebook page and i saw that she has a very good guy at her hand thus made me sad because i dont know why she would cheat with my husband even after having a good relationship,

my decision is that am planning to call this guy through facebook call and send him all the recording and whatappbchat between her fiance and my husband

i just want to know if am making the right decision

as for my husband , he will meet me at home

pimper24:
A friend of mine was fired this morning after carrying out a duty that ordinary would attract commendation. The company desperately needed a certain registration from a regulatory body which process has lingered long before now and has cost the company so much money without reasonable progress even before he was employed.

He told the MD (AMERICAN) that it could be done if given the opportunity. He was given a go ahead. In less than one week he brought the certificate from the regulatory body.

He was commended and promoted. This is the second week after the promotion.

He saw a termination letter on his table with undisclosed reason. Access to all network and email was blocked. In fact security men were waiting to ease him out. He was given just 30mins to tack his personal items

Tell your friend, next time before he decides to shine at a place of work he needs to have a mentor or godfather. You cannot knowingly or unknowingly be stepping on some toes without having someone to speak up on your behalf.

Billyonaire:
They say it causes cancer, yet the vagina of women do not get infected by the cancer. Ride on boys, continue una mouth work.

Actually HPV is responsible for most cases of cervical cancer. It is transmitted through sexual intercourse.

I agree with Makarfi, just like we saw the level of corruption in PDP govt after 2015. Any Nigerian who votes for either of these two parties again must really hate this country.

DanseMacabre:
I don't know why Okorocha wants to hand over to his son-in-law when he has an eligible son.


Ahamaefula Okorocha for Imo State Governor 2019!!!

Pikin wey just finish university.

Tolexander:
The A to Z of this write up, being backed up by this excerpt quoted, has proven that APC governments have nothing to offer on Education.

PDP governments know the value of Education and relatively trying more than its political counterpart.

This is not an APC vs PDP matter. In 2015, Ondo and Ekiti were both PDP states.

hatchy:
Even those you think will reason with their brains because of their educational background are the ones that will disappoint you since they seem to reason thru their anus.

Ben Ayade has done nothing in Cross River other than appointment of 5000 political aids.

Nigeria is a circus!

Ayade is not Nigeria's problem he is Cross River's problem. After all there are some governors who are working in their states.

Vutseck:
Biafra must come
.

Biafra will never come. Pls wake up and make something of yourself as a Nigerian.

I thought he said she wears pampers. She doesn't look too old to me.

Evaberry:
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Why is mummy adeboye so out of shape

Mrs adeboye you have the money nd time why not start taking care of your body,

sex must be so boring for these pastorpreneurs, with all that weight only missionary will be the accepted style.

it's sad really. Women should learn how to keep fit

You are talking nonsense. The woman is over 70 years old. Most likely by the time you reach her age you will be looking like an amoeba.

IneedSugarMumy1:
Interesting stuff



How many years did it take her to save up to such amount

Only 7 months.

Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?

Will you pay for the DNA tests? It will cost 50k per child.