The south is not united among themselves the way the north is, therefore the north will continue to rule. That's the bottom line. Most southerners hate each other more than the north.

Igbos have never been fully invested in a national political structure. Especially not since after the civil war. In this current political dispensation you need to have a lot of influence at the national level to run for president. There is no South East leader currently who has significant national political influence across the entire country including Peter Obi.

Pearl1212:
Presently anything that will put a big smile on
my face in 3 to 4 years time is what I will enjoy doing oh

My primary goal is to be able to build a successful career that will pay well in future.



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What do you enjoy doing? What are your primary goals for your future?

You are 23. You have HND in statistics with distinction. Do you enjoy statistics? If you really enjoy statistics and you're very good at it then your future goals naturally must involve research work.
There are many international NGOs that will pay good money for someone with excellent statistical analysis skills. So if you enjoy statistics and you're good at it then your goal should be to work with an international NGO in a research capacity.
It is only after you have properly thought about it and reached this level of determination that you can ask should I do PGD in what or BSC in what? Which one will get you to the place you want to go faster? Good luck.

Pearl1212:
I'm confused.
I'm 23years of age, I have HND in statistics (Distinction), done with NYSC program, I want to further my studies but I'm really confused what to do,

1. I don't know whether to opt in for PGD or BSC(Through Direct Entry).

2. I don't know if I should switch course, from statistics to accounting via Direct Entry and I don't know if HND statistics will be accepted into accounting.
Please I seriously need your opinion and advise on it.

What do you enjoy doing? What are your primary goals for your future?

I would have preferred Pat Utomi by far.

Wizzyonyxphoenix:
Happy sunday guys. Please I seriously need your help. I produce way too much urine, especially at night. I practically wake up every 30 minutes to use the restroom. It's too much.

The worst part is that I'm merely EIGHTEEN!!! Please how do I curb this anomaly guys? I dread to think what would happen if i enter UNI and live in the hostel with my fellow guys. They might tag me a criminal, or worse, I might be attacked by one during one of my endless trips to the bathroom.

You guys should help me abeg.

Go to the hospital tomorrow it may be diabetes especially type 1.

Triangles1:
TINUBU all the way not because I like him but the reality remain the same.

Tinubu will not win the APC nomination.

hisexcellency34:
Anybody is better than Buhari

But Buhari is not running again na.

tobenuel:
I thought he said he would still pick Peter Obi?

Before or after he decamped from PDP?

Built2last:


Hmmm. I personally know that Reno has money though.

It's not about money. There is more to it.

A Nigerian political jobber can never have enough money. Get ready for Reno to start singing Buhari's praises very soon.

LagosNissan:
I tried transferring money from my GTB account only to get error messages.

I thought it was network or app issues.

I tried several times from then till next day but same response.

I tried buying airtime but it failed too.

I now contacted the bank and they said account is restricted/frozen; that I should visit a branch.

I called account officer and he confirmed the restrictions but gave no reason for that.

He was just evasive but hinted that restrictions were placed by law enforcement agency. No agency specifically was mentioned.

I tried UBA and Zenith too, similar restrictions yet no reason.

I use the accounts for legit businesses online and have had them since over 14 years, so can't say with certainty what the issue is.

How do I handle this now as going to the banking hall might lead to arrests etc, so I need to be prepared.

I need suggestions please.

Somebody has probably written a petition to report you to EFCC. Go to the EFCC office yourself to verify if there's a case against you. It may also be ICPC if you're a government official.

Augustwife:
I had to open a new moniker so I can rant in peace. My head is full, so it's going to be a long post .

I got married to the love of my life 2017 (we started dating 2009) and we have two wonderful children.
He loves me (I know for sure), doesn't cheat too and my in-laws are the most wonderful people on earth ( my mil especially).

We have a joint business but the bad part :he is addicted to alcohol.

He wasn't like this before we got married, he used to drink occasionally so I can't really tell how we got here.

It's so bad that he can't go a day without it. Once he can't lay his hands on alcohol he will begin to shiver like a malaria patient.

This addiction has gotten us into debts that I had to pay with my savings on several occasions.

I'm talking of debts of 120k, 167k, 136k e.t.c. He's takes several loans from loan sharks , drinks like no tomorrow.

He has wrecked ourbbusiness and only with the help of God was I able to rebuild It by taking loans and paying back.

We even decided he gets a job so he can be more responsible but after working for a year he had nothing to show for it.

Twice his parents had to take him to a therapist but it was all in vain as he would go back to drinking.

My head is scattered,I can't think straight, it's making me hate him. I tried leaving a few weeks ago , I went back to my mother's house but trust my mama, she begged me to go back and my mother in-law too.

I don't even know what to do, my mental life is zero, I have withdrawn from everyone, I'm practically in poverty due to this addiction
He is a wonderful man BUT this addiction is a very big problem. We have prayed, fasted, gone to doctors but it's still there.

I don't know what to do .

Get born again sister. Give your life to Jesus Christ. Study the Bible and pray to God with all your heart. Believe in Him and trust Him completely. Then sit back and watch miracles happen in your life and your husband's life.

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

Thank you

Stop focusing on your wife and focus on yourself. Develop yourself as a person cos if you're happy within yourself then nothing can make you to beat your wife regardless of what she does.

Rastaramsey:


Make una no be do like say no be Nigeria we dy...

Sometimes the way things appear to be is the way things are. Suicides happen. Such is life.

jmoore:
Those still calling them bandits are one of the problems we have in this country.

They are fucking Islamic terrorists!!

Your ignorance is a huge part of the problem. Until people start using their heads to understand what is going on nothing will change.

Ofodirinwa:


The article. We're always looking for a excuse to call someone Nigerian

The article never said she was Nigerian. It clearly said she had a Nigerian father. She is Australian and she's an ignorant bigot. Nobody wants to claim a person like that.

KELVINXY:
Before you consider dating and marrying an African man,
Are you willing to be submissive?, irrespective of your social and financial status.?

What you guy’s call LOVE over there, is what we African men call RESPECT over here.

Just one of the major things to consider,

Good luck out there!

How many African women are submissive these days though? Very few. It's a lost part of the culture.

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

Dump her and move on or you will regret it.

BrutusOj:
Una never see anything. Confused southern politicians with greed wil cry come 2013.

They will time travel into the past and cry ba?

Seredebe:

China, Japan, Hong Kong and Singapore are in asia

Ok. Corrected.

There are no African universities on the list of top 50. Don't make it look like Nigeria is being targeted.

apexmall:


https://punchng.com/new-uk-visa-exempts-nigerian-university-graduates/

There are no African or Asian universities on the list of top 50. Don't make it look like Nigeria is being targeted.

benjamineyoh:
Hello Friends,

I got a job offer from one of the FMCG companies.
It requires me to oversee the reception and distribution of the company's products across an area
covering up 17 local governments.
The pay is 83k gross with 10k lunch allowance monthly.
There is a gold package HMO for me, my spouse and up to 4 children.
There is also monthly allowance of up to 15k for calls and data.
The job comes with annual, casual, sick and maternity/paternity leaves.

There is opportunity for growth.

The cost of survival is considerable as the job offer is one of the south-south states, Akwa Ibom to be precised.
The challenge is that i am scared of moving as i don't have a place to stay in the state and i don't know anyone there.

Do you have a better job offer now? What are you currently doing? Ask the company if they can give you a relocation package since you're moving from another state.

Righteousness2:
When GOD wants to destroy a nation, HE gives them a leader that will suite the Destruction.

Biden was specially selected for this task of bringing about the Collaspe and Destruction of Nomerica the former America.

Transport secretary, abomination!
Press secretary, abomination!
General in army , non binary!

What a Colossal Fall of a Nation built on Godly principles. The Founding Fathers will be shaking their heads wherever they are.

Nomerica aka Mystery Babylon is Fallen!

It is because of people like you that the Bible says, Judge not or you will be judged. In every point whereby you judge others you yourself will be judged. Your own sin of sexual immorality is no better than their own. It is the same to God.

fortz007:
Good evening fam. I believe everyone’s doing okay. Please I’m caught in a dilemma. I have up to 5m and i have two options.
1. Get a high paying fed job
2. Go for msc programme in canada.
I believe everyone’s mature enough here to share their candid opinion.
I’ll be reading the comments. Thank you!

You better start processing Canada and hope for the best. Meanwhile get any kind of job you can do while hustling for Canada.

Threesha:
From DM

Have you asked her before bringing your private matters to a public online forum? If not then you are the problem in your own marriage.

Bonesbreaker:
Did Jonathan not have foot soldier too what happened 2023 election is going to be a shocker to people Peter obi of Nigeria will win

Peter Obi is not running for president. He is running for vice under Atiku again.

Wizzy13:
7th of this month is her birthday, so we went to a photo studio only for her to tell me that she's not gonna do that with me.
I felt bad and i left immediately,
guys pls what is the reason for her action

You are not her main guy. She didn't want you to kobalize her.

NaijaRoyalty:


https://dailypost.ng/2022/05/03/2023-presidency-youre-behaving-like-desperate-yahoo-boy-adeyanju-attacks-osinbajo/

This is nonsense talk. It's not his government. Anyone who has sense knows that in a presidential system of government the vice president has no power, absolutely zero.

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

If sex is all that important to you then leave her alone and find someone else.

Hmmm. RIP to the deceased. May God Almighty grant us the grace to live long enough to fully enjoy the fruits of our labour. In Jesus' name Amen.

Interesting15:




The aim of every seducer/seductress is to lure ignorant folks into immorality. Then they become a prey to the devil, whose major mission is to "steal, kill and destroy" (John 10:10).

Even many centuries before now, immoral individuals have always been aware of the negative potency of lust. They understood the business of planting lust in people's heart through seductive dressings.

Today, there is an obvious increase in immoral dressing. You now see individuals (males and females) boldly appearing half-naked, in clothes exposing parts of their bodies that should be kept private from public eyes. They intentionally wear provocative clothes, and they are now everywhere.

Of course, ignorant folks simply refer to these immoral trends and cultures as "modern fashion". Nevertheless, the wise should know that there is actually a dangerous motive behind the perverted culture of dressing immorally.

Let me explain that there are many persons out there who are directly working for the devil. These persons will appear as ordinary humans, living with us, but they are actually witches and wizards, possessed with demonic spirits, belonging to the evil marine kingdom. They appear innocent and harmless, and they appear sweetly. But they are evil. Inwardly, they are dark and dangerous. They intentionally draw people away with lust through the way they dress, then it becomes easy for their preys to fall into sexual sins (which then gives their master the devil a chance to ruthlessly plunder such a life).

There are some others who are indirectly working for the devil. These ones are simply living a lifestyle that is being utilised by the devil. Their lifestyle is unknowingly influenced by demons to sow the seed of lust in the hearts of people via their seductive dressings.

So, when you see people who dress seductively, they fall into any of the above categories, and the motive is to sow seeds of lust into the hearts of unsuspecting people. These seeds will start growing in different forms, until you find yourself indulging in immoral activities.

Therefore, to avoid falling into the trap you must be wise. You can get the right wisdom from God, through a relationship with Jesus Christ. Hence, you must first make Jesus your LORD and SAVIOR. Simply call upon His Name wherever you are, and He will come into your life.

Wisdom demands that you should be wary of people who dress seductively and immorally. Be wary of movies, websites, books and magazines where you consistently see people that are badly dressed. The lust they deposit in your heart can ruin you after some time. Hence, always partner with the Holy Spirit (through prayers, studying the Bible, fasting, etc) to cleanse your heart daily and uproot any seed of lust deposited into your heart.


Always remember that in a badly corrupt society like ours, it is possible to live in perfect holiness and purity. But only the Holy Spirit can help you, and the help can come when you submit to the Lordship of Jesus Christ. The LORD already gave us the key to victory:

"Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh" (Galatians 5:16)

You are destined to have an eternal righteous relationship with God, through Jesus Christ. This is what empowers you to live above sin and satan and self. God bless you

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2022/04/dressing-seductively-to-deposit-lust-in.html

Another person's dressing cannot deposit in the heart what is not already there. Let us hold ourselves alone responsible for what is in our hearts and not others. God will help us.

Dalil8:


They don't need to accept Ukraine into NATO to maintain their presence there.

Before Putin invaded Ukraine which presence of NATO did you see there? Which weapons? Which missiles? Did Putin not shoot himself in the shoot by invading over nothing and forcing the western countries to act in Ukraine's defense? All the money and weapons that Obama denied them when Putin annexed Crimea Biden is now supplying to them in abundance. But your Putin fanboy mentality won't allow you to see that the man is slowly losing it. He's definitely gone mental and he's only going to hurt himself and his country. Even China can see it and they're keeping their distance from him. I give Putin one more year and he's toast.