Lizlee:


Who created the devil? Did the creator of the devil know that his creation will be bad?

Sin created the devil.

There is no excuse for commiting fraud, no excuse whatsoever. It is better to be a beggar than to be a fraudster, there is more honour in that.

If you don't have Jesus in your life then you are already dead.

akoniyong:
Good Day Nairalanders..

Pictures below is my 3 Month old female Caucasian. her energy level is very very weak,. at times, when she's even walking, she fall. she cant even jump out of the cage by herself without falling. she likes doing most of her play lying down. how can i correct this please. to even walk with her on chains, its a no no for her. any recommendations please.

see her picture and short video below.

Why not just take her to a vet? It may be hip and joint issues preventing her from being able to stand or walk.

And who plundered the resources after October 1st 1960? No be una dem dem?

richidinho:
PDP will not accept FFK back to our party after 2023 elections

He is not to be trusted

Ask yourself this question. Which politician in Nigeria is to be trusted?

Modernizer:
I won't bore you all with a long write up.

I'm ready to settle down, actually I needed to settle down like yesterday. Problem is, I don't make friends easily and hooking up is even tougher. I don't trust easily.

So I'm talking with this girl that checks all my boxes ( quite a rare feat for my high expectations), but for one thing...she is evidently a choleric. I know because I'm one myself.

The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it away.

Now I know cholerics are advised to get their opposites say phlegmatic for relationship purposes, but I want to ask the house: can I a hot tempered man cope with a hot tempered woman?
Any people with experience on this here?
Can both of us with low empathy really be compatible?

The adverse statistics coming out of marriage these days scares the sh..t out of me. I don't want any of it.

Should I drop this girl? Or can it work?

Sorry oo...it may sound small but that's my own challenge.

Cc newbornmacho, Ahnie, kestolove

You have to search your own heart for the answers you are seeking because you know yourself and your fiancee better than anybody else. The only thing I will tell you is this, remember a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Search your heart and make your final decision. All the best.

Halo22:
In an establishment where I work, I happened to be one of the unmarried dude and as such, most of the unmarried ladies always rally around me probably with the hope of gaining my proposal for marriage.

Actually I am a very focused person, though I compromise especially when a lady feels I am snubbing her when she comes close, I like giving them that sense of belonging. There's this particular lady that always like going with me after work, as in she can't go without moving out of the work premises with me. I have tried everything I could to make her let me be, but she is an adamant type.

In addition to that, she started picking up quarrels with any lady that comes close to me....as in I don't understand. When I asked her why such attitude, she said she doesn't want other ladies to make me lose focus on my job. Well, all these were happening but I never knew my MD has been observing her moves towards me as she is also a lady, though married with just a kid.

After our meeting early this week, she called me and said "hey....Smart(not real name though), I would want to have a brief meeting with you in my office. You know when u were invited for such meeting after the general meeting, your mind would scatter into thoughts. After some minutes, I then visited her office and lo and behold, I saw that same lady colleague of mine in there.

Hmmmm, I knew something was cooking, but then I gathered courage and sat down. Let me not bore you guys with long story, she just told us that our relationship in the company was becoming so distracting and as such, we should try to adjust or face sanction. She told me it was for the regard she had for me if not she would have taken drastic conclusion on us.

I tried defending myself, but she didn't want to listen further. As for my colleague, she didn't even allow her to utter a word. Like I said earlier, I have never opened up to the lady on relationship let alone to have dated her, she is just being desperate and it's offending my MD.


Please I need mature advice on how to handle this situation, cos the lady in question is not ready to withdraw her advances towards me.

If you cannot handle this matter especially after what your MD has told you, then the message you are sending is that you are not yet emotionally mature enough for your job. You may have to lose your job before you learn what to do.
Simple tip. Call her and tell her what the MD told you in confidence. Na she herself go dey avoid you from henceforth.

richmond500:
Reno will never join, it is easier for Wike to join

Once Jonathan join Reno go follow.

SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless ..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

You must be born again. Only Jesus Christ can save you so give your life to Him and make Him the Lord and Saviour of your soul. God bless you.

isaacology3000:
I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.

Are you cheating on her with another woman? Are you watching porn? Are you doing masturbation? These are some of the things that may be responsible. Once you're getting your sexual satisfaction through another means then your wife will not be as sexually attractive to you anymore. If it's not these things then maybe she has changed too much either in her physical appearance or in her attitude. Talk to her about it and pray about it. God bless.

CBDC:
Please I need your fervent, prayers help and suggestions.

I am battling with weak errection and low sperm. My sperm is not thick and the color is very different from what sperm color should be.

Please what drugs or treatment can you suggest. Please help a bro.

Go and see a doctor please. The treatment will depend on the cause and you need to see a qualified doctor to determine the cause. Good luck.

Demigod22:
I was my grandma's favorite child before her death last year. Since her death I am the only one seeing her in my dream. She always visit with gifts and bunch of money and always advising me to be strong.

Since her death I don't go to her house again, last time she visited me in my dream complaining how I don't visit her house again, she said she came to stay with me in school, after her death, with multiple dreams of her giving me money, to some extent I started having small pocket money in school.

Last time I dreamt, I was frying sweet potatoes and she came to give me money. Sometimes, in my dream, she will call me to her room and gave me bunch of money to count, immediately I finished counting the money, she will smile and disappear before I return the money to her. She is always coming to give me money and gifts in one way or the other, she is always complaining that because she died that is why I am hungry that I shouldn't worry.

In the whole family, I am the only one seeing her in my dream since her death, sometimes I get really scared. Can grandma love her grandchild even till death? Can anyone explain these things happening to me? Could it be spiritual love? Please I need explanation.

Give your life to Jesus Christ and become born again. That is the first thing you must do. Go on your knees right now and say Lord Jesus Christ I give my life to you. Please forgive me of all my sins and take full control of my life and destiny.
The Bible says it is appointed unto man to die once and after that judgment. Appearances of dead people in the dream is demonic manipulation and deception. Probably it's a familiar spirit seeking to transfer. Once you are born again look for a Bible believing church to attend and discuss with the elders there about deliverance ministration. God be with you.

SenatePresdo:
I'm not even surprised.

Many married Women cheats, and most have cheated at least once.

For the fact that his wife cheated on National TV, and he's Defending her shows the kind of couple they are.

He's that kind of Hubby that would make his wife sleep with their landlord just to clear their house rent.

If he's not bothered, why should we be.
Na person wey get shoe know where e dey pain am for leg.

He's not defending her abeg. He's saying he wronged her first.

Abbey117:
There is this lady who recently joined our organization. She caught my attention but I wanted to take things slow. Later I got to know that my other colleague at work had already spoken to this lady and they had been having serious romance. I had to cut off every affections though the lady in question and I later became best friends.

Fast forward to the present day, they broke up and the babe had been trying to gather herself. I cunningly asked her if she could work things out with the guy but she bluntly said no.

The issue here now is that I've been developing serious affection for her again though during our chats before their breakup I had told her I developed feelings for her but my other colleague was faster than I in approaching her of which she said I should have told her about it.

This lady ticks every boxes I want in a woman.

Kindly advice me...

If you go for her be ready to lose your friend. If you're not concerned about that your friendship no wahala.

Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

Pls moderators help push this to front page for more views and replies.

You have gone mad. My advice is stop going to the shop for a while until your madness has subsided then maybe you can return to work after that. If you don't do that then the madness will only keep getting worse.

Kobojunkie:
Open thay book again so you are sure of what you are saying. Jesus Christ said it to all those who will follow Him. Those two parables were given to all those who want to see Heaven.... you have loose it all in order to enter into Heaven.

All of His disciples did it, and the same is expected of everyone who even imagines following Jesus Christ all the way into Heaven.

You don't know what you're talking about. Joseph of Arimathea was one of the disciples of Jesus and he was a very rich man. It was he who lent his own prepared tomb for Jesus to be laid in until His resurrection. Both the poor and the rich have always been part of the Christian Church from the very beginning.

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ taught that you sell everything you have, and give it all away to the poor if you want to become worthy of Him as His follower - Mattthew 13 vs 44 - 46. So while restitution is common sense if there are those who you have stolen from or owe, it is not really what will qualify you for becoming a follower of Jesus Christ. Instead doing instead that which Jesus Christ Hismelf taught wil.

He said that to only one person in the Bible not to everyone He met. So it's a very specific instruction for one man not for all.

prettypraise:
Many churches don't preach restitution deeply. But before I continue, restitution is making right your wrong, mostly to humans you offended. After we have repented of our sins, if we see those whom we offended, defrauded, we can go and make peace with them.

If you stole from a neighbour or defrauded someone, should you apologize to them after repentance or should you just accept Jesus and move on without confessing it to them? If a wife or husband has been committing adultery, if they repent, is there any need to tell their partners?

Restitution is a hard-saying, so tell us your view about it.

Is it in the Bible as a requirement? The only example I can recall from the Bible is Zacchaeus who offered to do it willingly. If it's not a biblical teaching or requirement then there's no need to turn it into a doctrine.
What Jesus always said was "Go and sin no more." He never ever referred to the past again.

BadRadio:
Is there a perfect approach to end a relationship without hurting a partner?

Maybe the relationship gets too boring often or perhaps u both are not compatible in anyway or perhaps u both want desame thing but in different ways and style.

Maybe u care about this person but u dont want to hurt their feeling and you know it is best that u both parted ways.

How do u go about it?

There is no way to end a relationship without hurting your partner unless they also want to end the relationship at the same time. The only way to end a relationship is to do it with your chest. If you are sure you must go then go and don't look back. All the best.

majamajic:


So 4square rotates GO
That's nice

Foursquare is not a one man church. The GO is limited to a maximum of two terms of five years. After that another GO is elected by the church.

I knew him he was a good man. Rest in peace sir. You have run your race and finished your course. May the good Lord grant you eternal rest in His bosom.

alexvic12:


Look at the original post that the OP made, he mentioned that the super cop sent 'his account number'.
That's why I said what I said.

Fair enough. Much of the evidence the FBI has against Kyari is already available online and it appears they have also issued a warrant for his arrest. These guys don't go to such an extent unless they have very solid evidence.

alexvic12:
I have just one question:

Will the super cop, a well-trained officer who is vast in police operations and knows the SOP for investigating criminal matters, go on to use his bank account to receive money from a fraudster?

The matter is confusing! There should be a clean investigation abeg.

They never said it was his bank account though. They only said he sent a bank account for money transfer. It may have been the account of a co-conspirator.

Hmmm. Now his friendship with Obi Cubana really makes sense.

mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

If after seeing all these clear signs you go ahead to marry her then I assure you that you will only have yourself to blame. May God help you.

zyphr:
I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend since September 2019. I intend to marry her.
The problem is that, I don't desire her sexually. Any intimate touch from her feels like the touch from a blood sister. Very uncomfortable.
She is a strict Christian with a policy of no premarital sex. So we have never had sex except for occasional kissing and romance which I sometimes initiate.
However, since January this year, I lost sexual attraction towards her and I avoid even simple touches. In fact, last Sunday we were walking down the street and when she placed her arms round my shoulder, I stylishly evaded it. I don't feel like this towards every other woman.

I'm currently not seeing any other lady but I have had sexual flings with two different ladies including an ex.

Question is: Is sexual attraction/desire neccesary for marriage? Is it normal not to feel sexually attracted to your partner? Can this be a basis for break up as I fear it might persist in marriage and make me cheat on her.

If you're not sexually attracted to her now then let her go because it will only get worse in marriage. God is against premarital sex and extramarital affairs. A word is enough for the wise.

Golden147:
Good afternoon everyone..
Please I'm kindly in need of advice... ignore my typing ERROR..
There's this girl I love and I want to settle down with her. She's still in school while I'm still in school too. She's 22 while I'm 24 nd also in final YR and we both love each other..my mum has supported me to marry her.
I proposed to her and she said yes...I plan going her house next month next to start official martial rites but I'm afraid.
Here is my reasons

She's the only girl and the last daughter in a family of 5boys. Ever since we started dating, she's in 100l then, all her school burdens are on me..I take care of her and mine own...with this people around who knows about our RELATIONSHIP ask me to marry her to avoid story that touches the heart..which he has accepted , her mum nd dad have accepted it too.
My major concern about this girl is that those his brothers are not willing to do anything, istead the came asking me for small small money when I'm back, knowing fully I'm just dating thier sis....most times the my girl always feel ashamed of her brothers nd keep cursing them. The can't even call her on phone unless she calls them...nd the will keep asking why she didn't call them all this while knowing fully thier sister is in school nd not working.

I have thought about this over and over again, how do I marry from a family that can't even assist in anything...I know marriage is not always Rosy, what if something happens tomorrow nd I needed thier financial support..the can't render to me.
I discussed with my mum nd she told me I'm marrying thier sister who is well trained nd not the brother..that I can decide not to give them money again... But I'm very sad over this.
It's only the father and mum that acknowledge I hay been trying to see their sister through school expenses, including food and wears.
I discussed with my woman, she started crying, saying she knows her brothers are such a disgrace, telling me how she may commite sucide if I didn't marry her... She cried that she can't visits her house again... that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her, all her social media handle is full with my picture, including her profile pictures.

Please what advice do you have for me.... should I let go of this girl, I don't mind letting go all I have already spent...I just want to make sure I won't regret the marriage tomorrow...I have already discussed with my mom nd we plan on going her house officially by August ending..but I'm still very worried.

Matured advice please

At 24 you are still very young. I would advise you to wait a bit and watch carefully how things go.

EzegeNdiigbo:
Let’s start with what the value
of $1000 is in the United
States. Is $1K valuable or
valueless in the US?



Do you know that in the US, some
average people’s monthly rent is
over $1000? We haven’t included
taxes and other monthly fees. Now
in Nigeria, apart from few places in
Lagos and Abuja, I don’t think there is a place in Nigeria where
monthly rent is above $100 for a
bedroom apartment. So you see,
with 50M naira annual income,
you’re a million in Nigeria, but a
poor or rather, an average man in the US, UK, and Canada.



DO YOU AGREE? A Man Who
Earns 50M Naira Annually In
Nigeria Is Considered Poor In UK,
US & Canada? Let’s hear from you.

That's an argument between me and my tight paddy!!!


Drop your comment below.

Can you justify this your analysis? Why does it make sense to you to compare earnings and expenditures in a developing country to earnings and expenditures in a developed country? It makes no sense.

Coldshisha:
They can't revoke his citizenship since he never commited any crime on UK soil.... If it had been in the UK he did all his nonsense with ESN, then his citizenship might get revoked after jailing him

The crimes don't have to be committed on UK soil. Many British citizens who traveled to Syria and Iraq to fight with ISIS were stripped of their citizenship.

NigeriaNawa:


As I said, I don't subscribe to his name calling and insults, I don't even believe he is the right person to lead a Biafra, but the state of Nigeria/Africa is enough to make a normal person go mad. The suffering, war, poverty and injustices are just too much.

True, the situation of things is very bad, but the solution can never be secession.

adaperry25:
I checked a job website and found a company advertising for 2 positions and they fit my job description perfectly. Is it ideal for me to apply in both or select one and apply? Need some guidance

Apply for both there's no rule against it. During the review process they will decide for themselves which one to call you for. Just make sure both jobs have similar qualifications and requirements otherwise you will look like you don't know what you're doing.