₦airaland Forum

czarr:
If as a man you only deal with women who you can only have sex with....then you are still applying low level game, sex is cheap and it is everywhere, you should be more interested in a woman who can contribute financially and open financial doors for you, those are the kind of women you should be dealing with....having sex is no longer a challenge, you should demand more than just sex from a woman.....women who offer only sex are a waste of space.

You have to graduate in game to a point where your diick is a reward for her financial investments in you...that is game!! if you've never had a woman pay the hotel for a room and also beg you to spend time with her(and i am not talking about sugar mummy) then you need to advance in the game and the kind of women you hang with.

Men they carry style beg women money now

Cityboyy:
All these internet love stories. I had no idea people still fall for those things? Must be really lonely to search and fall in love with someone online and want to risk it all to be with them. Falling in love with someone you never met.

It's like you don't know what's happening in the western world, homosexuality is increasing every day thereby leaving western women no choice than to accept African guys.

And the population of women generally outnumber that of men.

Talking about love, hmmm, our first love is usually our only true love, after that we only decide to love or not to...

Adakintroy:
Yes I am patriotic. Is it a bad thing? Even the politicians you mock go their for holidays but they dont live there themselves.


Go and enjoy. But no be the country do you. Na your level of intelligence hold you back. Real intelligence strive in any climate.

In this Nigeria there is dangote and several billionaire. Not all are politicains stealing money.many are just plain business men doing simple stuffs.

Many of you have that slave mentality going for you. You just find justification in the fact that Nigeria has bad goverment.

If I have one million naira. As an intelligent person. I will not use that money to board flight. There are several good business to invest it in there by creating employment and helping the goverment myself.
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But not you guys.your intelligence only kick in as soon as you travelle out. Keep taking intelligence and money to the white man and keep wondering why your own society is backward and his expanding.

You are still a young man without experience in life and development economics.

Nigeria business men are the ones killing the country, the only business idea in their heads is importing finished products into Nigeria.

We Nigerians that can easily and comfortably export Nigeria's Agricultural and Mineral resources.

You can only achieve this if you're a permanent resident or a citizen of the developed countries, you will easily build all the connections you need and export you stuff abroad without any hitches.

Google how much Nigerians abroad remitted to Nigeria in 2019 and 2020 and you will be amazed.

Go and check what Mane, Sallah, Ziyech etc are doing in their home countries from their earnings abroad.

Adakintroy:
Some kind of education are strange to defeat like yours. Wealth changes perspective I understand but is ok. Migration is as old as human right and animals display it to which we also borrow forms of intelligence.

But animals that migrate are mostly prey animals. Not predators. Predators are mostly territorials and would defend territory's to the death. Lions tiger, leopard's name them. What you blacks display s are behavior mostly consistent with migratory prey animals like wildebeest, zeebras or gazelles. Many are lost to crocodile and lions who mantain steady territories all yr round..but they survive due to size of numbers.

Now through those collective achytype of soughts your behavior already shows consistency with prey life. Sorry but am not. Now they are those of you who migrate and are doing well but there are those stock in Spain and life has been a tragic story the only reason they are not coming home is because they can't deal with the shame.

But that's beside the point am trying to make here.

Ants colony take back food to the colony. That's intelligence..having a loyal base and taking back food to develope that base. You made mention of the white man utilising the resource of Africa good. But For his base. Walter Rodney also highlight this on how Europe underdeveloped Africa. But the difference in how the white think v. How you now think is that you both favour migrations but to what ends. White man had not always been this civilized It's the fact they know to take from one end to develope the other.

How many of you travel With the mind to take wealth from the west and bring to Africa to develope. All you do is go there sit and eat like fools permitt my French..then lambast your country.

The white man drain Africa for his own colony.that's patriotism even if I don't like it.
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Go there and drain their resource and bring home. I will see a man on a mission. Not dumb children just travelling with no clear intent other than pride, hate and other selfish reason.

This is why the white man will remain top for a long time and why the blacks will keep screaming things like white supremacy while the white man struggle to take his knee off their neck.


Talking about light and other things. Am a rugged black man not a pet. If you know anything about predators. You will know they also starve for most of the yr. While they wait for the return of the preys. So am not weak like you.I can live without light Water food or good sanitations and I can still remain like this.mentaining decent argument with you in hope of a better future for my country and land. I respect Nigeria. It's not the best. But it's what I have and like any predatory animal I will defend it to the death.

Mr Patriotic Predator, even your leaders and their families go Abroad and enjoy, FG and State governments borrow money from Abroad every day.

I will go there legally and enjoy my own.

Kaimaonyeana:
LIES FROM THE FREAKING PIT OF HELL. LADIES LISTEN UP, STANDING BY A MAN DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU HIS LOYALTY. IF YOU ARE NOT UP TO THE CALIBRE OF PEOPLE HE NOW HANGS AROUND WITH JUST BE SURE U ARE GOING TO GET DUMPED. THIS HAS HAPPENED TIME AND TIMES AGAIN. EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS A RISK, CHOOSE YOURS WISELY.

Correct, some guys here just don't want to say the truth, the way you reason and choose when you're broke differs from when you're attain financial stability.

Most of the girls that hung around during broke days get dumped are left as babymamas...

TheGoodJoe:
How are you sure Chris Wood did not meet a loyal Queen who stuck with him after the gold digger left? I doubt he does not have a girlfriend before the success came. He just pointed how his girlfriend dumped him after he was left distraught after a disastrous NBA draft night.

If she was a gold digger, she would have been begging him to come back by now, the way I see it, he is the one missing her because he knew the role she played in his life.

TheGoodJoe:
No one is arguing she is a gold digger. Probably went after a guy who promised to make it rain. However, she wanted some NBA money and lost it due to her greed.

The best thing he is going to do, which he will do is not remember her. Look for a loyal Queen and stay close to her.

As for that gold digger, she lost. $41 million in three years. I can't even dream it in naira.

He will never find any loyal queen, he is a millionaire now so he must buy and preserve the loyalty of the next woman now, he must be careful not to get entangled in divorce or else he will loose half is money and keep paying child support.

I still respect the former girlfriend, she was there, any woman that comes into his life now is the real gold digger.

TheGoodJoe:
She wanted NBA money. He now has it. That is what matters. She thought he could not get it. But he was determined to get it.

Women are not stupid, there is no way she held on that long and just leave, probably another NBA star must have been over her to come for him and leave this one.

Life has never being "All or nothing" if this guy knows what is good for him he should go after her and win her back, he will never meet a woman as loyal as her, the fact that she didn't stay till the very end doesn't matter..

TheGoodJoe:
I still disagree. Loyalty is a key part of love. A woman carrying her shoulders will miss out a lot.

If a woman can not honour a man in relationship, she will not honour a man in marriage.

Just as there are men who did not act well to ladies that were loyal to them, there are many men who loved and respected women who showed complete loyalty to them.

Women should focus on getting men who show them respect and dignity and most times it will work out well.

My daughter or sister will not honour any man before marriage, they will pursue their careers and become made women in the society first, then wait for a responsible suitor to seek their hand in marriage.

Go to our universities, polytechnics and FCEs and see how this "stand by him" mentality turned young bright girls in to unmarried housewives, some even share their monies with guys that are yet to know what they want in life, they cook and wash for these guys, take contraceptives and do abortions for these guys, spits...

Any man that wants honour should hutsle and become comfortable, when he is ready to marry he chooses a damsel and court for 6 months to a year, if they are compatible they get married, shikenan...

Molahnelson:
I guess this is coming from a woman right?

Now listen No Man will disdain a loyalty of a woman that stood with him

I'm not a woman but I have two females friends that suffered from "stand by him when he had nothing" syndrome.

Infact they married these guys and were paying the Bills, 10 years down the line these guys became worse than they were, lacked ambition, failed woefully in life.

Men should forget love and hutsle for their money, when you become comfortable just choose a decent damsel and marry, these days the women that stood by broke niggaz even use it as a bragging right? Any little argument she will say it to your face that she stood by you when you had nothing, some will even insist that you buy properties in her name, you will deal with that entitlement mentality from her for the rest of your life.

paulolee:
congrats to him and am happy dt bea left bcoz no oil 4 her head

Do you guys know whether she got someone richer than this guy...

TheGoodJoe:
E-money's wife stood by him when he was broke. Today, he still loves and respects her.

I didn't say women should not stand by broke niggaz, but they should not give him sex or money, neither should they wash his clothes nor cook for him, he should focus on his hutsle.

Have you not heard about countless girls that stood by broke guys and end up being dumped or becoming worthless babymamas, cases like that of E-money is just a few in a million, besides who said it's all the broke guys that will blow.

My advice to women is Zip up, stop having sex and keep your money to your self, don't allow any broke nigga to leach on you in the name of love, Stand by him but don't give him sex or money....

dawnomike:
No woman knows tomorrow

True, no woman nor any human knows tomorrow but I have seen many women that stood by their broke boyfriends but after the guys made it they will start saying:

"Every relationship must not end in marriage"
"I can't marry out of appreciation or pity"
"My parents have to approve our marriage"
"I'm not ready for marriage"

Every body should wise up, women should not allow any guy scam them in the name of love, you can stand by and love him but you should preserve your body and money, no sex no money, just do your love and wait for him to hammer...

This babe sounds like an "AKATA", may be Dangote use her get green card.

2cribz:
Philippine client pay me 10k for transfer work for 2019,men i enjoy them before dem begin wise

Keep shut you dirty criminal, people like you keep misrepresenting innocent and genuine Nigerians.

You fool, and you think you are wise, wise people don't steal, they build a reputation and secure mega contracts.

imran90:
God bless you for your contribution but I will still like if you can enlight me more.

I don't know how you intend to do it but be wary of fake and fraudulent agents.

Portugal doesn't even grant residence to international students that graduated there let alone residence for an African.

SimpDetector:
All women are hoes. They will always cheat on you when the right guy comes along. View and treat them like the hoes that they naturally are and save yourself from stress and problems.

Including your mother and sisters

immunity9ja:
Plz assist I want to have a mental amount of how much I can spend to enter Canada for my study work visa.

Please if you don't have over 20 million Naira forget about Canada study route....

Nicoswit:
Germany no dey give study visa again?

Germany still grants Study Visa but I think Nigeria has over filled it's qouta, and they know that most of the candidates just want to Japa...

NiRfreak:
This post is strictly directed to young guys who have spent between 0-5 years in marriage.

Kindly share your experiences for the bachelors to learn. These are what you should include

1. Your expectations before wedding
2. Your experiences with your significant other after wedding. It could be in any area.
3 Your view about marriage and women before wedding
4. Your current view of marriage/women having experienced btw 0-5 years of marriage.
5. Your advice to bachleors based on your experience.



Thanks for your honest advice. I believe your experiences and advice will go a long way. Thanks.

Hmmmm, where do I start from....

My Expectations
I expected 100% loyalty from my wife, I am willing to pay all the bill as long as she stays loyal.

My Experience
I found out that her elder siblings wanted the same loyalty as me, they wanted to control her but I resisted, she was afraid to defy them probably because she was only 22 years when we got married, but I made sure she understood that she must be 100% loyal to me, 5 years down the line she overcome the fear and she is mine 100%.

My Views Before Marriage
Marriage gives you focus and happiness, Your wife creates a serene and peaceful atmosphere at home all the time.

My Views Post Marriage
Marriage is a blessing if you marry the right one, being a father makes me appreciate my parents more because I'm now parenting, another name for marriage is paying Bills but like I said I don't mind paying it all alone if my wife keep to my standards.
As for my spouse I realised she had a lot of growing up to do, my main likes in a spouse are intact so the love is still flowing, she is not superstitious, she is faithful, loyal, has good manners and can cook very well so I will bear with her short comings while she improves.

Advice to Bachelors
Don't marry a whoore, these days whoores strip and do 3soms, smoke weed and get drunk, they hate the kitchen and are too extravagant.
That decent girl is still your best option, ensure she is well mannered, don't be deceived by people that will tell you that decent girls are worst.
EARN A LIVING as in I can't over emphasize this.
Ensure you have something going on all the time, either a job or business.

Queenslander:
End time family!!

I love what you wrote on your personal text, at all times strict parents are a blessing.

Only useless and careless parents will allow their under age kids to wander the streets anyhow without control.

That narrative that kids from strict homes eventually become more spoilt is just a mere ignorant exaggeration, I'm 37 years now so I can relate well, all the kids from strict homes I knew back then are doing way better than the kids that were given all the freedom.

Note, being strict is different from being wicked.

MoDuPe19201:
You can resign or even choose not to work with the company when you get here but...before you can work for another company, the new company would have to apply for a new work permit for you.

Personally I’d advise you to stay patient with the company that brought you to Poland and let them help you get a residence permit first, before you think about switching

Thanks for affirming my input, please guys we should not cast Poland, we should learn to honor employment contracts, especially with the employer that sponsored you to Poland, I am not in Poland yet but I know much about immigration laws.

Let's make a good impression just as the Indians, Philippines and Pakistanis are doing, they don't try to outsmart the system, they build a reputation in the long run hence they become trusted and can easily bring their siblings and friends to join them legally.

Poland is member of Shengen and European union, let's respect their system, make we no cast there ohhh.

goldincome:
My question is:

After the the agency have gotten the job for you, can you resign and look for a better job by yourself?

If you resign, you will loose your working rights, your new employer will have to process another work permit for you and if the new employer fails you will be deported.

My advice is honor your first employment contract to the latter which is usually for 2 years, ensure that within this period you master polish language then you will easily transit to a better job and a new work permit.

Lightangel65:
And the daughter is now what? It was consexual so blame both of them

Keep shut you animal.
Don't allow your hate for women blind your reasoning, a grown senseless man took advantage and raped an 11 years old girl and you're calling it consensual sex.

Perhaps you are one of those that love sleeping with teenagers, fvcking rapist.

Edusouls:
After creating women Eden was polluted sharply God got heartbroken and sent Adam who was just a victim with eve the master planner away to suffer, unleashed 5 major curses on eve till date, check ur bible well, most of the proceeds from the crimes you mentioned above are mainly spent on women and most of the drive to commit those crimes is still to satisfy the insatiable need of a woman’s body, women are cursed the earlier you know the better..

That means your mother, daughters and sisters are cursed too.

All I want is the Canadian Passport so that I can enjoy all the privileges that come with it.

hashtagged:
I don't see anything wrong with that provided it's consexual I would try to stop them but if they have made up their mind it's out of my hands, besides you won't have made a thread like this if you weren't having feelings for one of your relatives and you are trying to condemn the act to try and tell yourself it isn't true. So which is it pityful soul your sister?, cousin?, aunt? Or is it the gay direction?

It's wrong morally yes I agree but fornication and porn and masturbation is to you cannot paint one and leave the others better condemn all or condemn none and stop being a hypocrite.

By the way if that family member of yours doesn't consent don't go and be a rapist cause it seems you are heading in that direction

You are an animal, please if you catch your son fvcking his mother, step aside and give them a round of applause. Ode

Oracleforce:
Not really because those countries citizens value their reputation more than an average Naija citizen.
A lot of Naija can sell their conscience or sell their family properties to keep living in the UK or US .....I'm yet to see any UK that sold his property to Japa come to Nigeria.

I don't understand, a UK or US citizen to japa to naija, for what now, Naija is a shitty third world country, what would they come and do here?

stagger:
Please stop asking these meaningless questions. There is information everywhere.
NO COUNTRY will just give you visa, especially when you have no idea as to how visas are obtained.

Visas are entry permission documents and have to be tied to a purpose.

Non-immigrant (tourist, holiday, visitation, study, medical) only allow you to go to a country for a temporary purpose and then to return to your native country. Trying to work or stay permanently with this visa type is a criminal offence in many if not all countries.

Immigrant (work, investment, business) have to go with a work permit or a business permit and a long-term residency status of some sort, allowing you to stay in that country. Some countries give you indefinite leave to remain if you have stayed for a while. This visa type is difficult to get and there has to be a symbiotic association between you and the country in question. It is either you are working for a company there (which now uses your skills to make money with which to pay taxes to the state), or you are bringing your own money as an investor (usually hundreds of thousands and sometimes millions of dollars, euros or pounds.

So when you ask, which country will give me visa for my family, you have to define what you want to get from the process. There is enough information on this forum for you to have defined this already. Problem is many of you do not want to take the pains to do a thorough online research about this. You will be looking for "visa agents" up and down until you get duped of your hard-earned money.

Spot on.

Most of the guys asking these sort of questions do so intentionally, they want to obtain Visit Visa and overstay thinking that somehow they will later regularize their status, all they want is just entry.
That is why I'm very happy if they get caught and deported.

Go for Benin Republic, use the opportunity to master french language.

RedPanthar:
CR7 is definitely going to run into issues in Juve. It's only a matter of time. E still dey load. I bet Buhari's remaining on it

You wished Cr7 faded when he came to Juve but he is blasting as usual

MoDuPe19201:
Amen. Thanks boss

Sergienko Lawyers, JP Poland, AGS consulting agency.

I’m certain those three I listed are genuine. There are other ones too tho.

Please how about language barrier, do they speak English enough there?