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TheGoodJoe:
I still disagree. Loyalty is a key part of love. A woman carrying her shoulders will miss out a lot.

If a woman can not honour a man in relationship, she will not honour a man in marriage.

Just as there are men who did not act well to ladies that were loyal to them, there are many men who loved and respected women who showed complete loyalty to them.

Women should focus on getting men who show them respect and dignity and most times it will work out well.

My daughter or sister will not honour any man before marriage, they will pursue their careers and become made women in the society first, then wait for a responsible suitor to seek their hand in marriage.

Go to our universities, polytechnics and FCEs and see how this "stand by him" mentality turned young bright girls in to unmarried housewives, some even share their monies with guys that are yet to know what they want in life, they cook and wash for these guys, take contraceptives and do abortions for these guys, spits...

Any man that wants honour should hutsle and become comfortable, when he is ready to marry he chooses a damsel and court for 6 months to a year, if they are compatible they get married, shikenan...

Molahnelson:
I guess this is coming from a woman right?

Now listen No Man will disdain a loyalty of a woman that stood with him

I'm not a woman but I have two females friends that suffered from "stand by him when he had nothing" syndrome.

Infact they married these guys and were paying the Bills, 10 years down the line these guys became worse than they were, lacked ambition, failed woefully in life.

Men should forget love and hutsle for their money, when you become comfortable just choose a decent damsel and marry, these days the women that stood by broke niggaz even use it as a bragging right? Any little argument she will say it to your face that she stood by you when you had nothing, some will even insist that you buy properties in her name, you will deal with that entitlement mentality from her for the rest of your life.

paulolee:
congrats to him and am happy dt bea left bcoz no oil 4 her head

Do you guys know whether she got someone richer than this guy...

TheGoodJoe:
E-money's wife stood by him when he was broke. Today, he still loves and respects her.

I didn't say women should not stand by broke niggaz, but they should not give him sex or money, neither should they wash his clothes nor cook for him, he should focus on his hutsle.

Have you not heard about countless girls that stood by broke guys and end up being dumped or becoming worthless babymamas, cases like that of E-money is just a few in a million, besides who said it's all the broke guys that will blow.

My advice to women is Zip up, stop having sex and keep your money to your self, don't allow any broke nigga to leach on you in the name of love, Stand by him but don't give him sex or money....

dawnomike:
No woman knows tomorrow

True, no woman nor any human knows tomorrow but I have seen many women that stood by their broke boyfriends but after the guys made it they will start saying:

"Every relationship must not end in marriage"
"I can't marry out of appreciation or pity"
"My parents have to approve our marriage"
"I'm not ready for marriage"

Every body should wise up, women should not allow any guy scam them in the name of love, you can stand by and love him but you should preserve your body and money, no sex no money, just do your love and wait for him to hammer...

This babe sounds like an "AKATA", may be Dangote use her get green card.

2cribz:
Philippine client pay me 10k for transfer work for 2019,men i enjoy them before dem begin wise

Keep shut you dirty criminal, people like you keep misrepresenting innocent and genuine Nigerians.

You fool, and you think you are wise, wise people don't steal, they build a reputation and secure mega contracts.

imran90:
God bless you for your contribution but I will still like if you can enlight me more.

I don't know how you intend to do it but be wary of fake and fraudulent agents.

Portugal doesn't even grant residence to international students that graduated there let alone residence for an African.

SimpDetector:
All women are hoes. They will always cheat on you when the right guy comes along. View and treat them like the hoes that they naturally are and save yourself from stress and problems.

Including your mother and sisters

immunity9ja:
Plz assist I want to have a mental amount of how much I can spend to enter Canada for my study work visa.

Please if you don't have over 20 million Naira forget about Canada study route....

Nicoswit:
Germany no dey give study visa again?

Germany still grants Study Visa but I think Nigeria has over filled it's qouta, and they know that most of the candidates just want to Japa...

NiRfreak:
This post is strictly directed to young guys who have spent between 0-5 years in marriage.

Kindly share your experiences for the bachelors to learn. These are what you should include

1. Your expectations before wedding
2. Your experiences with your significant other after wedding. It could be in any area.
3 Your view about marriage and women before wedding
4. Your current view of marriage/women having experienced btw 0-5 years of marriage.
5. Your advice to bachleors based on your experience.



Thanks for your honest advice. I believe your experiences and advice will go a long way. Thanks.

Hmmmm, where do I start from....

My Expectations
I expected 100% loyalty from my wife, I am willing to pay all the bill as long as she stays loyal.

My Experience
I found out that her elder siblings wanted the same loyalty as me, they wanted to control her but I resisted, she was afraid to defy them probably because she was only 22 years when we got married, but I made sure she understood that she must be 100% loyal to me, 5 years down the line she overcome the fear and she is mine 100%.

My Views Before Marriage
Marriage gives you focus and happiness, Your wife creates a serene and peaceful atmosphere at home all the time.

My Views Post Marriage
Marriage is a blessing if you marry the right one, being a father makes me appreciate my parents more because I'm now parenting, another name for marriage is paying Bills but like I said I don't mind paying it all alone if my wife keep to my standards.
As for my spouse I realised she had a lot of growing up to do, my main likes in a spouse are intact so the love is still flowing, she is not superstitious, she is faithful, loyal, has good manners and can cook very well so I will bear with her short comings while she improves.

Advice to Bachelors
Don't marry a whoore, these days whoores strip and do 3soms, smoke weed and get drunk, they hate the kitchen and are too extravagant.
That decent girl is still your best option, ensure she is well mannered, don't be deceived by people that will tell you that decent girls are worst.
EARN A LIVING as in I can't over emphasize this.
Ensure you have something going on all the time, either a job or business.

Queenslander:
End time family!!

I love what you wrote on your personal text, at all times strict parents are a blessing.

Only useless and careless parents will allow their under age kids to wander the streets anyhow without control.

That narrative that kids from strict homes eventually become more spoilt is just a mere ignorant exaggeration, I'm 37 years now so I can relate well, all the kids from strict homes I knew back then are doing way better than the kids that were given all the freedom.

Note, being strict is different from being wicked.

MoDuPe19201:
You can resign or even choose not to work with the company when you get here but...before you can work for another company, the new company would have to apply for a new work permit for you.

Personally I’d advise you to stay patient with the company that brought you to Poland and let them help you get a residence permit first, before you think about switching

Thanks for affirming my input, please guys we should not cast Poland, we should learn to honor employment contracts, especially with the employer that sponsored you to Poland, I am not in Poland yet but I know much about immigration laws.

Let's make a good impression just as the Indians, Philippines and Pakistanis are doing, they don't try to outsmart the system, they build a reputation in the long run hence they become trusted and can easily bring their siblings and friends to join them legally.

Poland is member of Shengen and European union, let's respect their system, make we no cast there ohhh.

goldincome:
My question is:

After the the agency have gotten the job for you, can you resign and look for a better job by yourself?

If you resign, you will loose your working rights, your new employer will have to process another work permit for you and if the new employer fails you will be deported.

My advice is honor your first employment contract to the latter which is usually for 2 years, ensure that within this period you master polish language then you will easily transit to a better job and a new work permit.

Lightangel65:
And the daughter is now what? It was consexual so blame both of them

Keep shut you animal.
Don't allow your hate for women blind your reasoning, a grown senseless man took advantage and raped an 11 years old girl and you're calling it consensual sex.

Perhaps you are one of those that love sleeping with teenagers, fvcking rapist.

Edusouls:
After creating women Eden was polluted sharply God got heartbroken and sent Adam who was just a victim with eve the master planner away to suffer, unleashed 5 major curses on eve till date, check ur bible well, most of the proceeds from the crimes you mentioned above are mainly spent on women and most of the drive to commit those crimes is still to satisfy the insatiable need of a woman’s body, women are cursed the earlier you know the better..

That means your mother, daughters and sisters are cursed too.

All I want is the Canadian Passport so that I can enjoy all the privileges that come with it.

hashtagged:
I don't see anything wrong with that provided it's consexual I would try to stop them but if they have made up their mind it's out of my hands, besides you won't have made a thread like this if you weren't having feelings for one of your relatives and you are trying to condemn the act to try and tell yourself it isn't true. So which is it pityful soul your sister?, cousin?, aunt? Or is it the gay direction?

It's wrong morally yes I agree but fornication and porn and masturbation is to you cannot paint one and leave the others better condemn all or condemn none and stop being a hypocrite.

By the way if that family member of yours doesn't consent don't go and be a rapist cause it seems you are heading in that direction

You are an animal, please if you catch your son fvcking his mother, step aside and give them a round of applause. Ode

Oracleforce:
Not really because those countries citizens value their reputation more than an average Naija citizen.
A lot of Naija can sell their conscience or sell their family properties to keep living in the UK or US .....I'm yet to see any UK that sold his property to Japa come to Nigeria.

I don't understand, a UK or US citizen to japa to naija, for what now, Naija is a shitty third world country, what would they come and do here?

stagger:
Please stop asking these meaningless questions. There is information everywhere.
NO COUNTRY will just give you visa, especially when you have no idea as to how visas are obtained.

Visas are entry permission documents and have to be tied to a purpose.

Non-immigrant (tourist, holiday, visitation, study, medical) only allow you to go to a country for a temporary purpose and then to return to your native country. Trying to work or stay permanently with this visa type is a criminal offence in many if not all countries.

Immigrant (work, investment, business) have to go with a work permit or a business permit and a long-term residency status of some sort, allowing you to stay in that country. Some countries give you indefinite leave to remain if you have stayed for a while. This visa type is difficult to get and there has to be a symbiotic association between you and the country in question. It is either you are working for a company there (which now uses your skills to make money with which to pay taxes to the state), or you are bringing your own money as an investor (usually hundreds of thousands and sometimes millions of dollars, euros or pounds.

So when you ask, which country will give me visa for my family, you have to define what you want to get from the process. There is enough information on this forum for you to have defined this already. Problem is many of you do not want to take the pains to do a thorough online research about this. You will be looking for "visa agents" up and down until you get duped of your hard-earned money.

Spot on.

Most of the guys asking these sort of questions do so intentionally, they want to obtain Visit Visa and overstay thinking that somehow they will later regularize their status, all they want is just entry.
That is why I'm very happy if they get caught and deported.

Go for Benin Republic, use the opportunity to master french language.

RedPanthar:
CR7 is definitely going to run into issues in Juve. It's only a matter of time. E still dey load. I bet Buhari's remaining on it

You wished Cr7 faded when he came to Juve but he is blasting as usual

MoDuPe19201:
Amen. Thanks boss

Sergienko Lawyers, JP Poland, AGS consulting agency.

I’m certain those three I listed are genuine. There are other ones too tho.

Please how about language barrier, do they speak English enough there?

ImDStar:
My bad.

South Cyprus is officially called Republic of Cyprus and it's a member of the European Union, while north Cyprus is a territory under Turkey.

paulolee:
loved the way u concluded but his fans keeps thinking that cr7 can do it alone...always giving him attention and glory when they win and abusing the team and other factors when it doesn't go according to plan..

Even you Messi fans do the same

DesChyko:
1. Lionel Messi (who is behind Ronaldo in UCL though). Which other unselfish player has more career assists than Ronaldo?

Let's discuss this selfish player thing objectively.

No mind them, they just don't have anything against Cr7.

Anytime Messi fans want to console themselves, they will tell you that Cr7 is a selfish player and he doesn't give assists

Meanwhile the stats are there for all to see.

paulolee:
the last time I checked which was last month, lionel messi had 70 more assist than cr7, everyone knows messi have an edge over him in assists na...I dnt understand your argument again o..
if you are talking about UCL assist, jus know its unfair because almost all those players are old timers and they didn't play in the UCL...e.g pele

That's the problem, you guys claim that Cr7 is selfish yet only Messi is ahead of him in terms of Assists in the history of the game.

Just say you prefer Messi to Cr7 period.

Besides Cr7 never had prolific teammates that will convert most of his Assists, over the years Messi has had teammates like Neymar, Suarez, Eto'o, Ronaldinho, Iniesta, Xavi, Villa, Coutinho etc these guys are so clinical in front of goal that they convert assists from Messi.

YungLasaint:
Can one apply for this jobs outside canada?

To be honest Canadian employers are very unwilling to employ people without any working rights in Canada.

The process of employing and sponsoring people from outside Canada is very tedious and could take six months or more for the worker to land in Canada, Canadian employers will rather wait to 2 or 3 months to get a PR or at least an international student already in Canada to fill the position.

Gentleman001:
Kudos sir, I recently developed interest in migrating to abroad of which I have no knowledge on what step to carry. Have tried some agents but It seem like no going area for me.
Please my question is, is the process of traveling something I can do myself, and if yes, is there anything in form of reading/other I can do have basic knowledge about the process?
And can I message you privately?

Thanks in advance for your time

Of course you can migrate abroad all by yourself.
Any country you intend to migrate to have their specific requirements.
The manner in which you intend to migrate matters a lot, you can migrate legally through:

Study pathway.
Skilled worker immigration (Canada).
Marriage pathway.

If you're already married then marriage pathway is out of the question.

For studies, Ireland, Canada, UK, Germany, Netherlands, Sweden all have Post graduate work permit of 2 years, after working for a year or two you start processing permanent residence or even citizenship.

For skilled worker immigration Canada is your best bet, Express Entry.

A lot of information for all these paths, you make your choice and fire on.

Oggg:
U dnt need travel history to get student visa for masters to UK. Just have ur complete money. Even if you have refusals from all the countries, they will take you in the UK because they are lookin for international students to bring in their money to UK now and there is admissible post study visa for 2 years after u graduate.
Check the student thread for more info.
https://www.nairaland.com/5816163/uk-student-visa-tier-4/705

As in ehhh, people don't know how desperate the UK is now for international students, as long as you have money, full tuition plus living expenses, your Visa is sure...

Tospringe:
Alright bro
Thanks for the advise ?
And please what are the benefits of waiting since the result expires after 2years
Sorry for bombarding you with questions

No wahala, what I mean is the moment you collect your WES report, you write your IELTS and your results will be out in 3 weeks then you open your EE profile.