₦airaland Forum

complexBoss12:
Looking at some of the comments above I just shake my head, negativity and hate is eating people up. This guy may have committed a crime, but his crime is not out of bad intentions, to harm people or do evil, he is only trying to survive.

So y'all take a pulse and stop being so judgemental.

You and the morons that liked your comment are the ones making it hard for genuine Nigerians to secure Tourist Visas to developed countries these days...

He should be jailed, fined and subsequently deported.

I stand against illegal immigration of all forms, if you are not skilled or rich enough to process residence permit then sit your azz down in your shit hole

Don't extend your useless Naija mentality to other countries.

The disadvantages of HND is just too much, especially in terms of furthering your education abroad....
Must countries don't accept HND for Masters regardless of how good you are, you have to go for a top up degree then proceed to Masters.

Any HND graduate who wishes to further in Europe, Asia or America should be ready to cough out 20 million naira considering the prevailing exchange rate..

ednut1:
what are you talking about. What concerns pnp with refugee claim

I'm still an EE candidate, I have checked many PR steams for Provinces and they will always exempt Refugees, check very well.

I think the government gives Refugees open work permit in Canada and leave them to process PR by themselves...

ednut1:
once the assylum claim fails you are given a time frame to leave. If you dont leave you become wanted. When nabbed you will be detained and deported. Takes about two years to finalize the assylum claims

Besides it takes a very long time to get PR even if your asylum claims succeeds, most province in Canada don't grant PNP to Refugees...

ednut1:
its not about the money. If you meet the requirements yes. Processing should be 1.5m, account balance like 8m. Read the links. Its all there

Exchange rate is crazy now, 1 CAD is about 330 naira...
Infact get your proof of funds first then WES then IELTS then Tef Canada or CIMA if necessary...

sweetmelanin:
It's ridiculous to judge the "lack of racism and discrimination" in a country based on the current president who will leave office at some point.

Canada has always had very few immigrants living amongst them.. what do you think will happen when citizens start seeing more and more foreigners in their country? ....remember years ago when people used to praise the UK for its hospitality towards immigrants? yeah, until the citizens voted Brexit to the shock of many.. (we all know the Brexit vote was laden in covert racism, people getting fed up of immigrants "taking over" their country).

Remember when America had Obama as president? Well, nobody envisaged the nightmare that would follow shortly after...

Bottom line is, don't get too comfortable.

I don't know why people are over emphasizing racism all the time, the UK and US spent decades accepting legal and illegal immigrants, at some point they must close their boarders, so the covert racism is justified.

The Black entitlement mentality is just out of this world, the funny thing is when Nigggas shoot Nigggas we keep quiet but when whites shoot Nigggas the whole world shouts racism...

Chii59:
That goes to say that the average Nigerian man wants a MAID, not a wife in the sense of the word, PARTNERSHIP, but a subservient, docile, baby maker, who's only good for the kitchen and the other room, but never an equal who's capable of making and taking decisions in the homestead when and where necessary.
What you want is what you get.
Cool.

Of course, our wives are not our equals, we don't need them for any decision making, we provide for them and in return they perform their conjugal and domestic duties.

Full meaning of wife is:
Washing
Ironing
Fvcking
Eating

Steveraw:
Thanks,your advice is deeply appreciated

You're welcome.

Steveraw:
Thanks,when the employer sponsors,would they be a need to go through federal skilled express programs

No, they will go through Canadian Experience Class, they won't need to exit Canada to process their PR after one year of working experience, no proof of funds required only IELTS, it's a gonna be a smooth ride for them only after they have worked legally for one year in Canada...

ednut1:
these things are hard for Nigerians. Unlike Indians and Chinese who have companies they can use. The realistic thing is express entry or their mama find them Canadian wife to marry

Your head correct, Nigerians always think they are smart but we aren't, Chinese and Indians took advantage of the situation many years ago while our people were flexing, now they can easily offer their people jobs and process work permit for them...

Let's be clear about something here, you guys always use stories of illegal immigrants to discourage people from legal immigration, that's Bool Sheet, you can't expect illegal immigrants to live well anywhere in the world.

Legal migrants from Nigeria are making waves all over Europe, UK, America, Canada and Australia in Medicine, Engineering, Sports etc, Some have even turned to politicians Abroad.

We are over 200 million in Nigeria so some of us have to leave, but we must do so legally...

Steveraw:
Thanks,what kind of jobs,or any job would suffice

Any kind of job will do as long as the employers will be willing to sponsor their work permit....

Although School route is cool too but she must have all the money required....

Steveraw:
I failed to mention though,they are now adults,23 and 24 respectively

Now you are talking, there is no way she can sponsor them because they are no longer dependants.

The only viable option for her is to look for a job for them in canada so that their employer will sponsor their work permit, after working for one full year then they can process permanent residence...

ednut1:
before nko. Only canada and Australia is giving people permanent residency for now. Both require ielts. Australia does not want accounting people for now and have raised the points. So only canada

Please what are the chances of a bilingual candidate in EE, my only option in EE now is to learn French and CLB 7 score or more in Tef Canada...

Sammology:
Hanty, how old are you and how old is he

The story is far from complete and it’s doesn’t add up,

If you are in a relationship for 4 years which I doubt, cause in a 4 year relationship you could be communicating with mere looking at each other

Respect is the problem in your relationship not insecurity

As you brought a car without letting him know and telling him that he isn’t married to you, so also you can get pregnant and give birth for another person and tell him that he ain’t married to you. By the way people marry people that have children with other persons.

If the love is there just make sure you find him and reconcile in any way necessary even if he is going out with someone else. Beg him to come back, tell him he has to choose you before another person which means he has no choice other than you,
Forget some people advice here ooo
Some of them cannot keep relationship, some even be their partner some are even serial cheaters
Follow your heart not another person’s idea

This is your happiness we are talking about

Wrong.

Her guy is looking for a slave that will pay all the Bills if they eventually marry, he wants to make her feel guilty and manipulate her, OP please don't ever Beg that useless egocentric guy, never seek any approval from a boyfriend to spend your hard earned money.

He is a loser and he has lost you, just move on

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Firstclass3030:
Even after she mentioned there were both financially buoyant, trust the guy too isn't doing badly.. Sometimes some people read undertone when you speak, it might not be insecurities. Trust me. It will not just be the fact that she bought the car that will make baba ghost.. She said. "I ended the call" and still expected him too call back.. Who does that because "he should know you are hurt". Two wrongs don't make a right., hanging up on him was wrong, he yelling at you wasn't right either.. You waited a whole week for the niqqa too come running.. I like the sincerity in her write up but the guy wasn't totally wrong.

I don't understand you guys, so she should have listened to all the insults? The useless guy is just jealous of her success, if he really wanted to apologise to her he would have done it face to face.
Besides she has followed up with calls for 3 weeks and he is not responding, who is he, even GOD ALMIGHTY forgives let alone one useless leaching rat,
OP dump him and move on with your life.

Ekugbeh:
He called and you ended the call. Do you know what you did. It's like walking out on him while talking.

You don't do that to me, no matter how financially helpful u might ve been. I ve ghosted many ladies becos of it. You re full pride, and he meant everything he said.


Even from your writeup says it all.

Look at how heartless people like you sound, do you know how hard it is to make money out there, the useless guy has been leaching on her for 4 good years yet she should keep quiet and listen to all his insults on phone, it's like you guys want OP to develop high BP or become a slave to that egocentric guy.

OP listen with your 2 ears, harden your heart and dump that bastard, take your mom and sister and cruise your car, focus on your hustle and the right guy will approach you, if you accept him back you will never be happy.

roGF22:
Let me qoute this " I told him I wasn't expecting more than moral support from him since I could afford getting the car on my own. I also made him realise he doesn't owe me no apology as I wasn't t his responsibility since we weren't married and that even if we were married, ill always want to get my stuffs myself as long as I can afford it"

He was feeling guilty that he was unable to financially assist u in getting the car, then u made those quoted statement and that was when he got angry!..probably the tone that u used in saying that...if u had told him that in a subtle way, I don't think he would have gotten angry,..probably u said it in a way that to him it sounds like u meant the opposite...like "u don't owe me an apology,..we weren't married so I'm not expecting more than moral support...".. Meaning- " u've not been assisting me financially b4, so u need not apologise,.. I can't blame u anyways, we r not married, so suit urself"..lols..anyways, that's just my tot.

For the sake of love u have for him, still call him to sort things out,..

Nonsense talk, the guy is a pusssy niggah.

Op please enjoy your life and forget that sisssy guy, I know how people like that think, they are stupidly egocentric and manipulative, he wants you to kneel down and beg him and probably give him your car or buy one for him.

Move on with your life, never ever apologise to him for being financially independent...

Romanoff:
Sis, you're in a loveless relationship.

If that dude loves you, he'd have helped you at least process the clearing of the car or followed up with you in the entire process, no be until he add money to buy the car.

It's his loss. Meanwhile, don't get carried away being independent that you'll end up marrying a man who is looking for how to eat his cake and have it, na you go dey foot all the bill for that marriage and it isn't palatable.

I've seen it happen to someone dear to me and it almost happened to me as well.

Shine your eyes, use sense do miss independent.

These days broke guys are hiding behind miss independent lady to get free sex and accommodation

Solatium:
The answers to your Epistle still lies in my Previous replies,
Read over and over again you will be able to get my point.
But let me help you a bit by writing the main answer in capital letters.

IT IS THE PEOPLE WHO MAKE AN INSTITUTION STRONGER, INSTITUTIONS DON'T EXECUTE TASK,IT IS THE PEOPLE THAT HOLD AN INSTITUTION AND MAKE IT WORK,IT IS YHE SAME PEOPLE WHO DISABLED IT.

You're trying so hard but in vain to absolve our leaders of blame, typical of APC supporters, I guess that's the new narrative APC propaganda machine is selling to it's followers.

Leadership is everything in a society, leaders ensure that the institutions and systems works and punish violators as a deterrent.

The FG used its powers to close land boarders and people complied even though they don't like it.

Nigeria leaders since the 80s to date have failed, stop giving them excuses.

Solatium:
No na Buhari gan gan I be

As we speak your FG is still waiting for another 5 Billion dollar loans from China.

Solatium:
Institution aren't strong without people.
When people are resolute the institution will even become stronger.


when Buhari came out and got some judges arrested to preserve what is left of the judiciary,no be una dey cal am tyrant?
US and other countries institution were not strong on book,it is the people that put their feet down and said it must work.
Do we have that kind of resolution ? No
it is not how much you earn that makes you to be corrupt or not to be corrupt.
People in NNPC,CBN and other top government agencies earn more than enough yet they steal.
Some earn less at LG council and they did not steal Kobo.

My wife never fast track her NIN reg,she went there like every other person,but the forms were hoarded until someone told her that she won't get it done even if she comes 200 times except she paths with money.
it is the same stories all over the country

Now you are beginning to sound like an APC supporter......

Solatium:
A Common man can contribute his/her own quota to nation building,it is the quota from everyone that build a nation,Europe, America wasn't built by leadership effort alone,it was built and maintain by the followers,the leaders only give direction.
The same number of you who blame leaders for everything will still go home and bypass your electric meter,the same common man who claim to be victim is the one who sits at his/her office and demand bribes to do what he's being paid monthly to do.
Large number of you are worse than the leaders you castigate.

The same set of people who cast aspersions at the nation,who sees no hope will be back after 10yrs to come and invest in the same shitty country,90% of you who had left will be back when you 65yr and above to come and enjoy your so called retirement at home,some of you will be back with terminal disease and will pass on the burden of looking after you to your relations who never left,your children that had left with you wont be here to look after you,it is still the same sys6and people you are running down that will take care of you at your old age as most of you can't live in old people's home abroad.
what does that say about you?
HYPOCRITE in capital letters


It is not everyone that left with their kids that those kids get to give them joy,Check the Private schools scattered all around the country to see the number of rotten kids being shipped home to have their life mended.
Check with those Nigerians in UK and US,they will tell you the number of Nigerian kids in prison or remand home,they will give you the statistics of Nigerian kids who had dropped out of school.

Even the Nigerian government borrows money from Abroad every day, the have shown us the way, we will japa go Abroad too.

WORDWORLD:
Such faithfulness is directly proportional to the amount of SEXUAL SATISFACTION she is able to enjoy from her husband in matrimony.

I am an advocate of men not compromising VIRGINITY and GOOD CHARACTER in a lady when it comes to choosing a wife. But it is just the first step on a very long journey of continuous test of FIDELITY in marriage.

I must tell men whose hopes is to settle down with a virgin wife, the TRUTH and nothing but the WHOLE truth from the realities of life I have learnt.

WOMEN WHO NEVER EVER TASTED THE SWEETNESS OF SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, WHO KEPT HER VIRGINITY WITH THE HOPE THAT IT WOULD BE EXPLORED ONLY BY THEIR HUSBANDS ALONE, HAVE MANY, MANY TIMES FAILED THE TEST OF FIDELITY DUE TO ONE MAJOR FACTOR CALLED SEXUAL FUSTRATION THEY KEEP EXPERIENCING IN MARRIGE.

Many men desire to marry Virgins, but only very few men know how to manage the sexual desires and fantasies of a virgin wife to her utmost fulfillment.

IF SEXUAL FUSTRATION BECOMES ALL THAT SHE EXPERIENCES IN HER MATRIMONIAL HOME. SHE WILL DEFINATELY AND SURPRISINGLY SEEK FOR SEXUAL SATISFACTION BY THE SLIGHTEST OPPORTUNITY. WHILE, YOU HER HUSBAND PRIDEFULLY HAVE A FEELING OF SECURITY THAT YOU ARE MARRIED TO A VIRGIN, BUT YOUR VIRGIN WIFE IS ALREADY FVCKING SOMEONE ELSE, IT COULD BE A VERY YOUNG TEENAGER SHE WOULD LURE OUT OF CURIOSITY TO ASCERTAIN IF SEX IS ACTUALLY WHACK AS SHE EXPERIENCES WITH YOU HER HUSBAND OR FEELS HEAVENLY AS SHE HAD BEEN LOOKING FORWARD TO ENJOYING FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE. A REWARD FOR KEEPING HER VIRGINITY.

A virgin will fvck the slightest opportunity after getting married if her sexual fantasies are not met and she keeps experiencing sexual frustration. Many men think it's all about marrying a virgin but there is a lot more to managing a virgin wife sexually from not ever thinking nor tempted to explore if another d!ck is sweeter than her husband's.

VIRGIN GIRLS, A.K.A GOOD GIRLS MOSTLY DO NOT WANT SUCH DISAPPOINT THAT IS WHY THEY NEVER STOP EYING THE BAD BOYS FOR REAL. WHEN YOU TELL A VIRGIN YOU ARE LIKE HER, YOU HAVE NEVER HAD SEX, THE CHANCES THAT SHE WILL CHOOSE YOU OVER THAT WELL EXPERIENCED GUY, A.K.A BAD BOY IS VERY SLIM. SUCH IS AN IRONY OF LIFE IN THE REAL WORLD.

Lies

czarr:
If as a man you only deal with women who you can only have sex with....then you are still applying low level game, sex is cheap and it is everywhere, you should be more interested in a woman who can contribute financially and open financial doors for you, those are the kind of women you should be dealing with....having sex is no longer a challenge, you should demand more than just sex from a woman.....women who offer only sex are a waste of space.

You have to graduate in game to a point where your diick is a reward for her financial investments in you...that is game!! if you've never had a woman pay the hotel for a room and also beg you to spend time with her(and i am not talking about sugar mummy) then you need to advance in the game and the kind of women you hang with.

Men they carry style beg women money now

Cityboyy:
All these internet love stories. I had no idea people still fall for those things? Must be really lonely to search and fall in love with someone online and want to risk it all to be with them. Falling in love with someone you never met.

It's like you don't know what's happening in the western world, homosexuality is increasing every day thereby leaving western women no choice than to accept African guys.

And the population of women generally outnumber that of men.

Talking about love, hmmm, our first love is usually our only true love, after that we only decide to love or not to...

Adakintroy:
Yes I am patriotic. Is it a bad thing? Even the politicians you mock go their for holidays but they dont live there themselves.


Go and enjoy. But no be the country do you. Na your level of intelligence hold you back. Real intelligence strive in any climate.

In this Nigeria there is dangote and several billionaire. Not all are politicains stealing money.many are just plain business men doing simple stuffs.

Many of you have that slave mentality going for you. You just find justification in the fact that Nigeria has bad goverment.

If I have one million naira. As an intelligent person. I will not use that money to board flight. There are several good business to invest it in there by creating employment and helping the goverment myself.
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But not you guys.your intelligence only kick in as soon as you travelle out. Keep taking intelligence and money to the white man and keep wondering why your own society is backward and his expanding.

You are still a young man without experience in life and development economics.

Nigeria business men are the ones killing the country, the only business idea in their heads is importing finished products into Nigeria.

We Nigerians that can easily and comfortably export Nigeria's Agricultural and Mineral resources.

You can only achieve this if you're a permanent resident or a citizen of the developed countries, you will easily build all the connections you need and export you stuff abroad without any hitches.

Google how much Nigerians abroad remitted to Nigeria in 2019 and 2020 and you will be amazed.

Go and check what Mane, Sallah, Ziyech etc are doing in their home countries from their earnings abroad.

Adakintroy:
Some kind of education are strange to defeat like yours. Wealth changes perspective I understand but is ok. Migration is as old as human right and animals display it to which we also borrow forms of intelligence.

But animals that migrate are mostly prey animals. Not predators. Predators are mostly territorials and would defend territory's to the death. Lions tiger, leopard's name them. What you blacks display s are behavior mostly consistent with migratory prey animals like wildebeest, zeebras or gazelles. Many are lost to crocodile and lions who mantain steady territories all yr round..but they survive due to size of numbers.

Now through those collective achytype of soughts your behavior already shows consistency with prey life. Sorry but am not. Now they are those of you who migrate and are doing well but there are those stock in Spain and life has been a tragic story the only reason they are not coming home is because they can't deal with the shame.

But that's beside the point am trying to make here.

Ants colony take back food to the colony. That's intelligence..having a loyal base and taking back food to develope that base. You made mention of the white man utilising the resource of Africa good. But For his base. Walter Rodney also highlight this on how Europe underdeveloped Africa. But the difference in how the white think v. How you now think is that you both favour migrations but to what ends. White man had not always been this civilized It's the fact they know to take from one end to develope the other.

How many of you travel With the mind to take wealth from the west and bring to Africa to develope. All you do is go there sit and eat like fools permitt my French..then lambast your country.

The white man drain Africa for his own colony.that's patriotism even if I don't like it.
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Go there and drain their resource and bring home. I will see a man on a mission. Not dumb children just travelling with no clear intent other than pride, hate and other selfish reason.

This is why the white man will remain top for a long time and why the blacks will keep screaming things like white supremacy while the white man struggle to take his knee off their neck.


Talking about light and other things. Am a rugged black man not a pet. If you know anything about predators. You will know they also starve for most of the yr. While they wait for the return of the preys. So am not weak like you.I can live without light Water food or good sanitations and I can still remain like this.mentaining decent argument with you in hope of a better future for my country and land. I respect Nigeria. It's not the best. But it's what I have and like any predatory animal I will defend it to the death.

Mr Patriotic Predator, even your leaders and their families go Abroad and enjoy, FG and State governments borrow money from Abroad every day.

I will go there legally and enjoy my own.

Kaimaonyeana:
LIES FROM THE FREAKING PIT OF HELL. LADIES LISTEN UP, STANDING BY A MAN DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU HIS LOYALTY. IF YOU ARE NOT UP TO THE CALIBRE OF PEOPLE HE NOW HANGS AROUND WITH JUST BE SURE U ARE GOING TO GET DUMPED. THIS HAS HAPPENED TIME AND TIMES AGAIN. EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS A RISK, CHOOSE YOURS WISELY.

Correct, some guys here just don't want to say the truth, the way you reason and choose when you're broke differs from when you're attain financial stability.

Most of the girls that hung around during broke days get dumped are left as babymamas...

TheGoodJoe:
How are you sure Chris Wood did not meet a loyal Queen who stuck with him after the gold digger left? I doubt he does not have a girlfriend before the success came. He just pointed how his girlfriend dumped him after he was left distraught after a disastrous NBA draft night.

If she was a gold digger, she would have been begging him to come back by now, the way I see it, he is the one missing her because he knew the role she played in his life.

TheGoodJoe:
No one is arguing she is a gold digger. Probably went after a guy who promised to make it rain. However, she wanted some NBA money and lost it due to her greed.

The best thing he is going to do, which he will do is not remember her. Look for a loyal Queen and stay close to her.

As for that gold digger, she lost. $41 million in three years. I can't even dream it in naira.

He will never find any loyal queen, he is a millionaire now so he must buy and preserve the loyalty of the next woman now, he must be careful not to get entangled in divorce or else he will loose half is money and keep paying child support.

I still respect the former girlfriend, she was there, any woman that comes into his life now is the real gold digger.

TheGoodJoe:
She wanted NBA money. He now has it. That is what matters. She thought he could not get it. But he was determined to get it.

Women are not stupid, there is no way she held on that long and just leave, probably another NBA star must have been over her to come for him and leave this one.

Life has never being "All or nothing" if this guy knows what is good for him he should go after her and win her back, he will never meet a woman as loyal as her, the fact that she didn't stay till the very end doesn't matter..