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coogar: certification program my white butt.....
what you see right there in pataki is the result of pineapple-juice induced öral sex. story would soon change when she stops pleasing pataki on a nightly basis.

Pataki: It really takes two to tango. No woman suddenly has the temerity to insult her husband's mother just like that. It is a building up process. You must have said something in times past to insult either her own parents or her family. Not that it is excuse-able for her to spew such putrid talk at you, but I do not believe your side of the story summarizes the whole discourse.

Now a woman who spews this kind of gutter talk implies that you are either both from the gutter or you have poor taste in women. Conflicts don't just arise in relationships and the next thing is that either spouse are saying disgusting things about their respective in-laws.

Has your mother and your wife had previous altercations? How was it resolved.

To summarize my yarns, please search yourself. Correction of abuse in a relationship starts with one objectively reflecting on one's own action. Where need be, discuss it with a respectable neutral person to get their opinion about where you personally got it wrong. Until you are able to correct yourself.....no matter how right you think you are, it would be difficult to correct your spouse.

Cheers.

MRbrownJAY: MsDark, sadly many women do not love who they see in the mirror........ thats why so many are hiding under Brazilian hair and what not. so many men cannot love women simply because they have no idea who they are. how can a woman love herself and then bleach her skin etc? it makes no damn sense!

dayokanu: You would hear things like the way to have a happy family is to make a woman happy

So what would make the man happy or his happiness doesnt count?

chief batiatus: Any relationship where the difference either in looks, wealth, status is too wide often leads to this kind of thing, most guys love to go all the wat to woo and win a beauty quenn far beyond their level, often times you see that guy struggling to keep up. I have a neighbour that thought life would be blissful after marrying his queen of a wife, the guy has been broke since their marriage almost 2 yrs ago, he runs his gen round the clock, plays nice guy with all the ladies relatives, scale-up his lifestyle all in the bid to meet up with this beautiful lady. While I do not have anything against beautiful ladies/guys, I see no reason why anyone should go way out of his league because water always finds its level.
The next reason for this behaviour in nija girls is the sheer stupidityy of the menfolk, most guys have it written in their DNA that a guy must 'suffer' to get a worthy babe so the ladies simply assist your suffering. Most guys are born to feel that the rship benefits only the man and as such he must 'suffer' for it to work. This is one of the useless falsehoods endemic in our society and its only possible in ignorant societies like our's. Even guys that have too much to offer to women still get caught up in this because of its prevalence.
So its all caused by us men and our ignorance. I knew one guy in the university then, he never toasted any girl in 100 to 400 level and the girls use to poke fun at him (in his back) that he was pretending and that he will soon capitulate. The guy never capitulated and I tell you by his 5th year every girl in my faculty were throwing themselves shameleSsly at him. Nigerian girls pretend and carry on with their falsehoods because the guys deserve it from their behavior

armyofone: which culture? be specific.

baby_123: Lmao! Baba oyo, tell your brothers to keep up the good work. NL is an outlet for their frustrated, used up nutjobs. The lunatic started ranting all by herself. Clearly having dementia coupled with hypertension and deep depression from being thrown away like dirty sh*it.

mawuqueyan: True shaa.....
†ђξ trip ws bad...kai rily bad
ℓ̊ refuse †̥☺ go on dt kain trip again IJN. ℓ̊ nOo bring anytin Oº°˚˚˚,ℓ̊ don dash dem everytin for dere.lol

mawuqueyan: Nawah Ooº°˚ ˚°ºo.....
Y didn't God jst write †ђξ person ℓ̊ go marry for my palm wen dem born me nah Peace for dey every relatnship...and we wl av bn compatible...no selfish tin or wteva jare!
Btw...tnk God 4my lyf...gud †̥☺ b bk.
olorun eshe gan Ooº°˚ ˚°ºo

Vikin:

I don't want to say anything now and ......will say something else..

At topic,

This type of emotional selfish woman is rare in Naija! Where did your friend find her from, and my take here is that she is probably not in love with him, could have been better if they remained friends. She might be regretting her decision,

Baba oyo! E sure say no be ya emmm emmmm we are talking about here?

greatgod2012: As for me, i dont even feel comfortable when im always at the receiving end, i must to reciprocate, thats my life and thats how i think it supposed to be.
May God help us all.

kground, did she came from previous a troubled home nd needed to escape from this family through marriage, was she desperate with marriage during friendship, hw about her previous boyfriends has she been in love at any point, more so from the guy side is there something he hid from her only for her to discover after marriage? hw well is she getting with his family members, did his family opposed this marriage at any point? If none of this is true summon her nd let her know ur feeling.

Pataki: First of all, being a king is not just all about servitude and waiting to be pleased. Being a king/man is more importantly about making her happy at all times. If a man is not ready to give everything to make a woman happy. Simply because when all chips are down emotionally......you would know how to turn you woman back on to the first love you saw in her.

greatgod2012: May God help you to really discipline yourself and give you the grace and strenght to reduce your obsessions.


In Jesus name i pray.......... Amen.

jennykadry: Put me in your prayers

chaircover: Baba oyo is somewhat right. Some women think that after marriage the man is going to change for the worse and not be as attentive and so they prefer to have their enjoyment up front. Also in the culture that we come from, men are the ones who do all the chasing (if you want to be seen as a "good girl" so the man chases chases and chases with all his might and the lady doesnt have to lift a finger.

chelseabmw: THIS IS NOT UR CAR.......U ARE JUST A PASSER BY WHO WAS OPPORTUNE TO SNAP INSIDE A CAR

greatgod2012: @opnot all women are emotionally selfish.
@post, may be they should have continued to maintained their platonic friendship,

Biggyd2: Na wa o. I didn't know that "Teachers Day, 2013" came early to NL. Here I was thinking that it was sometime later in the year! This is a guy that is going through serious stuff in his marriage and some people are busy making fun of his grammar (even when the OP specifically stated that he is not too good with the language). All ye Tishas of NL, do remember, when you are making fun of others, that they may not have had the opportunity that you had. Thank you.

jeffizy: There is a couple i know who always have run-ins with each other in the morning.
I later heard from the hussy that the wife hates him getting out of bed and leaving it untidy!
The wife used mzdarkskin's method above and the house became a cinema.
The husband pleading in his briefs.
Now that's a funny one.

jidegirl12: No need to explain further.

All these diabolic lifestyle na waya!

So you're asobode ( hunter) awaiting havoc to happen.... what in the world is going on with people?

sapien: Couldn't eavesdrop on mum's advice!