Biglittlelois:



That will be January.

Haply new year SmallBigLois. See you when you are back. Hold my Christmas nama when coming back woo!

liya11:


14 years old far! Nigerian won't want a matured person for a domestic work, their prefere children so that their can take advantage them.

This is human exploitation, worst form at that cos they are robbing these girls of their childhood and potential chance at greatness!

grandstar:


Cheap.

I don't want to judge as I don't know whether I'll do likewise in future. However, I will make sure the girl is well taken care of and sent to school.

Nice mindset bro. Good one!

The government knows what it is doing on this BH matter! If there are no hidden agenda, why ruthlessly retire galant officer that were excellently eliminating the terrorists? Why?

So sad! But why employ a 14yrs old child as a nanny sef?

ashleyscholar:
When men are getting older and still single, there aren't many women their age still available for them and so they can't help but date women half their age or women in their late 20s or early 30s. For men in their 40s and those approaching their 50s, dating younger women is something they cannot avoid. Of course, they are more than happy to meet younger women, not to mention younger women are more appealing, exciting and attractive.

While you may consider yourself a competent guy in the field of dating, the age difference could be a challenge and you may find yourself wondering if you can handle dating younger women. There are things that you have to bear in mind to successfully date women younger than you. Here are some helpful tips in dating younger women:

Let your maturity and wisdom shines. While most women are complaining how immature most younger men are and how they wish them to grow up, you have a great advantage by being mature and full of wisdom due to your age. You have more experience and you've worked hard to reach the maturity and wisdom you have now so let them work to your advantage. Let those traits shine and put them in display when dating younger women. Most young women find an accomplished man full of maturity and wisdom sexy and irresistibly attractive.

Treat her the same way you would treat someone of your own age. Yes, you are older and mature but this does not mean you have to treat her like a child. Although she is younger, she's not a child. Keep in mind that despite her age, she is also an adult like you so treat her as one. She is not your daughter who needs preaching or scolding. Dating in general whether with younger women or with women your age is challenging enough so why make this dating more stressful by stressing on the age difference. Treat her as your equal to make the dating more fun and exciting. She may be younger but she is also an adult and she is capable of giving you her genuine feelings like any other older woman.

Be honest about your life. Since you are older, it is normal that you've been through a lot and you have more life experiences than her. Be honest about having kids or being divorced. Although you do not consider those things as issues, some younger women may consider them issues so it is better to be honest with her about those things right from the start. Not being honest with her can make things more complicated. When dating younger women, do not be afraid to open up, she may be younger but that does not mean she lacks empathy or she cannot relate to your situation.

Do not assume that you always have to take good care of her. She may be younger but she's not totally inexperienced and unschooled in everything. She is a grown up independent woman who knows what she wants and she also has the capability to take good care of you. If she offer to split the bill on one of your dates, you can politely say that you want to treat her but if she prefer to split the bill then let her. However, if you are really uncomfortable splitting the bill, just ask her to treat you next time. If she is a good cook, let her make you a great meal to make her feel that she can also take care of you. Dating younger women doesn't have to be like raising a daughter. She is your date, not your daughter.

You can be generous but avoid showing off. Being older, it is normal to be more financially stable than her. Being a gentleman, it is normal to be generous when dating younger women but being generous is different from showing off. Flaunting your fat wallet or the extravagant things that you can do for her may offend her or it may push her to take advantage of you. Be realistic with the situation and being older, you should know how to impress women sincerely with your heart rather than with your fat wallet. There is nothing wrong in being generous as long as it is coupled with a sincere heart and not because you just want to show off.

Be confident. There's nothing to be ashamed of your age when dating younger women. If she agreed to have a date with you, she must be tired of inexperienced younger men and she is ready for a change. You have the advantage being older than the men she used to date so be confident and take advantage of what you have and what you can offer. Instead of feeling awkward and uncomfortable, be confident that you have the means, the experience and the skills to impress a woman younger than you.

Live a healthy life. In dating younger women, you have to keep up with their energy and to be able to do that you have to be healthy. It is important to keep a healthy weight not only to look good but to be physically fit. Know the best exercise, physical activities and diet good for your age. It is not too late to live a healthy life to enjoy dating younger women.

Nice one!

Biglittlelois:



That will be January.

Alrighty, I go dey here till mid January. Buzz me when you get back! And please no spend all the money for village woo, remain small to give me a treat.

Biglittlelois:



Just seeing this, I'll be traveling home for Christmas tomorrow, maybe some other time when you're in Lag, let me know

Happy holiday

Great, thanks and safe trip. Enjoy villa.

When are u back though?

oyatz:


You don't really understand democracy and party politics.


Tinubu should pursue his presidential ambition to logical conclusion and damn all consequences.


Our political parties will be more matured if any candidate can contest for the party's tickets unhindered. Those who don't win today can win tomorrow.


Candidates freely participating in presidential elections will inspire future generations that the ballot box is the appropriate route to seek elective positions while we continue to evolve better systems.




The prevailing opinions that make virtually all discussions about the 2023 limited to Tinubu is unhealthy for the country.

I fully agree with everything you wrote here but if this is a response to what I wrote, then you definitely didn't understand me

Dangrace01:


Any party that allows a northerner as presidential candidate clearly don't care about equity and fairness but just want want to wrestle power pdp and apc wont try it because we southerners are not fools

Sadly Bro, it is primarily a game of numbers, the north has it. The disunity in the south ( especially SW and SE) is the greatest undoing of the South and the greatest advantage of the North.

Did you notice how the north was jittery when the entire southern governors united against the herdsmen issues? Didn't you notice that suddenly the herdsmen arrogant atrocities has almost stopped completely?

Secondly the heightened romance between the north and east, do you think it is because rhe north likes the igbos? Never! Religiously and historically the north will NEVER like the Igbo. Any love the north shows rhe south east is purely part of the permutations for the north to achieve an aim or two.

My point is, the north derives it's power from its population and the disunity of the south. As long as the south won't unite and work together, the north will continue to arrogantly dictate what happens in the country.

Let the entire south unite and then you will see the north bow to its knees!

Kriss216:
Worst scenario;
The North will give Tinubu the APC ticket and move to support Atiku, their own.

It's a win win for the North.

No thanks to Tinubu and his sophisticated followers.

Mark my word, APC will give the ticket to Igbos to spite Tinubu (Yorubas) but the whole North will support Atiku against the Igbo candidate. This way, the Igbos will have only votes from the east alone, likewise the Yoruba votes largely from west alone because these two regions wont vote for each other. The north will vote Atiku across parties and give him the victory!

Exception to this is if Igbos and Yorubas will unite to support an Igbo candidate but this can never happen in Nigeria, atleast not in 2023.

However, if Tinubu drops his greedy ambition and push forward Osibanjo or Adeshina (AFDB guy), then even the north will have divided votes for Atiku and the APC will surely win whoever the PDP fields be it Atiku or an Igbo man

I need a lovely female company to rock this cosy restaurant with me, all bills on me. No evening newspapers!

Qualifications: bring great sense of humour, openness and be adventurous!

Nonexisting:
I know your fear. You think if you don't do it, she will go outside and collect it. This is where you're wrong. Whether you do it or not, she will still fucck another dick so why not stand by your principles. It's your choice brother. I personally don't succk vaginarians and the ones that suck my dick do it willingly, I never demand it from them. My only business is to fucck and cum, everything else don't matter to me because I have my daily hustle to worry about.

You gerrit bro; whether u do am or u no do am, the bebie go still collect am outside. So choose what you are comfortable with and stand by it!

lekkyy:
Hello Nairalanders and compliment of the season.

I took a picture of this reptile on my fence some afternoon ago. Please what is it called and how dangerous is it?

Small food!

Biglittlelois:
Lol you northerners are not ready yet, when north become a complete shadow of itself, you will mention their names.

SmallplentyLois where u deg in lagos, I wan come spend holiday for Lasgidi this year, I no go mind you show me around, will you?

Omicronvaccine:
Earlier Thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6900733/savechidubem-baby-starved-mums-boss

#SaveChidubem: Police Arrests Lady Who Starved Her Worker's Baby Leading To Baby's Death (Photos)

Police has arrested lady identified as Tina Ogbonnaya who allegedly seized and starved a 5-months-old son of her 19-year old female worker over unpaid debt, IgbereTV reports.

The 19-year-old mother claimed that her madam seized her baby because she couldn't pay back the hospital bill she helped her clear.

The baby died after the Lagos State Social Welfare and the police had intervened in releasing the child to the mother. The baby had lost so much weight after being with Tina Ogbonnaya.

Human rights activist, Harrison Gwamishu who is helping the mother to get justice on the matter announced the arrest of the woman on Instagram. Sharing photos of the arrested woman, he wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CXoQ-grNKZn/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Face of evil

AGurlnoname:
Good day my people.

I just graduated as a law student from a prestigious state university and I'm currently a corper. I can't say I have passion for the course I read in school, I just want to make money and become successful.

Presently, I'm contemplating on whether I should save up and go to law school from my nysc "allawee" or learn any tech skill. Why I thought of this, is because I felt I'm wasting my time reading a course of six yrs, I don't know how this course will earn me enough money to pursue other endeavours and settle "wahala" in my life. Also with Nigeria's poor economy and how competitive to get a job as a lawyer(too much lawyers), I decided to probably forgo law school and learn any tech skill.

Is this a right decision? If yes, which tech skill should I learn?

Thanks for your responses.

Wow, you raised valid points albeit very late, should have been considered before commencing your degree program.

I will call u to discuss a few things as a way forward.

Cheers!

Digmygold:


When did being a day student stop you from spending a night in the hostel? Like say e no day happen when we dey Boarding School.

Considering the negligent approach of the School Management towards the welfare of the students, day students go bribe gateman and house master and sleep overnight with his fellow alleged culprits in the hostel. Let her just shut up and let the Law take its course.

You are smart Bro. Our police sabi suspected everybody untill you proved yourself innocent beyond every reasonable doubt!

Freestainworld:
If na to hold Alhaji dick now, she no go fear.

Abi na! But snake no dey dish out naira and dollars

ijustdey:



.....as police obtain court order to remand students in a juvenile center





https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2021/12/update-two-more-dowen-college-students-and-three-house-masters-reportedly-arrested-as-police-obtain-court-order-to-remand-students-in-a-juvenile-center.html


Lalasticlala

Nice one, let the investigation roll on!

ijustdey:







https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2021/12/07/mother-of-edward-brown-alleged-dowen-college-bully-speaks/


Lalasticlala

Being a day student doesn't preclude him from being part of the crime. Where was he at the exact period rhe crime Happen? He could as well be at home and direct the act remotely, so his call logs and chats need to be reviewed in details before you and your son can be set free as being innocent!

Wiseman007:
Neatly used Toyota land cruiser on distress sale.
Price: 7m
Location: Lagos
Call/WhatsApp: 08038317875, 08158392244.

Too good to be true, weting dey wrong with the motor? Abi na 1998 model pimped?

thesicilian:
It was the school that was shut down, not just the building. So if they are resuming with online classes it's a direct violation of the shut down order.

You don't know the details if the shut down by lagos state government. It could be that they were permitted to conclude there exams for the term.

LadyD22:


E dey pain me say this forum no get voice note , because I would've said something to you , you think its greed or its materialistic things that causes every woman to make these kind of choices , did you not see that the girl is an abandoned child , no one in this life would be growing up like that , then she managed to have a child in an abusive relationship , she didn't inform her guardian , if she was treated well she would inform them for advice , you're here talking about greed and materials , childish irritating mindset , if e easy to get money why are men equally lazy pursuing blood rituals , since they're so productive , you that is talking are you happy where you are?

Calm down! Aunty calm down, calm down, please, easy, ehn! Just cool down!

I still wondered why that short distance road took a decade to build!

Jude273:
simp around the corner

Happily so!

placeofallure:


Amen to your prayer. Wish you the same and more.

And amen!

placeofallure:


It's not a crime to desire good things in life. Read the story again. The victims were lured with job prospects. Many people want to work but couldn't find jobs to do.
Nigeria happened to them. There's no level playing ground, no enabling environment to do something on your own. The sharks and scorpions that is Nigeria are ready to consume you. Not many people have it on a platter of gold. Always remember, the race is not to the swift...time and chance happen to them all.

May the mercy of God find Mercy and heal her of it all.

Your words are laden with grace, may your life be grace-full.

I perfectly understand the story my dear, I also am aware of the situations/workings of things in the country, and my words are still valid.

Skynet55:
word of advice

Dnt embarass yourself incase this thread reaches fp

Excuse me?

Tealover:
You were loving and caring, I didn't reciprocate your love so much but one thing I know for sure is that I respected you.

I wasn't crazy about you but I felt peace and secured around you. I was happy you were in my life.

You provided for me like I were jobless even to buying me sanitary pads and panties but I gave you too little. I'm sorry about that even though in all honesty I had plans to surprise you before whatever happened. I was planning something special for you with a colleague of mine.

My relationship with you was the best I've experienced and at the same time, the worst.

I laughed the most with you and you made me cry the most.

You treated me like I were a baby, yet you allowed me fall from such a height with reckless abandon.

This message is still one of the most shocking I've gotten in my life time. Even the demise of my loved one didn't hit me so hard.

I miss you and it's really hard to say Goodbye but according to you, "what is meant to be would be".

GOODBYE FRIEND

I am in this same boat rn, a Nairalander too. All is well sister!