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I now understand why her relatives don't want to have anything to do with her

Naija being tossed left right and center like a helpless orphan

Naija being tossed left right and center like a helpless orphan

The wife said he did drugs, was married with a kid and probably low resources to maintain the family, lived in a country full of frustration...so many things to make him depressed. The parents may not even be any better and probably didn't support his lifestyle which may explain why they didn't contact the wife. May his soul RIP and I hope his wife gets the help she needs

They rather look like twins

If any of your parent is a police officer or NA, please be prayerful because the way people heap curses on them is just alarming! May the soul of the departed find rest!
Being a Nigerian definitely is one of a thousand ways to die

Really, they are enjoying their baba, the call for protest is just a sponsored political move, southerners shouldn't take it seriously. Even if all of them come out to protest in the North, only Southern protesters will record casualties.

Drogunov:
OBJ slammed Buhari on poor performance on security and PRONTO, a counterattack by a State sponsored group. And they made sure its a Christian that is the spokesman. Divide and rule tactics. All the wiles of these Fulanis will fall dead one by one.

You're right, they will always use Southern Christians to spearhead useless campaigns because we have made ourselves so easy to manipulate

27Pushing30:
If you actually were well educated you would re-read her statement and understand her line “plead the 5th” is derived from the preceding sentence”

But as person wey no go school you no know say “plead the 5th “ is also colloquial term for “silence” -meaning she won’t give up her source - as stated in the preceding lines -which is a journalistic golden rule”

Better upgrade your knowledge base

First of all, to 'Plead the fifth' comes from the Fifth Amendment to the United States Constitution, which, among other rights, protects citizens from self-incrimination. Since "pleading the fifth" invokes the rights guaranteed in the fifth amendment to the U.S. constitution, the phrase as such would not make sense in any country where the U.S. constitution is not law. Despite its near-slang use even outside the US, I ask you again; who pleads the fifth in Nigeria?!
BTW, I am not a legal practitioner but I hold the highest certificate of formal education obtainable! Don't think everyone here is a no gooder!

Who pleads the fifth in Nigeria? Madam also sounded stupid in an attempt to sound sophisticated
I don't know her issue with the parents of Sylvester, but I'm guessing she's doing this to hurt them. She will definitely meet her Waterloo someday soon.

BlackfireX:
Why did you put the church before the mosque


Are you alright

What difference will it make if he puts the mosque before the Church? It's funny how we get sentimental over everything around here!

dominique:
She looks like a model on a photoshoot, I don't see any disgust or fear in her eyes compared to this girl whose photo was taken by a serial killer moments before he killed her

You're right...she looks rather calm

Watch bubu compensate her with another office soon

Terrier99:
See how fat he is. Seems he was detained in the Naval restaurant.

Your comment made me laugh out loud in the presence of a Prof. that I'm just trying to settle matter with

We really hope and pray for nothing more from him because all he has to offer is bad news!

Still waiting for when they will be forced to legalize Yahoo business and money rituals because those are the only ways people will survive under bubu from next year. Even armed robbers won't be able to operate unless they rob politicians, Yahoo and ritualists

What you need is how to beat them in their rigging game- they can't win without rigging, take your fight there!

Ko ni ye yin dede

She took freedom of speech to the extreme, she insulted the memory of the innocent boy by trying to discredit him even in death! I hope and pray she gets punished for her insensitivity!

007s:
No be house chores dem dey talk madam, there is plate and there is plate....

You got me...I didn't even open the thread. I just see topic, angrily clicked on reply button

You forgot the killer foolanis...I guess the umbrella of bandits cover them

First, it was the woman that said women should give 100% of their hard-earned money to the husbands, then this one is saying men shouldn't do dishes! What's going on here? A man that can't help with chores should be ready to shoulder the family's financial responsibility! You can't make a woman do all the house chores and still expect her to bring money home, it doesn't work that way! Be an African man all the way or accept the changing family roles and meet the woman half way!

They better stop getting confused. If I had my way,I won't pay TAX in this country because I get nothing from the country! We sank our borehole, pulled resources together to tar our estate road, we got transformers, still generate light, pay heavily for private and estate securities, pay heavy school fees, I fund majority of my conferences as an academic, I pay for journal publications, pay fully for medicals including child delivery and care of the elderly in the family! Why pay tax

ShenTeh:
1. Drop your ego. Go outside and meet him. BEG him to come inside. Put that on repeat until it is achieved. You can start by bringing his things back inside and ask him to help you with the task. Once indoors. Tell him that you are sorry. that you understand he may be frustrated at this moment and you have thoroughly thought of how you can both work as a team. Thank him for coming through for you when you were bankrupt and how his coming to Lagos was a blessing to you. Tell him you are thoroughly angry with him right now but you remembered the role he has played in your life and besides, you don't want to give mummy any heartache. Let him know even if it is 10k you can raise for him now. Please don't say you can't raise nothing. Even if he is shouting, trust me, you would have softened him from inside. House him. Feed him. Restart your life from this point without him in the picture.

2. Second option: Pack your things this night and move out for him. Tell him you are leaving and assure him that as soon as you can afford all that you owe him you are going to pay back every dime of it. Inform your landlord that you are moving and want a refund for unused rent. You may have to squat with friends, Airbnb, hotel or home in your car for the next couple of days. You are back to square 1, but wiser.

With the exception of the part in bold, I suggest you follow either of the two suggestions listed above. Personally, I'll go for number one first to calm the situation down, then you can subsequently move out. You can inform your landlord that you are moving, but I don't think it's fair for you to ask for a refund because he paid the rent even though it's on your name. It's however safer to leave the house for him, block your account and let him know he can't use it again because there's an issue on it, move out but do so in peace! You may think going to jail to punish your brother is okay, but it's not worth it

I believe Ms Kemi Olunloyo deserves that beating for implying that Sylvester caused his own death! She's deranged, wicked and has no conscience at all! Even if the poor boy agreed to join cult, something must have triggered it because a child is just a child!

cutecommend:
Some things look odd, but can take someone to hell...

(1) Tribal or racial hatred: Things like "I hate Fulani people, I hate igbo people, I hate Yoruba people, I hate so so people" will surely take you to hell...You can dislike certain acts or behaviors of a tribe, but it is ungodly to hate people of a tribe.

(2) Enjoying other people's evil act: Do you know you can enjoy someone's lie, someone's fornication, someone's deception, someone's wicked act etc.. Though you didn't commit it, but the fact you enjoyed or found pleasure in what the person did will take you to hell ..

(3) Insincerity: Things like you telling someone to fill your name in a list of those present for a meeting, when you are absent will take you to hell....Things like putting early time in office register when actually you came late will take you to hell....

(4) Worldly music: Worldly can be enticing and sweet to the ear, but know this that if you are enjoying worldly music when Jesus comes, you are going no where with Jesus

(5) Not Confessing: If you steal from someone, and you tell God to forgive you, He will forgive you. But if God ministers to you to go and return what you stole back to the owner and you refuse, you won't make heaven...Same: If you slept with your EX few days before wedding day, or you committed adultery, and God ministers to you to confess it to your partner. If you disobey, you will not make heaven..

(6) Being ashamed to walk with your Bible on the road can lead you to hell....

Not saying you are right or wrong, but it'll be better to back it up with a Bible verse or two each.

But Bishop Oyedepo warned you clearly, didn't he? He tried his best, what should he do now? Aisha is wrong on this note

Six naira, ninety eight Kobo sir

God1000:
Good advice, that's what a loyal wife should do

More like what a stupid wife will do.

Nothing we don't know here... I hope she gets to account for her office sometime in the near future

This woman is wicked and very heartless! Let's even agree that the boy succumbed to pressure and agreed to join;
1. Isn't cultism itself a crime in schools at least?
2. Is he old enough to give any kind of consent?
3. Should we now start blaming him for breaking under pressure?
4. Should the other cultists be freed because Sylvester agreed to join their cult and they didn't force him?
5. Is Kemi Olunloyo seeing the death of a boy as an opportunity to sound controversial and enjoy the cheap popularity?
6. This time I think she went too far