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donbrowser:
Chai Breasts this early morning.

you complain almost about everything, isn't this educational enough? Na only you waka com?

temmyt20:
Fire outbreak currently in sterling bank abeokuta, along Oke ilewo. Kinddly take alternate route cos of hold up.

only someone in opic tower can take this pictures with this positioning... The fire outbreak was quickly cautioned.

Benita27:
No sane woman would tolerate that, just as no man would be okay if his wife cheats on him.

Don't know why most of you think you're entitled to cheat but your partners should remain loyal, greed of the highest order: loyalty is a two way street!...don't demand for what you can't give.

very simple

Just believe in yourself and everything will fall to shape. Domain name shouldn't be an excuse, i am blogging seriously and people are still Visiting despite the fact that my domain name expired. It is in the content and not the name. Just get back the drive, please don't copy and paste, be original and with time you will be known for your unique niche. http//bamisepeters..com

dotman4real007:
you have said it all!!! big ups OP. but its not easy ooo choping one food alone. well I am not married I can still chop as many as I want o jaree!! Anika, tania, cookie come here!!!!

i accept your point but we just try to accept that kind of same food till death do the parting.

2SWT:
happy sampling baby


Hope you know their health status before sampling

abi, maybe life after disease or death sweet sha.

FALCONEYrebirth:
it's legal isn't it?

completely illegal joo

Naturally, humans are insatiable, when we have the best we still wish to have another best and on like that.

Little wonder there are more broken home this days due to cheating either by the man or the woman despite the increase in relationship counselors like many people will say.

This is not particular to a certain gender anymore like we use to have the male cheating most times in those days, women are now proving to men they can do better.

The funny thing is that those that are cheating are the ones always on the trail of their partner just because they themselves are not clean.

They love their own partner to be reserved while they perform all sorts of miracles in bed with someone else's partner and will then come back home like saint.

They know all the moves as they are deep in the act, yet, they don't want their partner to be tasted by someone else.

If your partner shouldn't enjoy or be enjoyed why not just leave other people's partner alone?

I know no matter how hard we preach some people will never listen as cheating is innate to them.

Even when they are not looked for they themselves will turn on the Searchlight as they are never satisfied with anything and neither can they endure with the little they have, they want everything in their partner forgetting no Mr or Mrs right.

You cannot swallow your cake and still have it back as cake but waste.

Learn to be loyal to your partner, you signed for better for worse, so, you don't need to enjoy the for better together and make him/her feel the pains of the worst alone.

Even if you are cheating on your partner and your partner knows or otherwise and still loyal against all odds as he/she has accepted his/her fate, what will punish you will forever hunt you till you bite your fingers in regret.

No Mr/Mrs right, this is why marriage is for two imperfect beings coming together to submit their ego in order to make themselves perfect for just each other.

Leave other people's partner and make your home the perfect abode


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/12/dont-taste-other-peoples-partner-if.html

George22016:
While some mothers are disappointing their children.some are showing favouritism to one child to spite the other,Some are mal treating the maid.honestly to be candid Real Mothers are getting scarce

yes, some mothers are like you described them, however, they are still irreplaceable no matter their mistake.

If your mum is alive and you did not cherish the fact that she is alive and give her the best treat a good mother should get ,then, you will regret it if anything happens as death is timeless.

You don't need to wait till she is dead before you spend millions to give her befitting burial. I am not wishing any mother death but trying to remind you that death is so inconsiderate.

Only the motherless can relate well to this because you will only know the worth of your mother when she is no more even if you are taking good care of her now.

You will miss her absence when she is no more even when you are doing the needful now that she is alive let alone when you did not do what is expected of you on her when she is living, in fact, you will regret it.

I am a man and should be talking about taking good care of our father too but let us be realistic here, she carried me in her belly for 9 months after a great moment of love with "him" living her to bear the pains of love making.

This does not mean they do not deserve the best from us too but this post is dedicated to the good women.

Do all you can even when you don`t have plenty to take good care of her and create time out of no time to share some moments with her while she is still alive as she deserves little of your attention too.

Treat them the way you treat the spouse you genuinely love, one truth is that without her you will not even be able to show love to one opposite sex let alone starting a relationship.

I know at times their behaviors, actions or commands might be frustrating but that should not make you misbehave towards those frustrating moments as it will not always be rosy with them just like relationship.

Treat them the way you wish your children should treat you as the blessings attached to giving your mother( and father) positive unforgettable moments are enormous.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/12/learn-to-cherish-your-mother-while-she.html

Many don't like what he usually says but they will definitely like this because bottle is involved.

I am not sure this Op needs advice, his response to replies has shown he just want others to have the impression that he is there too. Goodluck.

riczy:
olodo,wat she meant is dat there is always a time wen couples ar in Sore straight but unknown to anybody around

exactly.

bezimo:
One of my respected mentors said folks get into marriage without investing anything into it and expect it to work smoothly.How?

The marriage that works is not that which involves perfect folks but that which involves a conscious mutual decision to make it work nothwithstanding the challenges.

Even marriage that is God's will can still be challenged to fold up if both parties don't take scriptural responsibility.I have seen it happen.

God's formula to making marriage work, First Woman submit your all to your man, then Man love your woman like Christ love the church and it must be shown in actions, words, thoughts, even to a fault.
For this to happen, both parties must know and commit to what is required of them, if they don't know, we can't even talk of working it out!!

nice.

passyhansome:
May be you not opportune to meet real people, or person I have , they don't pretend next time don't generalize its wrong

you are not 100% open not jist on relationship matter.

folks4luv:
maybe there are real people who do not pretend all the time, but everyone, esp adult have been though moments where they had to wear a smile even when they were burning inside, smile n kiss the kids even when life seem to be up and down. sometime. this doesn't make a person fake, but projecting a rosy picture to deceive others and male them jealous is being fake.

Thank you for this.

Some comments shows many did not read all written... All i am saying is every marriage have its own ups and downs but understanding and endurance will make it succeed. Please read.

Despite the fact that we promise each other heaven on earth at the beginning of every relationship, even before it is sealed you will know you can never be happy at all times with your partner, every marriage with its own imperfection.

Like i always say, it is good to set standards as to the choice of our partner, but even if the partner have all we desire in them it doesn't still guarantee happiness at all times.

This is just like saying if you have money you have everything forgetting we can only see what the rich man want us to see.

Because another woman is happy merely looking at her is not a guarantee that she is really happy, appearance is not reality.

Because you are going through the imperfection test in your relationship you now feel it shouldn't be, please don't be deceived, the wife of a president is not always happy with her man, they go through sad moments together too.

The preaching on how a good home should be by our religious leaders is not a guarantee that he left his home in a happy mood, but God's words must be delivered.

You just need to cover yourselves up, no home is perfect, you will always pass the test if you don't allow the way others feel or the feelings you see in others to distract your attention.

We are all pretenders, that is the truth.
Education nor wealth does not guarantee happiness all the time, the rich cries also, and in every educated human being there will be a moment of illiteracy which might be in open or close.

Manage your relationship and let the world want to imitate you and your spouse even in your imperfection like those you are looking up to are doing.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/12/dont-be-deceived-even-marriage-to.html

Yakzo:
Good write-up only that your spelling for 'rear' should read 'rare'.

ok, thanks.

ikp120:
If she misbehave eh, I go just delete her phone number faster than otapiapia dey delete rat

lol

We might feel it is grace to be able to move around with whichever amount of ladies we want so far the resources is available, but what is the essence of having bad ladies around you when you can have one good lady?

Relationship should be filled with happiness and peace of mind only if you are with the right one. But as it is for some women to take some good men for granted, so also we have those type of people among men.

She is pretty, humble, obedient, loyal what have you, yet you prefer to maltreat her, you feel she is not as troublesome as you want your woman to be.

Despite the fact that you are seeing some other women outside doesn't mean you should disregard the one at home or that good lady that has chosen to be with you for the rest of her life.

Not that she is not been called by other men out there, but because she believes all the happiness and peace of mind she ever wished for is with you.

Remember you approached her yourself because you find something attractive in her that "other ladies" lacks no matter what your priority is in a woman.

For this reason alone, you must try to treat her the best way no other man can treat her.

Yes, there are many good women outside, but to come across one is extremely rear, but if you are lucky to have gotten one you need to let her know her kind is rear by trusting her and taking good care of her in all aspects not minding if it will get to her head or not.

Disregarding her ideas, not sharing little time with her, maltreating her etc, will only help her out to meet someone that deserves her, at the end, you will hate yourself to have allowed her out of your life because she will shine brighter than you ever knew her.

Even if you have others you are touching outside, the moment you step out of where you meet other girls you must disregard anything that can make your woman sad.

There is no crime making those you are flirting with knows you respect your woman, the boundary should be large.

READ ALSO: SINGLE LADIES: DON'T TAKE YOUR MAN FOR GRANTED.

Her call is important anytime, her feeling and emotion are important anytime, even if you cannot attend to any of these when they call knocking your reason must be extremely genuine.

To be successful as a man, you must make your woman happy at all times, her happiness put more smiles in your pocket.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/12/single-men-don-take-your-woman-for.html

Love should not be a crime, but many ladies makes men feel it is.

He loves you, adores you, cherish you, in fact threats you like a god should not be a crime but your joy as you have earned yourself what many are dying to get.

You don't only need to appreciate his love but also reciprocate and never feel he cannot move on without you.

He tells you that you are the only one that can treat him like you do doesn't mean many others cannot do better than you.

The fact that other ladies looks irritating to him just because he loves you does not mean if you are no more interested in him he will not move on with those irritating ladies.

He allowed that irritating feelings about other ladies just because he does not want to make them look attractive for him cheat on you, he can also eradicate that thought when you are out of his life.

He begs you even when you are at fault of any misunderstanding just because he want peace does not mean he does not know what he is doing, then you take him for granted simply because he want your happiness.

Most times ladies are the cause of the treatment they get from men, because they let any small good feelings or treatment overshadow their thought.

A friend shared the story of how he treated a woman like he never met any woman on earth and she took that for granted by misbehaving, that is a lesson for me you know?

Even if i am almost like him, i might need to adjust when i know many ladies can take that for granted, i will love you whole-heartedly but i will not show it completely to you for the fear of you taking advantage of my precious feelings.

RELATED: SINGLE MEN: DON'T TAKE YOU WOMAN FOR GRANTED

Many men are still virgin, i mean do not have any experience about women, they show this complete love to you, you should try all you can to reciprocate, don`t let him feel stupid just because of the love, respect him, adore him, obey him and cuddle him the best way you can so that another woman will not take him away from you.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/12/single-ladies-don-take-your-man-for.html

danowena:
Whoever wrote this trash does not even know what MMM is about. Who told the writer that participants cash out at banks? Just trying to make sensation with meaningless news. Please try to do a bit of research before writing. Rubbish.

lol

Who will tell Saraki that data hike will add to it?

laprince:
Please God, let Buhari improve.

If everyone could say this then our country will be better. Kudos to you.

Justnora:
Does nairaland belong to linda ikeji? most bloggers here copy and paste her stories

and you think she doesn't copy too?

It was sudden to see the pause information very early in the morning for the MMM participants, especially those watching the growth in the early hours of Tuesday.

Well, many are laughing at you that you were warned but you turned deaf hears to the warnings, you believed in the growth as you have seen testimonies and you don't want to be left out.

Some will have collapsed at the glimpse of the news, many are relaxed while many are laughing hard simply because they warned.

I will not join those that are mocking the participants for this pause as they feel this is the end.

In the past months, i have seen Nigerians helping and really trusting each others(the MMM movers), yes, some made few others blame themselves for trusting them as they refused to confirm payment and refuse to pay after they promised to pay immediately after confirmation (this are the people working to get MMM crashed).

Yes, you warned them, you dont need to mock them as that can make them more depressed. Atleast they did not steal nor commit crime to get the money, another Nigerian who needed a growth gave someone who has pledged and gained the growth, and even if this is the end you just should not make them feel they have committed any crime, your words this moment can cause good and evil, it is better to promote the good.

For the participants, please believe the pause if you have believed and tasted the growth, you have been supporting and promoting every words coming out of the platform, this pause should not be an exemption. Do not let others that cannot risk like you have done to make you feel you have done one unforgivable evil. Keep your faith in whatever comes out of the platform like you have been doing.

For now, just do as if the scheme never existed, if the linking and other processes starts again in January as claimed; good, if it does not, well, life still continues, other doors are waiting for one to close.

Personally, i noticed this platform made people to forget about recession, crime reduced to some level, and if this platform continues it will make many people less dependent positively which is good for every family and the government as a whole.

The scheme is so simple to understand, it is not demonic, Nigerians are only helping each other.

I am not an ambassador of MMM but lover of peace and happiness.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/12/if-you-believe-growth-believe-pause-too.html


Cc: seun

Op, they will not even give you time to communicate, just jump to the step where you just give them the space they desire.

udemzy101:
Nice one op but i disagree with point 3.

you can always open ur device for her if she really want to make use of it, but saying one shouldn't set security code is a no no...


what if the owner misplace his phone? that's they essence of setting security code.

i said it, not that you don't set it but your spouse should know the code, for your spouse to know it it means it is open.

jagugu88li:
Honestly, I've never understood the need to thread carefully when it comes to married couples and phones. What could be more personal than you and your spouse?

People get up to no good, knowing for a fact that when no good backfires they'll have to act sorry. There's suppose to be nothing more personal than you and your spouse....unfortunately..

you are right though, but that is what life has turned into, the more we advance the more the trouble we attract.

Many that are into relationship or in married keep making some mistakes that makes their spouse start suspecting them, not because they have forgotten that trust is attached to many things in the relationship.

This topic is centered around the mobile device. This device, as small as it is, it can destroy a trust no matter how gigantic you have built it. This is why we must be careful with it.

When you are dealing with your calls, chats and what have you on this device you need to thread with utmost caution.

If you don't want your spouse to start doubting your trust don't do any of these:

1. Don't ignore call

Yes, it might be that the caller is one pain in your neck that you are trying to ignore. It might also be that the caller's issue cannot be resolved at that point in time, possibly because you are with your spouse or something else.

Whatever the case may be, you must try all your best to give explanation, it might even be brief but you need to let your spouse know why you refused to answer the call even if he/she did not ask.

2. Don't go private to answer your calls

Because you don't want your spouse to hear your conversation you go private with all excuses such as; there is noise here, the network is not so good here etc. meanwhile you just picked another call before that came in and it was perfect.

The truth is that it might be ladies talk or men's talk you wish to discuss, but going private will make your spouse curious with other thoughts in mind which might even be different from the aim of that call especially when he/she is not familiar with the caller.

3. Don't set security codes on device

What i mean here is that even if you set security codes on your device your spouse must be able to open them. You shouldn't set restrictions to what your spouse can do on your device, you are meant to know everything about each other.

The moment your spouse is unable to access something on your device, some other thoughts starts ringing.

If you do any of the above, don't blame your spouse for doubting your trust because you have set boundaries.

Human beings are not spirit to know what you are doing behind them, neither are we woods that curiosity isn't part of our attributes.

Those three things might look small but very powerful and the moment you give a space for your spouse to start doubting your trust, that same moment you start seeing things you have not been seeing in him/her.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/12/your-spouse-will-not-doubt-your-trust-if.html

austinereds:
I can't laugh. don't forget Bloggers too will suffer too. less traffic. this NCC people should just carry there wahala and go. Nobody want to participate in #OCCUPY NCC. Change is here.

those with original and unique content will still survive.

judeefcc:
You dont mean it my life
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if you are married i think you will understand better sir that directly or otherwise it is.