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Romance › Facts You Must Know About Relationship Before You Begin - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 4:24pm On Nov 29, 2016

Many times we take lust for love even when we know the two words are opposite.

If you have never loved or being loved you need to know you are missing.

Despite the fact that relationship is exhausting which makes some people run from it, if you are truly loved you will preach it to others.

Do you care to ask some old couples the secret behind the longevity of their relationship? Even after so many stones and thorns they have stepped through, yet, they are still much strong in the relationship. If it is as cruel some people take it to be, then no one will be in a relationship.

Many enter into relationship with different reasons. Some were forced, others to impress, those that were pushed by peer pressure, some the appearance, many others for the sake of what it is and more.

Due to the above, many relationship crash untimely because the foundation was faulty while those with the good intentions are enjoying the dividend of relationship.

Before you start a successful relationship, you must know and make your conclusions on the following;

1. Relationship is for the mentally and emotionally mature minds

relationship is for two matured minds who are ready to submit to each other.

Relationship is for those who can forget their perfection and pretend they are imperfect so as to be able to tolerate the other person.

The truth is this, background differs and our home is a great determinant when we talk of who we are.

For a great relationship, two people from this two completely different world must be ready to submit their ego; the two must be ready to tolerate each other forgetting age, financial background, race, choice and so on.

Relationship is not for babies to venture into because of the commitment involved. You need to think about your partner before you make any decision if you want the best out of the relationship.

2. You might not get what you desire in a partner

Another fact is that if you do not let the love come naturally, the possibility of the relationship being long is under treat.

Yes, it is good to set priorities but it is not at all times that what we want is what we get. Education , beauty, good grooming, financial status and so on are different conditions we set. The funny thing is that many desire in their partner what they don't have and this set wrong priority which makes the relationship collapse even from the beginning.

For you to get the best out of your relationship, you must be ready to care less of what other says, they might have a say in your affair but you must be ready to be firm with your decision or else you will fall into the hands of wrong partner.

For this, you must know what you really want and not what the world want. What works for the world may not go for you, if you make the right choice the world will follow your choice.

3. Relationship is also as important as your life

For those that want the best from their relationship, you must be ready to take relationship as important as your life if you want it to be successful, you can't just take it with levity, you must be determined.

Determination is the only weapon to fight all obstacles that may rise against ones relationship.

Take it or leave it, relationship is as important as our life considering continuity.

Once a relationship is sealed, normally, it should be a university where only death can cause your graduation, but this days the abnormal takes priority.

To some, they believe relationship need not be forever, you might get fed up at anytime and you need to move on with another person you desire, though, this is common in western world and as common as it is many still frowns against it. In Africa, it is generally not welcomed which makes Africans unique.

You must be ready to let the feelings flow naturally. You must be ready to devote your time and money, you must be ready to give it all of you; you see it is exhausting?

One major thing you need to know like i have said earlier is not to set Conditions for your relationship if you want it to last.

Good looking, sexy long legs, short, tall, dark, 6 packs, good eyes, pink lips and some others you know about can be your desire but might not be fit for your kind of person, don't let that be your main point of attraction in relationship.

Remember you have a huge task to trim your partner to whatever you want no matter the circumstances as it is a world wide belief that love is deeply blind than a blind man.

If you get what you desire in your partner, good for you. There are so many people that desires some attributes in their partner but could not get it because love itself is funny, yet, they are happily married.

Some of this attributes can be lost at any moment, what will happen to you if such happens? Will you leave that person? Love thinks about the other person's emotions, it does not hurt but kills emptiness, sadness and all other negativities of life.

You need to know all the above before you start your relationship in case you want it to last.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/facts-you-must-know-about-relationship.html

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Next Step After Seeing Your Name On Npower Portal by bamisepeters(m): 11:41am On Nov 29, 2016

brightguru:
You re invited to d N-Power revalidation exercise. At Egor LGA council on Nov 29th by 9am.come along with valid ID card. Thks....y send an invite slated for 9am by 7am DT same day?

have you been able to log in?

Business › Re: Was Black Friday Worth All The Hype? by bamisepeters(m): 3:56pm On Nov 27, 2016

MVLOX:
It was overly worth it.... As a sales consultant with one of the online markets I was able to help customers get products at outrageously beat down prices

hmmm! Muule 1.

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Tottenham Hotspur (2 - 1) On 26th November 2016 by bamisepeters(m): 8:26pm On Nov 26, 2016

david2:
And we collected 3points and maintained the top

they lost all points too.

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Family › Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by bamisepeters(op): 9:28am On Nov 26, 2016

Biibe:
M quilty of this, checked his phone nd found shii.. My hrt alsmt popped out it rilly affected me nd has affected the trust aspect in our relationship I juz hav to continue with him cos I love him hoping he wil change someday, yeh atimes it good to peep UT spouse phone bfor things get out of control

thank you for accepting that human can make mistakes, may God change him for you.

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Family › Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by bamisepeters(op): 9:24am On Nov 26, 2016

oluwadeeboi:
I can't say really but for me if the love between the two is true I won't call it spying, maybe just checking. I do this but maybe once in every six months and trust me there's always an argument. Sometimes u need to check up on bae not that u don't trust her but help her mature and align herself better cuz our arguments eventually turn out to be a discussion. I don't do this out of curiosity but just to check "OK how did u respond to certain messages" because ladies will always have someone disturbing them that's why u have to treat her right. I'm not sure I will stop checking bae's phone o Becuz I will not just wake up and get her wedding invitation to another person, I must be carried along from day 1.

you romanced your post but at the end it now showed that you are also like many curious and anxious minds

Family › Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by bamisepeters(op): 9:20am On Nov 26, 2016

Lizzdeb:
Lol!!!You made my moody morning with this!!

hope that mood is not as a result of spying?

Family › Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by bamisepeters(op): 7:52am On Nov 26, 2016

Asey:
i used to spy on my husbands phone a lot. To tell u the truth,i had to stop because it was vausing problems in our young marriage. ot was not like i suspected him.of cheating or anything of that sort.

the whatsapp messages coming from his mother to his phone about me and my family was nothing to write home about. she was actually teaching her son how to run our home and infact telling him not to spend any dime on me.

it ended up.in a very nasty argument. i am not even in good terms with MIL and i am very happy wiit it.

I VE PROMISED MYSELF TO STOP DIGGING INTO HUBBYS FON TO AVOID ANY FUTURE PROBLEMS

Politics › Re: In The Face Of Recession Nigerians Are Still Strong - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 9:00pm On Nov 25, 2016

tundejoseph4:
na Mmm dey help guys o, otherwise u 4 don get like 80millions thieves

lol, enjoy while it last.

Politics › Re: In The Face Of Recession Nigerians Are Still Strong - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 7:44pm On Nov 25, 2016

buffalowings:
Op is wearing rose tinted glasses. It is nothing but a feel-good post.

well...

Politics › Re: In The Face Of Recession Nigerians Are Still Strong - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 5:43pm On Nov 25, 2016

Emekamex:
Must we always suffer before the government gets it right?

a multi billion dollar question.

Politics › Re: In The Face Of Recession Nigerians Are Still Strong - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 5:40pm On Nov 25, 2016

IdomaLikita:
Na dis kind analysis I dey hate...OP only sees the problem with a monochrome lens. The Hardest hit in a recession aint the Upper Middle class, but the Lower Middle class who are pushed into full scale poverty.

Has OP noticed there are more children at home during School hours this period? In my compound, I can count 5.Parents can no longer afford school fees.

Has OP come to Public hospitals to see how people dying? Ordinary Antimalarials go for above N1000 now, and quackery is on the rise because people just can't afford healthcare.

Teeanage Girls have turned to prostitution just to feed themselves and their siblings.

Teenage boys beseige Sport Betting Offices daily, waiting to hammer, because work no dey..not even labourer job.

Things are definitely working for some, but for the 70% "TYPICAL" Nigerians, Destitution stares them in the face.

when there is live hope is plenty,we are survivor.

Family › Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by bamisepeters(op): 3:25pm On Nov 25, 2016

Una no won confess abi?

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Family › Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by bamisepeters(op): 1:25pm On Nov 25, 2016

It might sound somehow though, but let's face reality because this is very common among us. Not just the married ones, those courting are often caught in the act.

Even if you claim you are not a jealous type you still do this once in a while either by error or willingly.

I remembered the day i did this, i was fingling with her phone, trying to set some applications she needed and then a whatsapp chat came in which i couldn't understand.

I don't want to be left in the dark, i had to open and see what had been said to understand, but thank God it is not the one that gives heart attack because that is what you can possibly get from spying into your spouse's chat.

I don't think it is doubt of trust to do this but not advisable.

It is not just men that do this, women fall prey too, i don't want to say women do more, yet, they claim they will never touch your phone without your permission.

But immediately you come out of bathroom you will notice change of position of your device while the men will pray you get something to do in the kitchen and you forget your phone behind.

It is human, trust is not the issue but curiosity. We want to know what they are doing behind us to be sure if we are safe, yet, we know it is not right as it can cause HBP, unsettled argument and others of there kinds.

The question is ; have you ever spied on your spouse's phone? Why?

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/moment-of-truth-have-you-ever-spied-on.html

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Romance › Re: Cheating: When The Temptation Comes Along - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 7:38pm On Nov 24, 2016

pweetixandy:
judging by this post, I don't think I have ever truly loved someone!

really?

Romance › Cheating: When The Temptation Comes Along - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 12:41pm On Nov 24, 2016

Trust is the foundation of any relationship, for this reason, no one hopes his or her partner cheats as it is one of those things we promised each other from the beginning.

Reasons for cheating varies from one man to another. To some it is for money while it is for the sexual pleasure to another.

Some cannot even tell the reason for cheating as they just observe they started cheating.

Cheating is bad though but it is one of those temptations many relationship face and only the determined and those that are extremely disciplined that overcome this temptation.

If as you are reading this you are cheating, please it is better you try to adjust now as it will wreck your home one day.

When you are into it all you just need to do is to trace it to the source and phantom out a solution for you to be loyal with your partner before they get to know.

Many men especially cheat for sexual pleasure, not just with prostitute, some have a particular woman they cheat with and at times that woman becomes number two in the house before you open your eyes.

We know some women cheat too but most times men are caught in the act more times because we feel we can have more than one woman, if it comes to worst the cheating will become legalized with the wife not having any choice than to accept rival.

As a man, you know how you feel when you imagine her cheating let alone when you catch her, why not also think about her, what your act will do to her emotion?

When you love your partner you don't want to play on their emotion, you will not want them to be sad for amoment.

Either you are a man or woman, always remember the promise you made to each other when the love started, and try to be loyal to those promises no matter what it will cost you.

Well, you think you are a man that you can marry as many as you can; remember she can also choose to file for divorce to be alone or to settle with another man who values her worth.

We can always fight temptations in relationship. Thinking about how the relationship started alone can spark up the love once more.

Determination and self discipline is the best way to overcome cheating temptation.

Remember, what is good for one goose is good for another goose.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/cheating-when-temptation-comes-along.html

Politics › In The Face Of Recession Nigerians Are Still Strong - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 12:43pm On Nov 23, 2016

Since some months back, we have been battling it out with recession, still, Nigerians are becoming stronger every day.

We talk of up to 250% increment in the amount of all major edible items, cost of transportation, building materials, bride price and even the artificial air we enjoy when it seems to be hot.

Upon all this, no increment in basic salary of government and private workers, only the manual skilled men can decide on the suitable amount they wish to render their service or sell their goods in line with the economic conditions.

Despite all this, we cannot do without organizing elaborate parties everyday.

Many started and finished their houses in this same period while others are buying exotic cars at the face of the unbelievable exchange rate of our darling currency.

Iphone7 is very expensive, yet, many bought it already with their hard earned money while some others are changing their mobile gadgets to some other expensive ones.

If you need to be inspired you don't need to go too far, the case of Nigeria and her people is enough to over inspire you because we find a way where there seems to be no way.

There is never an excuse for being a failure as we can survive in any condition so far there is a tiny way.

Despite the fact that we scream at our leaders' errors, we don't allow their mistakes to prevail over us as their issues are been given considerations at our leisure time with bottle of beer and roasted chicken.

Many youths not even mentioning the graduates among them are there struggling to survive, despite the fact that there is no job, yet, many are making it, toiling legally on the street, not even giving in to the condition of the nation but believing in themselves.

Many are even surviving with involvement in Pon·zi schemes while the government is still trying to put its house in order and using one finger to warn many to desist from money making machine scheme as the negative effect will be unbearable yet, they gave it free hand to operate.

Even without that Nigerians will still find legal means of getting money as we are full of options inactivated.

Thank God for one of the giants of telecommunications that made data subscription amount to crash across board which makes data affordable for all even though we know they can still do better while we manage the little they have done.

Prior to this time, many youths go for cheats to surf the Internet, but now, the chase is at the barest minimum.

If anyone can survive in Nigeria, apart from war zones, there is no where such person cannot survive as we are naturally survivor.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/in-face-of-recession-nigerians-are.html

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Next Step After Seeing Your Name On Npower Portal by bamisepeters(m): 10:02am On Nov 23, 2016

alabisaw:
When I see my fellow Nigerians post ,on how did you longin ,how did you do this , I keep wondering if this fellow did the test ? How did you login for the test ? and please let grow up by using search engines ,if your first try is not correct try the next .

what exactly is your point or you miss road sir?

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Events › Re: Wedding Day: Reason Brides Show More Happiness Than Groom - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 6:32pm On Nov 21, 2016

ukandi1:
U are wrong to feel and think that way. It's a decision u must view and think through thoroughly cos ones u enter, no looking outside and wishing that u could reverse d hands of time to correct.

well, me just playing, that is normal though even if you are not a womanizer.

Events › Re: Wedding Day: Reason Brides Show More Happiness Than Groom - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 10:26am On Nov 21, 2016

ukandi1:
It's not true. What made me calm during my wedding day was that

1 I feared for d unknown
2 I was not sure my choice was d best
3 I feared for d lost freedom.
4 I feared that I cut not touch any beautiful woman I wanted again if I ever meet any.
5 I was not sure I wanted to let other attached ladies go away.
These and many other reasons stopped me.

i am looking for someone to help me shout thieffffffffffff, you like women jooo... Lol

Events › Re: Wedding Day: Reason Brides Show More Happiness Than Groom - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 3:48pm On Nov 20, 2016

Connoisseur:
Well I think it's for different reasons.
On my wedding day, I was really worried things weren't going well. I was worried my wedding is gonna be a flop. The caterer took to much time to deliver the food. When it was time for pictures, i was so angry so if the pictures couldn't be printed. That spoiled my mood, it took some time into the celebrations before I could lighten up and put a smile.

lol

Events › Re: Wedding Day: Reason Brides Show More Happiness Than Groom - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 7:00am On Nov 20, 2016

treebuds:
Both the bride and the bridegroom should be happy if they focus on the good the future brings. The groom on the wedding day will be thinking of money he spent and it is as if nothing was done.
He believed he should have done more while the bridegroom will want to show off no matter how big or little. She don't want to be mocked.

the mockery part of it is one of the main reasons.

Events › Re: Wedding Day: Reason Brides Show More Happiness Than Groom - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 6:59am On Nov 20, 2016

kennyblaze007:
Wat type of topic one can possibly generate for a relationship program on radio

this is one of them, just that it can cause peaceful-trouble.

Family › Re: How To Know You Are In A Healthy Relationship Or Not by bamisepeters(m): 6:24am On Nov 20, 2016

cokiek:
Relationship experts everywhere yet d divorce rates r high...I wonder why?

Annie Idibia! The Maurijuana smoking wife of 2face Idibia
http://thekokogist..com.ng/2016/06/annie-idibia-marijuana-smoking-wife-of.html?m=1

experts might be much but that doesn't stop divorce as it is also part of the choices relationship experts give their clients.

Career › Re: Boss To Staff Relationship; The Opportunist - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 2:51pm On Nov 19, 2016

Diplomaticbeing:
One who doesn't believe in something will always fall for anything. The world is made up of 99 percent opportunists and only 1 percent of altruists.

Altruists live on principle, while opportunists live on expediency.

Opportunists are of two classes:

- Leechlike opportunist

- Predaceous oopportunist

The unfortunate thing is that the leechlike opportunist (employee) will always lose to a predaceous opportunist (employer/boss).

A good product - when aggressively and effectively marketed - will always sell itself. You the employee, let your boss respect and love you based on your efficiency/expertise on the service you provide. Stop showing and needing unnecessary familiarity with favouritism intent. Don't make yourself a servile to your boss/organization instead make yourself a loyal, dedicated and faithful staff and every other thing good will come your way. Greed and conceitedness will always fail you in the end.

Enough of employees victimization cries. Many a time, they are the main architects of their own misfortunes.

thank you

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 200K Selected N-power Applicants To Be Notified This Weekend ~ VP Spokesman by bamisepeters(m): 7:53am On Nov 19, 2016

jaedswosh:
i wait for una sote i don see better work, i nor do again, just return all the money for mb wey i take register and that una mumu test wey password nor gree work even after 7hours of trying and when e eventually go i dey beer palour and just dey click rubbish as answer...... #Naija

and your name was there o, but after i saw this i deleted it and put someone else's name who needs it... Thank you for believing in the FG.

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Events › Re: Wedding Day: Reason Brides Show More Happiness Than Groom - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 4:18pm On Nov 18, 2016

maryjan8:
Nice one

someone told me the bottles is what the groom always think about as they want to drink to stupor.

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Events › Re: Wedding Day: Reason Brides Show More Happiness Than Groom - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 3:45pm On Nov 18, 2016

Medley:
This is quite untrue, guyz have a way of showing happiness towards this kind of event. They are the most happiest when she is their dream wife unless pregnancy forced the marriage on them to a lady they wanted to just play. Then the only way out provided by brides family was marriage. Secondly, ladies are more emotional.

i think you nailed it with the word 'emotional'... Thank you. I know there is still more

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Events › Wedding Day: Reason Brides Show More Happiness Than Groom - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 3:33pm On Nov 18, 2016

*On a lighter mood...

I always wonder why the bride are more than happy on the wedding day than the groom.

At times, some grooms act as if the wedding is being forced on them, like they didn't prepare for it nor spend a dime to see to the success of the event.

Personally, i think the women know they are hooked for life, they accept their fate to have made the matrimonial vow to the one they love and that day is a day that many others such as friends and family members wished for but couldn't get it, but God did it for them against all odds.

On the other way round while the bride is seriously dancing, showing wild happiness, the groom is always like i can't believe this, so i will be with her for the rest of my life, i am in trouble if she or anyone catches me fooling around with some other chik.

Or should i say the so called happiness in the bride's expression is not because of all i stated above but for the fact that women are created to be good dancers than men?

Also, should i say the grooms are just like that as that is the best way they could express their happiness to have caught a queen many others struggled to get?

See the picture used for this post, see the expression of the bride, and it is obvious through her moves that she is extremely happy, but the groom, his expression is no where close to that of the bride.

This is not the first time i am seeing this and most times, the financial status doesn’t matter.

Please, why are the grooms always appearing like someone thinking while the brides are always over joyous on the wedding day?

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/wedding-day-reason-why-brides-show.html

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Career › Re: Boss To Staff Relationship; The Opportunist - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 9:43am On Nov 17, 2016

The first one here https://www.nairaland.com/3463361/boss-staff-relationship-strict-bamisepeters

The second here https://www.nairaland.com/3466802/boss-staff-relationship-free-bamisepeters

Career › Boss To Staff Relationship; The Opportunist - Bamisepeters' Blog by bamisepeters(op): 9:37am On Nov 17, 2016

The last of the kinds of boss in the universe. This is the worst of all the bosses in all ramifications as it can kill any serious business.

This kind of boss takes advantage of the situation in a particular environment.

We have so many organizations in this part of the continent where graduates are hired for jobs where they should earn enough, instead, they get peanut every day or month after hard labour.

The labourers can even be proud to declare their earnings meanwhile, a graduate working for this kind of boss cannot even pronounce the name of the organization he/she is working for.

Even when they are passionate about the job, the condition, pressure attached to the job is enough to push out the passion coupled with bad wages or salary and no incentives.

For example, as expected, someone working in a telecommunication company should be entitled to some minutes of airtime given for a particular period by the company.

So far this kind of companies knows there are no job and government policies are not top notch, they take advantage of these to give bad offers to graduates which those graduates will still find manageable due to the condition with hope that better one will come, yet, there will be no time for them to even apply to other ones as all their time will be consumed by the one they claim to be managing.

Apart from the above, this kind of boss is common among male bosses, they take advantage of the opposite sex due to the fact that they are the boss.

In this case who should we blame, the pressurer or the pressured?

Personally, i cannot blame the subject for succumbing to the pressure mounted by the boss for a sexual relationship to keep her job when we know it is an herculean task to get another.

Well, we can say she lacks faith but do you think it is easy for someone who cruises around in a car to start trekking?

It is good to reject the pressure, in fact, some women do, but i must confess it is not easy and kudos to those faithful ladies.

Bosses in this category are those who are over protective of their female offspring, in fact, they don't pray to have daughter(s) because of the way they threat other ladies.

This kind of bosses do not mind losing best hands for quacks just because of sexual pleasures.

The bad thing is that at the long run, the female still lose because the boss will always want to eat different delicacies.
If you are in this category, it is advisable you let this change affect you for better as you are killing your business, home and future gradually.

You claim you are professional, yet, you hire because of what you see in a particular lady that will favour just you not minding the desired qualities needed to move the business forward.

You might think you are enjoying, the fact is you are throwing stones ahead which you will still be the one to step on.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/boss-to-staff-relationship-opportunist.html

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Celebrities › Re: Adokiye Kyrian: "I Can Lose My Virginity To Davido" by bamisepeters(m): 7:42pm On Nov 15, 2016

kinglekan:

The title of this thread is quite misleading.

Funny comments and reactions too, she was asked a direct question and she answered it. How does that even fall into the category of "Attention seeking"? Like y'all don't have one celebrity or random individual you are crushing on.

Na wa 4 una o!

stop joor, and you are talking as if they read the content.

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