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This kind of men are not just interested in the way you discharge your duty, they are also interested in your well-being.

This kind of people can tolerate anything but get furious on things irrelevant (of course a human will always be human).

They take you like a child or equate you with someone very close and guide you to more success. This kind of boss are not particular about you staying all your life in their establishment, they even help you to move your career to the next level.

They correct you when you are wrong, they encourage you when it seems everything is not going as expected, they also advice you when you are confused, then, you feel at home while you are at work.

To this kind of people, they believe the essence of human beings goes beyond you being the boss today but you preparing your future as you don't know what lies ahead of someone you call staff today.

This kind of boss allows their staff to participate in decision making as their decision maybe what will lift the business from the current situation.

They appreciate you and spoil you when you are at your peak and scold you when you are below per as they believe in you and wish that you up your game.

This kind of boss encourage unity among staff as it energize the business as a tree cannot make a forest.

With this kind of boss, you are anxious to be at work every other day and your passion for the job and to serve the company you represent increases.

This kind of people draw line between work and pleasure and fully caters for the welfare of its staff as they are taken as an important aspect of the business, no profit without them and to make the profit grow they must be made happy.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/boss-to-staff-relationship-free.html

Slaveman343:
Too many beautiful girls, classy, decent, smart but they lack that sexiness thingy. Who is with me?

Below are beautiful Nigerian ladies but dont be surprised if they have good curves and butts they cant sway and handle to sexily appeal to men.

having said all this, i put it to you, have you dated all Nigerian women?

Kaybaba5:
I love my girl i am the one acting like her parent, feeding housing,etc
Over two years now have been in charge
Cos she is apprentice
But i believe that she will help me back after she finishes her training.

Am not praying to lose her but if it happens, i am well prepared for it.

lovely.

LoRdCaT:
My brother, i cannot describe this girl in one word oo.. She leaves me breathless in both a good and bad way. Today she is a better lover than Juliet, tomorrow she is jezebel's mentor. But she swears she loves me to bits. Infact i am about to create a topic on this issue. My brothers and sisters, this nigga is tired..

i like the resolution, you gave her opportunity to talk which is good.

In order not to make this post to be long it will be divided into 3.

There are several kinds of bosses but i will only like to discuss about one of them now.

This is not to criticize anybody but to make ourselves better, for this, i will share my stand on this issue and you as a more experienced boss or individual can criticize me, support or add to it. If you can share short experience to back-up your point it will be very fantastic.

THE STRICT BOSS

This kind of boss do not tolerate any nonsense from anybody especially their staff, not just the male, but the female inclusive.

To them, your work is all they know about and are not interested in any other thing that happens to you as that is what you are being paid for and most not be toiled with.

The only relationship that exist is that of the job and once you misbehave, you are sent out of the business.

In fact, you are not allowed to mingle with other staff as you are to face your duty which you are paid for.

What i see to this is this, yes you must not mix work with pleasure but as human being we deserve not to be treated like robots.

For great productivity, you need to derive happiness from your job.

How will i be happy when all my boss do always is to wear a frown face. I believe the status of your face shows the status of the job especially the progress. At such face, everyone will be timid which encourage mistakes.

Not that you open your teeth every time but the appearance alone is enough to motivate the staff to greatness or reduce their self esteem to loss for you.

You don't recognize your staff after a good job and you expect them to be motivated to achieve more, all you know is that you pay them and the duty they are hired for should be discharged.

The fact is that you earn more than the duties they discharge for you which is expected and as such you need to appreciate their efforts outside that which is mandatory, though it is unofficial but it makes them do more which in turns make you keep earning.

Human being love to be free and to feel at home wherever they may be. Rules and regulations is good to guide the affairs of all but as a leader i think you need to make your staff to be free especially with you.

All that is needed is to draw the lines between work and pleasure time, they should know you are serious when you mean it and other wise when it is it.

Through this, everyone can be happy.

I feel the job is not only what you should be interested in about your staff but their well-being also for greater achievements for you.

Your comment means a lot, please don't keep your thoughts to yourselves.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/boss-to-staff-relationship-strict.html

You try o

Mujtahida:
If you love football you'd appreciate what Iwobi did. It was the quick, instinctive reaction to produce a poetic and magical moment that made fans go ohhhhhh ahhh. It caused ripples of sheer joy and delight in our hearts. That flick move by Iwobi though spoiled by the whistle was a flash of light, a whisper of love, a soft caress, a kiss of the lips of the feet with the lips of the ball, a whiff of pleasant perfume, a sudden splash of colour, the rhythm and the beat of the African Tom Tom rolled into one. True Art is childlike and sometimes childish.

wait o, i miss road? Is this literature segment?

Mikel did it, he sent the keeper the wrong way after waiting a while to see the offside flag which refuse to appear.

Our defense is not good at all.

Moses with the messi style.

Moses scored.

merahki:
Lol...I am a woman ooo
I swear I have gotten real tired of pointing this out with every other post of mine
That anyone would imagine me with certain body parts floors me, literally...makes me gag
I am buying a gun, for the next time this happens on here!

sorry sist...

2dugged:
its exactly how it is, not a reflection

ok

2dugged:
Bamisepeters ,the fact is there are men out there who genuinely have good intensions, that being said, it's all almost impossible for a lady and a guy to be just friends (just my opinion), so most times when just being friends ends up being more than that, past favours tend to now seem like a build up for ass tapping ,looking @ this thread is why relationship these days is so tideous, bridge in communication, people can't even have conversation without letting tempers fly, smh

that is just the reflection of how we have made it look.

Thanks for the comments so far, keep it coming, either the write up is good or bad i wouldn't have been doing it without you criticising, commending and commenting... Like i usually say, your comment means alot to me. Thank you.... #proudwriter.

manikspears:
This topic is 90% true, there are plenty old fools out there but the truth is that both parties, male and female play a part in it. Some girls mentality is that they can open doors with their p@$@y. And some guys will only do favors for return. If not why will somebody old enough to be your father stop to carry only you or you and your friends in his car forming designated driver and suddenly starts interrogating you and ends it with he wants your number and the useless devil too will give him and starts forming the innocent game. Na olosho nna be. Hell awaits patiently.

this is funny i swear.

Okeyson4wisdom:
my dear what motivates me to help/assist anyone which includes women is the fact that christ does it all for us, because if u look at women these days with their negative thinking wetin dey pain me pass be say most of them can't even appreciate, or even say thank You, they see it as a birthright, or some other favour, am saying from experience and I don't wanna say things that would make God angry or instill bitterness in sumone's heart. Thank you

maybe it will be good we all see it this way.

Nmanuanu:
I know your type. Don't worry, your nemesis is loading... the law of retributive justice will catch up with you and overwhelm you and your generations to come. Just keep it up.

he might even be joking you know...

It is precious to settle for love than to stay glued for money. This is not to say money isn't good but love supersedes all.

Love does not care about tribe, religion or race but it looks inward, beyond what others can even comprehend.

When it comes to love nothing is general because love itself is subjective.

Its appearance is not the same even between twins let alone friends.

At times, many keeps wondering how a princess is caged by an ugly man or vise versa, and they start asking "does she have eyes? What is beautiful about that lady for him to have even approached her?" etc.

Love have no regards for looks, class, tribe, culture, or even anything.

If you think your class should get you the best, you might need a rethink as love knows no class as all this characteristics are subjective to each man when love is at work.

When you say someone is ugly or even poor, another person will tell you you are blind because all these characteristics have different meanings to different people.

Yes, two people might share same opinion at a particular time, but familiarity with that particular subject that is termed ugly or poor can change the perception of one of these two people at the long run especially when that one is under the influence of love.

To make good decision when it comes to relationship is profitable because once it is sealed you began to see some reality which was never revealed to you when you were still courting.

By then, you will not be able to switch as fast as possible especially women.
Don't be pushed by what you see as it is deceitful.

Also, It is good to humble yourself when you desire a good partner as what you show yourself to be is what you are calling for yourself.

You might have been told you need to look expensive so that you will attract big fish. The truth is that you will only get attracted to those who believes if they invest "with" you their resources will increase and they will pretend to really want you as they know what they want.

They frame excuses for breakup once they have gotten what they wanted, don't forget you called for it.

Perception varies when it comes to love, however, it is very essential to put God first for a lasting relationship so that you will not end up building a man for another woman and vice versa like many already did.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/11/perception-varies-when-it-comes-to.html

ifezy:
its not dat easy to let go especially wen u hav assistd d guy financialy

i understand your point, even to those who didn't spend a dine but love, it is not easy but one must just move on when it happen, shit happens you know.. Thanks for the comment, it means a lot.

Olusheyi1:
Good one

thanks for your time.

Mrhauxiliary:
Let of give this clearity to all the viewers of this thread there is wide difference btw friendship and relationship. So take note!

thank you.

KardinalZik:
Morale of the story:

Don't carry any relationship on your head. Even your husband/wife, na shoulder you suppose carry him/her mata put.

This will save your head/neck from calamity.

Don't allow Philippines movies deceive you

lol

Rockstar2014:
How do I learn to cool my highly temperamental fiancee I intend to marry soon,though if not that I truly love her and ready to guide her through this, I would have left her long ago I swear.

well, we are not all perfect, we have a flaw and her strength will definitely be the weakness of another.

Relationship is about tolerance, you cannot say, the other lady you are looking out there might be worst, just because you are closer to your fiancee made you know her in whole.

Just keep telling her she needs to calm down if she want your relationship to last because hot temper can make her misbehave that will not go well with you.

She is not a baby anymore, so you just need to tolerate her, put her in prayers, if she doesn't love you the same way you love her you will have left her because many men cannot cope with hot tempered lady and please, try not do what will get her turned on.

You can control her even when others find it difficult. No one is perfect, for better for worse is relationship. Carry your cross with smiles.

We wouldn't be there when she will be confessing how perfect you are at tolerating her weakness, continue to endure even in prayers.

Psoul:
Pls sister next time dont use this together in one sentence.


Well, for me, just come and say...."Dear I'm very sorry, this wont happen again". This will be more than enough for me to forgive whatever u did.

seriously many men and women likes this too but last last one of those i mentioned in the post can also seal it you know...

creamylicious:
if i try not to be the subject of d break up n he tries.... what , who will be the subject of d break up am not understanding

you mean if non of you becomes the subject? In this case, mutual understanding led to the separation which might be due to one condition or the other beyond your control, life goes on and that which you have learnt can still make the next relationship greater.

Please read posts not to criticise but to gain and to teach as we can also gain from you, and also, calm down as relationship issue does not require haste when reading or else the point will be lost.

vislabraye:
. What's the point of this write up ?

Don't be in haste to finish reading, i am sure you will get one thing even if not all, please i beg for more of your time.

mumels:
Nice Post bro. I really love the message you are trying topass,though its not easy as you have stated it.

For example i will illustrate a scenario to you, of which am actually the person it happened to.I just finished my one year compulsory NYSC program-me. During my service year i met this very beautiful,charming and wonderful girl. She was also serving in the same PPA as my self. She is everything i could wish for in a woman, beautiful,intelligent,caring, very very good cook, submissive and religious in fact its like she has super pack bundle package from God when coming to this world. We instantly grew to love each other from day 1, we were almost inseparable as any where you see me she will be there and anywhere she is am also there and of course when it comes to sex she was wow!!!
Cut long story short i told myself have seen my wife, unfortunately there seems to be just one problem Am a Christian and She is a Muslim. On my part i have no issues with that infact i intended marrying her, its all about understanding and respect for each others believe. She felt the same way too, but her dad insisted she must marry a Muslim. She cried on diff occasion but her dad insisted.

Fast forward to today, NYSC is over. She is back at home and i am back at home too. She knows we cant marry but she always wants to hear my voice every minute while I on the other hand seems to vanish without her by my side, the more i think about her the more heart broken i feel.
Have tried to go into new relationships but i just don't get the same vibe i got from my relationship during my service, the scent of the flavor of love just seems missing anytime i try to go out with a new person.

Back to your post, trust me bro there are some relationships you can never get over with. no matter how hard you try, its one of the the reasons why each human being on earth is unique. There is something unique about each person on this planet earth that makes them diff to any other person, and such uniqueness also goes with each relationship you engage in.

Try watch this movie 'Age of Adaline' you will understand better.

i always knew those who attack me have something to say and this is why i am not ready to fight because i know i myself can still learn from whatever it is you are hiding...

Like i said it is never easy, yours was through mutual understanding and this hurt more...

You just have to get over it, i pray the two of you see someone better and do not forget to make use of what you have learnt in your previous relationship in the new one you will soon enter into because i know no matter how much the love is you will still find someone else that you will love. Talk2Bella, tosyne2much, 2dugged see the quoted, help my reader with your romantic encouragement.

Flashh:
I said "give room". I never said "always give room".

Get?

overstood boss.

goingape2:
piece of shiit!


i don't even know why i quote this jargons

because you dont want to keep reading, i even prefer people like you as my shit will catch your attention.

BabaRamota1980:
There are many great teachers here in NL, sages, Im blessed to know one of them and by being a good attentive student he has taught me many things and expanded my horizon. I give thanks.

I see you are hungry to hear more from me.

If I did i will reveal too much too early and derail the thread. I respect the OP and other people enjoying this interaction. I do not want to take that away. Hang around you will learn what you want to know...

thank you anyways.

Vendoor:
All these relationship talk don tire me sef...
.

Abeg.

i understand we all have our interests especially in this money making moment, but i know one of this topics will catch your interest or you will need to refer to one, just manage along as you don't know when you will need one of them.

Flashh:
Relationship doesn't guarantee marriage, but gives room for sex.

still not all relationships.