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yemsai:
Very beautiful woman!...d movie ain't dat interesting tho..

by your comment we know who you are...

bedspread:
ADVICE:
IF YOU WANT YOUR MARRIAGE INTACT
Keep your Marriage off Nairaland
Keep your Marriage of instagram
Keep your Marriage of twitter

how?

House girls are now becoming something else.

Erngie:
. people and househelps. treat your house help like your child..Most of them won't pay back with evil

It doesn't matter, a bad housemaid will be bad no matter the treatment.

hardywaltz:
It's a lie, if u like give them the whole world they will still betray u.

but not all of them sha.

Ovokoo:
What he means is that he was richer then but not now oo.

No o, he was richer as lecturer before he became full time pastor, he isn't referring to now as we know he is super rich now even more than when he was a lecturer,if you read the full article you will overstand.

Swizdoe:
@op all I'm seeing in your write up is special...


Too much special is not good

if you say so, it's ok then.

MATURE MINDS ONLY

As a blogger, i feel i don't have to do the writing all the time, i feel we can all do the blogging together but commitments to several things we have passion for wouldn't allow us.

I wish many could just share their opinion for all of us to learn new things to help our relationship and to be the best we want it to be.

I know making money is what we all desire, i wouldn't want you to look at this topic as non-profiting but as stress and depression killer. We need to make ourselves happy even when all is not fine with hope it will get better anytime soon.

To the issue of discussion...

I have always heard of people describing their spouse to whoever cares to listen, some descriptions will make you go wow, some will make you to start thinking of your own spouse too while some others will make you feel like murdering that spouse, as in, making you go haywire, depending on the situation at hand.

Please describe your spouse, mention them if they are on this forum, let us read about what makes you feel you have the best spouse in the whole wide world. Act as if you are talking to your spouse, be emotional as best as you can and forget you have millions of potential readers.

It is Valentine’s day, Who goes first?


http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/02/if-you-were-describing-your-spouse-to.html

Now it is very clear that woman cannot feel special without man, little wonder they are created from man's ribs.

Not just the Valentine’s day, during xmas and new year celebration many ladies believes it is the day their man must give them unforgettable treat not considering his pocket nor how good he has been from the first day of the relationship.

Some men are also of the opinion that it is a most they prove they are in control of the relationship, therefore, they need to show it.

Little wonder some kids end their relationship during this period with flimsy excuse when they cannot perform their presumed control of the day financially.

Personally, i think you are degrading yourself when you expect that a man must be the one to give you the unforgettable treat these special days as life is about give and take, and as a man, you are still a kid to have thought that it is only your duty to make the special day worth while.

Some woman will not even care about what you have or how you will get the money to give her the best treat, all she knows is that she must be treated specially that day.

They believe that for a day to be special, then, it must be made special indeed for them by their man.

Not that it is not good, at least, the man will get the opportunity of being the head of the relationship, however, men too deserves to be treated like a king during this periods.

Not that the man should not do his duties, however, she should also make you feel special in her little way after all they say what a man can do they(women) can do better.

It shouldn't be a day the man will be filled with the thought of "why am i a man and not woman?"

It shouldn't be a day the man will want to do all he can to dodge from his "responsibilities", not because he does not love you, but the resources to show how much you are cherished is scarce even after always doing the right thing when the resources are available.

If a man can do all in his capabilities to make a woman feel special once in a while or on these special occasions, a woman must also do at least little in reciprocal.

Showing appreciation for the love if not for anything whatsoever is something that can make the man too to feel special.

A good woman who knows the value of a good man will not wait for special days to show appreciation to the man for his love and care.

These special days should be utilised by any good wife/lady to show appreciation no matter how little and to make the man proud of being a good man/husband as it is never easy to be one.

The truth is that, this good men don't wait till special days like the xmas, new year nor Valentine’s day to show you how important and special you are in their life.

They treat you like a queen everyday, even those special days no matter how they make it look special you still see it as their usual show of love, so why not use this special days for appreciation instead of still hoping they spend more on you.

Even if he has prepared the world for you on these special days, it is important you also have your special plans for him too, he deserves to feel special too.

If you have a special man you will understand better that it is women that should utilize the special days more than the men as everyday is special for a good man to his wife.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/02/valentines-day-is-not-for-women-alone.html

It is known all around the world that February 14 is a general day to celebrate and show love especially to one's partner.

You may possibly say that you show love to your partner everyday or you don't need someone to dictate when to show or celebrate love to you, so, February 14 isn't special.

Just like Xmas and new year celebration, February 14 brings unity into the celebration and show of love.

Yes, many young female get pregnant on valentines day after being carried away with the excitement of the day while some get disflowered and some other disadvantages of the day to those who don't know what they want yet.

However, Valentine's day should be a special day for married couple or those in courtship to rekindle the feeling between them. This rekindling is not necesarily through copulation.

So far the day is generally known to be lovers day then, you must give your partner(especially the female) something special to talk about with their friends, they must not just hear but be able to share the experience.

The Valentine’s day is also a day you can show appreciation to your partner for who he or she has been to you right from the first day of the relationship for those who really know what it means to love and be loved.

The support, companionship, agreements and disagreements, offspring, protection and provision even in the thick and thin is worthy of appreciation for those who know how hard it is to give and receive all these attributes.

If you don't know, the Valentine’s day is also capable of reuniting broken homes because of the emotional feelings attached to it.

It is not just to celebrate the day with one's loyal, ever supportive, ever loving and ever caring partner but to celebrate it rightly, utilizing every opportunity to make it up to him/her especially if you have deprived them of something they have truly deserved for long this period makes it different.

If you don't have a partner to share this moment with you shouldn't border too much as there are lots of people you can show happiness.

Look around you, your neighbors and friends are there, you can also visit the motherless home to show love to those who really needs it, though they might be expecting people to come show them love, however coming from you who they never knew makes the difference.

The Valentine’s day is one of the best days to stylishly make your intentions known to that lady or man as you can hide under the intention of the season.

The season is not just for you to show love to your partner but to put smiles on many other people's faces the little you can, thereby making yourself happy at the end.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/02/reasons-why-valentine-day-is-different.html

Happy Valentine’s day to every lover around the globe, our different personal perception especially those who don't share the opinion about every February 14 will not change the purpose of the day for so many who believes in the belief of the day.

Here are some popular things people do on Valentine’s day:

1. Wear special outfit:

It is a general belief that the colour that suits the day is red and white, therefore, many people use these colours for different designs.

However some couples or some lovers believe otherwise, hence, they chose their own colour and style.

2. Go for special outing:

This is done by those who cherish their spouse and feel once in a while especially on a valentine's day they need to make their woman feel special by taking them out for dinner, just for the two of them to rekindle their love and to celebrate love.

3. Buy special gift:

As many believes that the day is meant for sharing gifts among their loved ones they then buy gifts and expect from you in return. During this period is when those that sells greeting and seasonal cards get more orders.

4. Make marriage proposal:

Many guys take the advantage of this special season to propose to the woman of their desire.

Well, this to some women is not a surprise as they might have seen traces of the man proposing that day, but just as it is a must a man propose to his wife-to-be so also is it for the woman to open their mouth in surprise to the proposal just to make the man feel special among other men.

5. Eatery becomes most visited place:

This is common among the young ones who don't really know what love nor valentine is all about but want to be part of history.

Little wonder some guys run away from their girlfriend during this period as these girls believes it is a day their guy must buy something for them.

On Valentine’s day is when an eatery that is as quiet as a grave yard becomes super arena for the sake of love.

6. Love making day:

Winks to the married folks as the celebration mostly end in the bed, is serves as the stamp or signature for the celebration.

Some women in love tend to fall prey to guys who believes the day is for not just showing love but making love and at the long run they become pregnant for their St. Valentine who might not accept it.

Ladies like this get the reward of celebrating the day and it will forever be a day to remember.

The common things are not limited to those in the list, feel free to add yours.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/02/some-popular-things-people-do-on.html

olexjay:
bro which of the airtel plan offer 11kobo per sec?

it is called value plus, however it is not for all customers, it is for whitelisted customers.

slawomir:
all these network providers are taking Nigerians for a fool. etisalat was supposed to bring competition to the likes of empty hen, Glo and airtel
but this is not the case anymore. now they are the most expensive.
airtel came out with this package for God knows how long[b]. airtel has the cheapest call tariff.
11kobo perseconds. that is 6 Naira a minute.starting from the very first minute without any daily access fee[/b]
glo na those one own worse. they have the cheapest data subscription but if you try subscribe then you go regret. in fact you fit commit suicide because injured snail is faster than glo.

You might be right but you are only talking about those who uses the line for calls alone. There is no package that is complete, this is why we all have even more than two networks at a time for different purposes, forget say one network dey offer 11k/s(there are so many restrictions on that package, many are opting out immediately they start using it due to numerous restrictions)

Philpham:
My dear no Nigerian man will impregnate you o, they are irresponsible, dead beat baby daddies... just go and buy your pad..

if you are a man i know your conclusion explains who you are but if you are a woman it means you have always been unfortunate with men.... Please don't mislead your children.

ednut1:
do u know wat sarcasm means

maybe my first quote is one of the numerous meanings...

Fifthcolumnist:
From frying pan to fire

Fifthcolumnist:
I hereby denounce followership of Arsenal football club. No point loosing happiness over a crap team year after year. I don port go Barcelona.
Adieu Arsenal!

Defending Arsenal has become harder than defending Buhari's cluelessness

haba bros, go start from scratch, Barcelona too big for you to just choose anyhow.... Leicester need fans you know?

If you have a caring, understanding and a loving man i don't think you need to do anything to hurt his feelings.

Many women wonder why men find it difficult to forgive them when they are caught in extra marital relationship.

Despite the fact that it is assumed to be normal for men to be free donor and cheat, they(men) find it difficult to forgive their woman if reverse is the case let alone forgetting because they will always be demoralized anytime they remember what they caught the woman doing.

No matter how bad you may be sexually, your man still cherish it and cannot afford to see or hear you share that "bad" moment with another man let alone when you(woman) are perfect in bed.

In the case of rape when he even knows it is out of your control he still finds it difficult to get it out of his head.

... The way you moan or groan when you show love to each other, your moves in reaction to the good time, the way you kiss each other passionately and the romance...

I repeat, that special moments are indeed special to any man that truly loves you.

If you think... The good food you cook, the time you share together to talk or to play and even to argue or fight... are less important to him, the day you are caught in the act will define your unreserved significance in his entire life.

It takes an herculean task for a man to forgive his woman after catching her in the act.

A man who is not fully committed to the relationship will find it difficult to forgive a cheating wife let alone will the man that knows the worth of a good woman accept, forgive or forget a woman caught in the act.

Please don't play on your man's intelligence, he might be slow to anger but he is deadlier than snake if you are caught in the act.

It is very possible you are forgiven, however, it is advisable to be loyal.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/02/reasons-why-he-will-not-forgive-you.html

Agozie48:
oh ndi mmadu Nigerians eh there is nothing you would do that they won't criticize you ,you go left they will talk you go right they will talk you stay for middle they will still talk nawa oh can't people just mind their own business .Una wey dey criticize dey jealous her marriage

Please check other post about the wedding, people are happy for her there, this is not the issue of if you do this they will talk, if you do that they will talk. No big deal in spraying the money, neither is it unheard of for people to struggle for that sprayed cash but she posting it is the issue as it depict mockery even if it wasn't her intention. Well, we cannot be perfect, i guess she sees all this after her wedding she will realize the mistake she made if and only if she did not mean it the way many are seeing it.

BizBayo:
I can bet with my left ball that those that are complaining, if they are there t hey will pick the money as well. Hypocrites.

that is obviously not the point here. She shouldn't have posted this kind of picture is the issue as it is mockery even if that was not her intention.

ipreach:
No time to read, though i'm a full time blogger

typical Nigerian blogger, they want people to read what they post yet, they don't want to read other people's.... I preach originality for bloggers too, it pays but with time.

press005:
dat word " marriage" sef dy fear me .....

haba!

ndcide:
I agree 100%

But should we go to a night club or other lousy places?

One thing I know and I believe is what the Bible says.

"The steps of a good man, is ordered by God "

Why don't we just have faith in God. Have our understanding not failed enough?

yes it has, however, prayer can still do wonders and better than being forced.

HtwoOw:
Ok, if you say so , then He should get the accolade, FP all the way

lol

mokoshalb:
Been long I heard of him, last time was during U17 world cup final against Spain..when De Gea was like a toddler in post...

so de gea was spain keeper that time, oga o.

HtwoOw:
Congrats o


Someone tell me why this is on FP ?

haba! Those wey no do anything for Niger get the FP accolade let alone our great Ajiboy, he deserves it.

SuperBlack:
Say No To Weed

it will not be too much to assist you with a picture...

Relationship and religion might have one or two things together, however, we must not make religion get into our head and deceive us that it is from that same home of worship we will get the best partner.

Don't be deceived that our religious leader knows someone very well to the point of prescribing a partner to you.
The only thing you need from any religious leader is the counselling and their prayers.

I think the world has gotten to a stage where no one can even vouch for another because the rate of pretence when we talk about relationship is very high.

Don't be deceived, that the brother is very nice to everyone or the sister is very beautiful, intelligent and respectful will culminate to a good home if you can have him/her as partner.

I am not saying you cannot get your life partner in your place of worship nor that when you get your partner in your place of worship will not guarantee good home.

All i am saying is that you shouldn't let a man of God use his/her influence to force someone on you.

Even those married to some of this religious leaders can tell you what they are going through with the choice of their own partner let alone them forcing one on you.

Living with someone doesn't mean you know that person completely let alone seeing that person once or twice in a week.

Only those in marriage can share the beautiful and ugly experiences to you.
I have seen some homes that started from the same place of worship but it is new war each day.

Religious leaders shouldn't get themselves involved in the beginning of any relationship because the definition of human is beyond the appearance.

If you fall in love with someone in the same place of worship; fine, if not, just look somewhere else instead of allowing a man of God to tell you this brother/sister will be the best for you.

Don't forget that you will face the sweet and bitter experience alone when the religious leader might be tearing chicken in his/her house.

At times, they are right with their prescription, of course, it is 50-50 chances, but don't ever conclude that getting a partner in the same place of worship or a partner prescribed by a religious leader will guarantee a happy home.

Use your head my brothers and sisters, you can make great decisions on your own when you believe in yourself, be prayerful too the prayer you say to your God can also be acceptable to your creator.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2017/01/finding-your-partner-in-religious-home.html

Odkosh:
lol, beef ke, beef of oou hahahaha. You self know that even if my alma mater is in death, oou can't match her. The blind can see, the deaf can hear it. Lautech is the only state school that slogs it out with the first generation federal schools. Am using that to proud of it. Now that they are back, let see how oou will trade it with her.

so you call coming back from strike as what makes a good institution, oga o.

Odkosh:
Get where?, am done with anything undergraduate, professional courses n masters is next bro. Lautech is my alma matter.

well, will not say your alma mater is no where to be found beside the oou of today but you don't need to beef. No room for further discussion.

Lemonade01:
One must be satanic not to like jollof rice!

salivating at the picture, this is evil i swear.

Odkosh:
you say what. Are u praising yourself?

hell no, you will not understand until you get there.

Don't be fooled, it is a scam of the highest order, i warned.

OOU is so far the best state owned school all thanks to Saburi.

Greenbullet:
see you, na second leg these teams dey strong pass ,una go see pepper .

and na 2nd leg chelsea dey weak pass abi?