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Crime › Re: How To Deal With Sexual Assault And Rape (for Victim And Their Partners/family) by banmee(m): 6:09pm On May 28, 2016

fratermathy:

Do you need to be a politician or work with politicians to know about politics?

I'm an avid reader and writer as substantiated from my myriads of thematically divergent posts on nairaland. I do not need anyone's permission or approval to do what is right! Thanks for trolling by though.

That is just the dumbest i've ever heard. It's just like saying "do you need to be a doctor to work with a doctor". Just because you work in a hospital does not make you a doctor.

Travel › Re: The Myth About Nigerians Washing Dead Bodies In The US by banmee(m): 6:05pm On May 28, 2016

Beehshorp:
My brothers and sisters.. Make una stop dis no job excuse nd bad nation misyarn.. US is not meant for everybody.. If e no favor u come back home.. Its better u fry akara here dan wash dead bodies in a foreign land.. #myopinion

So cleaning a dead person as an occupation to you. Suffer no good i swear. It corrupts the mind.

Crime › Re: How To Deal With Sexual Assault And Rape (for Victim And Their Partners/family) by banmee(m): 6:01pm On May 28, 2016

fratermathy:
I never claimed to be an authority as you have done! No one is an authority in any field until he/she has a PhD + several years of research and academic outputs on a minute area of a particular discipline. Drawing from the above, I am no authority. However, none of my points above is in anyway harmful or detrimental to anyone. I am not shoving them into anyone as well. It's a choice whether to follow them or not!
I can't do much for victims out there but I can give them hope that they can regain their lives, especially for those that are traumatised!

If you think what I'm doing is wrong then that's your opinion! In any case, your analogy isn't relevant to the issue on board.

You've never worked with or helped a rape victim but yet you know so much. Smh. I guarantee a lot of knuckle heads out there will....................You know what? Nigerians deserve all they have.

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Family › Re: Its Children's Day: Upload A Pix Of Your Kid/siblings And Send Them A Shout Out by banmee(m): 5:59pm On May 28, 2016

saaedlee:
Do you have an idea what you IP address can do? Let Aunty Victory know that her kids Kingsley is on the net courtesy of you, I speak not further

You don't even know what the phuck you are talking about.

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Foreign Affairs › Re: Hilarious Photos Of Ghanaian Law Enforcement Agents by banmee(m): 5:58pm On May 28, 2016

xdos:
When you talk about Europe/America/Asia, Naija dey learn work.. I agree.. but Nigeria is a lot better than most African countries. Things are very cheap in Nigeria oh. It is very easy to survive in Nigeria than most countries. We got so many things for free mehn. Soon, our power issues would be history.

The only reason i can think that you would have this opinion is that;

1. You have not been to many countries.

2. You are used to the corruptive system in Nigeria.

Nigeria is better than most African countries, but not Ghana. I've lived there. I've worked there. I know.

Foreign Affairs › Re: Hilarious Photos Of Ghanaian Law Enforcement Agents by banmee(m): 5:54pm On May 28, 2016*

xdos:
My friend.. Even Ghana isnt fully powered. Even with their lil' power demand. Ghana has a peak demand of 2000MW and Nigeria has a peak demand above 15000MW. I have commissioned a lot of their power generating units. They may be a little more organized in terms of power generation but that doesnt make them better than Nigeria. America ke.. bros,our comparison is between Naija and other African countries.

Yes, Naija owes salary but then you cant compare them with Ghana. Naija has a lot more wealthy people than Ghana. In terms of infrastructure, tell me what is attractive in Ghana? The only good roads you have in Ghana are their major roads you know. Their street roads are a mess. C'mmon you cant compare ghana wiv Naija abeg.

I would seriously advice you to stop and read the things you post before clicking submit in the future. Holy crap. The bolded comment of yours is the whole point. It is why they are better than Nigeria. Nigeria cannot maintain a university hostels toilet and you want them to manage power generation. Ghana is organized as you yourself have confessed, in all aspects of their lives. The only reason you cannot comprehend the importance of that is because you are too used to the corruptive nature in Nigeria. I hope you are not a manager because if you use that line that because consumption is more, a "RICH" nation cannot meet up even though they are rich, you'd be fired. I used america as an example because you keep thinking that provision is limited because of size. That is completely false. Provision of anything is limited if the people providing it are ignorant of the mechanism of what they want to provide, are corrupt and are totally disorganized.

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Crime › Re: How To Deal With Sexual Assault And Rape (for Victim And Their Partners/family) by banmee(m): 5:42pm On May 28, 2016

fratermathy:
I think if you really read my post and understood it, you'd see the faulty premise on which you started your argument upon.

That said, there is no contest on how best to help victims of assault! One thing, however, is different from you and I. If you are so knowledgeable about it and claim to be so "sharp", why haven't you created a thread about this instead of coming to negate that of another?

I believe my little input will do alot, take it or leave it!

Nairaland is filled with people who claim to be authourities on issue which they know nothing about. That was how one was suggesting ten ways to avoid sleeping when driving. Number 1 was not to consume sugar. Number 10 was to drink energy drinks to stay awake. I will negate information of others if i find that the information is dangerous to the public. You have nothing to back up your hypothesis. All you have are things you "think" a rape victim should do and shouldn't do. Really?

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Politics › Re: Osinbajo Meets "Social Media Influencers" In Abuja by banmee(m): 5:35pm On May 28, 2016

madridsta007:
Why are those young minds not in the Government cabinet?

But if it is to call them to eat rice or to abuse people online, they will remember the 'young minds'.

No wonder Nigeria is where she is.

Because the young minds are as corrupt as the old minds. The mindset of generations of Nigerians to come is completely and and totally corrupt. The rest of the world know it but it will take a millennia for Nigerians to accept it. By then it will be too late.

Crime › Re: How To Deal With Sexual Assault And Rape (for Victim And Their Partners/family) by banmee(m): 5:17pm On May 28, 2016

fratermathy:
A generation of lazy readers!

Reading should be fun... However irrelevant the information is, it is not a waste.

A lot of what you wrote makes no sense at all. You were right in some aspects though like going to the hospital and calling the police. Aside that, almost everything else you suggested goes against everything i know for a fact that a rape victim should do. You are basically telling a victim not to live a normal life which is exactly what she needs. They are supposed to call the police, go to a hospital and see a psychiatrist or a victim advocate. That's it. The psychiatrist alone can determine what the victim needs from talking with them. It is not a one size fits all system. I have seen rape victims shrug off the incident in less than a week and are back to work and some take months to recover. A psychiatrist job is to get them to a normal way of life as quickly as possible by making them do the normal things and routines they are accustomed to. I am a SHARP rep for my organisation and have assisted rape victims so i know.

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Politics › Re: Obiano Stops To Rescue Accident Victim (Photos) by banmee(m): 4:46pm On May 28, 2016

dainformant:
how nice of him

It is what any normal person should do.

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Politics › Re: Scorecard Of PMB’s 1st Year In Office by banmee(m): 4:45pm On May 28, 2016

STARGREEN:
Don't expect much from Him as he lack what it takes to perform especially at this his age. What knows he of principles of economies? as for security he's ok but what you give u must receive sometimes.

As far as i am concerned there is only one achievement he has managed to accomplish. He has prevented Nigeria from collapsing completely. I thought it would be impossible especially since the price of oil plummeted. In fact, he performed a miracle. I don't think Nigerians think things through thoroughly. This is a country maligned with corruption, zero saving, zero infrastructure, and animalistic tendencies. A country with only one source of income for half a century and they expect their present situation not to happen. Una try.

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Career › Re: Ghost Worker Jailed For Six Years by banmee(m): 4:33pm On May 28, 2016

Zico5:
This is no judgment at all. Judgment with option of fine is no judgment, this will only encourage many to engage in more dubious acts. Corruption will soon kill this country if we fail to kill it. It start with you and I.

Travel › Re: Harrison Chinedu Confirmed By Guinness World Records by banmee(m): 4:30pm On May 28, 2016

proeast:
Imo people in particular & Igbos in general are always setting the pace! We are proud of you bro. From Education, to sports, nollywood etc We are the numera uno in Nigeria.

You are ahead of all dull Nigerians. Congratulations.

Nairaland General › Re: 10 Kinds Of People You Would Find At A Fighting Scene! (PHOTOS) by banmee(m): 3:59pm On May 28, 2016

Nairalanders are so mentally challenged you need pictures to explain things. Is this the new phucked up pattern of threads?

Sports › Re: Cheerleaders At Yobo's Testimonial Match by banmee(m): 3:43pm On May 28, 2016

Kolababe:
can any of the so called sexy ladies on Nairaland be compare to these damsels?

CHECKOUT PHOTO OF THEIR BACK VIEW HERE» http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/05/photos-check-out-sexy-cheerleaders-at.html

When people isolate themselves in a particular environment they shackle their exposure. You have no idea what cheerleaders are or what they look like.

Celebrities › Re: Bimpe onakoya, Toolz Makeup Artist Blasted Over Dirty Nails by banmee(m): 3:41pm On May 28, 2016

Tolexander:
What did I just see by the second poster?

"Those Fingers need a pedicure naw" @Yeyeoge

Pedicure on fingers!

People like forming. I have not had a manicure in decades but it did not stop me from being successful. I just use my teeth and snip it off. Simple.

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Foreign Affairs › Re: Hilarious Photos Of Ghanaian Law Enforcement Agents by banmee(m): 2:13pm On May 28, 2016

xdos:
Please tell me... apart from South Africa, what is the power demand for the other African countries you mentioned?

What you are saying is because Nigeria has a larger population so they can't provide for everyone. So how do you explain America who has almost double Nigeria's population but can provide for almost everyone? Do you know a manager would be fired for asking that question?

Foreign Affairs › Re: Hilarious Photos Of Ghanaian Law Enforcement Agents by banmee(m): 2:11pm On May 28, 2016

xdos:
My friend, I wonder who lied to you. Ghana is not better than Nigeria one bit. The standard of living in Nigeria is far better than Ghana. Concerning power demand. Peak power demand for Ghana is just 2000MW. The peak demand for Nigeria is far above 10000MW. So chill! NIGERIA is a lot richer than Ghana. I have been there my friend. Been to different regions there.

We are not talking about their demands for power but how they can provide it. Even if Nigeria's demands were 100MW, it would still not be able to provide it. What you are saying is because Nigeria has a larger population so can't provide for everyone. So how do you explain America who has almost double Nigeria's population but can provide for almost everyone? Nigeria is a lot richer you say but how come they can't pay salaries, maintain infrastructure, provide jobs. Do you see the problem?

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Foreign Affairs › Re: Hilarious Photos Of Ghanaian Law Enforcement Agents by banmee(m): 2:06pm On May 28, 2016

xdos:
Pure lies! How many African country have you been to or your opinion is based on hearsay? Ghana is in no way better than Nigeria in any aspect. I have been there and I have visited different regions. You guys should just drop this biko!

Apart from Ghana, i have been to South Africa, Kenya, Equitorial Guinea. All these countries are eons more stable in every aspect to Nigeria. Let's not even mention Europe, Asia and the Americas. Nigeria needs to put patriotism aside and face the truth about their country.

Foreign Affairs › Re: Hilarious Photos Of Ghanaian Law Enforcement Agents by banmee(m): 2:00pm On May 28, 2016

chukzyblingz:
I'm in Ghana as I type this. Have you ever been to Ghana? If yes, how could you compare the standard of living in Ghana to that of Nigeria? As far as I'm concerned, you can only compare the North to Afghanistan and standard of living in Ghana to that same North. They're the backward part of Nigeria.

I've lived and worked in Ghana. I noticed you did not disprove my points about power generation, safety, how dirty Nigeria is, the jungle justice that goes on on a frequency in the country. Somewhere in Nigeria as we converse, someone is being brutally murdered on the streets and people are shouting for joy. I don't know what kind of lifestyle you are used to but i know for a fact that it is not the norm in Ghana. I would take the Ghanaian society over Nigeria's any day any time. And by the way, why are you in Ghana?

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Foreign Affairs › Re: Hilarious Photos Of Ghanaian Law Enforcement Agents by banmee(m): 1:22pm On May 28, 2016

chukzyblingz:
What do you mean by Ghana is better than Nigeria? Does an average Ghanaian have a quarter standard of living to an average Nigerian (excluding some abokis)? Does Ghana have better infrastructure despite better supply and relative peace? Is Ghanaian government less corrupt than Nigeria's? Please you people should just drop this Ghana is better than Nigeria crap.

Which is why i said go there. Personal experience is the best experience. I wonder what you mean by "standard of living" in this context. If i were you i would not even bring it into this conversation. I know you are patriotic but come on. You, me, and the rest of the world knows that Nigeria is just a name with nothing to back it up. Nigeria does not have a standard, so how can they have a standard of living? Quality of life is poor in Nigeria to say the least and you know it. If i had to compare Nigeria to any country i have been to i would probably say Afghanistan. You'd be surprised how similar both countries are. They are tribalistic as phuck, corrupt as hell and they love jungle justice. They are also very very dirty. I am not saying Ghana is fantastic but compared to Nigeria, it is heaven.

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Celebrities › Re: Toolz & Tunde Demuren's Kiss At Their Wedding + Pics Of Them At The Altar by banmee(m): 1:07pm On May 28, 2016

gurunlocker:
That wedding gown go reach three people do wedding.... HML

You never see anything. Wait until the first engine drop. I no no why people like fat women. African man go say "she's curvy". Hell no. Shapeless is more like it.

Foreign Affairs › Re: Hilarious Photos Of Ghanaian Law Enforcement Agents by banmee(m): 1:02pm On May 28, 2016

akunjohn:
And I tot it is only in naija dat d police is clueless and corrupt o!

What you read is only a snippet of the bad side of Ghana. Every country has bad practices. The thing to look at is the frequency. Even America has bad things you can talk about but what you have to also look at is the frequency. Ghana is a million times better than Nigeria. You have to go there to understand. Can you go out and buy fuel and 1 a.m in the morning in Nigeria? Can you drive a mile cross country in Nigeria without experiencing death traps. Can you say with confidence that you feel safe and have no fear of armed robbers in Nigeria? Can you honestly swear that you are guaranteed 40 hours of light in Nigeria? These are the realities of an average Ghanian. And i ain't Ghanaian either.

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Politics › Re: Buhari’s Achievements In First Year In Office - Presidency by banmee(m): 12:54pm On May 28, 2016*

As far as i am concerned there is only one achievement he has managed to accomplish. He has prevented Nigeria from collapsing completely. I thought it would be possible especially since the price of oil plummeted. In fact, he performed a miracle. I don't think Nigerians think things through thoroughly. This is a country maligned with corruption, zero saving, zero infrastructure, and animalistic tendencies. A country with only one source of income for half a century and they expect their present situation not to happen. Una try.

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Family › Re: Its Children's Day: Upload A Pix Of Your Kid/siblings And Send Them A Shout Out by banmee(m): 5:47am On May 28, 2016

saaedlee:
This shouldn't be encouraged at all, do you know what you are exposing your kids or siblings to?
If as adults and NL members, we find it difficult to upload our true images, why then should we be encouraged to upload images of little and underage kids for Christ sake our loved ones? Nah, I strongly object to this and ths MOD should be warned on placing such topics on FP.

cc: Lalasticlala, Seun, etc.

Dont ban me for airing my opinion though.

You have a strange thought process. They are kids. How would you recognise them? What can you do with their pictures? The only way to identify them is if you know their parents. Do you know me for instance? I wonder which cave you migrated from? I can just imagine how miserable your family would be.

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Celebrities › Re: Dickson Iroegbu Writes An Apology To Jonathan by banmee(m): 5:33am On May 28, 2016

LesbianBoy:
God Bless GEJ a.k.a HERO OF NIGERIANS DEMOCRACY

You guys will always deserve whatever leadership you have. Be it Jonathan or buhari. You all have no idea what leadership is nor what it entails. The fact that anyone can apologise to an incompetent, corrupt individual is mind boggling. Nigerians are like children who don't know what the phuck they want or need. God help una.

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Travel › Re: The Arik Airline Passenger Seat An Expatriate Saw Today (pics) by banmee(m): 3:57am On May 28, 2016

EddyNumerouno:
Arik are just fvcked up.
That said, next time, please endeavour to carry along your white plastic chair

It is not Arik that is phucked up, it is Nigeria. Do you think they would try it in Europe or America. They can only bring their standards low in a country that does not have standards. So, basically, it is Nigeria that phucked up.

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Family › Re: My Marriage, My Future,any Hope..... by banmee(m): 2:51am On May 28, 2016

luccicouture:
To cut Long stories short my hubby did not allow me to go so could not rewrite the carryover and i got only 2 years grace to rewrite it. That was how i lost my 2 years OND certificate. his reason was since i wasn't going for HND there was no need.
I felt all hope was not lost since i never really wanted to work for any one i wanted to be self employed. I went for training in fashion design and completed it, since there was no money to set me up i decided to b doing the little i can from my parlor, i even started working for people, but since hubby was always looking for ways to tell me when to go to work,he will just wake up one morning and decide that today i wouldn't be going to work,so i wasn't steadfast because of unofficial absenteeism, they would have to look for some one else.
I kept on searching cos i hate idleness, i ended up working for up to 7 different fashion house,i had to leave for the same reason. Until the day he boldly told me he doesn't want me searching for job any more. since then i have been a stay at home wife.

Sorry to tell you this but you married the wrong guy. You are on the path of being what most married women are in Nigeria; Slave nannies. I hope you take my advice. Hold out as long as you can before having kids with him.

Business › Re: Forex Trading - Season 15 by banmee(m): 1:12am On May 28, 2016

kalak ama alaid aoala alfivma.

Family › Re: What do Your Parents Do When A Movie Gets To A Sex Scene by banmee(m): 11:21pm On May 27, 2016

Vinshu:
Nothing. My dad and mum let me and my brothers watch them make love. So what's a TV sex scene? Lol

Same here. I do same with kids and naturally they just close their eyes or walk out. From day one I already talked to them about sex and bad language. It's either they hear it from me or at school. I'd rather they hear it from me. I also warned them that if I ever catch them swearing or looking at porn before they are 18, they'd be grounded till they are 18. They never do. At least not in School and not in front of me anyway.

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Family › Re: I Didnt Like My Dad When I Was A Kid And Still Dont Like Him Now I'm Grown Up by banmee(m): 10:53pm On May 27, 2016*

Sunnycliff:
And you will one day be a dad and your son will hate you!

Karma treats all misgivings squarely

You just post things without thinking. How is it a misgiving? Were you the recipient of whatever treatment he received? The best you should have said was not to put his personal business out there for everyone. Your thought process is amazing. Basically what you are saying is for every child to take whatever emotional turmoil a parent gives out and feel nothing. Did you even read his post? His father was cheating on his mother and abusive towards him. Because your dad did that to you and you are used to it does not mean everyone else is used to that kind of life. The days of parents doing whatever the phuck they want with their children in Africa is at an end. The mind of a black man. Smh.

P.s when you reply please try and be logical, thought provoking and coherent. Don't retort with your usual abusive comments which are mostly devoid of any thought.

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Food › Re: What Was The First Thing You Learned To Cook? by banmee(m): 10:48pm On May 27, 2016

Codes151:
I gues ur a better cook! Fb my ass

Yes I am.

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