₦airaland Forum

lastempero:
America go hear am again, they should brace up for more terrorist attack with Democrats and lacklustre attitude.

Una go just de tok wetin una no understand all because of google. Una country you never fix na another man country una be expert. Carry on.

thebosstrevor1:
How is he going to do that??

lawsuits from everywhere

Joining the paris accord was not by law so he can join if he want's which he should.

writeprof:
May the will of God be done in Nigeria this year 2021!

That prayer alone indicates nothing will change and it is only going to get worse. It is not a prediction. It is a fact. Remember in 2022 that I predicted it. When a people wait for an imaginary god to help them do what a brain, 2 hands and 2 legs can accomplish, you are only asking for stagnation and degradation. It's been more than half a century and Nigerians have been praying. Isn't it time to recognize that it has all been in fallacy? Stand up, roll your sleeves and start thinking and doing what other successful countries and citizens have done to succeed. No god or deity can help you.

piper7:
Guys I'm thinking of moving out of naija. Which country is more balanced in terms of opportunities and racism between UK and USA?
Enlighten me please.

If that is the criteria for where you want to live you are already failing. Guy, the secret to acclamatizing in the west is, simple. Shut you mouth, do your job and be an expert at it, obey the law, and for heavens sake avoid black people. Especially Nigerians. I promise, follow these guidelines and you'll never have any issue. Ignore them and your journey will be filled with bumps. There are racist people everywhere. You just have to know how to navigate around them.

LordReed:
Affect anything as in destiny or such superstition, not affect as in be a nuisance. If someone names their child Bleep You it shows the person just wants to be a nuisance.

I'm only responding to your opinion where you said what you name your child does not matter

quote author=LordReed post=98119386]No it does not. I am sure there are or have been criminals called Jesus or Mohammed or Nelson or Mahatma.[/quote]

I had a mad crush on her growing up.

NiRfreak:
Then go ahead and try it out first now...I hope you are not the fool here cos u are too scared to try something that won't work...prove them wrong first

Did you not read his post? He said it doesn't work. And rightly so. Why would he try something that he knows for sure doesn't work? Only in Africa. Any wonder why you guys are in the stone age?

LordReed:
Why would I name a child an insult? What would be the point of that? Names are an identifier that has mostly sentimental value. Mumu has no sentimental value to me. People change their name all the time and it doesn't change who they are so why think a name has an effect?

You said what you name a child does not affect anything.

LordReed:
No it does not. I am sure there are or have been criminals called Jesus or Mohammed or Nelson or Mahatma.

Seriously? Name you child "mumu" and see if he will not curse you forever.

Topic is more like "food I ate in an airplane when I travelled".

obembet:
I will prefer advice from Nike adeyemi, Funke adejumo or Faith Oyedepo than this one that can not stay with her husband.

Na small pikin de do you.

Godszilla:
But when BLM were running riot burning business and the dem where in support of defunct the police it was ok. When them were destroying American history it was ok right?

What BLM did was not insurrection. That is the difference

Bulldozer90:
who decides what's a careless behavior?

Common sense decides what careless behavior is. When you spew rhetoric to galvanize an insurrection, common sense should determine your words were careless.

hansomb:
The same Jack that lead to destruction of live and properties in Nigeria ?

Nigeria does not count.

lkillbrokehoes:
This is terribly wrong jack, everyone have the right and liberty to say whatever they want to say, you can't suspend someone for speaking his mind, that ain't right.

Not at the expense of public safety. World War 2 started because a mad man used words to demonize a small group and also spur his people to war. So no. You can't just say whatever you want. There are consequences to words and actions. If you think I'm joking, go to your place of work and start saying whether you want and see what happens.

Jaqenhghar:
Let me say this. Nigerian women suffer almost the same thing black american men suffer.
Villified at every turn.
They are told they are no good except they have something to bring. I thank God I dont have to raise my daughter in that hell hole.

You know how it is. If it doesn't affect them it's not a problem.

Blitzerz:
Rape
Sexual molestation
Blackmail
Child abuse
Paternity fraud
Preference for soft work among male colleague
Etc......

And on and on

Oh I see. We are are now playing a game called "let's just say anything to justify our argument". I'm not playing

Blitzerz:
You are simply saying therefore that successful marriage and staying with husband is slavery for women.
False!
I still don't agree.

You may be mistaking irresponsibility and looseness for freedom. They are different things.

By the way, do u want us to list the things women get away with that a man can't get away with? There are so many.

I am waiting for the list

Blitzerz:
What do u mean by lack of choice?

We are talking about marriage working or not.
I can as well show u men that have wives chosen for them without the man's choice and the marriages are working.

Secondly, do u know how many men are victims of paternity fraud?

Successful marriages is not a gender thing. Its both ways.

You and i know it's a man's world mostly in Africa? Men pretty much can do anything they want but not so for women. That in itself should give you pause. The reason why marriages don't last that long anymore is because women are getting the same access to freedom men enjoy and they are fighting back. Most african men do not see marriage as a partnership. Obviously, two people cannot lead a marriage at the same time, but the understanding that the partnership is founded on respect, love, empathy, discipline, etc is not well understood by most african men. And just so you know, no one likes to be in a relationship where there are few choices. I digress. Look at Nigeria. The reason why the country is so phucked economically and otherwise is because it's citizens have very few choices. They have no choice but to live the way they do to the point where a lot of Nigerians still say s.tupid shit like "Nigeria, the giant of africa", or "we are great". Even though the evidence is contrary to that opinion. Compare that to say Germany, Sweden, the U.S, etc. Choices are abound in places like that but not so in places like Nigeria. Women in africa had and still have limited wiggle room so they have no choice but to stay with their husbands.

Blitzerz:
U didn't answer the questions

Does freedom for women translate to more bad marriages?

You are listening many things which are mainly evil things. I can as well least the good thing people also enjoyed those days for you. So I don't get your point.

There are things that men equally suffered and they r things that men still suffer till today in marriages. It's not a gender thing.

The point is, even till today, women in Africa mostly stay with their husbands because of lack of choice and not because of love. And what horrors have men been suffering in the hands of women?

Blitzerz:
What are u trying to say?
That freedom for woman equates more bad marriages or what?

Or that the olden days women who raised better children were working from slavery marriages?

I disagree

No human being likes to be second class. Tell.me if you would like it if your wife died and her family shows up at your house to collect all her belongings forcefully which may include a house and a car. Worse, her family forces you to marry her sister and you are helpless to say say no. And that is just one example of the things women back in the day went through with impunity. The only reason anyone would go through that without complaining is if their hands were tied. Would you stick around if anything remotely close to that happened to you?

You have to consider that marriages back in the day were basically slavery for the woman. They had no choice. In Africa, women mostly do not have a choice. Especially the uneducated ones.

ignis:
You are confusing yourself

Just trying to enlighten you

ignis:
Is electrical system supposed to be switched on, on Sunday ?

It does not have to be switched on for you to have an electrical malfunction. It could have been dormant. I know Nigerians love conspiracy theories but the fire could have been caused by a number of things. Plus, in this day and age, who burns down an office because they are trying to destroy files. A GOVERNMENT OFFICE for that matter. Ever heard of cloud files? Then again, we are talking about Nigeria. They still live in the stone age.

And here I thought I was going to see some tongue action. To my surprise it's only a peck. S.tupid people everywhere.

ignis:
Sunday is a non working day so the cause of the fire could not be unconnected to a deliberate act.

How about faulty electrical systems?

ignis:
On a Sunday ?

Is there a specific day for anything to burn?

And the pastor didn't see that one coming? But his ignorant sheep expects him to see their future.

Why stop at 2. I'd marry 10 i were you...

Goalnaldo:
Beautiful. Is this Nigeria? The future of that City is bright

Lol...selective pictures

TheWalkingMind:
Trump is a Billionaire.

Yup. A billionaire that won't release his taxes. I have a bridge to sell you if you are interested.

Activist001:
How can you compare Trump to a crook like Oshiomhole? This man's brain is probably leaking.

And trump is not a crook?