₦airaland Forum

amtaken:
Lol the question was too painful you had to revenge with your own question right?

Answer me now!

What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Tellemall:
Every country has unexposed people. You'd be surprised at how close minded they are.

Yes every country has unexposed people. Only problem is, it is more pronounced in Africa and Nigeria in particular.

Laveda:
See ídiots screaming team foreign girls err'where.

But it's true na. You can't just say that these attributes are unique to Nigerian women alone. Problem with Nigerians is they are not exposed. Visit other countries and your perspective will evolve i promise you.

ashewoboy:
Nigerian women are not only very beautiful but wise. People often say Nigerian women love money, the question is, who doesn’t? Every woman wants a man that can take good care of her and Nigerian women are no exception. For those of you, who may be looking for a strong reason to get hitch with a Nigerian woman. Check out the reasons.


1. Culinary prowess: Cooking from an early age is something most Nigerian moms teach their young daughters and like they say, pratcise makes perfect. So you are sure to have your Nigerian wife thrill you everyday for the rest of your life with the most delicious meals. All you have to do for this is show them love.


2. Homely:An average Nigerian girl is groomed from birth to be everything a man would expect of a woman and a wife. She is taught what it takes to keep a home from a tender age. Being submissive to her husband and treating him like a king is part of what she is made to learn from her mother. Marriage requires a lot to work and a Nigerian girl knows that and she’s ready for it.


3. Family-Oriented: This is an important thing to every Nigerian. A Nigerian knows what it takes to uphold values and what that means is that, your Nigerian wife before marrying you would have been taught to stick with you and make your marriage work as divorce is not part on the Nigerian culture. Therefore, an average Nigerian woman would do all she can to make her marriage work – if she perhaps want out, she must have exhausted all means of fixing the marriage.


4. Hardworking: A Nigerian woman wouldn’t sit back and allow you do all the work. She has been groomed to contribute her own quota to the success of the family. They are taught to be self-reliant and useful.


5. Beautiful and smart: Whether they have formal education or not, an average Nigerian woman is smart. In fact the typical Nigerian situation has taught all its citizens to be the best they can be. And to add to it, a Nigerian woman is beautiful. Genevive Nnaji, Omotola Jalade, Stella Damasus all give credence to this.


Source: http://www.informationng.com/2016/03/5-interesting-reasons-why-you-should-marry-a-typical-nigerian-woman.html

As far as i can tell from your list, there is no reasons to marry a Nigerian woman. Every culture has all these attributes you have listed. Heck, as a man, i know for a fact that i can cook better than most Nigerian women. Being homely is not a reason also. It is just another way of saying you want a housemaid. Nigerian women being beautiful and smart is also not another reason. Have you ever been to Sudan or Ethiopia? I have. If you ever decide to visit those two countries, you will revisit your opinion that Nigerian women are beautiful. All these attributes are attributes you can find anywhere in the world.

amtaken:
Is there any man here who has slept with a house girl or a house girl who has slept with her boss or someone else in the house?

Let the confessions begin now!

Let's start with you. You ever slept with your or a houseboy?

jchima14:
In this this piece, our yardstick for youth or young as some would term it, is anyone below the age of 60. This yardstick has been set, having taken into consideration the average age of all those who have ruled Nigeria both past and present. However, you will be fascinated at the age of these top seven candidates who have been chosen based on their works, achievements and outstanding records.


1. Donald Duke: A politician with an impeccable record Born in Calabar on September 30, 1961. Age 54.


2. Sullivan Iheanacho Chime: Former governor of Enugu state, born on 10 April 1959 at Park Lane Hospital, GRA, Enugu, Enugu state. Age 56.


3. Dr Akinwunmi Adesina: Former minister of Agriculture and rural development, and current president of the African Development Bank (ADB), Adesina is a man with an enviable record, Born on February 6, 1960. Age 56.


4. Mallam Nuhu Ribadu: The pioneer Executive Chairman of Nigeria’s Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), under the Chief Olusegun Obasanjo administration. Born on 21 November 1960. Age 55.


5. Senator Shehu Sanni: This Nigerian lawmaker is a renown human rights activist, president of the Civil Right Congress of Nigeria (CRCN) and the chairman of Hand-in-Hand, Africa. Born on October 29, 1967. Age 48.


6. Kayode Fayemi: Former governor of Ekiti state, Born on February 9, 1965. Age 51


7. Adeniyi Olusegun: Journalist, chairman at the editorial board of This Day Newspapers and was a former presidential spokesman for the late President Umaru Musa Yar’Adua. born in Ile-Ife on November 6, 1965. Age 50


https://thesummary.com.ng/media/k2/items/cache/50cfdb2d44a21f07b7cfe40891d7d782_M.jpg

SOURCE: http://thesummary.com.ng/index.php/news-categories/national/item/6314-top-7-young-nigerians-who-could-are-likely-to-become-president

You better pray they don't. The never ending torture you guys are going through needs to stop. Well, that is if you all want it to stop. Seems to me like you all like it.

phineas:
@seun this culture of naming and shaming even of royalty on this forum is wrong.

You are starting and promoting a culture where authority is demeaned even royalty and this is the legacy you are building consciously or otherwise.

For all those speaking I'll of this woman on this day,I suggest you examine your intentions.if you speak for justice from a heart that seeks good then may the Lord and your conscience be the judge,

but for those who speak in malice,envy and the pull him down syndrome to the very ears of this woman without validating these claims, remember as you throw stones at another on the day of her joy, that on the day and the place of your promotion, may your secret sins not be remembered, may they not be displayed to the whole world and may you definitely not be called to account for your every indiscretion because that is the seed you sow here, and the stones you have thrown at this woman.

@seun I ask you to examine again, is this the legacy you want to leave behind?

What is this one talking about? Did you just join nairaland or is this your first time using the Internet.?

Epathra:
Same price you will get a second/third hand blouse @ Oba market. Our dear ojaja2 paid accordingly.

This is why Nigerian men treat your species as slaves. They pay a high price to "OWN" you.

mile12crises:
Just #25

What a cheap commodity

Anyway she is no longer a virgin shaaa

She is not property. This is why you guys don't value your women. You pay so much as bride price that you think you own them. I paid 1000 naira for mine. Back in the day this was a lot of money. After our marriage ceremony, her dad promptly gave me back the dowry.

aryormi:
Some women can be wicked sha!

It's a Nigerian thing and it's not just women. It happens every where in the world but Nigerians are exceptionally cruel.

I just walked in and told them I wanted to be a part of their organisation. They checked to make sure I did not do drugs or have a criminal record. They also tested me to see if I was in top physical shape. Last thing they did was have me take an exam to see where I would fit in. The rest as they say is history.

magicalx:
Since APC came in,I am not superstitious but it has been one calamity or the other every day, I hope they didn't mortgage the souls of Nigerians for power... Just thinking aloud!.

It has always been like this. As a matter of fact, since independence. The only reason it is more pronounced today is because of Facebook, Twitter and instagram. You would never have heard of these things if not for the internet.

Trishpat:
dah ur first paragraph get as e be. how dyu know that the sexy girls flaunting their curves are brainless. abi it's wen yu don't have curves that ur brainy?

Thats TOKS20008 for you.

ladygudhead:
which kind hanging b dat wey d legs touch ground?

When there is not police force, then it is open for speculations. What a country. Life has no meaning.

RoyalBlak007:
[b]...I chose this moniker because it portrays a portion of my phenotypic trait and my Families Royalty[i come from a royal family] and also James Bond 007

...ROYAL(family) ,BLAK(skin color),007(JB)


what's yours?
Hoping to see some hilarious monikers too

I got mine because i notice that the MODs get a hard-on from banning people. I am very outspoken so i urge them to carry on.

cruzita:
u mean am ?that means I get hope as I fine pass Annie na

Lol...

This chick is seriously marketing something other than music.

Mark my words; Nigerians will soon start eating each other. That is if it hasn't already begun. God help una.

This chick is marketing something other than music.

cruzita:
wow!!! her mama is light skinned .when I finally become successful,I and my mum will cover the face of a popular magazine.so help me God

Wowo people aren't usually featured on magazine covers; but anything is possible.

halima83:
I want to buy this Nissan Almera but is mostly used by taxi men in Abuja here.

Though the one i want to buy is with two door.

Please advise, is it ok as a lady to drive the car because I dont want a situation where people will be stopping me on the road thinking it is a taxi.

In Germany, people use the latest Mercedes benz cars as taxis. Would you ask the same question if it was that kind of car. Just say you don't want to buy the car.

Fabulocity:
I'm waiting
This will be fun

You and Toks2008 should hook up. You both think alike.

irunooboo:
[size=13pt]What kind of english will the i.diot speak to the public when she is a confirmed stark illiterate? I hope she is saving enough money to build a container shop for her slice bread business because that is where i see her ending up. Useless opportunistic illiterate [/size]

Bad belle. If it were you, would you refuse the opportunity and be like "no, I prefer to sell bread". See your mouth like person wey just finish BJ.

musicwriter:
Ana m eme ya kwa mgbe n'Nairaland. Ihe m ji asụ asụsụ ndi ọcha bu maka ya bụ asụsụ onye obụla n'asụ n'Nairaland.

That's what I'm talking about. Just keep doing that from now on. No more English for you.

musicwriter:
You've never seen anything yet!. If you know what's going on in the sciences, like; chemistry, physics, you'll cry.

Recently, someone here on Nairaland posted a thread the other day lamenting on how teachers he hired to write the JAMB exams for him failed the exam. LOL!!. A teacher failing his own subject!!. What else do we need to know education in Africa is a big joke?.

This's why we need to revert back to our natural way of learning, i.e studying in our native languages. Asians in the eighties discovered the problem with western education and they made a U-turn, took their destiny in their own hands, and reverted back to their natural way of learning. And since Malaysians, Indonesians, Thai, e.t.c made this decision their fortunes changed, and they sped fast towards development leaving us behind.

Western education isn't made for your own good. It was created at the late 1800 century when colonial powers were under pressure from the African people to leave Africa. But, before leaving, they figured out that if they left us without teaching us their languages they'll not have any means of exploiting us in absentia. Therefore, they made sure they installed their model of education all over Africa, forcing the African people and making it a point for every African school to adopt English or French as a compulsory subject in schools (Rome previously used this as a strategy for destroying culture during their hay days in Europe). When the language of a people is destroyed, their culture will also be destroyed over some hundreds or thousands of years. Get it?. Meaning that our native languages would go into extinction over a hundred or thousands years, and we'll practically become foreigners in our land!!. This way they'll constantly create brainwashed Euro-Afro hybrid elites (neither European nor African in mindset) who act as a conduit for further exploitation of Africa. This's like training a puppy (dog) to behave exactly how you want it to behave.

Ultimately, what western education brings to a people are; first: destruction of language, second: destruction of culture, third: intellectual slavery, fourth: poverty.

The only way we can have true education and development in Africa is to abandon western education and create our own model of education. Same way we abandoned Hollywood movies in the early 90's and created our own movie industry (Nollywood). Yes, we can!!. By the way, the ''wood'' in Nollywood itself is a signature of intellectual slavery, a product of western education.

I grew up researching this topic (pedagogy) without even realizing what I was doing, cause I was born in a library. I've spent years researching this stuff, and literally shed tears the day I realized I' am an educated fool. Then, I began to debrainwash myself.

If I have my way and get a record label that believe in my type of music, I'll change the way education happen in Africa.

Western education is a scam!!!!. It wasn't created for our own good!.

For details, see the part 1 and 2 of this link http://www.africason.com/2015/10/intellectual-slavery-most-dangerous.html

How about you start the revolution and start communicating in your native dialect and let's see how far you'll get.

namedonfinish:
oga teacher, can u please point out my so called "mistake" according to you instead of ranting....

And since u also find it hard to comprehend, may be I should explain to you slowly...
I didn't in anyway blame the teachers, but I am wary of the the system that allows everyone become an overnight teacher..
For years, there as been an oversight of the teaching profession... unlike other professions that has restrictions, the teaching profession rarely bares unneccessary filtration..
Most graduate suffering from unemployment sees teaching as the next available option, whereas most of them don't know the ethics of the profession..
So you see my dear, I think the professional bodies involved should arise to this clarion call before issues get more complicated..

Aunty mi, it's "in flux" not "in flock".

namedonfinish:
this is one of the reasons why the teaching profession should be professionalised with appropriate legal backing, to avoid in flock by every tommy, dike and haruna...

You are criticizing teachers, meanwhile your English is no better. Stop blaming teachers. This problem is a Nigerian thing. More than half the populace have no grasp of the English language nor how to use it properly.

Amazondepth:
Truth b told,the man PMB lacks the dexterity to lead a complex society as Nigeria. Most people who rate him highly today are hausa fulani,a few yorubas or Muslims for obvious reasons and dat is d sad reality.Even if oil prices went to 100 dollars,how do u rule a people whr a segment feel ostracised,handling of fulani herdsmen issue seems nonchalant,no respect for rule of law,no tolerance of political opposition,no empathy and communication with the people u govern,policy summersault,denials of campaign promises,excessive taxation of the poor,appointments into key sectors based purely on political reasons rather than technocracy.10 months gone and for the sake of Nigerians I hope soon,we shall experience true and positive change. The suffering is just too much.

You are funny. No one has the dexterity to lead Nigeria. It is just not possible. If it was, it would have happened by now. It is more than half a century and Nigerians are still searching for the special one. It can never happen. Not with the way the mentality of Nigerians is structured.

Goldrushnigeria:
Dolapo Opeyemi Badmos is a Superintendent of Police (SP) who was recently appointed as the new Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO) of Lagos State Police Command. The mother of two shared the stunning photos on her IG page. Fine woman.

http://www.goldrushnews247.com/2016/03/lagos-state-police-pro-dolapo-badmos-stuns-in-new-photos/

This is an average looking woman at best. Or is it because she is a police woman that makes her fine?

Vivly:
More of his pictures please.......
If he was met before he was convicted, he wouldn't have done the crime.
Now he's the perfect actor for a remake of Prison break or Oz. Nothing beats real life experience.

That's an old story. Almost two years ago.

Excuzeme:
Please stop being silly!

By asking you for your "I.D", the Cop has already given you a reason for Stopping you.... even without you asking!
That is good Policing.

Now imagine if you were just taking a walk and he shouted "Lie down,..Lie down,...l say lie down.."
I am sure the first word that will come out of your mouth is "Officer, WHY"?
That is you asking for a "reason".


It is natural.... except one has become a human being without any shred of Dignity...... which might be a reflections of one's position in the "food chain".

What is this one talking about? No policeman in a normal society will just come to you and shout lie down for no apparent reason. And sometimes they do stop people at random. It called "random inspections" Haven't you ever been stopped and searched before if you were driving a vehicle? Will you refuse to stop or refuse your vehicle being searched? You think this is Nigeria? This is why they have a somewhat safe and livable society. You shut your mouth and do what you are told when a policeman tells you to do something. It takes all of five minutes and you are on your way.