Flows001:


The thread is specifically about body counts and the waywardness of ladies, and the person I quoted was lamenting about how many guys these days would certainly end up with ladies that already have uncountable body counts and worn out bodies, ladies whose ex'es have completely finished every sweetness in them.

My response was specifically to him, and I tried to remind him that the only way to avoid ending up with such ladies is to marry a virgin. I never said that marrying a virgin would automatically mean a man has married right, the thread isn't about good or bad wives!

Come to think of it, why are y'all so quick to attack anyone who makes any comment about settling for a virgin?
What makes you think that a virgin cannot also have all the traits of a good wife?!!

My babe is a virgin, and she is 100% my dream lady both in appearance and character, her being a virgin is the extra package and icing on the cake for me, and I will not stop to talk about her because it is not easy to be extremely beautiful, God fearing, morally upright and a virgin all at the same time in this generation!

In my dating experience before I got married. I dated two virgins. The first one was double dating despite being a virgin. She didn't get disvirgin by me or the other guy. I broke up with her because I couldn't trust her despite being a virgin. She begged with everything but I maintain that it won't work for me. The second virgin didn't cheat but don't have the right character for a good wife, so I broke up with her. She is still angry till today that I broke up with her despite being a virgin but she never understood that marriage for a man with vision is beyond being a virgin. So like I said, marrying a virgin is not bad but making a center of your choice in marrying a wife is the beginning of getting your marriage wrong from the onset.

Bukola94:
please educate me more, we learnt new things every day. What is wrong in wanting a virgin or wanting to get married to a chaste or good virtue women?

Nothing is wrong in marrying a virgin but how does that translate to being a good virtue woman? A woman is either good or bad. It has absolutely nothing to do with being a virgin. Don't let your brain be tied to marrying a virgin else you will fall victim of wrong choice of priority.

Bukola94:
max pleasure he will derive from the bride. The wife have not taste any prick before, even if the husband no do more than 2minutes, she will think he has tried & no urge for long sex, hard solid rock prick

So this will make his life better? Well when you get married you will know better. Let me not waste much effort to educate you more.

Bukola94:
lucky you

So lucky that what? She will produce a Dangote at birth? Or he will be an automatic millionaire? Or she will be the best woman on earth? I just want to know what the luck will stands for?

Flows001:


Lol.

It's painful no doubt, but the ONLY way out is to marry a virgin!

My current babe is a virgin, I dey hold am like egg, her type no plenty for this our generation.

May God help us o

When you get married, more sense will locate you and you will understand that marrying a virgin should be the last thing on anyone's mind. You will still argue with me because you can't possibly understand it now until you get married.

adekhingz:


Hello boss. I also tried to reply you but my mail says I can't reply. Send me a mail to azeezabeeb65@yahoo.com.
I will forward her contact to u. Then, u can still go to Ikoyi registry yourself to see her if u wish.

I have sent you a message in your mail. We will take it from there

tolu30:
Thank you. I appreciate your response on this.

Hello Sis, have you made the contact. How did it go with the person?

adekhingz:


I received your message on my mail. I don't know if Nairaland policy allows sharing phone numbers here. If not, I will respond to you via email.
Her Name is Mrs Afolabi. I sent the requested documents and paid her, she did the registration, and I got a mail from the ministry of interior.

Good day brother, I have dm you. I want to also get this contact so I can use it for mine. Thanks

Gracelander:
I just had to ask this question because it's been causing issues between me and my guy. He doesn't seem comfortable at all with me having male friends and he throws tantrums each time I visit my bestie. He even tells me to my face that he doesn't trust me, so he scrutinize every move I make.

Each time I answer calls from male friends with him around it leads to him nagging about how much I don't respect him and it's not as if I talk dirty or tell them that I love them, just friendly conversations. We had a slight issue last night cos I came over to see him and stay for a week before leaving, I didnt warm the food out of anger and it got spoilt this morning. When I told him about the food he told me that it was supposed to be our breakfast so that means no food this morning.

I had to chat one of my friends and he agreed to take me out, I dressed up and left the house and he sent me a message not to return to his house. Did I do something wrong?

I once had a female bestie and she took me way serious compare to her guy. The guy kept complaining until he broke up with her. She learnt the hard way because we are no longer close meanwhile the guy was very serious with her then. If you don't adjust yourself, you will lose any potential suitor in the name of keeping male friends or bestie.

The man must be jailed for the law to serve it cause. What kind of men are out there this days. God save our daughters from devilish men.
The woman too is so negligence and not observant. How can such thing be happening for more than a year and you don't know. As far as I am in that house, you can't try that without me knowing.

This is the most funniest reason I have read why someone packed out of her matrimonial home. What he did is totally wrong but forgivable. Just not to trust him with money again or for a long time, but moving out? Haba...he is not your bf oo. If you can move out just for this, I can't imagine what you will do if he cheats on you or commit grievous offense than this, because believe me..there are so many of it. He married you at 22, which means he played a big role in your success today, except you want to tell me your own family did that. There are things you should have learnt before going into marriage but did not get the chance due to your early marriage. Marriage is not a do or die, either you are in it or you are out of it. Choose one peacefully.

He is my bestie. He has always being there for me.

2Radii:
ahaa
Bros pls clear me, €200 as savings in a week or in a month??

If its in a week then that is good, but in a month!! That is rubbish na.

I want to japa but with this u said now, €200 savings in a month, how wil i be happy? I make as much as that as a savings here in Nigeria, even as a man with a woman and a kid

If you use the sample the OP used, then that is the amount you will get after expenses. Though it doesn't mean it is in all cases. Some might be earning upto that amount but with less expense. Moreover it must not be UK, there other countries whose cost of living is not as high as the UK.

Thanks for this info, though it is not different from what I have being hearing over time. The difference I can see with what you post is the quality of living. Same person earning such amount here will still be living in bondage. I guess that is why you also refused to come back despite your complaints.

Jecci:
These days I always run away from people who are quick to see the worse in others. Never giving room to accommodate the mistakes their partners made in error.
A guy left me like this. All the efforts I made to beg him apologize to him I crawled on my knees countless text messages begging him to forgive me none moved him. What was my offence because I begged him for financial assistance to solve something and he said that I am after his money.
After begging him and begging him trying to convince him that it is because I was in a very tight corner that was why I asked for help. I just let him be that if this kind of issue can make him go blank on me what will happen when bigger challenges comes.
When dealing with people try to give room for ifs

Are you sure prior to this your big request, you have not being asking for little little request frequently. It is also possible he was never really into you. He was just with you for his own benefits. Well better guys are out there looking for good women.

fergie001:

“We will build a team that no one wants to play against”

(Who said this and when?

He thought winning the UCL is equal to dominating the EPL. Now he knows better I believe.

Cherrybae:
I still have faith Chelsea will won this March.

Tuchel is not a good coach.

Why bench Lukaku and Hazard in a crucial away March like this.

Abeg which station are u watching so I can also see Lukaku and Hazard. U can also share the weed

Chelsea should not disappoint the punters this night oo..common Southampton

Samantha123:
All social media platforms are quite toxic, so I'm not surprised.

But thanks for the reminder.

The toxic we are saying here is in another dimension. It is either you join them in few years time or you remain yourself and don't take what you get here to heart.

Onyi22:
Men are Useless, all of them

Seems you want to be a wife to Mosdii, because he is the pioneer of this statement. He is known to be a lunatic.please don't tell me he has infected you.

Stargurl20:
Awnnn ...darling. I understand how cold you must be feeling. take of your self and have a restful night. Meanwhile, my bestie visited today, and he will be spending the night since it's raining and cold out there

Your bestie in my house thunder fire that bestie, na cutlass I go use cut that kpomo between his legs..abeg sleep in peace with your love Christ

KristaPretty:
Okay baby, no problem my love. Goodnight
Few minutes later.............
Me; Oga come downstairs, I dey outside with motor de wait you

I don laugh tire. You nailed it for me. You Sabi men wella

The main culprits you should report should be the mother of the girl who gave her child to be used as slave while she is alive and healthy to provide such basic needs. Cant the mother do such job and use it to provide for the child instead of the opposite.

IamYorubanza:
Ok as Atiku has won the delegated election of the PDP, SP. Lawan wins the ticket of the APC and Kwankwaso is NNPP's candidate, that means the Northern votes will be divided amongst these 3 Northerners....I hope the south will realise that the North only remembers its own and be ready to support its only viable Southern candidate which might be Peter Obi during the election and I'm sure the North central states will support the South if they sense an amber of unity in the South....well, everything might be working together for the unity of the south....

awọn ti o li etí ki wọn gbọ́!

Hoping for same thing, so that the south will be cleared for Obi. Every right thinking Southerner should rather vote stone than a northerner.

I wish this could be true that Lawan is the consensus candidate so that the south here we go all out for Peter Obi. Tinubu or Osinbanjo as the candidate will divide our vote here in the south.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Do you believe any married man can do such?

How will he even be making out with her in their home with his kids present?

Men are smart and also cunning, which means we can go to ridiculous length to do somethings. He might be the type that do part time job, he might be the type that doesn't go to the office always or he might own his business and can stay home anytime he feels like. He just needs to make sure the wife is not at home. My brother fear human beings both male and female.

GloriousGbola:


That's why the story no make sense. How does a side chick (a person attuned to using her behind more than her brain) pretend to teach kids?

And how does the husband snatch alone time with the chick? Is he home during lessons? Do they knack in the house or does he make up extended I am taking miss x home runs/stories?

Personally I think what may be happening is the husband chyking/toasting the kids female lesson teacher.

The process of arranging that the side chick pretend to be a teacher is way too convoluted and complex imho, esp as most lesson teachers are already teachers with side hustles.

You are totally on point, yes there might be one or two cases in which this sort of things are happening but not to the extent of putting the public alert especially the wives, that is just an exaggeration.

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Who does that? Smh.

No right thinking man will do such biko.

This your statement looks ambiguous to so many men out there because I can tell you that we have alot of them who doesn't think right.

Jossyfine:
How I wish she can travel down to Abuja.

You can ask the OP what if you will provide job for her or better still take care of her while she help you. I think the OP wants her to do something while helping you in your home. I guess he doesn't wants her idle.

Please nobody should settle down if they don't have a source of income that is stable, both you and your intending partner.
As for me, I have found @Ishilove to be the right woman for me. Just to go and settle her family and take her Japa. Though make Dem no kill me with unending lists

Michelle55:

Lol.. You think it's easy to be in my position too? Life no balance true true, here I am wishing I've got one sibling and there you are wishing to switch positions with me
Omo eh, I weak with this ya wish

it's funny I guess, but then it will be only me..just like Tubaba said it...feeling like I don't care, if na just me , I go dey do anyhow..u gat the gist right. I love your personal text on your profile.