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Michelle55:
Lucky you! You've got siblings but I don't, ain't sharing the attention with anyone else.

Lolz..imagine you..then u are saying I am lucky when it is only you enjoying the palliatives mama is dishing out..I wish I was in your position, butterfly would have lived in my stomach.

OluwoR:
Sir, before I'd open a thread about this, you should know I must have tried all possible best
Sir, anything that has to do with sex, she just doesn't want to hear it
she had blocked me on SM on several occasions cos I tried to bring up sexual related matters

Some of you are so funny and childish. Two adults atleast that is what I want to believe you are, wants to settle down and both of you can't discuss critical issue as sex, to find a common ground. Are you not even ashamed that you are coming online to say she blocked you on social media for talking about sex. Nawa ooo, where are we getting this kind of Male from?? Please someone should educate me. Maybe I am not reading right

Michelle55:
Glad you can relate bro, I don kuku let myself get used to her pampering. No be me say make God bless me with an angel as a mother.

Lolz...my immediate sister is always jealous that my Mom pamper me too much. Hope u are not in my shoe?

Michelle55:
It can be annoying sometimes you know, I could remember her calling to ask if I need money to buy Christmas wears one xmas period like that, omo na so I weak cos she was on loud speaker that day. My friends couldn't stop laughing at me.
I asked her if she realized how old I am and that I'm capable of taking care of myself, she said she knows but that doesn't reduce the fact that I'm still her baby no matter how old I get, na so I kuku keep kwayet and let her do her wish.

Let me shock you, when I became a youth and I visited my Mom. She asked me that who is washing my clothes. She asked if I could be bringing them for her to be washing for me, so it won't disturb my work. I swear I don't know where to start laughing from. In my mind this woman, still think I am a baby..funny mothers

akaahs:
I warned my mom when she gave birth to the fifth child to stop birthing as we many considering their source of income, she responded by saying by God grace they are capable of taking care of us. Sometimes, I don't pity her and most times she do annoyed me.
I always tell them that, the person who fertilize the egg is no more and they are living talk more of me, if I die today they ll become what God wants them. So no need of killing myself.
I only planned of getting 2 children but my wife is insist on 4 kids, I told her if she's not learning on what am passing through, then she is insensitive.

You have to sit your wife and educate her better on giving birth to children you won't be able to give them the best. Growing up I was so annoyed with my father for giving birth to many when he couldn't take good care of us. Thank God for today. I learnt early that my siblings are not entitled to give me anything except they wish to give me. And today I am better for it. Our parents failed in that regard, it is now left for us to correct their mistake else you will continue in their poverty line and your children will continue from there.

You are not stuck in the relationship, count your loss and move on if truly you are doing the right thing. Both gender of this generation are destroying the efficacy of marriage everyday. No trust from each other again due to the experiences both have encountered. Just imagine Yul Edochie marrying second wife after everything he said about the first wife. Why then should a woman trust and make sacrifice with a man when he has not yet made it. And as for the men, why would a woman who didn't know how I labored to get t my status wants to reap the benefits that comes out of it. So it goes both ways, no trust again. We can only manage with what we see and get. If you are lucky, you get a good man or a good woman where both are ready to make any sacrifice and stick together. If you are not lucky, you keep divorcing or stick to baby mama or you live your single life peacefully. Life is never fair to anyone, we just live with what we create or get.

Michelle55:
I'm coping well all thanks to my parents who don't disturb me for anything, mom sometimes calls to ask if I need monetary assistance sef
That woman won't stop amazing me!

Woww..this is wonderful. Kudos to them. As for your mother, some are like that. Whenever I give my mom money, she will even be telling me, hope she is not bothering me. Sometimes she will want to return from the little I gave her. I will just laught it off..

missimelda01:
Please squeeze 1million in my hand because it’s not easy …being a first child without a father is harrddd!

The good part is that it pushes you to do more, most first child turn out to be successful.

So we wey no be first born don't need money abi. Some of us are not first child but we carry heavy load too. Well person dey wey fit squeeze the money into your account. I hope you jam am very soon.

akaahs:
Walahi e no easy. Sometimes, I just sit and close my eyes and wish things to just fall in place but hell no, things are getting hotter by the day. Thank ASUU are on strike, my younger brother and our last born are in 500L and 100L respectively, I don't know where the money ll come out to settle their school fees, accommodation and pocket money. The other one is about to finish his NCE, no money for his project. The other just got admitted into a college of education and I managed to settle him to start off with my house rent, now the landlord is on my neck. My wife ll be due in 3 months, I have not buy anything for the baby yet.
My dad died 17 years ago, my mom was retired compulsory without a single dim since 2017 and we are 7

Hmmm, this what I try to explain to people when you bring in children you can not take care of. Your Dad does not have an estate yet continue giving birth to multitude. He is no more now, you guys are bearing the brunt. The funny part is that some of your siblings will have small change tomorrow and continue in that circle. Africans circulate poverty not wealth, atleast we are very good at that. Just do your best and leave the rest, because if you die, they will continue their life.

Sometimes you have to consider the society you reside before putting out some statements, so you won't appear to be a fool. Daddy Freeze is not putting somethings into perspective. Nobody is stopping a woman from having a second husband as long as she can withstand everything that comes with it. She will have to pay the groom price for the first man, second man and also foot the house bills if not all, atmost 80%. She will have to ignore the abuse the society will place on her. I am sure seeing one or two men that will be ready to take this role won't be Farfetch. If she can put all this factors and many more into consideration, then my sister, you can go ahead and marry as many husbands as you want. Daddy Freeze should have given guidelines on how to achieve something like this here so our ladies will start working towards it. Not just talking because you are a public figure that has mic in front of him.

planetE:
That's why me no dey do girlfriend dating, I no dey attached to any lady romantically. If konji dey hold me, nah to book for olosho.

How do you satisfy yourself knowing you are sleeping with a lady with a timer on you that you must cum quick or be fast about the sex. Are you also comfortable sleeping with a lady you know a million other guys are also sleeping with her. It's a different thing if she is cheating on you as your gf, atleast you can make a choice to continue or not. I just find sleeping with a prostitute odd. Kudos to you guys that engaged in such.

Emmy3:
Forget that list...
Almost all types of women will cheat at the right "price/factor"

Believe me there are some women that will never cheat no matter the price or factor placed on it. These set of women have made a vow to their God that only their husband will ever see their unclothedness. You guys find this hard to believe because most girls you meet or hear about is always cheating. I have had my own share with a cheat so I know. But I have met one and my cousin told me of another lady, so my brother some ladies are out there that won't cheat on you, not because you deserved it but just won't for their integrity sake.

Arsenal is doing what is necessary to make the top 4. They just need to keep it till the end. Kudos Gunners fans

Imagine Arsenal teaching Manutd how to play ball.. nawa ooo..2 goals to nil

BurnaBaby:
Arsenal done put One ooooo.
Let the disappointment begin, LADIES & GENTLE BOYS


At least no Maguire to blame for their failure today and their Star Fake GOAT is playing today too

Pls give that Goat a respect...it is not easy achieve what he has achieved.

Thank goodness Maguire is on the bench today, so Manutd fans won't have him as excuse when dey receive wotowoto..lolz

Arsenal has scored..Goal.. Game on

Princewill1:
If what you typed is true, then remove "smart" from your Monika.

One thing you should know with even people that claimed to be smart is that they get carried away with being smart and eventually get outsmarted. Some times you don't need to be smart to get somethings right, you just need a common sense.

When I did MMM, I became conscious about ponzi scheme and decided to read more about it. I got alot of lessons and kept it for future purpose. Since then whenever I see any investment and access it to know whether the ROI is sustainable or not. Once it is not sustainable, I know it is meant to crash. So I either go into it knowing that it may crash anytime or leave it. My colleague show me ADDY Finance and I told him it will crash after accessing it. He was able to cash out big before it did crashed. I wanted to do it but it has already past it glorious days(2+) years, so I backed down. Many are still out there and many will still be scammed knowingly or being ignorant. It doesn't change the facts that as long as we are all chasing money, people will create that avenue to scam others in other to get the same money you are looking for. If you did MMM and still get scammed by another ponzi scheme ignorantly, then your name is synonymous with greed. Companies like PiggyVest will last longer because they offer reasonable ROI, but many won't like that because it is too small to hit big. Just choose your poison wisely.

Jessica57:
I had tooth aches as well since 2016z The 1st 2 years was extremely terrible but I was advised not to remove it to avoid infections spreading to other parts of the remaining tooth. I used different toothpaste it didn’t work. I had to switch to warm water and salt every single day and I’m still using it till now. I have a whole in my tooth and smell comes out from there in the morning before brushing. The � doesn’t pain me anymore except when there are particles of food inside the hole. I’ll advise you try the warm water and salt every morning and night. It worked for me it might work for you too.

Toothache is a very terrible experience dear. I had one in the past. I went straight to the hospital to see a dentist who advised I remove it and also wash it to avoid spreading. I did exactly what he told me. Before I know it, it spread to the next tooth. Ohh my God, I wish like swearing for the Dentist. I met a good Samaritan who told me I shouldn't have visited the dentist in the first place. He just told me to go to this herbs seller. I went there, complain to the woman on seat. She gave me something to chew for like 4 days, she says it will kill the bacteria and pain will disappearred. I did like she said and the pain disappearred. I just paid like N200. This is about 5 years ago and I don't have to pass through the routine you are doing now. I regretted ever visiting the Dentist. You and the O.P should follow this procedure and get your final solution.

Please, you all should stop whatever thing you are doing now and listen to Peter Obi wo is currently speaking @ Nigeria info 99.3 fm. The man has solutions to this nation's problems but I doubt they will let him get there. Pls just go now and listen

This your topic has been proven to be null and void through different people and experiences. So My brother, marrying a virgin does not guarantee successful marriage of any kind. Secondly everything else you pointed out are nothing but the truth. The only difference is that, they are your own truth. Truth is relative, so your truth is different from mine and different from others as you can see from canter argument in this post. And you must be delusional to think your truth is better or truer than everyone else. Majority can relate with science because it works with facts and not truth. And there is a huge gap between facts and what you claimed to be the truth.

How will she communicate with you when you are both not in the same vicinity? Maybe she will unblock you and communicate her message and block you back..lolz just wandering what a childish act is this. Are you sure you didn't marry an underage girl as wife. Marriage should be for two matured people so that they can settle misunderstanding like an adults. Talk her to her direct and make her understand how low she has gone by doing that.

Biglittlelois:
As you have insulted your parents, hope you've grown tall?

You guys should stop bringing people's parents into your online insults, it doesn't tell well about you. You can insult him as well or ignore but leave the innocent parents out of your abuse. Most of you are fond of doing this. It's childish

madridguy:
If not the wicked and heartless leaders we have, I don't see any reason married women should be working.
Women are home maker, they are to be at home looking after the kids.

Women are no longer staying at home again due to the harsh economy and the results is what we are seeing in our society of today.

Please be careful of what you wished for. Women this days want to be liberated from the shackles men has put them, so you can't asked them not to work so that you will continue to spoon-fed them and kick them out at your own will. I can't train my precious daughter and you tell her to hide in the kitchen and be cooking for you just because you have a dick and money. Don't worry she has her vjay and her money too, both of you will live as a happy family and raise the kids together. This is 21st century my brother, just kill this thought abeg.

I want to believe this stats dare not be accurate on this present Nigeria. You hardly can point to any family where the woman is idle or not contributing at all.

DoggoneDogg:
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So why have they been making noise since if they can't fight Russia?

It is not noise just o small sakara which is the normal thing to do. U.S and Russia controls 90% of the nuclear war heads in the world. Both have more than 6000 nuclear war heads that can shake the world. So they can't attack each other. The highest E.U and others can do is to sanction them and also call for peace.

This is a case of go ahead I am solidly behind you. Only for you to turn your back and see that you are alone, no where to run to but to go forward and face your battle. This is the situation where Ukraine found themselves right now. We can blame Russia for all we care but U.S open the door for this power hungry attitude Russia is showing today. The worst part is that now is just the beginning. More still to come in the nearest future. Take note of this that U.S and Russia will never attack each other except they want to end the world themselves.

ViperAda:
Ok.. the energy is derived from overtures by some admirers. It's all good but don't mix ethics with pleasures.


-Viper

Your response are annoying because you refused to learn from what @klass99 is trying to teach you and others who feel less about their worth and services rendered.

Bosses in Nigeria behave like a god. They don't see employees as someone rendering a service but rather a slave to master thing. And because people like you take shit from them, the circle continues.
I had to nag at my CEO just recently when I noticed she doesn't respect staff private life. I told her vehemently that I won't tolerate such.
I told her don't call me or message me outside work time except it's an emergency. I had to inform her I have personal life I deal with outside this company.

Well I noticed other staff have accepted this from her over a long period of time, that's why she kept doing it.

She has adjusted herself because she knows I am good at what I do and I can as well take a leave or don't bothered being sack.

I just feel pity for most employees with what they go through in the hands of these bosses just because of shit hole country we live in.

As for me, I have passed through that in the past. Not anymore, when I know I can always get a good offer out there, to hell with your useless attitude and work.

Richy4:
Yes definitely... I understand what u are saying.. chatting with someone that is not your spouse could be tagged cheating...

But while we're on this matter, we should understand the office the priests is occupying..
As a priest, I believe confidentiality is very important..

This situation is like a female patient that sees a male doctor often to discuss about her health issues, chats with him, refused to discuss/ disclose the health problem with the husband... The husband in anger went to confront the doctor to know what his wife was always saying to him/ what they were doing..

If the woman has a spiritual stuffs that she was dealing with, and decided to talk to the priest, and doesn't feel like sharing with the husband, Why would that be tagged as cheating? In your opinion do you think the husband was right to confront the priest... Even when the wife refused to open up to him?

They said too much of familiarity breeds contempt... If not that the husband knows that priest as a friend, I'm wondering what will give him such boldness to confront the priest to ask what they were discussing...

Not saying that the priest was innocent or guilty but He should gather every evidence first before tarnishing the image of someone who might be innocent..

Some of your comments sound funny to me. How long will it take you guys to understand that in marriage, husband and wife comes first. Every other person including your pastor, priest, Imam, Alfa, mother, father, siblings and the rest are secondary. Any issue you want to discuss with any other person should be known first by your partner. She keeps deleting the chats history between herself and the priest and you are saying privacy. Privacy from who? Someone that should be her number one confidant. If the priest is actually truthful to himself and God, he should have informed the wife to carry the husband along immediately. The priest should better marry her if the husband kicks her out. Nonsense and ingredients.