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The idea of a super league will continue to surface has long as the big clubs contribute alot in paying huge wages to players and agents. Just imagine paying $120m to buy a player, treat the player from subsequent injuries ontop mighty wages I will still pay him. Then uefa and fifa will have one mumu qualification and asked the players to go and represent their nations where they will pay little or no money like Nigeria. The player might come back with injuries or tired leg yet I must still pay him the huge wages despite i might lost his form for the rest of the season. This is unacceptable as a business man. He who plays the piper dictates the tune. Simple solution is let me as a top club have a say in the sharing formula when it comes to distribution of revenues else as Wenger put it..it is inevitable to stop the super league in the future.

Xj2020:
I have seen ladies who are well protected at home by their parents especially their fathers turn out to be the direct opposite of what their parents are afraid of or trying to avoid.
My eyes have seen high ranking pastors daughters, and very strict parents become sex addicts without their parents knowing. Some of these ladies even take active part in not only singing but as well play active roles as choir leaders. Some of them even deliver sermons on the pulpit.
There is this particular gurl above 20years that after giving mouth action would still carry on in church activities as if nothing happens. She is a chorister in her daddy church.
The other one that cannot help it when it comes to her boobs but whose parents keep a close tab on at home. The question is would the parents be there to monitor her every movement when she goes back to school.
How could someone who engage in mouth gig continue to lead church choir or even preach on the pulpit? Like the saying goes "fear who no fear woman".
The bottom line is as follows "pikin wey go spoil go spoil, no matter the level of barriers or protection you put in place"
best you can do as parents is to pray that God in his infinite mercy give you God fearing children.
My question is; why do girls turn out the direct opposite of what their parents are trying to avoid?

The bolded is a very wrong perception. God gives you a child, you are the one responsible for what they turn out to become. He already told you that train a child the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it. So pls discard whatever notion of God giving a responsible child. Some pastors missed it because they only focus on the spirituality of the child forgeting other numerous factors that determine proper upbringing of a child. And also stop saying Pikin wey go spoil go spoil, nothing like that when u do the proper training at the right time. The foundation of a child matters alot..If you miss it, You might then need the Grace of God to help you correct your wrong on the child.

wildikeman:
Talk to women and have sex... How do you guys do it?

what do you mean? Is it difficult to talk to women or have sex with a lady?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Having sex. I don't do it.

maybe because u are not married yet..

pouring out saliva while walking along the road without caring if someone is behind you or around you..goshhh i hate it

I have read many comments above me and seem so disapppinted in the average Nigerian man. How in the world is the girl been critisized with what she explained. Well if I happen to be her Madam, I will invite the guy and asked for his side of the story. I will make sure I record the conversation. God help him, he narrate the exact situation the girl told me. I will warn him seriously and tell him he wont do nada. I will report the case to the police immediately. Then advice the girl to learn from this and never to expect a free gift from a typical Nigerian man even though few are exceptions. Problem can only arise if his statements did not tally with what the girl told me. Else no lawyer or court will grant him his money back..shikena...Nonsense and ingredients..

Icezikagu:
Southampton 4:0 Chelsit These boys are dummies no win today for the restless Agamas, Even Thomas Tunmise won't save their nyash dis afternun Am a Gunner!

Wahala be like bicycle.. You that is supposed to start rumbling on how Man city will trash you tomorrow. You are here trolling Chelsea that will still win this game.

Bennycollins:
Bro, he won't be sacked. The board want to keep him they just want someone they can pay meagre wage. That's is the reason for the crap talk of continuity. Only the team can get him out just like they did Mourhino.

Believe me when I tell you he will be sack comes before or end of the season. Except by some chance he manages to finish strong in 2nd position then he might be consider for at least six months within next season. Anything short of this, Woodward will sack him. Let's wait and see.

Ole is really a rookie coach He doesn't know how to ground result against the so tag small teams. He won't be there next season, this is the only thing I am sure of. You can't win serious trophy with these inconsistencies.

Those withdrawal experts hope you can read well that just a tiny drop can cause pregnancy. Stick to condom usage before you get someone's daughter pregnant and say you are not ready to be a father or requesting for an abortion. Avoid bringing a child you are not prepared to nurture.

He has definitely earned whatever he is receiving but the time has come for the club to count their teeth with their tongue and release him to lessen their financial burden. Something that mumu barca president should have done immediately Messi submitted transfer request. What I find funny is that despite the debts owe, the Presidential candidates are still talking of keeping him when it is obvious they can't pay the wages for now.

Why create a problem where it doesn't exist. For your mom to tell you not to be totally transparent with your spouse tells a lot about her. You have trusted her with your finances for over six years now and you did not lay a single complaint. That shows she is at least understanding and trustworthy. As long she is not using any form of manipulation on you in managing this your finances then I see nothing wrong in what you are doing. A man that still needs his mother and siblings to guide him on how to run his home, is not ripe for marriage. Where there is no crack, don't apply one.

You must be new to programming to compare frontend complexity to that of back end. We are working on a project in my office and I am handling the frontend why another guy is handling the back end. The back end is using Php, go and partly java to extract data from a database that has more than 200k data. Sometimes he goes days trying to resolve a logic issue. I just use Angular to connect to every apis supplied. I also code in nodeJs so I can tell you back end is more logical than frontend coding.

Kudos to the OP for a job well done. It is left for the newbies to key into it and start the year with learning skills with their data instead of wasting them on irrelevant topics on social media.
Good luck to the serious ones.

Two facts about single mothers. Firstly, there is nothing wrong being a single mother, for all we know it might be a single mistake which resulted in that situation. Secondly, there is everything wrong in being a single mother, for all we know she might be a greedy, promiscuous, lying daughter of Jezebel who got to that mess due to her careless lifestyle. Now considering this two options, how then do you decide which is who? If so many guys are complaining of being with a single mother even without meeting them. It means there must be some things most are doing that is putting most men away. I can give you more details if you request for it.

This is very nice of you as long you are not doing it for publicity sake. I always advise people to give a helping hands to the less privilege close to them than looking for the ones miles away. Remember the poor will always be around you. Nevertheless it is good doing this with people you don't know or might never see. I liked that you never let the insults bothers you. You just live your life. I like your online personality. Kudos

The height of hypocrite in today's Christians is top notch. How can you claimed to be a Christian and don't understand the meaning of one flesh and one body. I dont have problem with the logical view but I have problem with being a christian and choose to obey the word only when it suit us. If you don't follow the bible assertiveness on difference between a wife and a mother then you are deceiving yourself if you are a Christian.

I once told a lady that you don't need a church or priest for God to recognized your marriage. She was amazed I could say something like that as a christian. I told her if she knows the history of marriage in the church, she said no. So many are guilty of this acts. Nevertheless I don't support the virgin part. If our customs and tradition demands for bride price then we should have no problem with that except it negates God's word.

Sometimes you guys bring marriage issues here that are disturbing to the singles. Imagine a newly married couple who are supposed to be in honey moon mood is already complaining of marriage palava. How can you not discussed in totality the nature of your works and other essential things before marriage? Marriage seems to be the hardest contract to make since it involved the two parties to be 50/50 in agreement.

crackhaus:
How any sane man can think of having sex with a random pregnant woman, is just beyond me...

Another one I am aware of is someone sleeping with a mad woman. There was a time the mad woman got pregnant and people were surprised someone in this Lagos can actually sleep with a mad woman. I swear my broda. ...things they happen. This happened in Surulere.

Two events has occurred that made me realized that there are some ladies who don't mess themselves around or fall to the advances of their bosses even if that person has a lot to offer them. I witnessed one in a place I have worked while the other was what my cousin narrated to me. Since that events I never generalized on every lady being a trash. I will share it later.

This Government is a joke. The youths gave you a 5 points demand which is reasonable for the development of the nation. Instead of focusing on the reform and making sure every demands are met. They are still playing politics and doing caricature in handling those demands. The next protest will bring this nation to a standstill. You can't stop a resolute youthful protests. No Government in the world has won a fight with her youth when they go head-to-head. It has never happen and it won't. Not this time the whole international communities are watching. I heard in the news today that thirty (30) civil right organizations have submitted petitions to ICC concerning the Lekki shootings. You might be in power today and seem untouchable, but ICC will gladly wait for you to answer for your crime when the right moment comes.

In case you have PMB personal phone number, please call him and pass this advice to him.

Thanks

Married with four children in space of 5 years You African men will never change. That it even happened in this generation is pathetic and unreasonable. I don't even understand the loneliness he is yarning about. Better warn him not to cheat rather focus on his wife and children by first going for family planning. I hope they can give those children a better life. You can see what hoodlums are doing to the communities currently as a result of poor upbringing from useless parents.

frozen70:
You didn't state if its a new site you guys packed to

You did not mentioned if the incident happens when all of you goes out for you daily breed or when you guys are at home

Are your neighbors experiencing the same thing

Give us more insight about the area and location

I am guessing it might be a new site in which the houses are usually isolated from one another. The perpetrators might be familiar foes like others have suggested. I will advise to just get security for yourself.

They cheat for various reasons but know this; for every married woman who cheats there are 5 married men that have cheated.

Alooone:
Yes... When I was pregnant for my daughter.

Can you please share the experience?

djon78:
Actually Reno raised a very important issue

One thing I have found out about life is that it always pays to be a responsible man, who works hard and takes care of his family and responsibilities

Likewise it always pays to be a responsible woman who guides her affairs with great discretion and manages her conduct and lifestyle in an appropriate way


These two parralel personalities are recipe for a good peaceful relationship
Singles and young people must ensure they belong to one of these be it male or female


Anything outside these two paradigm is a recipe for disaster in life

A man should be responsible
A woman should be responsible
Any thing outside it is problembei


This is a lesson for everyone

There will always be irresponsible fellows no matter how sane a society is designed. We can't also neglect the facts that mistakes happens in relationship in which you might mix up with the wrong partner. Great men and women have ended up being single mother or single father due to so many factors. Yet I hate to admit that in this generation, majority of single mothers find themselves in this situations because of their own greed, selfishness, naivity and the likes. @Toks2008 has been ditching out lessons to them for a decade now, yet they don't listen. @Graxie has pointed out a possible solution to avoid the overload of being a single mother, yet they won't listen. I can continue with so many posts that has been distributed here over time to learn from, yet they just read and continue in that part. I have a relative that is a single mum and I can't withstand the stress she goes through in training those kids, she is not left out as well. What makes a man responsible is taking charge of his actions and don't run away from it. As a woman when you see one, you will know. You don't need a sorcerer to tell you that.

Mahoti:
How about the so called partner told you to leave the pregnancy but at the end he left you.
If you know a single mother struggling,there is no harm in helping her.
I am a single mother,a graduate and a makeup artist.

Ofcos no harm in helping a single mother but let her don't envisage it as an entitlement. You can also get married as a single mother that you are if you put yourself upright and don't present yourself as a baggage to any potential suitors.

Fountainofyouth:
I guess single fathers are exempted no?

They are exempted because they are already irresponsible and a nuisance to themselves which is why they left their sons/daughters with the woman and ran away without looking back. And as for the lady, that is the consequence she get by romancing with a lowlife man. Most of them see the signs but continue in that route regardless. Being a single mum should not make you bad except you are already a bad person. There are always exceptions which I believe has been explained above.

clydedaniels:
Some even like smelly legs... Google fetish and you will puke..

Ofcos I know about fetish. I just believed you should be shamed of doing such. Humans do weird things though.