₦airaland Forum

DominusPrime:
He's worse than that. At least treat your wife better than those sex objects. Is that too hard to do? Just goes to show how weak some men are

Are u saying sex objects are allowed but it shouldn't overtake the original madam? Just asking oo

If you can get them a family frame will be better since you said they are well to do. But remember to use spoken words to show appreciation, it goes a long way.

XhosaNostra:
They wish! I take breaks every now & then, this place is draining sometimes.

The bolded was the person's complaint. He said u left because of the numerous insults u received from perceived enemies or uncouth nairalanders who attack anything against their opinions. He was talking in reference to a lady attacking the personality of Ubunja.

XhosaNostra:
No,I want to hear it from you in regards to the subject matter.

Someone said u have left Nairaland on one of this threads. Now I can see u av not..

Casalinda:
And you feel educating you are telling my story is not not my prerogative??

If ur story is actually true, just go for PEP to cut long story short..sefini

Bola146:
I really don't know what is actually wrong with some ladies nowadays, beautiful but no sense

Now this is harshsss . It only brings insult

I had to laugh very hard while reading your post. Nairalanders are full of comedians seriously. They attack anything that will disturb their brain such as this ..you made my evening wonderful.. I wished you could have seen the way I was laughing typing this now. But on a serious note, you don't have to reply every negative comments. Just pass ur message and move on.

Treasure17:
Which yeye good. No coach is immune to sacking. Let Man city has a poor season and see maybe they will not sack him. What has he done in man city that any of his predecessors hasn't done except winning the league with 100 points. Pep is that good and he didn't win the championship league with Bayern?? Good my foot... Abegiiiii.

How come he has never been sacked in any of the 3 clubs he has coached rather he moved on when he is through. I repeat when he is done with Mancity, he will be begged to stay but he will move on just like barca and Bayern both begged him to stay but he moved. Mention the club u support and I will tell you that if he wants it, he will get it...even Liverpool is not left out. Some coach are untouchable, and that is Pep, that is how good he is. His achievement with good football speaks for him. Either you like him or hate him, it doesn't matter.

Treasure17:
I pity pep and his ambition to win championships league for Man city. Failure to achieve that this season is tantamount to sacking.

How can you guys watch football and don't understand it. Pep can never be sack by any Football Club. He can only decides to move on, that's how good he is. He is so good that any club in the world can sack their coach for him if he wants to come, you can take it to the bank. It is just like saying Messi can be chase away. When he is done with man city, he will move on ...shikena.

48:52 as to Guilty and Not-Guilty. I see it as a win-win for democracy. It doesn't matter the incitement towards the impeachment process but that a President should know that he can duly be checkmate by the opposing force if he fails to use the power of his office appropriately. Despite some many undying reasons lay before our eyes in Nigeria here, yet both the lower chamber and upper chamber dare not bring the notion of impeachment to the dictator himself. A president that says he doesn't know the security challenges going on in his backyard. Tufiakwa... What a dunce nation called Nigeria. A president that has over used his power to disobey court orders on multiple counts, even Trump dares not attempt that..

God bless everyone of you who made my 2 days laughing hard...despite some still abuse each other like premature teens. Nairaland brings joy for some of us that take life as easy as it should be, not attacking anyone whose comments seems odd.

I believe she is still young and has nothing to lose even if you leave her. If it is a casual relationship you want, then continue with it. But if you want something serious better discharge her fast and look for matured lady to date. Relationship ends for me immediately you start telling me stories that touch the heart, honesty and trust will start being a bone of contention between us...haba no..

crackkhaus:
Next time, lead with this:



Not saying it is the cause of your single status, but it provides context for those looking to advise you.

Good you pointed out this side of her story. If you want good and truthful advise anywhere, always say the whole facts. That is how you can get the reality you are looking for. No need to advise you when you weren't truthful in the first place.

eazzzy1:
The marriages of today has left their original blue print. Marriage built on the wrong foundation can’t stand.

Marriage lasted in the past because women depended on men in the family unit. If you want a long lasting marriage, marry a dependent woman period.

Women like to claim evolvement, but not all evolution are positive. In the past people killed people with spears, today there are chemical weapons that can wipe out a whole country with the push of a button. That’s evolution but is such evolution positive?

You can’t change a working formulae and expect things to work the same. It’s Eves evolution that got us to where we are today. The lust to change what is, to change the status quo is the biggest problem of a woman not a blessing.

I agreed with your first statement, but using it as a yardstick for today's marriage is flawed. Change is inevitable in all situations. So it is either you change with it or remain lagging behind. So many things has changed since our forefathers and mothers such as educations, socialization, politics, population increase, humanity, and so on. Just like trying to compare U.S of Abraham Lincoln to Trump's or Nigeria in which Lord Lugard almagamated to today's Nigeria. Evolution has taking place and we need to adapt to the new changes with different approach. Marriage inclusive.

Winneygirl:
Maybe scared that I might not marry someone who's my true friend.
I believe friendship remains where love fades.
Maybe if I marry someone whom we connect on a friendship level, then maybe we'll build a family centered on love, truth and finding happiness in the little things in life.

This is highly possible because most times that your true friend might not have everything you want in a partner, making it difficult to settle down with them. That is if not friendzoned already. That is why most never married their true friend.

Marriage can only work when the two parties involved decided they will both make it work. I just want a partner that will consider my feelings, actions, inactions in everything she does and likewise I will do the same. With this, we will have little problems and can easily fix them and live happily ever after.

Mymynd4u:
Can u please prove me wrong? Let's meet at shoprite ikejs

Can't stop laughing at this your comment. So she needs to meet you at shoprite and spend like 10k on you before you accept she is not broke..ba..u funny dieee

A person who cheats on you has broken whatever trust you have with them, so why being with such a person whom you can't trust. And nothing like a mistake in cheating especially when the person was caught.

Sugarrveiii:
Do u advice me to date or believe a yoruba Guy ? Everybody seems to hv something negative to say about them!! U are my last opinion to making up my mind , what do u think about them n be truthful

Haba, haven't you heard of Yoruba demons..so dangerous ....
Jokes apart, how old are you please? If you are matured enough for marriage and you don't know that tribe does not correlate to good man or bad man then please don't go near marriage at all. My candid advice.

BadRadio:
answer ur question

Let me answer it for you. I once knew a guy who had more than 4 gf and sex them like madtt..guess what he is broke and those girls are also broke, maybe one is not. Though he is handsome, and you know some girls can't resist an handsome dude

TheApologist:
I understand your point but a cheat will always be a cheat. Honestly I want to believe the girl will still find excuses to cheat on the boyfriend even if they aren't separated by long distance. it is one thing to cheat but to do that with no sense of guilt is unacceptable. Long distance relationship work for some people it all depends on the two parties involved, the genuineness of their feelings (because like it's very easy to lose touch emotionally with someone who isn't available and making long calls won't make up for physical presence) and their sensitivity to sexual feelings and how to manage it

Hope you know you are stylishly justifying cheat with the bolded in your statement.

Gina2019:
I support him morally, pray for him, support him finacially, encourage him to be the best he can be. I do whole lot of things for him.

Haba! What is he waiting for if he has not wife you yet? If you do all these and still no assurance from him, pls run...

There is no need to change the name. Just present a better candidate to challenge your closest rival in 2023 election. Though we know that both APC/PDP is a party full with looters and criminals.

Ariza:
In your teens you had more confidence,cash and OT to catch teens like yourself. But as you grow, you only did in age. Dude stop hiding behind the red pills facade and face your reality!.


I wonder why most redpillers are bitter and mentally unstable entities though .

Then we can both come to a concord that red pillers and feminists have a lot in common

Kennedyiheme:
redpill doesn't mean no sex, just no relationship or marriage

I believed you know every guy is not in this assertion with you? You can choose to take red pill but please don't force it down our throat if we aren't going that lane..thanks

Nigeria Government is a reflection of her people. The people in govt. are Nigerians of different tribes and possess a very low moral standard. Go to the very least Local Govt. in your locality and see the handiwork of your fellow average Nigerians then you will understand that the Govt. Is a reflection of its people. Therefore Nigeria Govt. is an equivalent of her people, not better than or lesser than.

A young girl of about 16 years whom I am close with came up to me and told me she has something to ask me. This time around she was acting shy and I was curious because she was very free in talking with me about her studies and her challenges in them. I ask her to feel free to ask. Then she ask if it is right for her to have boyfriend now. That almost every girl in her class has one and they have been telling her to have her own. She is in SS2. The first thing I asked her is if she has told her Mother about it, and she screamed Nooooo. I was surprised the way she responded. I asked her why and she said do I want her mum to kill her. That her mum will not understand her. I said you have not asked her and yet you said she won't understand you. She insist that she can't oo. Well I went ahead to ask her some series of questions on why she thinks she needed a boyfriend and letting her know why her priority now is her studies and becoming a better woman. The mother is a single mother of two. I wanted to meet the mother and tell her about it and tell her to give her daughter a listening hear. But I later sholve it aside before I become a suspect. I later relocated from that area. Parents have a lot to do in bringing up a female child uprightly in this generation of perverts, rapists, slay mamas, who**res, gold diggers and so on.

The parents this days are really indomie parents with no sense of morality. The parents that openly encourage examination malpractices. A mother slaying all over the internet then you expect her to caution her daughter doing same. A father who chases after women here and there has nothing to offer his son. Naira Marley is an example of a failed parent.

kingdiamond:
When she attempt's to take my life .

What if she cheats on you. Are you saying you will easily forgive her?just asking

EmpressT:
You're totally wrong my dear. I am not selfish to justify him or anyone. Your thoughts are different from mine. So speak for yourself.

Thanks dear, just want to know what's on that beautiful mind. Glad you are not offended by the question.

EmpressT:
Ok. Sincerely, what can your wife do to you that will make you not to forgive her ever?

Concerning your signature, do you invest with them or you are one of their staff? Just want to know because I have some investments with them.

The story looks fictitious until you continue reading more comments and it starts making sense. Then you asked how will a 22 year old girl decides to bath in the open while there are several bathrooms in the house. Sounds stupid and fictional. I am not doubting the man loving breastmilk because that is his choice. If some men open up on what they like or love on their wife's body, some of you won't be able to eat today, because it will sound disgusting.