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Emmanueltrin:
really I still wonder who will score blunt rashy ,kor dull martial ,abi headless chicken James

Don't forget so easily that the 3 forward players of manutd score more goals than Liverpool this same year. So GGMU still has a lot who can do that, they just need to get their mojo back.

Only if you know the power of money. Just imagine what a Jeff Bezos can do with $200b. He can even buy a country with her citizens included

birdgo:
Willian was chelsea's best player(If you disagree, tell me who was better). I still don't understand why lampard got rid of him. Wiliam will really do a lot for arsenal this season no doubt.

Chelsea has a new pattern of not giving any player above 30 more than 1 year with an additional 1 year if the player deserves it. willian wants more than that which was the reason chelsea had to let him go. You can see that they gave Thiago Silva just 1 year because he is more than 30 years. But believe me rules are meant to be broken under the right circumstances. Example if Messi or CR7 decides to come, chelsea might even offer them more than 3 years. That is life jare my brother.

William has been a good player. I believe he will bring a lot of experience to this arsenal team. Kudos to him for this early performance. Chelsea get ready to receive his rot when u meet.

Daguccizgreat:
You are getting it wrong. We have been very good friends even before I met my wife and for your information she's not more relevant to me than my wife. My wife is too precious for me but my bestie is my confidant aside from my wife

Confidante [n. fem.]: One to whom secrets, especially those relating to affairs of love, are confided or intrusted; a confidential or bosom friend.
That above is the meaning of confidant according to oxford dictionary. Now my point is this; I don't say you should not have bestie, but the limit of the person being your confidant should be cut short immediately you get married. It is more dangerous being opposite sex. I believed your spouse now should take that position. Read my first post on why my bestie lost his guy because of our close relationship. I never knew by then but I know better now.We are humans and emotions run through our body though differently but you must consider the other person's emotion if you are not bias towards your judgement. Some people might still argue that the partner is insecure if he or she doesn't trust their partner, which I consider rubbish. Sometimes we put ourselves in situations for catastrophe then we blame the devil for the consequences. That is why I don't forgive a cheat because I believe it is a premeditated act.

Kemimarch16:
Son of bitch u don't have the balls to roll with me,I roll with your mother.continue to use your thwart mother to play kite.i pity the smelling virginal that gave birth to u

An abuse has gone beyond normal when you bypass the abuser to someone who knows nothing about the situation. Please refrain from attacking the parents, they might be good people irrespective of the kind of son or daughter they have. I believed only children do these sort of things.

Daguccizgreat:
Do you think every man you come across is loose ? I'm married and my principles towards other women remain intact. Get that mister

Sorry to pokey nose in your matter. Please your case is different since you are married. You can't be married and give much attention to another woman more than your wife. It is not reasonable, it is not logical and it is emotionally bias. There is no rationale behind such acts. I told my very close friend that immediately she becomes married or I become married then she should expect less communications and contact from me likewise I will also expect same from her. There is no way I can have a wife and say my bestie will be more relevant than her.

ojuu4u:
She will still loss the new relationship so far you re still are bestie.

If truly you like the lady and you don't have intention of her husband in future,..... find way to stop be her bestie, a month is enof to discharge a woman, if you take that bold step it may hurt her initially but she wouldn't regret.

With you in Picture, she will never concentrate and gives needed support and sacrifice to make her relationship work, .....again with you in picture, her guy will never see her as a serious lady who is ready for serious relationship.

If two of you are not heat of friends ,world will not come to an end.


A word is enof for a wise!

You did not answer the question I asked you in my last post. I don't know the scenario you are creating in your head right now. We hardly see these days because both of us is busy with work and other things. She even stay very far away from me, so I don't understand your point. You are saying it as if I am holding her down for what ever reasons you created in your head. We didn't even see for up to 7 months due to work and you are here telling me to leave her alone..nawa ooo

NobleAngell:
Maybe she's a trained medical doctor who studied in Harvard and graduated as the best student during her time. She may also be a great cook with a wonderful character and also a good home maker.

Even with that the list is outrageous. The man should just pay only the bride price. The youth, village members can go to shakafchan to pick their items. No wonder my guy from Abia says he will pay everything on that list and he will have control over the girl 100%. I asked what if the girl refuses to do everything he says. He said he will just kill the girl and put it as suicide then move on with his life.

ojuu4u:
If you are logical to yourself, according to ur story, she stayed in ur house for two days because she wasnt in any relationship lately, meanwhile she was in a relationship b4, but her guy kept complaining because of u,.......now the guy had dropped her, she is back to square one, all in the name of foolish male bestie, and don't forget, day by day she is approaching menopause...... .......

If u sincere to urself, don't u see urself as obstacle?
Don't u see her as a foolish girl?

Won't she regret be ur female bestie on the long run?

You are going overboard with this your statement. I have already explained to you the necessity of balancing both areas. Moreover the guy she lost was probably her first guy and she has had other relationship after that. So because she has a new relationship now, others that have being important in her life should be discarded?? Is that what you will do if you are in her position?

Elxandre:
Better marry her.

Na stranger you wan go marry abi.

Nope..I see her now like a sister to me. No feeling at all. You know the feeling you have when you are around your blood sisters, that's what I get when I am around her.

I will use my case as an example. I have a very female close friend. We met during my last year in secondary school which is over 10 years now. We became very close that we spend time at each other's house. Our family knows each other, she lives third street from mine. Sometimes she stays late in my place and I also do the same. She later had a bf. She was having issues with the bf because of me but I never cared since we were just friends. We did a lot together and talked about many things. Later I started having feelings for her in which she knows. I later controlled myself because I decided to value the friendship than starting a relationship which may have grumbled later on. We went to university differently and still communicate. Right now we are both matured and still close. She later told me of recent what transpired between she and her guy because of me. She really loved the guy but he doesn't want to believe that she was just a friend with me. According to her, he always complained that why is she in my place all the times. Whenever he visit or calls, it is either she is with me or I am with her. I couldn't understand the guy's perspective by then but now I know better. I sat her down and explain some certain things to her in which we both got wrong. I told her now I would have acted otherwise and she was also insensitive towards the guy's emotions. I told her no friend should be closer to you than your bf or someone you claim to love. You must be able to balance your friendship with your relationship. She was in my place this year and spend two days in my house. I only allowed that because she was not in any relationship as of then. I told her I won't allow it if she is in a relationship for reasons I explained to her. We are still close till now and have never had sex or any romance for over 10 years now. So, yes you can but it must not be with everyone.

MajohBankz:
Oga face your front jare. You dey talk like say no b the lampard coach Chelsea last season. He knows where the problem lies. Our wingers left, we bought new ones, left back was issue, we bought new one, defense was issue we brought new one, striker was issue, we bought new one. We are not rebuilding rather we are repairing parts.

I don't think you understand me. Buying these players will mean he has to win the league this coming season according to Chelsea owner yet I don't see him lifting that trophy ahead of Man city or Liverpool. Maybe next two season if he is not sack.

All these signings are good however Lampard should know it comes with a lot of responsibility such as winning the league. How will he blend 5 to 6 new players in a team in just a single season where you have Mancity and Liverpool who have settled team already. I just see the sacking of lampard at hand because I doubt these new players can dethrone Mancity and Liverpool in just a season.

I have listened to the CAMA acts and see that it is a good development for NGOs in which churches and mosques are included. I don't know why only the Pentecostal churches are against it while the Orthodox churches are okay with it. That only boil down to fear of being accountable since their pastors drive around in flashy cars and live in luxuries. I pray a day will come that I will go to church and any pastor will want to talk against CAMA. Then I will be there to educate such person. Yes clamour for amendments if required but stopping it from coming to light is failed already. I Stan with CAMA.

Beverlyjean:
Because of the chips are down he decides to runaway ...its better set lets c how u gonna perform at another league .... whr are his minions that said he is 100% loyal to barca cos they treated his illness as a child... ... foolish people , u guys don't know when u are being scammed... barca no fit perform again, he runs ...but when it was all good, it was barca or nothing ... always looking for the easy way

I can't stop laughing reading your comments. Some of us don't know what we want. Some are chanting he should leave and test his popularity elsewhere, some want him to stay likely barca fans while some like you are still claiming he wants to run away because of challenges, meaning the one he has faced for over 15 years is not enough. Las las you can never please humans. shikena!

In a country of about 200 million people, how is it practically possible for 170 million people to vote? I don't think this figure is tentatively correct. You can arguably say 170 million votes, that I will agree to. Except you are saying more than half of the population watch bbnaija and also participate in it online, which I doubt that.

I guess it depends on the angle the mother is coming from that will determine if she wants what is best for the new family to be. I dislike mothers who are insensitive to their daughters or sons having a family of their own. To the mothers in the house, please get this that when your son or daughter marries. He/She now has a family to care and be responsible for which is now higher priority to you. The best you can do is wish them success in their new endeavours and not try to be the center of attention in their life no matter how you claim to love them. Though your sister is too hasty in cancelling the marriage plans..haba.

I decided not to watch the game cos I thought it will be a walk over for Manutd but I am surprised it has gotten to this. Pls someone watching this should explain to me if Copahengen is boiling hard or manutd is playing below par considering we still have inter and sevilla in the game.

CsRockefeller:
Can you help.me out with a female friend of.mine?

She keeps getting job offers but can't afford a place in Lagos right now, she stays at Ota.

Are you saying she got job appointment in Lagos . Is she ready to pay bills with the house owner?

Klass99:
Lol , babe just die this yarn first.

When you meet the child I mentioned in my first post, na you go first ask for cane to flog the living daylights out of her.

You can also raise well behaved children in a loving way by using the rod appropriately and adequately, not sparing it - the rod.

Did you not school or live in Nigeria for a while? Were you not flogged or punished by teachers at school, relatives at home or your own parents? Did you not turn out okay? I did and I still love/appreciate each and everyone of those people.

A friend once told me that when you have kids you need to watch and understand each of them and know which disciplinary measures to apply with each child, because they are all different.

Her point was this - some children are more difficult and stubborn than others, those ones will require close marking, a firm hand and the rod. Others are okay but lazy and laid back, those ones will also require a different sort of training where they are pushed out of their laziness early so it doesn't follow them into adulthood.

I think you have said it all and if you don't understand that different children need different ways to discipline them then there is no way I can help you. I could remembered while I was younger and always go to the playground to play football almost everyday. I was being flogged to stop and yet I never stopped for a very long time. Now when I remember such scenario I tried to reason why I couldn't stop despite being flogged for it always. Children can be gentle, meek and very stubborn, depending on the one you have.

Defection every now and then yet the so called citizen will never learn that there is no future for Nigeria when it comes to PDP and APC. They are both birds of a feather that flocks wherever their interest reside. Well if this generation of youths refused to be wise, maybe the next will.

How will you be living in an uncompleted building when you should have planned your means very well before coming to Lagos. I have a female friend I can recommend for you. She will accept you due to my recommendation but I can't even verify if your story is true or not. Although she might ask you to pay some bills with her. I don't know if you can afford to do that.

The Registrar is trying to save the child for future embarrassment but the parent can only see it as an obstacle for giving their son a beautiful name. Meanwhile the law in New Zealand is already clear concerning such names as stated in the post. It is a no win situation for the couple going by the law.

Ishilove:
I vomitted fufu

The embarrassing moment we depend on the place you vomited the fufu and the kind of people present.

Enemyofpeace:
Chelsea fans una mind no pure towards us o and na God go deall with all of una with holy ghost fire

Chelsea's thought towards Manutd is nothing but pure evil and to have an expected end of failure. It is a necessary evil. You should understand that by now.

tfash96:
If my Barça will be so humiliated by Bayern then they should allow Napoli to qualify.. Those ones can still defend spiritually like Atletico Madrid so we need tight opponent for Bayern.. Well there's nothing God can't do sha if that Our Fulani herdsmen of a coach will use Sergi Roberto and Ivan Rakitic.. That game is not for likes of Vidal and Griezmann especially Griezmann if not for bad tackles I can say he should start Vidal but no we must not risk it

My own point of view though

Barca's problem starts with the President. He has spent almost $500m since Neymar left barca and there is no UCL to show for it. If he doesn't step down or leave the club then the problem will persist for long no matter the coach or player he brings in. Haven't you wonder why most big players he brings in performs woefully despite those players being the best where they were coming from. Starting from Coutinho, Dembele, Grizman

Pinkybush:
I believe chelsea can make another history.

Let me use this great opportunity and announce to the whole world that my blood is BLUE.

THE BLUES!!!

Only if you will cut yourself then do a video of blue blood gushing out of your body then I will believe that your blood is truly blue and not red like the rest of us. Thanks

PSG has a big shot this year of winning the UCL while Athletico should also fancy their chances. Barca should be out likewise Madrid. Mancity should try their luck while Bayern remain favorite to win it.

PSG should be on their way to Final if they know what is good for them. Madrid is out already after losing 2-1 in your home. Juventus should be able to win in their home while Barca is in big hot soup. Well Athletico Madrid could surprise us this year...let's wait and see.

I like arsenal naturally though Chelsea and Manutd will be more of a challenger in top 4 than arsenal. I know Chelsea will make top 4 but I want Manutd to join them instead of Leicester city