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@op, total rubbish!!! What's the essence of fighting if you can't say those things. I believe during a fight, one should be able to say those things that would hurt the other person the most.

For instance, if your partner wet the bed, you should be able to say " you bed-wetter mutherfuvker "

And if you partner is broke... say " you broke bastard ".

Fighting brings out the best in us (or for some, the worst).

Cursing each other during a fight means both of you are of the same level. If one partner curses the other half every time without the other replying, that's an abuse!

Good for Kanu, but as Lagbaaja earlier said, a country of mumu's won't even bother to ask how old kanu is, why, 'cause e no concern them.

Movies: Crimson Tide (Denzel Washington), Philadelphia (Denzel again), Radio ( Gooding Jr.),
Seven Pound ( Will Smith), Hotel Rwanda (Don Cheadle), Conviction ( Hilary Swank), Million Dollar Baby ( Hilary Swank), A Time To Kill ( Samuel L Jackson), Forest Gump, Cast Away, The Green Mile ( Tom Hank))......and lots more

Books: All good books

nikkyshyne: Oh boi! May holy ghost fire roast any woman that tries to come between me and my man

Btw Op, are you saying a woman should endure a cheating partner

Secondly, are you saying all men are animals and cheating is inevitable

Please throw more light.

Thanks.

Every man is a potential cheat regardless of status. The problem is, they all want to make a perfect getaway.

Take a look at your cheating partner...is he caring? Is he ambitious? Do you love him? Does he satisfy your needs and does your parents or family like him? If all of the above is yes, then you don't need to worry.

He is like a prodigal son, he'd learn his lessons out there and be glued to you forever when he realizes cheating doesn't pay.

Nomski0: I dont mean to sound rude but what the hell are you advising us on?
I really didnt get the long post. Kindly summarize.
To cheat or not to cheat?

If you're a lady, keep your man and work out your relationship.

If you're a guy, you cannot help it (..that animal in you won't allow it)...just love your woman and take care of her.

This is the most dreaded word that most women fear to hear... CHEAT! A lot of the time, women would either file for a divorce or part with a cheating partner. But question that always come to the mind would be
"I've I made the right decision?"

Well, technically, the answer is not that straight forward and somewhat rhetorical. It's an hypothetical question that needs no answer but a deep search within oneself.

Think of it this way, should you because of the waywardness of a child feed him to the lion? My analogy might not seem plausible but somewhat laudable.

Your reason for parting with your man in the first place is because of his dishonesty. Now look around you, how many honest guys are out there? Well, initially, they all would profess to be honest.

..And because you're decent and wouldn't want to share your body with any man except your boyfriend/husband, you've remained faithful and loyal. The question now is, would you want to remain loyal or faithful to another man?

Now, who's more promiscuous, man or woman? Ladies, you have to examine yourselves. Changing guys like a clothe in the market place sake of cheating only add to the number of men you've slept with.

Fact: You can not stop a guy from cheating regardless of how much love you give him.
Fact: The moment you went for a handsome or cute guy, the moment the cheating started
Fact: The moment you start paying attention to his calls and searching his belongings, the moment trouble starts
Fact: Depriving him of intimacy brings out the animal in him

Points to note:

* Every woman should go into a relationship with an open mind and prays the guy loves her dearly. I believe that's all that matters!

* Love has nothing to do with cheating. You've had it before "If he loves me, he won't cheat" Sorry to burst your bubble, guys love to exercise their varieties regardless of the love they have for you.

* If your guy/husband takes care of you and you want nothing, you should be thankful. Don't start any trouble that you'd later regret... millions of ladies are waiting for your guy to come aboard into their lives... keep your man!

* And finally, it took you ages to build that relationship, why break it up and start that long journey again?

looks like a stain on the wall for me. Take a closer look at the bottom of the said figure, you'd see a dripping line narrowing to the left. That doesn't look convincing, does it?

..And why call Mary mother of God? Jesus is not God (the maker of heaven and earth). God cannot be giving birth to!

Enyeama was the captain and wasnt good enough at his last outing. He should be replaced. 1st choice since 2002? Thats damn too long... no wonder he got complacent.

The coach also got complacent and thinks he's all that... how dare him took all those players to the confed cup to face the likes of Xavi, Neyma and all!

Not calling up Odemwinge again is also a bit disrespectful to Nigeria. Take your ego somewhere else. Winning AFCON is good but building upon that is necessary to the advancement of football in this nation.

Nigeria.... a retardeen country where a military assassin is being celebrated amidst release from prison. And you see political figures renting private jets just to escort him. Now you know this is politics!

Meanwhile, somewhere in Nigerian courts, petty thieves and weed smokers are being sentenced to life imprisonment.

I still find it absurd that people still do this despite countless arrests that have been made recently. Registrars and Churches (Church of England) are now working with UKBA to report the faintness suspicion of any couple intending to marry.

Although Churches aren't meant to get involve in politics, UK Churches is an exception. And for students and any visa holder, you don't have to marry someone to regularize your stay in the UK or US, though that's the quickest option.

And if you ain't got any other option, then get involve in a serious relationship with a UK citizen or resident. Run from these Portugese ladies, most of them are already married to someone else, and needed extra money.

Finally, for Nigerians wishing to travel abroad, stop coming to the UK, not the best place for you guys. Go to Finland (Population just 5.3 Million) but with free education and fast settlement if you got a child). Although it's a bit expensive to live, there are however jobs and benefits available for everyone.

@Mod, before you delete or hide this post, use your sense and think carefully. This is not an attempt to bash any tribe, this is a general thread.

I speak directly to the incessant degradation and deaths of Nigerians in the hands of SA authority...particularly, the deaths and deportations of many Igbos.

I believe it is high time our brothers and sisters start weighing up their options and come back home. Except ofcourse there are hidden secrets and reasons in going to these 3rd world nations, Nigeria is far off a better nation.

Stop going to Hong Kong, Malaysia, China, Japan and other Asian countries to reside permanently.You will lose, and lose badly. Go to Europe (not even a better place at the moment) or America (gun shot in the air too).

Be contented and be transparent in your hand work too.. Nigeria is a land full with milk and honey if you work hard, be persistent, have God's favor and move with the right people.

I do go out with mine, but on getting to the gucci house, ring goes to the pocket. And as soon as I get home, before climbing the stairs, ring comes back on.

The first impression is always the deciding factor. Mr Ogidan did indeed beat his wife. I thought he was going to say what we saw was a custume for a movie. But no, he didnt. He came up with a story fit for 2 year old, and some gullible people are already believing his crap.

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So to make your point, you decide to make personal attacks...smh? You can state your points in a civil manner (and i will accept them) without resorting to such uncouth comments. That is how adults have a matured and meaningful discussion all over the world irrespective of colour or race.

That wasn't a personal attack, that was stating the obvious. If you're offended, then ndo. The world is ruled by some powers and powers beyond easy comprehension. The adults you talking about are actually the adults that decide the state of affairs; who get what, who should be president, who should die, what country should be targeted, who to enslave and so on.

The world would have been a better place if we're all colourless, sadly we're not. Policies of advanced countries affect us till today. America foreign policy, UK foreign policy, Germany, Holland, Canada and so forth enslaves us as people.

Affirmative action was put in place to disregard the genuineness of our existence. We're now a torn in the flesh to these people. We were breed to withstand the harshest weather but that later turn to our advantage. We dominate every physical sport to the detriment of the "masters". The sacrifice that was made by African American sets us free as Africans, yet we are still entangled in a web of denial ( " racism does not exist anymore ". These things Serena understand and had swore to beat Sharapova every time they meet. She does this not only for the money but for posterity sake, for the years her families had beeen enslaved and for y'll niggers outhere who are currently facing hardship and discrimination.

I know you dont understand!

supaeagles: Have the sisters ever complained about racism?? Why are you bringing it up - just curious. It's not like football where in many places in Europe the African footballers hear racist chants against than. The tennis crowd is generally more refined than the football crowd.

No point continuing this conversation with you. Only a shallow individual would argue that the Williams hasn't been victims of what is called "institutionalized racism". You're one of the conformist who believe everything they hear or see on TV. Williams at one point got tired of the ranking system...she won all major and minor competition, yet they never moved her up the ranking.

Years back, she tried acting, modelling and thought about going back to University to study for a degree. In her memoir, she complained about the harsh reality of being successful and colored in the midst of "powers" (if you know what i mean). You're too young, naive and lack basic understanding of how things work.

supaeagles: why you de bring skin color into this? The true tennis fans all over the world root for Serena irrespective of her race

You dont get it, do you ? Skin color is for the naive and bias BBC pundits, the gullible pubic perception, the board at the ITA, ATTA, and so on

Irrespective of naive and bitter public opinion, Serena always get the job done. Thats the heart of a true champion. Sharapova is there darling, Serena is the nightmare they never wanted to see when they woke up.

Imagine you being the only black player and whopping their asses everytime, they would hate you. You dont need muscle to play tennis. Serena's athletism scares the shhit ouuta this white people.

1forall: But the OP simply asked for help?

I have to critique first before helping out.

breathless: My RECONSTRUCTION;

Dear Sir,



APPLICATION FOR THE POSITION OF GRADUATE TRAINEE



I hereby apply for the above mentioned position in your organization in response to your advertisement of 6th May, 2013 in the xxxxxxx newspaper. I am a promising, hardworking university graduate from the Ambrose Alli University, Ekpoma, with a background in Accounting and Management. As a creative, energetic individual with excellent communications skills and a pleasant, accommodating manner, I believe I possess the right combination of skills to be considered.



I have worked in the same University as the treasurer of management Science Students Association of Nigeria,(MASSAN) Faculty of Management Science where I quickly earned a reputation as a professional and conscientious worker with excellent personal -relations skills. In addition, I am target driven and result oriented on any assigned task. My other knowledge, skills and strengths include but limited to excellent and quality research analysis and ICT Skills such as Arc Maps, Oracle 11g data base, Linus OS, Microsoft Excel, Powerpoint and Microsoft Word.

My post graduation professional work experience include Polaris Digitech where I worked Briefly as a contract staff from Jan. 2xxx to Dec. 2xxx and Land Surveyors & GIS consultants as a systems operator from Jan. 2xxx to Dec. 2xxx.

I am a fast learner and confident with a large intellectual capacity for growth and development. I trust that you will find my qualification and skills resourceful to your organisation.

I will greatly appreciate an opportunity for further discussions as I look forward to your favourable response soonest.

Kindly contact me at the address and phone number listed above.



Thank you.





Yours faithfully,

You don't start a cover letter with "I hereby apply", and you don't need to put the "APPLICATION FOR THE POSITION..." stuff. What happened to "with reference to your advertisement on... or simple say "Referring to the job ad posted in the Daily Times..."

There's nothing like "Communications skills" but there is communication skills.Your conjunction is awful and your use of grammar is pathetic. What is "pleasant accommodating manner?" ..."skills to be considered". Considered for what? You have to be precise and at the same time elaborate. It is post-graduation and not post graduation.

The paragraph where you said you were a fast learner is too poisonous. What further discussions do you want to have? State why you would want the discussion. why not say " I would be pleased or it would be an honor to discuss this position with you in person". What is "my other knowledge?" I don't get it. Other knowledge are meant to be your qualifications (not school related).

You started a paragraph with "I have worked in the same University"..total rubbish! What same University are we talking about here?

I can not analyse all the paragraphs one after the other, but I must say you need more coaching in your use of English.

Why say "Thank you?" You don't!!! "Yours faithfully" is archaic and should be replaced with just "Sincerely"

Above all, and to be generous, I'll score you 4/10.

She's ugly, and that explains why no man would want to kiss her .. Joke!!!

He tried, but he's all over the place. I don't accept mediocrity. With more voice coaching, he'll do well. The soundtrack is awful, and I believe everyone should be allowed to bring their own soundtrack DISC.

Do not be deceived guys, how long you pray has nothing to do with the way or degree to which your prayers get answered by God. There's this general misconception by Pentecostal pastors about praying longer prayers.

There should always be a direction and lead when praying. You pray for things you want God to do for you. Before going to your earthly father to ask for things or direction , you already know what you want to discuss with him. Time spent in such situation would depend on how you communicate your issues with him. Some people are direct and waste no time asking God or their earthly father for what they want, while some would take forever to actually say their thought.

Depending on what works for you, God treat us individually and wouldnt judge you based on the time spent with Him. However, the shortest prayers always carry a powerful intent. Repeatation of prayers has always been the reasons for long prayers (3 to 5 hrs prayers).

And finally, we all pray for different reasons. If you have a pile of prayer points then I expect your prayer to be long. And if you dont, then your prayers should be precise and hit home, hence repeatation would be the order of the day.

While some people would only say fews words and have their prayers answered, some of y'all would have to fast, pray like never before, wait like forever, beg like beggers before your prayers get answered. Above all, faith is key.

Oge Okoye is ugly..well, to some extent. Except you're being bias, you wouldnt disagree.

nadia_SA: shes much approachable not likee my dad he shouts alot ....my mom was once a teen girl so its easier for her to relate

Daddy wouldn't tolerate all your bullshht. Real and responsible girls loves their daddy.

I don't prostrate for my mother-in-law. I stand, say hello and kiss her. Sometimes I just say " se owa ok".

Forty-four-year old David Onyebuchi is wanted in connection with the importation and supply of millions of pounds worth of cocaine.

Onyebuchi, who is originally from South Africa, has links to Dublin, and Belfast, as well as to North West and South East London. is it just me, doesn't Onyebuchi sound Nigerian?

Anyone with any information as to the whereabouts of David Onyebuchi, money dey for you o!

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b006ppmq/profiles/wanted-david-onyebuchi

mascot87: I am expecting something like this by HIS GRACE.

My family will receive something like this(green card) too IJN...Amen. It's high time they get blessed. Thank you Lord because you've done it.

FlirtyKaren: Beyoncé and Jay-Z totted their 15-month-old darling daughter — her chubby cheeks in tow — to a laid-back lunch in Paris, France, on Thursday. Donning a graphic tee and denim, Blue dined with her superstar parents at neo-bistro style eatery Septime, where she was cuddle by Bey and smooched by Jay.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2013/04/beyonce-and-jayz-show-off-their.html

Your descriptive narrative is vain, your polarizing is excessively overblogged, and your love for material thing is sodomic.

Millions of people do what these people do and you don't see them telling everyone about what their child is wearing. You're vain once again