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Originalsly:
In his eyes.... you are history. You went digging... how can you say you didn't expect to find dirt?... weren't you digging expecting to find something? Then you transformed to a digger... digging at every opportunity... and overreacting to your findings... no matter how small or innocent. Don't you think you were putting a strain on the relationship?...on the marriage? Some men can't stand drama and you are very dramatic... a drama queen. That's not what he bargained for... so basically... he's out. You seem to be the type who do not consider advice... but do things the way you see fit. Such people learn the hard way. Blame yourself for marrying someone because you were in love with him only. Younspilt the milk.... why be crying? My advice... get a mirror...look into it.

Oh give us a break.So catching a cheat who took vows with you & said till death do you part is now being over dramatic? So it’s okay for the man to go fooling around & the woman is supposed to give him a pat on the shoulder & congratulate him for a job well done? Digging for dirt or not, if he said during his vows that he’d forsake all others, then dirt shouldn’t have been found to begin with.Comments like yours keep re-victimizing women & make them feel as if they are out of their minds for wanting out of abusive relationships.By the way marriage is not alpha & omega.It’s not a trophy, we have many single women doing great things.I don’t know why you are trying to sanitize a demon in disguise by accusing the lady of being “over dramatic”. The days of our grandparents where they had to endure abusive relationships because they had no choice, those days are long gone.Wake up & smell the coffee.Women are more empowered now more than ever.Your comments wreak the hallmark of an abuser!

Ramanto:
I have been experiencing a recurring toothache over the last five years. It seems to defy all medications, nothing I haven't done. I have even removed a tooth before now, yet the pain reappeared in two teeth again. I don't want to remove a tooth again. What can I do please?

Please move this to the front page. Others will need to gain from this, toothache seems to be a common problem in Nigeria.

My teeth gave me hell towards the beginning of last year.I pulled out four wisdom teeth but the front teeth, I had root canal done.I don’t know how much it costs in Nigeria but I can assure you that root canal is a miracle worker

Bifwoli:
I for one DO NOT mourn his passing its good riddance to him. He had too many evils tied to his reign - economic stagnation,death of many institutions , death of parastatals ,deaths of prominent people ,tribalism ,endemic corruption ,he illegally stole a white farmer's land (Kabarak High school land) which he later "donated" , stole Mr Kanyotu's 50% share of Corner Hse Nairobi, illegally took another lady's Shs 4b land in downtown Eldoret ,detained Kenneth Matiba & Rubia ,brought one party dictatorship ...and so on.

ITS GOOD RIDDANCE to that old thug actually.May he pay for his many evils in hell.

LOL it is actually.People are trying sugarcoat his evil deeds but really, the man committed a lot of atrocities.Remember how he detained the late Mirugi Kariuki & Koigi Wamwere at the Nyayo torture chambers? Injected Matiba with mercury, ordered the killing of Robert Ouko & all the witnesses disappeared without a trace? Half of news would be all about Moi BS. Can we ever forget the Molo clashes that killed thousands & displaced thousands with much tribe being the victim? Terrible!

Exmilitant:
you are right sir.

LOL it’s ma’am.

larryking540:
That is why till date the most widely respected president is madela ,,,,till date I doubt if such a person still exist (most of them fight for the people and after wards refuse to leave power even when tins don't go their way )

See Uganda ,,,na briefcase person go load money put just to buy bread ,,,
Because of their yeye leader way don die few months back after leaving his office forcefully

If na olden days they for call madela second Jesus Christ in black skin ,,,,

Think you meant Zimbabwe because Museveni of Uganda is still in office.

Exmilitant:
He Was Deputy To The First President Of Kenya, Jomo Kenyatta. He Took Over When Jomo Died In Office In 1978... He Clung To Power Till 2002 When He Handed Power To The Current President, Uhuru Kenyatta Who Is A Son Of Jomo Kenyatta.

Correction, he handed over to President Mwai Kibaki the best president Kenya has had so far & I speak for many Kenyans.After Kibaki’s two terms, Uhuru Kenyatta took over & he’s on his last term.

Mistaicey2288:
RIP.. But wait ooo, so this man ruled for a whole 24 years? So he actually started ruling 10 years before i was even born and was there up till when I was 14.. .. Biko how long is a Presidential tenure in Kenya?

Do you know Museveni of Uganda started ruling in 86 & he’s still in power? Before I was born & looks like my children may still find him ruling Uganda.

Mistaicey2288:
RIP.. But wait ooo, so this man ruled for a whole 24 years? So he actually started ruling 10 years before i was even born and was there up till when I was 14.. .. Biko how long is a Presidential tenure in Kenya?

Baba Moi showed us pepper after the failed coup during his reign.Kenya became a one party state.Roads, schools & other public institutions were named after Moi. He had divorced his wife 4 years prior to taking over power & the word out there is that the children who supported the mother ended up poor. A dictator such that people could be somewhere & if one painted Moi in a negative light, they’d disappear without a trace.Thank God when Kibaki took over power in 2000, he amended the constitution, so a president can only rule for 2 terms.

stephenduru:
Here is the corpse one of the four Nigerian seminarians who was kidnapped and killed by his abductors.The 18yr old identified as Michael Nnadi was killed alongside the wife of a doctor.

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2020/02/see-corpse-of-seminarian-who-was-killed.html?m=1

I don’t understand Nigerian journalism ethics.How can you display the deceased face like this? It’s not only disrespectful to the dead , but also very insensitive.The internet never forgets so each time his loved ones hit the internet, this is the picture they’ll be seeing.Shame on you all!

If there’s any truth to this story, then am not surprised because this generation does not like to study their Bibles.Any new preacher in town they’ll follow.Honey you don’t need a preacher, you need God.You don’t need another prophecy, you need the Word of God.You do not need all these “anointed” materials that keep costing you money, the son of God was given freely.He that’s in you is greater than any handkerchief or anointing oil.The Bible says that the Berean Christians were more noble than Thessalonians because after Paul had preached to them, they went back and studied the scriptures to see if what he Paul had said was true.What you need is to stop chasing after preachers and turn your Bible and God unto your best friend.Stop being tossed by every wind of doctrine!

uncastableodd:
Good morning everyone.

In the middle of the night today, I tried to look for duvet to cover up my son on bed. I decided to check my wife wardrobe.

I saw a pack of mycoten in the wardrobe. She already slept this time. So I had to chill till this morning to ask her questions.

So, this morning when I asked her, she said it was her mum that gave her bla bla bla..
I saw a piece of paper prescribing that cream for her in that same bag I found the cream.

I googled the uses of mycoten and I found out it was nothing serious because it is use for yeast infection and vagina odour. My wife dont have vagina odour and I understand yeast infection can be gotten from toilet or could be infection of body skin that spread or so.

I actually know she lied about her mummy giving her. But what baffles me is that I got a whatsapp message from her when she was coming from my son school..

She wrote that I nag a lot. That I should give her space. That u think she can't cope without me. She said she will look for work to take care of our son.She said we have been together for six years and I don't even trust her a bit. She said I think she can't leave without her. She didn't even address the issue of allegation of infidelity I threw against her(i deliberately did that #.I replied her I can't give her space in my own house and if she is fed up, she can pack her bags and go to her parent house. I told her if my son is infected or if I am infected , I am going to kill her and hand over myself to police. Immediately she blocked me on whatsapp and I did same. After an hour, she unblocked me.

Could she have been sleeping around her? Or are there any other uses of mycoten I don't know?

In my mind though, the cream I find is not really something to worry about but the message I got and her reaction is what I don't understand.

Sir, with all due respect, educate yourself a bit before coming to rant in public about your wife cheating bla bla bla. So who told you that a yeast infection is an STI? Not saying it can’t be caught through intimacy but, there are so many other reasons why a woman can have a yeast infection. Using perfumed soaps which may cause some Vaginal imbalance, taking antibiotics because they not only kill the bad bacteria but the good one also, a lot of sugar intake, etc.Once you educate yourself, your reasoning capacity will change & you’ll see things differently.Even if you are still suspicious, Atleast you will argue from an educated point.By all means acquire knowledge before raising a topic.

Have you considered enrolling the two girls in different boarding schools preferably ones run by catholic nuns? If you haven’t, consider it.Only you can pick them from school & they won’t have a chance to fool around or else they’ll be tasting the cane.

Any mad man can just wake up & claim time have prophecy.Nonsense.

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

I ‘m not here to undermine your pain.After being locked up for three days, I can see why you were hurt.However, you took extreme measures because when it comes to family, we forgive for what we’d kill others for.If you want peace of mind, it will begin with you confessing & asking for forgiveness.You don’t want your sins revisiting your children.Are you a Christian? Even if you are not, I don’t believe that there’s any religion which teaches people to commit evil.If you want doors to open for you & to succeed in whatever plans you might have, go ask for forgiveness.Be ready for the consequences, but trust me your heart will be at peace & you don’t know what good things the future has in store.

Ifyjos:
She doesn't care about me because if she did want the best for me , she would would support me and my guy to be together and establish a business for us instead she wanted me to break up with him to become a single mom as if she would have marry me or even take care of my child the way her father does. That's something she cannot do because theres nobody that will take care of my child like her father. He has better plans but things are just difficult for him. He is a good man he can never ask me to kill any of my relatives because If that was the case then it would have kill my sister long time ago and I'm not stupid to do such things. Yes I know what we did was wrong but we only wanted revenge for her to feel the pain that she has been causing us but I just realised that it was the wrong path to take , which I'm regretting but that doesn't make us bad people please

If this story has any truth in it, then I’ll admit that I don’t even know what to type.What worries me is how entitled you feel.Your sister sounds like she’s just starting life herself, but here you are sounding like she’s supposed to mother you & your boyfriend by starting up a business for you & taking over your parenting responsibilities.You need to wake up & face reality, life is not a fairy tale.You can not tell someone what they should do with their money.What you need to do is drop your myopic view if life & start thinking ahead.That baby daddy you have, fo you see a future with him? Is he the kind of man you’d want for a husband, a guy who drinks , smokes & lives a thug life? Better get your eyes off that area & think of how you can further your studies because several years to come, you’ll regret the choices you made in your youthful years.You need to forget that guy & broaden your view of life? Have you considered going back to school? It’s not too late dear.If you are learned, you’ll get a man who will be worth that name to the letter.Better start thinking of your future.

mrvitalis:
A country's military general is who u call terrorist
Which country has killed more innocent people than America ....threatening fire and brainstorm because ICC wants to investigate America

Am sure you meant brimstone.

Automotive1:
Two trucks belonging to Dangote cement company has been set ablaze by angry mob for allegedly crushing two people to death.

The accident occurred today (Tuesday) in Imowo in the Ijebu-Ode Local Government Area of Ogun State.

https://autojosh.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Dangote-cement-trucks-set-ablaze.png

According to reports, the trucks hit the victims, a motorcyclist and a passenger, from behind and crushed them to death.

The Public Relations Officer of the Traffic Compliance and Enforcement Corps in the state, Babatunde Akinbiyi, confirmed the accident.

https://autojosh.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Dangote-cement-trucks-set-ablaze-1.jpg

Akinbiyi said in a statement that the fatal accident occurred between Dangote Cement trucks and a motorcycle.

Akunbiyi said in a statement that:


Akinbiyi also said traffic affected one lane of the road due to the reluctance of the mob in allowing the officials to remove the burnt trucks from the scene.

https://autojosh.com/mob-sets-two-dangote-cement-trucks-ablaze-after-crushing-two-to-death-in-ogun-state/

The burning of the trucks is actually good riddance.Is Dangote the only truck owner in Nigeria? Every time it’s about Dangote trucks killing people.It’s about time people put an end to this madness. I am not an advocate of violence but, some action is way overdue.

Nvc078:
But seriously, so no fair in complexion person lives in Kenya?

More dark & light complexion Kenyans.

Nvc078:
But seriously, so no fair in complexion person lives in Kenya?

Y’all need to travel more &
Drop some stereotypes.These are all Kenyan women.We have both ivory & ebony beauty.Men also.

Adewale1603:
Kenya and ugliness

These are Ugandans but wish we can see you.

thundafire:
Kenya dey country with funny pictures but y are bridesmaids and groomsmen looking lost

These are actually Ugandans & not Kenyans.We Kenyans don’t kneel in our culture & those are Ugandan traditional outfits the bride & groom are wearing.

akaahs:
the suit and caftern make sense oo

its a traditional Ugandan outfit.These are Ugandans & not Kenyans.

cococandy:
Kenya has good news not weird news. Hurray

Mtcheeew, your agents of darkness only peddle bad news, doesn’t mean good things don’t happen in Kenya.It’s like me sharing fraud, drugs & baby factory news as if nothing good ever happens in Nigeria.By the way the couple is Ugandan & not Kenyan.

bazemirie:
A man has finally wedded the woman who helped him out six years ago after he got stranded while being harassed by a driver.

A beautiful love story how a man found love after being stranded on the street has been shared by Nairobi News. The incident happened in Kenya.



Source - https://gistgram.com/man-weds-lady-who-helped-him-out-with-transport-fare-after-he-got-stranded-6-years-ago

i beg to differ, these are Ugandans & not Kenyans.From the dressing & the kneeling practice, we don’t kneel in Kenya.Check out traditional Ugandan outfits.

Elder0001:
Are you a virgin?

I am not here for interrogation.My status is none of your business but it’s like you were boasting of how you’d be bedding different girls.

exstreve:
If I was the one, I would allow the gullible females in and give them the royal dick

You mean you’d be signing your death certificate? Funny.

This story is a replica of an incident that took place in Uganda couple of months ago.A guy from a very humble background reported to campus with his clothes in a metallic box.Someone took a picture and went making fun online.Indeed what the devil meant for evil, turned around to work for good.Scholarships, upkeep money , clothes, food etc were coming from every angle. Check out Suubi Henry kiyimba.

Women! Why are some of us so evil? I swear that if I lived around I’d hire thugs to
give her a beating she’d never forget.

honey82:
Hello women and gentlemen, good day to you all,

I want to ask about something that has bothered me since so I need to bring it out the largest Forum in Africa.

Am in my early 20s but not up to 25 years of age now, I run a company here in Nigeria, I also have assets, trademarks and the like...
I make more than 300k profits monthly from the company..

I have talent in singing music, I have a very good voice, I can sing very well.

I need advice

What is the best way for me..

Should I just stay in Lagos Nigeria to sing and make money along side with my business or I should travel out to USA to further IT skills and expand my business


I need advice on this

A factor to consider is that life in the US is not easy 4 beginners.Unless you are from a very wealthy family that will be sending your school fees & money for upkeep, you’d have to do odd jobs as you go through school in order to pay bills.You sound not used to that tough life, ask yourself whether you willing to get your hands dirty or are better off making money in Nigeria & investing it.

Slurity:
This man look 54 and not 34

Yes, athletes may look older due to lack of fat in their bodies which obviously affects the appearance of the skin.

showafrica:
This people will look like person grand father and still be completing race in 2 hrs.. This people go dey last more than 5hrs on top woman be that.

When you get used to very vigorous exercises, they drain all the fat out your body, causing the skin to lose its shiny appearance & elasticity.The result is an older looking person than their actual age.

Am so proud to be Kenyan. Congratulations to our very own Eliud Kipchoge!