These kinsmen of Oshiomole have always been doing great in running contests, regardless of their national flag which someone once said, looks like an herbalist business card.
Oshiomole is proud of you.
It don’t matter what our flag looks like, you should try find out the meaning.Anyway, that didn’t stop our own from winning.
FindingNigeria: A female pastor definitely didn't expect what was coming when she requested that her members speak out whatever they wished from God.
According to a footage online, the female preacher got furious when one of her members requested for the Anointing Of God so she could Open Her Own Church.
The pastor who sensed possible future competition got angry, and ended the prayer session.
Is this not the same woman who ended another serving recently because one of the members she was praying for, fell on her? Kai! Let me remain in that old church.I cannot handle drama & pride of the flesh.
heendrix: There's no sane country that supports Mob justice Nigeria's Nigeria's law also frowns at it... even down East in Kenya mob justice happens very well tho I understand you're trying to portray your country in a good light it's okay.
But the real question is why steal from fellow poor people like you while the rich are there? I'll only pity them if they're innocent otherwise good for those Two up there
and you Mr muniru the day an armed robber will come to ur home or stop u by the roadside and probably wisk away ur hard earned property and likely injure you then you still tag them ur brother is the day I'll take you serious but until then armed robbers are only ur brothers and family not mine
I don’t know where you are referring to by saying down east but even if that was the case, am sure we cannot come close to Nigeria where mob justice is concerned.Almost every other day, there’s news of people being stoned or burned or beaten to death.Let the police & courts do their job.Sm not in support of stealing, but is it worth a life?
Hotzone: I always respond to my fiancée financial demands even when most of them seems like extortion. She prefer I pay her bills both rent and utility though I try to wriggle my self out in rare occasions.
Condition of marriage: No sex before marriage, I abide completely because I want her. She attends her friends weekend activity than finding time for us to stay close even when she constantly reports about how her female friends accuse her of lesbianism but I pray she’s not.
She works and her wages and daily earnings is a little bit above mine. I have told her my marriage intention and she openly accepted without the usual marriage proposals but I am thinking to make it official.
I am still considering if she is suitable and can make a useful wife because I am about to make an official statement which is going to change my entire course in life.
Please, my fellow Nairalanders, I need constructive and supportive words. Blissful week to you!
You are paying bills for a fiancée, not a wife? Since you’ve already started playing house, continue playing husband while she pockets all her earning & has no time for you.The handwriting is clear but you choose to keep your eyes closed.Open your eyes .
zoba88: Few days ago, some women from Jesse town,Delta State prayed against rituals, stealing and other atrocities.Days after,two thieves were nabbed in Jesse and burnt to death by angry mob.
I thank God mob justice is illegal in my county Kenya.The level of lawlessness I’ve observed in Nigeria & taking of human lives without blinking is disturbing.I wouldn’t want to be around such a sight , only imagining what the guy went through before breathing his last, sends shivers down my spine.That’s why we have police to deal with criminals.People have lost their humanity, they are busy filming .Disgusting! Believe we have another topic of people being burned in Abuja.Such a shame, I don’t care what they did.We Have courts of law.
Praizeupdates: This funny but wonderful groom was seen rocking and kissing his bride on the dance floor. According the the viral video, This groom crawl underneath his bride to check his new bride unde wear and he even use His mouth to remove part of her underwear. Lol
Those are not undies but garter which is usually worn on the brides thigh.The trend of pulling the garter with the teeth has become very common in Western counties though I find it very disrespectful especially in the presence of parents.
IssaGist: A Nigerian Evangelist, Victor Edet, took to Facebook to warn Gospel Singer, Tope Alabi over wearing 'weavons, attachments, artificial nails, makeup, earrings'.
Evangelist Victor Edet stated that if Tope Alabi fails to heed to his warning, she will end up not making heaven. Noting that the gospel singer is talented and gifted, he wrote;
Evangelist my bum bum.Who appointed you as God’s spokesman? Are you sure you heard from God? I am tired of all these self-righteous religious idiots.It’s like he has the key to Heavens gate.Give us a break please.You want all women to look wretched and haggard in the name of religion like all those women in your churches.Worry about yourself & leave Tope alone.
Tunagee: My wife started behaving strangely immediately I lost my job in April 2017. She leaves home to her mum at the slightest disagreement without even communicating or making to express her feelings; and to worsen it, her mum gives her a great welcome with a room and parlour for her to stay, without even calling me to discuss what the problem. Whatever her daughter says is always the final, and she concludes on that.
My wife literarily destroyed my image before my in-laws to such an extent that I can't even visit them again. She tells them i insult her and her parents, and i make negative remarks about them, that i abuse her verbally at the slightest provocation. Several lies against me that I did not allow her travel out, I don't give her money, I told her not to have another kid, that I told her not to work, her mother has decided to keep her with her as I speak without even calling me to discuss, even despite all my appeals. She has been with her mum now for almost ten months(my wife is a fully grown legally married faithful woman of almost 40 years)
All these disrespect, probably cos I lost my job two years ago of which I fulfilled all responsibilities to the home. i don't drink, i don't smoke, don't womanise(even till now) I have never beaten her, I never another child out of my matrimonial home, and never impregnated another woman.
Rather than resolve her marital problem by discussing with her husband, she takes it to her family claiming emotional abuse. Fine, I agree I get provoked cos of her persistent shortcomings, and of course, frustration which leads to unguided vocal utterances towards her, but this could have been resolved easily without having to involve her whole family. Now what she keeps telling my family is that her family said she should still hold on at her mum's place. This is the 10th month since October 2018.
The last time my mum went to her mum's house precisely June last month, she was asked if she was still interested in her marriage, and she said yes, that she does not intend leaving her marriage; but we should give her time. Her mother practically told me to go and do something meaningful, and that there is time to marry, separate, reunite and hustle. Her mum is the one controlling her movements and everything about her for now; not even giving her room to give me audience.
Pls advise on what to do.
We are legally married.
Based on your explanation, I can see you dipped your feet in hot water.Being a woman myself, I believe a woman’s job among many, should be to cover her husband’s weaknesses while he does the same for her.I don’t know her side of story but I see some serious issues.Seems like you married a woman who cannot cover her household.She Cannot keep her mouth shut & will say all sorts of things about her husband to anyone who cares to listen. Issue number 2 is that she’s her mother’s puppet.I have been rebuking the spirit of momma’s boy.None should should come telling me stories.Woe unto you, you got yourself a mommy’s girl.It’s now as if you married her mother because your wife cannot make any decisions independently without her mother’s input. Number 3 she’s a character assassin.By the time she’s done dragging your name in the mud, you’ll know you didn’t know her as you thought you did.Number 4 is that she sounds materialistic.All was ok till you lost your job.I don’t know what religion you belong to but I know in Christianity couples vow to be together for better or worse, in sickness and in health & in poverty or riches.These days those words have no meaning.People don’t think whether the sickness could be either physical or mental.At the 1st test they are out the door, no commitment.With that said, I’d suggest you go to your wife’s home with some elders.Enough begging already.Let her know that you are giving her a deadline .Let her know by what date she should be home, failure to which you & your people will no longer consider her a wife & will start filing for divorce.Should she come back, I think you’ll need marital counseling classes. Good luck!
Tolexander: What surprises me most is how these mad women give birth with ease, no antenatal clinic and less medical help. Hardly would one see a lunatic not surviving a child delivery. But so difficult having many of our mentally ok woman having that kind of safe delivery.
Is there anything these lunatics do or eat which our women don’t do or eat?
Seems like it is more of a function of the state of the mind (psychology)
Did you just call them lunatics? They did not fill out an application form to be mentally ill? The stigma that comes with mental illness is the reason people would rather commit suicide than seek medical help.It’s the mentally ill not lunatics.
gabito4luv: My dear NLders. Please your advice and guidance is needed once again. I lost a dear friend and colleague last Dec. He was involved in an accident with his wife (see previous link)https://www.nairaland.com/4914859/how-one-plan-funeral-close#74038218. Six months after the burial his family has refused to release the only child from the union to the young widow. All efforts to settle the matter within the family amounted to an exercise in futility. We have contacted the Min of women affairs in Benin but they haven't done anything yet. The lady who is yet to fully recover (bedridden) from the accident is really saddened by this development. Right now she has run out of ideas on where to seek help. Her current state of health isn't helping matters. Anyone with info on how to reunite mother and child kindly give your suggestions here.
PS. The child is only 2.
Can you imagine the audacity of the in-laws? Do they think their late son would want his child separated from the mother? But wait a minute, are they also after his property by any chance? There’s no reason good enough under the sun to take a child from the parents unless they are incapable of raising their child due to something like an addiction.I’ve seen lame parents living with their children.What right does the guy’s family have to take that child from the mother? The sooner you take this custody battle to court, the better for the child’s mother.How financially well off are her in-laws? Can they bribe their way in court? She should use social media.From Facebook to every media house in Nigeria & should not rest till this case is heard.You May Even see lawyers offering to come to her rescue.If I were you, since word of mouth has failed, i’d start giving them the war they want.Evil people.
What marriage is there to enjoy with this man who’s been having babies left & right with multiple women, even before the court’s final decision? If I were Lilian, i’d appeal .Infidelity is a good enough reason for divorce.
This video has changed my Sunday afternoon mood completely.So disturbing.Oh gosh & People keep thinking the devil is in hell, yet he’s walking amongst us.What manner of human beings are these? Do they have Mothers or sisters? May evil never leave their households.May they suffer & never find a way of escape & May that be the same portion of their daughters, unless they repent.So disgusting.The heart of a human being can be wicked.