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ojun50:
with same wife

Yes with his wife.

CanineOfJackal:
Babe where have you been hiding with your wahala? I know you are back with more trouble.


Guys avoid this Kenyan American trouble

. Hahaa, you seem to know me very well.How are you? You even know am Kenyan-American.LOL

Tripitaka:
Quite unfortunate. If it was actually a case of brake failure, then the man should walk, unless he has been negligent.

That’s considered involuntary man -slaughter by law.It’s punishment is much more lenient unlike homicide.Unless the family chooses to withdraw the case, fact remains a life was taken, though accidentally.

bentben:
So I will try to be as brief as possible, because story is very long.

Started having an affair with this close friend of my wife who now happens to be my colleague in the office now... I helped her got the job before we started having se. X. I have been her target, Infact that was why she came so close to my wife, I'm introverted, so that was the only way she could get close.

Yes she's not happy in her marriage, because her husband is promiscuous and don't give her attention . She used me to ease her pain. I consented to the affair because I kind of felt I was assisting her ease the pain in the marriage... I was totally wrong... I goofed, along the line we fell in love with each other... Deeply in love, even  we knew what we were doing was wrong.

Every fuc, king persons in my neighbourhood and office feels I'm straff1ng her, but we were never caught in the act.
The more I try to resist and stop this whole affair, the more the bond, considering we work in same office space.

She wants more attention than I give to my wife her supposedly friend .. She flares up most time when I pick my wife's call... Forgetting we are close family friends and can easily be caught.
She steal kisses whenever she visits, not minding my wife is in the kitchen.
We both have kids... That are friends.

NOW THE BIG ISSUE :

Because of the less attention she's getting from me, considering the fact that I want to play safe, she has decided to start straff1ng our boss who seems to be giving her the whole attention as it seems now.

Our boss his a nice handsome guy.

Myself and our boss are very close Pal, he knew I'm so close to her but choose to get is own pound of the flesh... Even though he claim he wasn't... But I was privileged to hack and  read their chat and got knowledge of their sexcapade...

She still wants an affair with me, she's fuc. k1ng  sleeping with two married people in an office.
I found this very hurtful, shameful, disgraceful and disgusting... Even though what I'm also doing is terrible...
I'm trying to heal and stop this whole affair... I took some days off work to clear my head already.

I'm deeply hurt by her actions, blocked her on all social media handles.

I need matured advice please on how to scale through all this without going back to my vomit looking that we work in same office space and I got to see her every other day.

This story is no fiction... Pls bash me, but don't forget to drop a word of advice for me and probably her.

I'm using a new moniker... I have been an active nairalander... I want to hide my shame.. kindly also ignore my typo... It was done on my phone.

Thank you.

MOD will appreciate if it can get to FP plsssssss.

I am not here to judge you.Glad you realize what you’ve been doing is wrong.I suggest you tell your wife sooner than later because she’ll find out sooner than later.Be apologetic but also open to any decision she might make.A man who can control his sexual appetite is a man who can go far in life.You need to look for a job elsewhere or request a transfer from your office.You need to leave that toxic environment.Consider talking to a therapist but, above all know that the decision to cheat or not to cheat lies in your hands.

Praktikals:
She should go and marry. Child birth when a lady is above 35 years increases the chance of having a baby with dounce syndrome

Maybe you should go and marry her.She already has a daughter , unless she told you she wants another child.

Some people just rush to type comments without reading.They keep saying she died from suicide.

Aurielfinizu:
Abeg she is too fine to die mehn..

Why pple still drinking sniper...

Govt should ban that sniper sef

Brain tumor not sniper caused her death.

Oluwatosean:
She don crase... Why would you be morning someone that commits suicide... Depression?? Taa. Not even thinking about her parents and friends

You & others seem to find it hard to read & understand the cause of her death.It’s clear she died cause of a brain tumor.

Banee:
Because of boyfriend,That is already with another girl.Is like UNIPORT is equal to no brain.

Did you even read what caused her death?

Marriage26:
Good day nairalander,

I am a popular jingo nairalander but got to hide under this moniker...


I have been dating my fiancee for the past 7 years, she had met my parents and I have met her's many times . We planned to get married earlier year. But it was the year my mother left this planet, I informed my family I wanted to get married but they declined, saying, it must be over years of mumsy's demise before I can marry.


We've fixed introduction days 3ice and it got cancelled by my father, what's his reason?


1. NYSC: I was posted to serve in the Northern part of the country 3 years ago, I went to camp, but I couldn't cope with the weather and couldn't leave my business as NYSC won't guarantee me job and I don't have other option. I absconded from the service and faced my business which I saved profits in 7 digits in same year, God made me comfortable.

2: He said I should rather impregnate the girl (backdoor talk)



I am close to my late 20s, he already banned all family members as many depend on him from attending my introduction.

He cancelled my introduction without fixing a new date.

My in-law trust me and ready to release the lady to me as I haven't had sex with her since 2012 that we've been dating...


And Also, God had supplied all I needed for my wedding from A-Z.



Do you think this is a cogent reason?. I want to ahead with my wedding plans...


Kindly advise....Thanks

While I agree with the people saying we need parental blessings, what happens to those who have ungodly parents that will turn their life into a living hell? At the end of the day, your dad married & has lived his life but wants to ruin yours.You are the one getting married & not him.You’ll live with the girl & not him.How long do you think your in-laws will keep their daughter on hold for marriage just for you if there’s no progress?If all other ways of getting through to your dad have failed, I’d suggest you try having your pastor talk with him.Do you have uncles or aunts from your mom’s side who don’t depend on him? Then let them sit in for you in place of your parents.If everything else fails, please seek your uncles & Aunts & grandparents blessings together with your pastor & go ahead with the wedding.You cannot stop living because of somebody.I believe as scripture says that “ curses are like flying birds.They cannot hurt us unless we deserve them.” In the meantime, keep praying & fast like Daniel whose answer had been released day one when he prayed but the prince of Persia was opposing.Pray against every opposition.

damiloladuke:
A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to narrate on how a family member scammed her of N600,000.

In her narration, she explained that he relative called her to inform her of a plot of land available for sale, which she agreed to buy and then sent her the money.

It was after the family member received the money, that stories upon stories now began to drip in. And now other members of the family want the matter settled amicably.

Read her post:

I’ve just been scammed of 600k by a distant family member. Now all my uncles, mom and Dad are begging me on top my money?

She called me ending of January and told me that her co wife wants to “urgently” sell her 3plots of land in the village at a very cheap price, i asked her how Legit the stuff was and she told me VERY LEGIT. Said the woman’s son is critically ill and needs urgent money for

Treatment. I said Ok i will send someone to check the land out. Which i did and everything checked out. 10th February, i paid the money to her and that was how story entered the matter. She then told me the woman already sold to someone else cos I wasn’t serious.

I said OK oya pay the money back naa she said I should wait that she have SEEN another land. I agreed o cos I wanted to buy another land, fence it and forget it for like 5-10years. Anyway, everyday she kept coming up with different excuses that the one

She saw, they are having family issues, another she saw the husband agreed but the wife said no. Another one she saw it’s deep in the forest. Only for me to get a call from my mom today telling me how She used some of the money to pay her kids’ waec/Jamb,medical

Bills then the rest she used it to pay off debtors, feed and start something for herself. I then asked my mom why didn’t she send the money back then ask for help? What nonsense? Hung up on my mom, called the woman back and told her if she doesn’t send the money by Month end

Both her, her husband and the kid writing WAEC will be arrested and transferred to a state Only i will know of. Next thing my parents and uncles are calling my phone and asking me to come back so we can settle it as a family? I told them if I’m traveling back it will be To get her and her family arrested. Now everyone is saying I’m OVERREACTING?

My anger is still boiling and I probably might do worse if I don’t see my money by month end. The most annoying part is that she HUNG UP on me when i was telling her i will get her arrested?


https://lailasnews.com/nigerian-lady-reveals-how-family-member-scammed-her-of-n600000/

lalasticlala

Same thing happening in my family right now.Couple of years ago, my Aunt called my mom & told her about some plots of land for sale. My Aunt said they were selling @ 18,000 USD. My mom didn’t even tell my dad.I was the only person she told.She quickly sent the money through two girls who were traveling home.After a while, the story changed.Aunt told mom that she didn’t make the purchase because someone said that she was about to be conned.My mom wouldn’t have thought anything of it coz her sister had a nice job. Over these years, my Aunt was always vacationing with her kids outside the country.Few years ago, she decided to go on early retirement.All efforts from mom in an attempt to get her money back, have proved futile.It’s been one story to another.Yet she Aunt is still living in an expensive neighborhood & her life is going on well. Mom will be taking the matter before the family this August & if that fails, then she’ll have to take a legal action.Moral of the story .is that you should trust nobody even your own sibling.If you are gonna give money that’s a big amount in your standards, Have a written agreement & witnesses, Incase things turn sour later.

Gboy101:
It is beginning to bothered me as I can't sleep all night long. latest I sleep is 9-10-11 PM and woke u 2-3 AM. and open eyes till morning.

I notice I'm reducing in weight and forgetful, especially remembering spellings. I am suspecting its the beer I'm drinking that is cause the sugar increase that is responsible.

any help on diet? I want to sleep 8hours for a week. please help me.

Nairaland is made up of self made doctors who will give you all kinds of advise.Sudden weightloss without trying to lose weight is a serious issue.Combined with the sleeplessness,I think it’s something worth seeing a doctor for.Turn a deaf ear while here, then make plans to see a doctor soonest possible.

tylann:
Okay i have never thought the sun was that scorching hot in the USA

Oh yes it does get hot.Worst part is the humidity.

jaycent:
Tuache tu mchezo uendelee.

Ofcourse. I am in the cheering team.

Bifwoli:
Okay Princes Cindarella it's all good i hear you .Tell me you're gonna relocate down to our dirty south? Sometimes its not as hot as cities further north.

LOL @ princess.Yeah thinking of the south.Dallas,TX

jaycent:
Tuache tu mchezo uendelee.

Mmmmmmh i’ll Pass.Hizi story I can’t keep up.

mtisTheQubit:
gotea trump mresh ..

LOL nitaenda White House saa hizi tu.

tylann:
Hmm..
Kwani umegrow up USA ndio unaogopa jua hivyo
Huku Kenya SAA hii jua inatumaliza

No,didn’t grow up here which is why I can’t stand the heat.Joto ya huku hata Mombasa huwezi linganisha.Soooo bad.Terrible! There are times you can’t stay outside.

tylann:
Unaendeleaje Boston

Huku kuko poa.Baridi ndio inaisha & am not looking forward to summer.Too hot for my liking.Naskianga kutoroka coz of the heat.

tylann:
Uko USA ama

Yeah in Boston.

gallivant:
Look at the bigger picture, if any particular country wins then thread is closed. Funs over! Shout out to my skinny nigga gaycunt.

You are right, we gotta keep this ball rolling.

tylann:
Kumbe ww in dem wa majuu

Hahaa.Kitu kama hiyo.

JBoss25:
Kenyans and Violence is like bread and butter

Hmmmmm, I don’t consider myself violent.

jaycent:
Haitawahi kuisha maanake ni ya fun tu.

I agree, haikai kuisha.

Bifwoli:
I can confirm she's from Kenya somewhere in Kikuyuland ,lives in Boston Mass and she's beautiful too.

Hey you! It’s been a minute.See you’ll make my head swell.LOL.You are too kind.Btw, maybe relocating by the end of the year.

tylann:
Hapana c vita
Mm na ww hatuta discuss vita
We will discuss interesting things

Well I didn’t mean vita literally.More like trying to outdo each other.Wonder If there’ll ever be a winner.

jaycent:
Kenya too

You got that right.

jaycent:
Kenya too

Mimi pia nimetoka huko.Hivi vita vya Kenya na Nigeria mtamaliza lini?

tylann:
Let us discuss matters pertaining Africa

Hahaa update me please.

tylann:
Beey why are you always lingering in the darkness

How so?

LuciferYaweh:
So explain how you're still typing?

I will not be angry today.I will not allow anyone to provoke me.I will not the devil frustrate me today

Solokito:
This girl most have stolen his money,guy you no try,u for collect her pant and let go of her

She cheated and infected him with HIV.