Family › Re: Son Destroys Food Items In The Kitchen After Mum Refused His Request (Video) by Beey(f): 4:42am On Jul 09, 2020 |
1Sharon: My thoughts too. Probably why they were pussfooting around him They need to get him help ASAP. |
Family › Re: Son Destroys Food Items In The Kitchen After Mum Refused His Request (Video) by Beey(f): 4:41am On Jul 09, 2020 |
One4me: Did you watch and listen to the Video? Did you not hear where she said "The Police came but did not remove him"? The 'White Cops' at times feel and allow Black families to self-destruct afteral, it is to their generational disadvantage. Black parents need to sit down and decide fi they want to remain slaves to the Whites, forvere or not and it starts from how they raise their children 
This is not anything "mental case". It is just a case of a wayward, overly wayward Child (he is not more than 16yrs old) as a result of bad upbringing. His problems started a long time ago and basically it boils down to a lack of father figure in the house. The West is filled with lot of this sort of Children and the common thread is that they are raised by their Single Mothers. Please avoid the stereotype of children raised by single moms being spoiled because some of the most successful people today were raised by single moms. I agree that it could be a case of a spoiled brat who got everything at the press of a button. However mental illness does affect teenagers too & we can’t rule that out completely. Besides, the area of mental illness doesn’t get much attention from Africans. Some even call it demon possession. |
Family › Re: Son Destroys Food Items In The Kitchen After Mum Refused His Request (Video) by Beey(f): 3:08pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
revolt: how can you call the police. She raised that child. No parent should EVER call the police on a child you raised. The child is a product of how you handled him. Its your fault as a parent. Live with the consequences... its very unfair on that child. He actually maybe mentally ill. Police will help de-escalate the situation & help him find help. Otherwise, looks like he could attack his mom & it’s wise to keep her distance. In the West, small issue can get you in trouble. I don’t see any problem with involving the cops. They too are parents. |
Family › Re: Son Destroys Food Items In The Kitchen After Mum Refused His Request (Video) by Beey(f): 3:06pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
Mikeiron78: I see a mentally retarded boy that the Nigerian parents failed because the mental health was not sought for, there are many of these kids in the western world that their Nigerian or African parents fail because of the stigma attached to seeking help for these kids. Police was not called because of fear of mental health that will be required. I agree. It’s written all over. I don’t think he’s just spoiled but I believe it’s a mental issue. |
Family › Re: Son Destroys Food Items In The Kitchen After Mum Refused His Request (Video) by Beey(f): 3:05pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
Having experience working with the mentally ill, I’ll not be quick to judge. I think having him see a Psychiatrist would be a good starting point. He could be having a mood disorder or schizoaffective disorder just some kind of a mental illness. That’s why he doesn’t know how to vent out appropriately. |
Health › Re: Help, My Newborn Has This Skin Problem by Beey(f): 12:19am On Jun 29, 2020 |
mandalorian: Hello house, my boy is barely one month old and he developed this skin issue. One of my colleagues said it is Ela(Yoruba) but from my experience, ela use to manifest as very red tiny rashes around the neck and joints.
Now this one is not on his neck (though it is in both his elbow joints, scarcely on his Tommy and this morning I say it at the back of his knee), his skin molts around the rashes. I just can't completely describe it that's why I included the pics.
I need help elders in the house. I took him back to the hospital where he was born but they said it will go but I don't like the look.
Mods pls help me push to fp. Nairaland has so many medical advisers & yet they didn’t go to med school. That’s a baby & not an adult that you are dealing with. He cannot express how he’s feeling.Different people here are suggesting different remedies. I’d advice that without further delay, you see a pediatrician. Baby skins are very sensitive and you can’t just wash them with harsh chemicals.Take your baby for medical checkup. |
Politics › Re: Photos From Late Governor Ajimobi's Burial by Beey(f): 1:42pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
Rextizzle: That's what I was thinking too, why is this one different I know his wife is a Christian but seems the C children followed the father.I don’t know if the wife was the reason for the exemption. However, I’ve noticed the strictest rules in Islam are for the poor really. It seems rich Muslims are exempted from some rules. |
Politics › Re: Photos From Late Governor Ajimobi's Burial by Beey(f): 1:38pm On Jun 28, 2020 |
I thought in Islam women are not allowed near the gave site. Or there’s an exemption for the rich? Nawa ohh. May he R.I.P |
Pets › Re: Policemen Shot Dog When It Prevented Them From Entering A Compound (graphic) by Beey(f): 7:34pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
ExAngel007: A dog is on the brink of death after it was allegedly shot by a policeman for refusing to allow them into a home in Akure.
According to eyewitnesses, the police officers "invaded" no. 6, Samson Ogunleye street, Omi Agagu, Olufoam Area in Akure, at about 7am today, June 24. The dogs guarding the compound refused to let them in, so an officer allegedly opened fire on one of the dogs.
The dog is now in critical condition. In photos shared online, the dog is seen bleeding profusely with its organs hanging outside its body.
https://mobile.twitter.com/YemieFASH/status/1275699073060950017/photo/1
The police have reacted on Twitter by stating that an investigation has been initiated.
https://mobile.twitter.com/PoliceNG_CRU/status/1275709292470046720?p=v
Below are more tweets narrating the incident with graphic photos. The owner should have a vet euthanize the animal in order not to prolong its suffering. Keeping it at home in that condition is only leaving the dog in excruciating pain. Let the dog be put to rest. |
Celebrities › Re: Steve Bing Commits Suicide By Jumping From 27th Floor by Beey(f): 3:16pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
triplechoice: Ok. I get you. But the real reason I am against antidepressants as cure is that when you stop taking them you go into a relapse. Also the side effects which comes from taking those drugs can create further problems or damages to ones health.
There are alternative remedies for depression.
However, I understand that some people are prone to being depressed due to other underlining health issues .
So for those group of persons, they would need some form of medication to manage what makes them susceptible. Depression is not the 1st disease to have no cure. Diabetics need meds to sustain them. BP issues also need mana age meant, thyroid illnesses etc. As they say, prevention is better than cure. So many people have enjoyed a better quality of life after seeking treatment for depression, while others who didn’t seek treatment end up with stories that touch. As for drugs in general, you must realize that any chemical introduced to the body has its own effects.So this is not just for antidepressants alone but all meds .However, if the good outweighs the bad, why not try? As for alternative remedies, remember if one chooses to try herbal medicine, they shouldn’t be mixed with doctor’s prescriptions due to interaction that could have fatal effects in some instances. To each his own. Whatever works for one, may not work for another. |
Celebrities › Re: Steve Bing Commits Suicide By Jumping From 27th Floor by Beey(f): 3:36pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
triplechoice: This is not completely true. Science does not know the actual cause of depression. The reason it is difficult to treat with medication. Antidepressants are band-aids you continue to depend on them without really getting cured. Even when you do get cured you're prone to having a relapse when you're faced with the same situation which caused it in the first instance.
The hormonal imbalance you talked about is the effect of something they did not reach you in medical school.
If you want to put out a fire you don't blow at the smoke. Am not a medic so the little knowledge I have was not acquired in med school �.Yes you are right that antidepressants manage but don’t cure. I don’t know much about the science involved, but antidepressants manage the illness by boosting serotonin and dopamine, pretty much like insulin works for diabetics. My main aim was to explain to the person that depression is not just a problem for the poor, but an illness that can be suffered by the rich. |
Celebrities › Re: Steve Bing Commits Suicide By Jumping From 27th Floor by Beey(f): 2:45pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Kobicove: How can a 55year old man who is relatively well to do says he is suffering from depression.
He's a nutcase as far as I'm concerned!  Depression is actually caused by a hormonal imbalance in the brain where hormones like serotonin that affect the mood are low.Just like diabetics need insulin, depressed patients need antidepressants. Depression cannot just be wished away. It’s real. |
Family › Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Beey(f): 5:15am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Sunisonflex39: what the hell is rehsus or what are those people discussing over there. someone enlighten me
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Family › Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Beey(f): 5:13am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Carchoice: haba!!! What are you guys even discussing? Which is is Rhesus ontop the matter again? Never heard of this. Is this a factor to consider before marriage?? 
Foetus dying!! This one shock me
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Romance › Re: Lady Rolls On The Floor After Her Boyfriend Proposed To Her by Beey(f): 9:00pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
ifytrik: After sleeping with hundreds of men and performing countless abortions, she taught no maga will fall but to her greatest surprise dis mugu still fall for her yakata Nawa ohh, are you the one that performed the abortion? Too much bile on the streets.Lots if frustrated & sadistic people everywhere. |
Romance › Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Beey(f): 12:50am On Jun 08, 2020 |
shadeyinka: You are well brought up.
Is anything free in life?
Once you collect from someone, the person must receive some special benefits Thanks. They say “ scratch my back & I scratch yours.” |
Romance › Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Beey(f): 12:49am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Ybaby: Ok!
Tag me when you create a thread. LOL am so boring, I hardly do that. Most times you’ll find me commenting. |
Health › Re: Help!!!! Am I Losing My Sight?? by Beey(f): 10:51pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Lorazepam: Ehn you are shortsighted na (myopia) Glasses doesn't fix your vision. it only aids the vision, moreover at times, myopia gets worse till the individual gets to a particular age, then it begins to stabilise.
Go and see ophthalmologist for eye examination so they can give you your ideal glasses prescription, you are probably using a wrong prescription at the moment. You can also use the opportunity to do a full eye exam, check your eye pressure, glaucoma screening, etc. LOL I like this your name. |
Romance › Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Beey(f): 10:48pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Greenbullet: I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.
Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.
I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.
Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.
PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT Thank God you said it’s your opinion. I have never asked someone am dating for even a cent. One I was raised in a family where we don’t go asking people for money. I ask my parents if things are super bad & I pay it back soon as I can. With that said, am also a bit old school because I believe that a boyfriend should not be enjoying husband privileges and also a girlfriend should not be enjoying wife privileges. That issue of money for hair and other things, I guess it applies to those who are already enjoying spousal privileges. I work for my money and I don’t ask any one for money because am not his wife. There’s time for everything & there’s a difference between dating & marriage. Don’t jump the gun! |
Crime › Re: Pregnant Queen Igbinevbo Raped And Murdered In Benin (Video/Photos) by Beey(f): 5:20pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
thesicilian: And yet they haven't caught the rapists? Semen all at the crime scene is almost like saying the rapists dropped their ID cards at the scene before leaving! Does Nigeria have a DNA database for criminals in order to compare with the semen found on her? They probably collect the semen samples & compare with saliva DNA if their suspects.This is crazy. Everyday rape stories.Violence against women needs to end! |
Health › Re: I Forget Things Easily: Should I Be Worried About This Condition? by Beey(f): 5:39pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
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Health › Re: I Forget Things Easily: Should I Be Worried About This Condition? by Beey(f): 11:53am On Jun 03, 2020 |
SegFault: What do you say about someone who easily forgets things, has inadequate connection of thoughts, an issue of compulsive overeating and anger issues? Depression comes to mind, google the symptoms of both depression & bipolar depression. See which you can relate with more.I think the person should see a mental health practitioner such as a psychiatrist. Start by visiting a reputable hospital. A doctor may then refer you to a Psychiatrist.Mental illnesses may have some similarities but it’s up to a doctor to make a diagnosis. |
Health › Re: I Forget Things Easily: Should I Be Worried About This Condition? by Beey(f): 11:37am On Jun 03, 2020 |
AdamsAbubakar: I tend to forget where I keep my stuff easily, and it's really annoying. I may do something right now and forget it seconds later. Ironically, I remember things like names of people, what people said and the faces of people easily and accurately. I can still remember the surnames and names of my ex-classmates in secondary school perfectly, and the names and surnames of 202 people in my class at the University level.
My forgetfulness, however, petrifies me a lot as I'm 22 years old. What could be wrong? Should I be worried or it's normal at such an age?
Mods please help me push it to the FP let me get replies from the good people of NL.  I beg to differ with those suggesting dementia. Dementia doesn’t attack young healthy adults.It’s mostly old age related. However, there’s a different kind of dementia suffered by AIDS patients. My question would be this, have you noticed other symptoms apart from forgetfulness? Do you have trouble sleeping sometimes either not sleeping enough or sleeping too much? Do you over eat sometimes or completely lack appetite? Do you have mood swings where at one point you are happy and the next you become irritable & Can’t explain why? Do you cry for nothing? Forgetfulness alone is just a symptom. Depression comes to mind. ADHD was also suggested. Some ADHD drugs are used to improve concentration. Talk to a doctor and hear what they have to say. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Tell Her She Stinks? by Beey(f): 2:37pm On May 31, 2020 |
Lightangel65: Its yeast infection/bacterial one of the major causes. And its caused by being very dirty and using dirty underwear. The problem is most girls are dirty, thats why this rotten smell is common That is a factor but we can’t diagnose based on assumptions. Proper lab diagnosis is required for her to get the right treatment.Correction, yeast isn’t necessarily caused by dirt. Warmth like during hot weather, using scented soaps that interfere with vaginal ph balance, use of antibiotics are all causes of yeast so it’s not necessarily spread by being dirty. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Cuts US Ties With WHO, Claims It Is Under China's Control by Beey(f): 5:11am On May 31, 2020 |
GodSaklek: All of u here are talking rubbish, u are saying something u know nothing about,u only follow people comments here and u join yourself among them,wen last u listen to real news apart from rubbish writtens on Nairaland,idiots I live in the US so I don’t think am as clueless as you are. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Tell Her She Stinks? by Beey(f): 1:36am On May 31, 2020 |
Davash222: She's heavily infected and needs proper medications. She needs to see a gynecologist for proper diagnosis. What exactly was she treating with injections? If she’s sleeping with multiple men, then STIs shouldn’t come as a surprise. What she needs is a Pap smear to determine the STI/s she may be suffering from@Ifabernard? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Cuts US Ties With WHO, Claims It Is Under China's Control by Beey(f): 1:20pm On May 30, 2020 |
DataDash: I kind wish america declares war on China that have u leashed this virus onto the world and the amount of other crimes china has done. It's time for them to pay their debts Trump needs to cut any trade agreements with them.That I wish would be the next move. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Cuts US Ties With WHO, Claims It Is Under China's Control by Beey(f): 1:18pm On May 30, 2020 |
DataDash: yes I agree a WW3 against china Unless the world unites starting with our greedy African leaders who borrowed Chinese loans despite the US warning them that there was a catch.Once they can’t pay, China takes over something in their countries. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Cuts US Ties With WHO, Claims It Is Under China's Control by Beey(f): 1:16pm On May 30, 2020 |
Xisnin: I hope you will donate your father, brothers, and uncles to fight in the war. SMH. My family has never relied on donations. We work with our hands.BTW, the so called aid if financial ends up in the hands of politicians.Why should our taxes be used to support an organization that’s clearly dining with our enemy?You don’t know the crimes Chinese commit here in the US especially stealing US intelligence .Their spies come mostly as students. I don’t even know what war you are talking about because there’s no physical war. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Cuts US Ties With WHO, Claims It Is Under China's Control by Beey(f): 1:12pm On May 30, 2020 |
elonize: people na ofcourse how did it not affect their large cities & their economy kept thriving while other countries may take years to recover economically? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Cuts US Ties With WHO, Claims It Is Under China's Control by Beey(f): 1:10pm On May 30, 2020 |
Golan007: So China should have locked up all the Hartfords and McKenzies preventing them from flying back home right? The seriousness with which they handled the virus and stopped it from spreading in their capital & other large business cities, should have been applied when dealing with the rest of the world, otherwise it’s called double standards. China has been left with a thriving economy while other countries will be counting their losses. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Cuts US Ties With WHO, Claims It Is Under China's Control by Beey(f): 1:07pm On May 30, 2020 |
ModestGal: Your president? What a joke? Yes am a US citizen so he’s actually my president. |