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My dad is late. I’ve told my mom every time he hit me and she would go over to his house with me and shout at him. He would apologize and do it again. I am tired. My mom keeps advising me not to disgrace the family that he is a man and that’s how men behave. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong that has been ticking him off so much lately.

Your mum needs a dose of "adol" and "lagatin" injection.

aisha2:
The drill is mind blowing jare, when its mind blowing its mind blowing so sense doesn't apply

The mind has been blown already....

anthoniaz:
How sure are you the next guy won't cheat on you.Just watch your fiance closely. Take care

This statement is usually made by defeatist not to believe an ideal situation.

The fact that the next guy will cheat shouldn't make anyone accept cheating as the norm. Is the fiance now a baby to be closely monitored?

onegig:
Yeah...The sex removes the doubt that he desires someone else as much as he desires her.

You can see the emphasis on "mind blowing". She alone can give "it" to him that way. She's the main chick .

oh ok.... I am still living in the medieval age, never knew all these things...

Op, I am sorry, didn't know you are the main chic... forget that other gal, she's only a booty call.

aisha2:
Don't mind us oh, we will see the signs and just manage because " no one is perfect " later when we marry and these things become magnified we will come here and lie that they suddenly changed.
Let us keep lying to ourselves afterall we will be mrs somebody which is out goal in life

Desperate situation requires desperate solution.....

She is enjoying the drill, if not she wouldn't put the cart before the horse.

Is he the same guy with anger issues?

You already settled with "mind blowing sex", why come here again to ask for advice.

You are battling with possibility of someone cheating on you, yet you settled with mind blowing sex... I pity you.. you better fear what is called STD.

Story for the gods...............


And NO, the first year of marriage is no civil/domestic war... I do not subscribe to problems in the first year or any year.

For those yet to marry, Tolerance and Patience are two important virtues you all must learn and have before thinking of marriage. It will help you overcome too many challenges in your marriage.

BornSad:
Sorry for sounding harsh, I was not in a good mood yesterday.

Even 'change' is an inappropriate word here. No one can change his sexual orientation. I repeat, no one; not you not me.

Now, you know!

I have a transgender friend nicknamed "abbie", I never condemned him/her and wouldn't condemn you either. You have a friend in me if you wouldn't mind.

BornSad:
I hate that word, "addiction". I was born this way, believe it or not!

I am sorry for using the word. Is there something you wish to change about yourself?

BornSad:
You're now wondering what's wrong with me. I'm hoping you'd guess without I saying it.

Do you have an addiction you think you can't get over?

^^^ First step to getting solution is talking.

Do you care to talk about it?

ladyconfessor:
Thanks Sir God Bless You... was actually running a PT Program... Thinking of rewriting Jamb

Rewrite it, you will be happy with yourself later.

ladyconfessor:
Was withdrawn cos i couldn't meet the cut off mark, I'm 24, I attend RCCG, My sis attends Church Of Christ, yes i live with my sis.

If your course of study is either medicine or pharmacy, I believe you can still be allowed to transfer to other department. However, you will have to take the bull by the horn, dust yourself and take it as one of the challenges of life one must encounter to get to the promised land. Buy another JAMB form, sit for the exam again and be prepared to best your previous performances. Be determined not to be withdrawn again from school by getting good grades in all your courses. IT IS NOT TOO LATE TO START AGAIN.

You should also strife to get admitted in the course you really want because alternatives sometimes discourage one from being serious with school since it is not what you want. Nevertheless, whatever you get, be filled with positives to get something good out of it.

Forget about the boyfriend that jilted you. There are millions of guys out there better than him. Probably he was one of the reasons for your withdrawal from school as you couldn't concentrate on your studies. Meanwhile, I think your energy this time should be directed at getting back to school and not about guys. You will have enough time for guys. You need to lay a good foundation for your tomorrow by being educated. Free your mind about looking for boyfriend. A good guy will find you out when the time is ripe. Nobody is interested in associating with failure, chase excellence and successful guys will follow bumper to bumper

Since you are still being fed by your sister and her husband, it is wise that you should be following her to their church for the time being. A time will come when you will have liberty and freedom to choose where you want to worship.

Keep only good friends who can help and support you out of the academic issues you have. It is well with you.

ladyconfessor:
Thanks alot.. You really made my day.

Why were you withdrawn from school?

How old are you?

Which church are you currently attending and which church are you being forced to attend?

Do you live with your sister?

joshsmith:
hello again i just finished my regime and i lost like 9 kilos and i am really afraid of gaining them again so can u please tell me what i should do to maintain my weight or even loose some more and by the way i want to ask u about Clementine i just love this fruit i used to eat like 15-20 of it a day i was like its a fruit it cant make me gain weight but then i searched about it and found that each big size Clementine contains 35 calories so is this calorie gonna make me gain weight or are they just water that will go away later on ? and one more thing can i eat chocolate , ice cream and some other sweets or i never go near them and for me and 17 year old how many calories should i eat after the regime and should i exercise everyday? thanks in advance

I understand your fear about gaining weight after losing and shedding some. Eat healthy, by this I mean start eating balanced diet and cut down on the junks you eat.

Keep in shape by being committed to daily exercise. Remember not to repeat this diet until after three (3) months.

prost80:
Is it compulsory I swear an affivadit(that am in 9ja) to avoid GST payment. I saw it on my Vetassess document requirement, though there are some requirements that don't pertain to me. I need help oh as am completing my submitted documentation next week.

You don't need to swear any affidavit.

joshsmith:
um on the salami day the salami that i have are really small pieces do we eat only 1 or should i get more and about the cup of coffe can i replace it with tea and about the cup of sugar what do u mean by that ? sry for being stupid but i really cant get it xD! thx in advance

The salami can be sizable number enough and not too much.

If you have green tea or lipton, you can replace with coffee.

The sugar should be cube of sugar

LCDD:
@ op, can I replace salami and steak with chicken all through. Grilled chicken or chicken pepper soup without the skin?

Unfortunately, no....

Agrika:
Nice one O.p,....erm...What of us that are "locally" based, this diet is not really possible for us, is it? I mean with the Salami, Steak and all that

You can get most of these things from shoprite.

bukatyne:
Eni tio fe pa lo n wa

I went to night school; don't understand some of the leaves

Is the coffee without milk?

P.S.: Do you still do the Ghana trip?

Which of the leaves you don't understand? However, you can substitute any of the leaves for another raw edible ones. You can get most in shop rite.

The coffee is without milk.

Unfortunately we couldn't do the trip. Some things came up for my friends and we had to cancel. We will reschedule for a date in 2015. It is why I didn't do a follow up on the thread.

The idea is for collective/joint get away, I couldn't have gone alone with my wife. We had to consider others too.

If you are interested in the rescheduled one, let me know.

bukatyne:
Sit ups don't work. I need to clear the excess and start to do maintenance

In that case, observe it for 13 days...

Let the race begin.....

bukatyne:
Your brother is obsessed and I have gats to retain my selling points

I would like to try it for 1 wk or 6days. I want my tummy to be board flat so it is easier to make it flat after childbirth

You can give it a try. In the absence of a diet, you can be doing 20 sit up daily. It helps in burning abdominal fat.

walmak:
Yes! And I received the outcome of my assessment from VETASSESS
It says 1. "my degree is recognised by VETASSESS for the purpose of awarding points for qualification
Under the GSM points test as comparable to educational level AQF Bachelor degree"
2. Skilled Employment: The tasks undertaken are not closely related to the ANZSCO tasks for the nominated occupation.
Please whats the next step from here?

You cannot claim points for work experience.

bukatyne:
@Bellong:

Bros, you have This type of thread and did not tell us

Does This diet reduce All parts or only specific parts of the body?

We will soon arrange deliverance for you with this obsession about parts of the body....

The diet aims at achieving an overall reduction of weight (adipose tissue) in all parts of the body for those that can observe it religiously.

But going by the picture of you that I saw, I don't think you need it except you have dream to become a lepa...

mownie:
This regimen looks promising. I weigh 70kg n my BMI says I am overweight.I want to start today, can I add green tea pls, @bellong. Or can I replace the coffee with green tea?

Green tea is a good alternative to coffee. Yes, you can.

ihedinobi2:
Lol. I know that feel, bro.

Finally saw the movie, Like stars on Earth.

Nice story line about effect of dyslexia on kids and how to help them out.

Too many songs in it unlike 3 idiots, you will start to get glued to it from 1hr 20mins thereabout. The beginning to that time laid the foundation of the story.

Nice story overall but not as interesting as the 3 idiots by the same Amir Khan guy.

bukatyne:

bukatyne:


Now we need a rolls eyes button

bukatyne:
Lol @ support

Human hair is no no

Funny thing is they spend so much money to acquire people's curses and some people do not even know the difference between human and good synthetic

Left to me, I prefer hair cut. It looks super cute on some women.

Braiding and weaving ain't bad too..

Stillfire:
Do you think respective roles may differ from home to home in today's world and may not be set in stone as it were in the past?

Dynamism is the hallmark of a wonderful home. What matters is agreement and consent of parties involved.

bukatyne:
Read again...
No be me call myself pseudo anything
Hair that they have probably chanted on. It is well (it gives me the creeps). I imagine Mrs. Bellong cutting her hair and I fix it after treatment

Tufiakwa... I still support synthetic hairs/attachments but not human hairs. Who knows the kind of terrible curse on the original head..

ihedinobi2:
Lol. I know that feel, bro.

I couldn't help it..

moca:
Sorry, I get serious migraine. It's affecting my sight.

bukatyne:
LOL @ pseudo-feminist

I have been called several things on this forum: old, bitter, married, single, divorced, jobless, mean etc. someone even called me an anti-feminist because I did not support men taking care of their divorced wives Now the reigning is pseudo-feminist (pf for short) or fake because I say men are the head of their homes.

I don't wear human hair... I feel it is wrong. The head is the carrier of one's glory; how can you put someone else's hair on your head

Tufiakwa!

You have been called several names? I called you a Pseudo-Feminist because I read a thread you created for and about feminists... The name is from you.

Have you seen a documentary on how Indian hairs are donated to temples before being sold by the priests?

Stillfire:
I do o. However many women have been domesticated to believe such about themselves. You would agree with me that when people have been mentally enslaved for long they tend to believe what they shouldn't.

This is the point where their parents can be blamed for raising weaklings and wind like beings. One of the reasons I advocate a strong and stable families in building a great and working society because families make up the society.

A home where the husband and wife understand their respective roles in bringing up their children as well as maintaining healthy family institution will churn out children that will not be rejects of the society or tormentors of anything progressive.

First step is, if you plan to marry, you should strive to marry a man with good head on his neck or else.....