₦airaland Forum

Elxandre: I left for Ghana and started schooling there (I can say that was the best period of my life. I'm not an outgoing person though, but I loved that place).
I was studying my dream course (computer science).
I was suprised I was still intelligent though cos I was dealing with stuff I liked and knew (I could get an A in maths courses without even working hard. I never failed a course aside chinese and french which i came close to failing).
Well all of a sudden my mum had financial problems and I was in trouble cos my Dad is Irresponsible (I dont even know where he lives)
Well I couldnt write my 2nd year 1st sem exams.
And I had to come back home for christmas.
My mum then shocked me by saying I should switch to national Open univ. I was really bitter because of my emotional investment in the school (I put in all I had, studied wrote texts without course materials and even went thru hunger in that final semester).
Sorry for my long post, I hope you find my 'written from a samsung chat, poorly edited post worthy of your read'

francafrank: ok here's the story but i will leave out the names and few intimate details.

A woman has been married for 5 years she is aged 30 with a man of 37years. she says that initially she was frigid because the hussy wanted to have sex everyday infact thrice before day break. as the years went on she started enjoying the sex and they could spend a whole saturday indoors just cuddling, having sex in between meals. [b]In the last year or so, he changed after a quarrel, [/b]even when she initiates sex hubby will verbally abuse her as LovePeddler. she thinks that even when he eventualy does have sex which is once in three months he lasts only about 3mins and she does not reach orgasm. She thinks he is deliberate in his actions since he knows that she enjoys the sex and wants to quit the marraige.

Initially she thought he had a problem and suggested that they see a doctor which he refused. She says because she does not have enough sex she thinks about it all day long and she does not want to have extramatrimonial affairs. She is an emotional wreck and needs to opt ou.

Icherishu: I don't know what I will tell her for her to listen. When she was considering the second baby, I told her to put in on hold but she said she wants to have all her children now.

francafrank: Read this please and reply on the basis of fact, experience or measurable quality.

Is it an abuse for a wife/girlfriend/ man/hussy/boyfrend to be denied good, pleasurable quality sex?
i got this question during counseling and i was lost for a suitable reply. could you help?

clusterphobia: Please help, I have a canadian students visa can I transit turkey to Canada?

Elxandre: am i sucidal?
maybe..
can this thread do anything than mere feel good talks?
i dont think so

Caracta: @bellong, two PMs, no reply.

Royal Roy: Bellong did you get my pm? Seems its down at the moment. Please send me a direct mail soon as you get this.
Thanks

Phema: I hope and pray they re-open the portal, but what happens if it isn't re-opened after we have give made the contributions? Just being practical here.

funkybaby: @phema
Please how much are you donating so we all can know what's left to raise. Thanks. Hopefully, someone else will be happy to help the OP with the balance. I understand why you want to remain annoymous. I also hate the fact that I'm revealing how much I'm donating but in this case one is left with little or no choice.

Phema: @Bellong, Please can u inform the house when the portal is open?

@Ifyalways, Nice job. Welcome! Please send his account details to phemahema@yahoo.com. Will make an anonymous deposit immediately Bellong confirms the re opening of the portal.

kofsy: Hi all. Happy sunday. Pls can anyone recommend good books on marriage. I have done some google searching, but i feel it is never too much to ask here too. Thanks in anticipation.

maidorawa: My fourth son is 11 October and mine is 13 October.

eyitayoemmanuel: Thanks everyone for your comment. My fear is that once a man cannot provide for his family, he gets frustrated at every small issue. Dont want my case ending like the guy who butchered his wife over a similar issue cos my husband is beginning to get frustrated cos I complain more these days. At times he feels bad about the whole situation but I think he's just pretending otherwise he would have done something about it.

ifyalways: My comment on this thread is : no comment.

More ororo to your elbow sister. God is in control and your miracle is on the way. Love is patient and kind,it does not keep record of evil. A virtuous woman provides for her family, covers her husband with wool and anoints his feet with sweet scented oil.

Patience was patient and that was why Goodluck lead her to Aso rock. Are you ready to enter your own Zion rock sister? Tarry,I say! Tarry and do not grumble.

It is well.

ovalrose: My youngest brother and I are 10th and 11th respectively.

uhuogba: 11 oct rep full time!
Wonder if I "ve got mate?

onegig: Nah...Not me. You know am not versed in that area.


Am pseudo-igbo...Wasn't proud enough to learn my local language. LOl

However...a quick search on the net

Shows it is "ibola chi"

ifyalways: Sounds serious and bad for the OP.
So he still risks an extra year if this portal is not re-opened? Gosh.


May God intervene oh.