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cdamsel: me ke?thats a joke right?

Me way they go convention & crusade 4 husband? Or beg my fellow housemates to hook me up?even my advances to RR was so intense that he taught I was a psyco,now he avoids me like plague & doesn't talk to me anymore,but b4 he thought I was hilarious? if na play stop am ooooo

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chaircover: Bellong I doubt that a man on her own level and who has choices will marry such.

Sure, averagely a man with choices wouldn't think of such a woman but some do putting other stuff into consideration. I have seen and know cases where it happened.

bluuu: madam cc mentioned signs of abuse.pls can u giv examples so the single ladies can learn from it.tnks.

Read this thread...

https://www.nairaland.com/1444825/abused-wives-girlfriends-men

May you both live long enough to fulfill God's purpose...... Happy birthday to her.

Wishing her a life filled with joy, peace and fulfillment

chaircover: I. Dont kmow anyone who will knowingly marry a runs girl who has done 4 abortions. Emphasis on the knowingly

I doubt anyone in my family would; love or no love

It may look difficult but there are those who would. The important thing to note is if she has changed to a better person.

I do agree that some things should not be said before being wedded but this one shouldn't be part of them. When air blows, fowl yansh go open and what the lady wanted to prevent would be worse than she can handle.

lertee: Does it mean everyone on this thread is married?

Report whoever is rubbing it in your face, I will ensure proper punishment is meted out to the person.

Meanwhile, we have some unmarried folks we must marry out by fire by force before the end of this year. See me after the service for detailed information

chaircover: Bellong what will they do? Infact how will they even say it?

Dear errrmmm there is something I need to tell you. . .

And realistically how many men will still go ahead and marry the woman? Will she keep on telling prospective suitors and they all run away for the rest of her life

The irony is that she didnt make herself pregnant and it was men that got her pregnant the 4 times, men sow their wild oats all over the place yet still want to marry untouched virgins. There are bound to be cockkups like this. Too many perpetrators and too many victims jare.

No matter how terrible someone's past is, there is always someone out there willing to live with it for the rest of his/her life. Some people do not care about the number of abortions or reckless life a lady had lived in the past, all they want is the honest truth prior to being deceived into the marriage. The knowledge will give a better preparation and idea on how to handle the consequences of her past. If she had declared I have had abortions in the past, the guy could have taken her to the hospital for medical check-up before the wedding. The fact of the matter is that it is not the abortions that actually broke the guy's heart but hiding it from him. Whether its a guy or a lady, no one gets away hiding such terrible history, a time of reckoning will surely come.

Yes, I agree that she didn't make herself pregnant but she was foolish and stupid to be pregnant four times. Fool me once, its a mistake but twice, am the fool. She got pregnant the first, second, third and fourth despite the availability of numerous contraceptives. She took the decision and she should be able to live with the consequences of it. Meanwhile, the act between her and the numerous guys was mutual. She enjoyed the pleasure too, infact I will not be surprised if she was the one that did the seduction sef.

PS: I have seen cases of men who willingly married their wives despite the ladies revealing they had a terrible abortion that cost them their wombs. Even God expect us to first confess our sins before we are forgiven.

I partly blame the guy too, he didn't do his home work very well. Information about ladies like this is more often than not an open source info. He would have had an idea of her past if he did his home work well. Emotions is never enough in taking decision

^^^ In most situations, ladies with terrible history like the one described here are expected to let her potential husband know of her abortions story. She is not compelled to talk about her escapades with diverse men but hiding the abortion part is a no no. It would have been better if it was only one but four....

This is why ladies should always let their brains and hearts be in sync in relationships than being controlled by emotions. Some did several abortions for guys in the name of I love him while others are aristos. Men will always, excluding divine judgement, get away with whatever immoral past they have lived except plagued with STDs. But for the ladies, the history is like a finger print, no matter how long it is hidden, when the time comes it shall be exposed like this case.

The words are true '"There's nothing hidden that will not be exposed, nothing covered that will not be revealed ..."

Whatever a man sows, he reaps in multiple fold.


What else can be said to your friend but to keep praying peradventure her husband can change his mind.

Why did she hide info as this from him. It is well with her

The words are true '"There's nothing hidden that will not be exposed, nothing covered that will not be revealed ..."

Whatever a man sows, he reaps in multiple fold.


What else can be said to your friend but to keep praying peradventure her husband can change his mind.

Why did she hide info as this from him. It is well with her

Nolongthing1: Read the OP again this time carefully.

What you wrote up there is not a problem but what is obtainable in the environment you are.


I still ask again, highlight areas you need help. Is it human relations, managing people or how to identify good friends.

To which problem do you need a practical solution?

greatgod2012: Abeg, stop flattering me joor


I'm a product of OLASS, same in I-ode.

OLASS, where boys used to catch girls on LIT day. We used to prefer OLASS girls to AGGS, our supposed female version, to spite them. I rocked ijebu-ode no be small....


Op, apology again, just making light the tension in here.

The same reason that made the rich to be rich and poor to be poor

greatgod2012: my hubby is also a member JOGS family.

As per the Awujale palace, abeg, leave "tori" for another day.

No wonder he attracted a great woman. JOGS people sabi better thing..

raqueal: As far as I am concerned there is no disadvantage if the man does not have a subsisitng marriage before seeking to marry another.
Getting married in the registry is not a solution Where a man is already taken. It won't cure a thing and make him legally yours.

Now I understand what you are passing across

OP,

Seems my comprehension is poor this evening, what exactly is the demerit of registry because all what you wrote are strictly in support of it.

Please explain. Thank you

To all intending students of our new fun room catering school, please forward your application fee of $500 only to me while the forms be forwarded to CC and Chillisauce.

Efemena and YPP will conduct the screening exercise while Damsel and Roy are noted to supervise the screening...

funkybaby: Yep. I'm a loyal subject of the Awujale

What school did you attend?

greatgod2012: Where did you school in I-ode?

The only school worthy to attend in Awujale's land ... I rep (JOGS) Ijebu-Ode Grammar School.


@Funkybaby, loyal subject

What you need in literature review is to get materials (past thesis, published journals, books) that treated the topic and related topic. Summarise each of the findings in those materials to buttress why you are doing yours. That is correlate with what you are doing to finding the gap in knowledge of the already published materials on the topic.

You can get an old thesis for a guide. If you encounter too many problems, contact your supervisor, it is his duty to guide you and not lord over you. I wish you well

funkybaby: thanks to the annoymous donor and Tsmith. God bless you. Amen

Do you live in Awujale's palace? ..

I schooled in Ijebu-ode. Love the newly built palace, one of the best palaces in the country.

^^^ I am yet to understand why she is not interested in knowing why her husband doesn't come on weekends as agreed than chasing shadows.
She is on a long thing. What is stopping her from working? Will it be right to say that the husband is avoiding the woman at all cost going by the scenario up there. She needs a brain reset

salsera: @seru

Proverbs has a verse - 'Hope deferred makes the heart sick' . Let's just say I've had one hope too many deferred and its become overwhelming - doesn't make any sense.
So seeing this thread again..was just too much jare.

Abeg do quick make I tie gele ooh!

Be patient therefore, brethren, unto the coming of the Lord. Behold, the husbandman waiteth for the precious fruit of the earth, and hath long patience for it, until he receive the early and latter rain.

Hope maketh not ashamed.

Whatever you are hoping for from the Lord, I believe that the Lord will answer you soon in His time. He makes all things beautiful in His time. Wait for it sis and you will enjoy it better when it eventually arrive in God's time. It is well with you

gulfer: I thought you said VIO Mushin and now you are saying Alausa

Alausa is the head-office of VIO, he resolved the issue there to claim his vehicle in Mushin.

Do you now understand?

fendorf: is it possible to get a PR with the subclass I stated earlier.the reason for going for that subclass is because its cheaper than the 189 subclass.thanks for your reply

He gave you the link to go through and check if you can meet the requirements. Why not read the link to answer your own question?

yellowpawpaw: SAN Bellong, .
First of US, do u know what BLEACHING of contract means?

Tilapia, hv u briefd ur lawyer?

Oh la la!!
I'm gonna smile to the bank in millions soon!

To every rule, there is always an exception. In addition, we can always go around any bend. I have an unmatchable case winning history

yellowpawpaw: And I didn't c this b4 replying him!
Oya, I dey wait for una!

You will be taken to ICJ where all the judges there are my right hand fellow

lanlo: Seeking candid advice; I was giving an offer letter to study @ tasmania university for feb intake 2014 and as it is now,am yet to find money to pay my tuition fee. My question now is this (1) is it possible for the school to defer the admission for me till july intake if I make a request n (2) what reasons is best cited for asking for d deferment.

Someone with similar xperience,pls advice.

Generally, deferring admission is acceptable by all institutions across the globe but each with different conditions. While some may defer without you committing to any payment, others can only defer except you pay a percentage of the tuition fee.

You will have to know where your school stands. You can only know when you send an email requesting to defer your admission. There are no best reasons to cite, rather give an open and broad reason. For example, you can say that a situation came up that requires you to be present for about 3-4 months in Nigeria for you to resolve it. On this basis you want a deferment to give you time to attend to it.

tunapa2009: YPP! YPP!! YPP!!!.... Okay ooooo... U dey degrade me... I will sue you soon...
CC: I want a suit against YPP for assassination of character. Do you know any lawyer that can help me out?

Don't go too far, a SAN is here

aaron213: Can I and how can I get a turkish visa from the embassy in abuja or any other means (legal of course) to travel to istanbul in january with united arab emirates though?

What is the purpose of the travel?