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Ingredient88:
Good day everyone, I woke up this morning to receive this sad news! I don't know but to me I think is a sad one, I met a lady during my NYSC year, and among the line we both fell in love together and we've been dating for over a year plus now, thinking that we are going to get settle down soon.
Although just earlier this year, we started planning on how to go about our marriage, I'm from southwest and she is from South South, by December I'm taking her to the altar, we've been praying about it, but just of recent I wanted to visit her hometown to negotiate on how to get list from her parents, so I later proceed to one of our pastor, to help pray again about it and he is a prophet and he later called me this morning to inform me that he doesn't see any lights in it, that we are just good to be friends but not to go to the expense of settle together, I was shock, I can't breathe, does that mean that this is the end of the relationship I am seriously down, has it ever happened to someone her before what did you do do you proceed or you step down? please I need an elderly and matured advice thanks.

Worst thing you will do to yourself is to listen to all this useless people on nairaland, is this man you are talking about is your spiritual director, please listen to him. None of them will be around when you will suffer

Ingredient88:
Good day everyone, I woke up this morning to receive this sad news! I don't know but to me I think is a sad one, I met a lady during my NYSC year, and among the line we both fell in love together and we've been dating for over a year plus now, thinking that we are going to get settle down soon.
Although just earlier this year, we started planning on how to go about our marriage, I'm from southwest and she is from South South, by December I'm taking her to the altar, we've been praying about it, but just of recent I wanted to visit her hometown to negotiate on how to get list from her parents, so I later proceed to one of our pastor, to help pray again about it and he is a prophet and he later called me this morning to inform me that he doesn't see any lights in it, that we are just good to be friends but not to go to the expense of settle together, I was shock, I can't breathe, does that mean that this is the end of the relationship I am seriously down, has it ever happened to someone her before what did you do do you proceed or you step down? please I need an elderly and matured advice thanks.

Worst thing you will do to yourself is to listen to all this useless people on nairaland, is this man you are talking about is your spiritual director, please listen to him

promzy555:
2face b a man, u know wat u want. Why act like a kid by running, I know women are dangerous but not lv and cut communication with your family. Now wat about ur daughter, do u even think how ur kids anytime u run away from their mum.

Be a man 2face, and don't b d opposite of innocent

You want him to die in the hand of evil woman like you, this is why men die earlier in this part of the world

Crossroad1:
Another one.
57yrs old woman and am sure the husband will be older..
Abeg which kin cheat are these ones still talking about biko?
If the man is truly living in his wife's house and eating her food, then he is a shameless man.
So man like kpokpogarri still plenty?he still even dey service madam junior sister engine, na WA o.
Leeches
As for madam, she should go and enjoy his sugar boy in peace, maybe she need am.

Children of nowadays vomiting trash all in the name of comments, it obvious you are not married

Iyaebe:
Mind the business that pays your bills or you apply some techniques to make sure she gets caught,don't bring yourself out else it won't be funny.

Evil people like you is the reason innocent people die untimely, will you still be friend with this guy if you found he new about this and didn't tell you?

saphiere:
Men don't have shame..
This is not eye service. It is the number 3 code in the "sisters' code".

3. Don't f with me if you can't f with my friend.
Meaning; If you can't find my friend/sister worthy to be in your circle, then you shouldn't find me worthy.

Hamila is displaying loyalty here to Tonto and that is what the sisters' code is about.

Foolish Nigeria girl, so he can't make friends because he once dated Tonto dike? I wonder why you people reason like animals

All nairaland warriors none of them comment on this thread, Nigeria women and evil is like 5/6

SarkinYarki:
What is SR saying .. yesterday Dem say UK and now today Maryland US ..

If you have met Tinubu up close I. The last 3 years you will know he has shaky hands which I think is a result of old age

He was first admitted at Maryland before transfer to UK offers surgery
Please read before you comments

SarkinYarki:
What is SR saying .. yesterday Dem say UK and now today Maryland US ..

If you have met Tinubu up close I. The last 3 years you will know he has shaky hands which I think is a result of old age

He was first admitted at Maryland before transfer to UK offers surgery

AnonPoet:
It has been more than 2 years of the Dapo Abiodun Government and it seems this government is hell bent on taking the state back to using bush paths. Yes, the roads in Ogun state are that bad. Sometimes you drive in a state that is supposed to be the gateway state and all you see is just nightmares. It gets worse for communities on the Lagos/Ogun border. Going from Ogun to Lagos, you can tell where Ogun state ends and Lagos begins based on the condition of the roads. It is that bad?

Even the roads in the capital city Abeokuta isn't any different from the joke Ogun state roads has become it is almost as though the Dapo Abiodun Government has decided to punish everyone for crimes no one knows who committed. The roads in Ogun East where is from are reportedly not this bad though. Maybe something else is at play

How else does one explain this?

Even roads which were started by the previous admin have either been abandoned or not completed after years, and mechanic have been having a field day fixing broken down vehicles. Please we need a overhaul of the roads in Ogun state.

Those roads is not in ogun state, that's Aba in Abia state

jowhyte:
What kind of house? How many bedrooms? Let assume it's just a single 3bedrooms flat with normal standard rooms measurement of 12ft by 12fts and assuming you already have a land.

4M won't deliver a good portable standard apartment with all the normal fittings and finishing. The block work, roofing woods and sheets will almost swallow the whole of the 4M.

Bubu government has been a cancer ♋.

Have you build a house before? Oga that money build a house

Terrence98:
Just look at this drunken pig insulting his father. I don't blame you when you have turned your wife into a slave like your mother. Foolish bastard, may Alusi castrate your blockus.

E pain you right? Everyone can't be dirty like you and that's why you support dirty Angel

Terrence98:
Is Angel your maid?

You're such a stupid fellow, if everyone in the house behave like Angel , how do you think the house will be, people like you , your house snake will live there

frozen70:
You guys are just dating to marry not for love

Don't rush, go into relationships for love and if it will lead to marriage, you will see it working out by itself

Good advice

bodybuilder:
One of the biggest delusion of guys is comparing there financial status to that of girls. A girl can be broke and still out of league don't deceive yourself, women aren't judged by finances, they're judged majorly by their looks. A girl is out of your league simply because the other men that want her are out of your league. As an average guy, what's your chance with a girl that rich guy wants? That is it.

Judge why will a poor girl call a guy stingy?

Chloraseptic:
90% Nairaland boys answer would be sex related..

Pretender you , your own won't relate to sex please share your owe, ewu

Romanoff:
So he was sugar, spice and everything nice, yet, she ran to the court.

Abi?

She no like better thing, abi?

In that news you read , did it mentioned who went to court first?

Romanoff:
Ah.

Na wa o.

This woman stayed with him from when they were both in the university of Abuja. This woman is his ride or die, day one woman.

I wonder what could have gone wrong especially now that they have money.

I doubt that it is infidelity on her part cause she could have chosen to be unfaithful to him when he was broke. Why leave now that there's money if she was all about the money?

I'll sha be waiting for more gist as it unfolds.

Indeed, money alone cannot sustain a marriage o.

You have judged , Nigeria girls I wonder why you people think from anus

Passionate888:
Ass men and yeye men too dey mumu

Yet they run from fulani herdsmen

You no know them? Useless people like their King in Lagos

Areola14:
The lady might just be trying to know if truly you love her... She might have gotten someone who is on her neck but she didn't want to lose you just like that.. she want to know if by tomorrow she's eventually pregnant... You will be responsible... If you truly love her and want to settle down with her. Talk to her. If you don't like her, discharge her and don't block her from seeing a man who is ready....

That's expensive joke she shouldn't have joked , put yourself in his shoes and know if you will be happy

CharisEleos:
You need advice on what exactly?

To tell you to break up with her or continue the childish relationship you nearly Chickened out of at the mere mention of pregnancy?

My advice for you is to face your studies. You're clearly not responsible and ready for a relationship or the outcome, before you halt your career and hers like our intending Nairaland clergyman who posted his ordeal about something similar last month.

For your mind you make a point? Who is in right sense will joke with something like that, when will you people tell your fellow the truth , useless people

That's not ogun state please check well that place is abia state, all the road in Yoruba land is nice and beautiful

All Nigeria girls is just manageable

Onepeople:
Ffk the 2face man

Useless human being like your comment

Beebah2000:
What can your girlfriend offer to you apart from sex??

The same thing you can only offer

Beebah2000:
That is what you guys ask for in a relationship na.
Men, fear men.

What do you have to offer apart from sex?

fati2001:
HUMANS ARE NOTHING BUT FAKE, SOME TORMENT YOU WHEN ALIVE AND CRY YOU IF YOU ARE NO MORE... WORST CASE IS THAT THE TEAR NO EVEN REACH THEIR THROATS.




SOME WILL HATE YOU WHERE ALIVE BUT WILL MOURN THE DEATH OF THE SOUL THEY HATE [FAKIES EVERYWHERE ]

This lady witch why do you always talk nonsense and out of point?

Rozcol:
Any man that talks too much is irresponsible

Say by a responsible woman

sexy74:
They are not doing it for anyone to understand but for the nostalgic feeling.

Don't mind that dummy , he don't understand reunion, if na white people now he will praise them

Jeon:
ok pig

Mosquito

ersonleads:
if you read the right up very well you will know I started pampering her when the guy broke her heart.she actually do call him an ex @ d moment. So decode please. shey na girlfriend you call am, nor be wife. Imagine say your girlfriend cheat on you

Oga don't pamper her, she's in a relationship and relationship has up and down now it's down side of it and you're indirectly telling her to leave her bf for you