₦airaland Forum

Luckydubby7:
How true is this news
I'm asking because this was what apc supporting was using as an achievement of general buhari that ever since he assumed office there were no bombing again in northern Nigeria.

What a stupid question

Never you date or marry out of a pit

QueenEowyn:
As you all know, a notorious moniker mosdii was banned on this platform by the mods due to his incessant gender slurs on the female gender.

I made a thread about which was later deleted by the mods wherein I stated that he is a cultist.
I have been receiving threat messages via my DM by members of probably the same fraternity.
I don't know which wrong I did to warrant such threat messages.
This is a faceless forum I know but I know some people can go very far to get at you.
Firstly I wasn't responsible for his ban, though I was very happy about his ban. it was Ishilove that instigated his ban.
I don't know if he is the one threatening me through them or what.
Please put your anger and frustrations to the mods who banned him and not me.
Someone told me to apologize and I say I won't because I didn't do anything wrong.

Stop sending me threat messages.

None of my business but you should mind your business next time, all he do here mods see them all

nthony10:
Good way to go, I wonder if the south east and south south governors will ever wake up

Because nothing is happening there and you alone is what they kill

SlimBrawnie:
Far North bear names that sound luke Southern African.
Pastor, but when you were eating her money, you didn't know she was older, she resigned from a govt job cos of your promise to marry her, she even sold her house... According to her.
Only God knows who's saying the truth between the both of you sha

You have judge him because a lady is involved, did you know what really happened?

In

superior1:
You promise marriage, you collect money and now quoting Bible.

No, your actions got nothing to do with the Bible, leave God alone for this matter wey you dey so

Stop judging this man because you're not there and you can conclude from one person story

[quote author=melvinjames post=99073894]And ibos have gained the presidency ba? I'm beginning to detest the

chest beating of ibos on nairaland.[/quote
What concern igbos with this Post? Now I understand how stupid Yoruba youth can be

When will Yoruba youth be useful to themselves?

cfree14:
I just want to know why people consider having sex with a girl on her period such a bad thing to do. I need someone to explain the biblical, spiritual, mental or even the financial implications because some people think it hinders your success.

Guys please I really need answers because right now I'm so confused. My girl came visiting yesterday and when it was time for the action film to take place, she told me she is on her period(she wasn't lying cus I saw it myself). I couldn't do anything since I've been made to understand that it's a taboo.

Apart sti you will get , curse will follow you

Obamaofusa:
I think they their marriage with the Igbos are permanent,sir.They are making esy money by 100,000 naira been paid by your coward people while they still hold onto the 350 communities they have taken permanently.


Hear and read what the Fulanis are saying supporting your people's cowardice:

Anywhere a farm is destroyed, leaders of Miyetti Allah and the community leaders will go and assess the damage, and the farmer will be paid adequate compensation on the farm that was destroyed.

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“And if a cow is killed or stolen, the owner of the cow is paid the value of his cow. The south-easterners are very hospitable and we are generally comfortable doing our business here.”

You're indeed stupid as they said, they're killing your people in numbers and you're here talking trash

stonemasonn:
guy calm down, if the Yorubas succeed against this menace, it'll be a victory to the whole South, if they fail it'll be a loss. Read between the lines of Miyeti Allah statement, they're plotting a revenge and if they succeed, places like Edo, Delta and the 5 South East states will be next.

Oga keep your mouth shut and defend your land they're taking and killing you

LadyTianna:
Hey. Normally I don't create threads to bash guys but today I'm repulsed by some of the comments and threads made by guys here.

Ladies, ever gone on a date with a guy and realized how foolish and dumb he is? Please come and share the experience with us

Most of them have very limited vocabulary. You'll say a sentence and they'll be staring at you in a very confused manner until you dumb down the words for them to understand. The only topic they seem well versed in is sex. Truly pathetic. Don't even get me started on how almost all of them have resorted to fraudulent and evil practices in order to make money. Many of them have damaged their brains with hard drugs to the extent that they can barely make coherent sentences. All the good men are dead or old sadly. Unfortunately due to societal stigma attached to unmarried women, many of us will have to tie ourselves to these useless fellows till death do us part

Inside life , do you expect to see educated people under bridge?

[quote author=Ayrastarr post=99032542]But you came to Nairaland to complain of how your wife irritate you?

You think I've forgotten?

Please, go and sit down! [/quote
Madam every marriage has up and down, during down time you complain, during up time you enjoy so no marriage is bed of rosery

IamWonderful:
Nyamiri governors are paying herdsmen and proscribed IPOB as terrorist group, remove the log of wood in your eyes

You just wake up

Khd95:
You are an idjot, visiting and buying food for your wife that refused to stay In the same house with your cousin, u even rushed to get her Paracetamol, omo what kind of weak men do we have these days


If this your story isn't made up, then you are the dumbest person alive, deM don't shine your wife Congo inside hotel room, hoi even bought her food to refresh her and paracetamol to ease her headache , ahhhh oluwa oo


She even accused you of the used condom, women

He will still fall victim again because people like him don't learn

Ayrastarr:
To displease yourself?

And you might even end up not Liking the woman you married.

It is not nice na

We don't complain,do we?

FlamieB:
''Stay in your state'' wannabe. Lol... If indeed you are from Anambra as you claimed, you just disgraced your people by that your statement ''stay in your state, marry from your state''. All this otu Onitsha touts with smart phone disgracing their state. Lol

You are fighting Fulani, Hausa, Yoruba, other Igbo states and even Aguleri and Umuleri abi what are they calling it. Only you? And Ojukwu is from Anambra that started the war against Nigeria. What's you people's problem? Tufiakwa

IMO people will be pained always

Ayrastarr:
Lol.

It is the truth.
And why is it that you people don't Date before getting married.

Why is that?

You marry because a girl was recommended by your parents.

Because we respect our parents

LadySarah:
you are shameless, sir!

Thank you but imo people is big NO for people of anambra,. They're home breakers

Ayrastarr:
Na the mother recommend oooo.

The mother is Educated, Thank God for that.

Also, the Mother is not from Anambra.

Continue to Choke!

Keep on bending it to favor you , I see you

Ayrastarr:
Taaaah!

Let's not even go there.......!

Let's not even go there!

Anambra and Ebonyi women dey drag who fine pass.


They come back to pick because most can't marry outside their state.

If they had a choice, una women go tey for house

You people say we're ugly but still can't let us be , our ugliness is more reason we marry ourselves we don't imo madness

luminouz:
Must you marry them?

Go for other suitors na

Don't mind that idiot

Ayrastarr:
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Yes, I am.

And you know what?

You all are Arrogant.

Very arrogant!
You all also lack Manners and you all feel like the world revolves around Anambra!

Fine, una no fine.

Book smart? Zero!

God just compensated you all with Business sense apart from that, Nothing Nothing.
Lol!


I'm just angry that after knowing all this, I will still end up with with one of my Nnewi suitors.

THIS LIFE IS VERY FUNNY. LOL!

You why you people are stupid, you have right to say no but you don't rather your happy because he's from anambra

Ayrastarr:
j

Yes, I am.

And you know what?

You all are Arrogant.

Very arrogant!
You all also lack Manners and you all feel like the world revolves around Anambra!

Fine, una no fine.

Book smart? Zero!

God just compensated you all with Business sense apart from that, Nothing Nothing.
Lol!


I'm just angry that after knowing all this, I will still end up with with one of my Nnewi suitors.

THIS LIFE IS VERY FUNNY. LOL!

E pain you

FlamieB:
Instead of you to prove her wrong, you are here chest beating. The best state in Nigeria and class above others indeed.

Anambra people remain the problem we have in Igbo land both online and offline. I don't know why most of them have this over bloated empty pride. Tufiakwa

What if the oil and gas in Imo state is in Anambra state instead, Chai!
Anambra, you guys should enlighten your illiterate and uncivilized brothers to stop spoiling your state with fvcked up pride.

We the anambras don't want your oil, stay in your state marry from your state, we are illiterate and uncivilized but we don't like you people imo abia, hell no

Cerebellum:
See This one


Next topic be say "The guy i love is a Rapist, pls help"!

That's how we sweet guys Bleep girls like you and move on, then after that, we give you emotional trauma you can't bear

I hope it end in tears

Must you show your stupidity in every thread?

TheAviator2000:
I really need wise counsel and will try to make this post as short as possible

My girlfriend and I have been together since 2015. I left Naija in 2017 and since then, our relationship has been more of long distance except for the one time I came back. While I truly love her and wish to Marry her, there are some things that are giving me concerns and I would like to hear other people's perspective:


1- When I met my girl in 2015, I was an unemployed graduate wrapping up my NYSC. She was a fashion designer/Tailor and didn't have any formal higher education (University Level).

2- Fast forward to 2021, I am a consultant in a fortune 500 company and have grown so much in any measurable aspect of Life. My girlfriend is still a fashion designer and not too long ago, I helped her get a shop in Lagos and Have been sending her steady allowance (at least average of 40-50k a month).

Here are the things that have given me a lot of worries:
1- I know everyone will not get a formal education and I am fine with that but my girl has not been hustling/pulling her weight in her chosen career despite my extra support.... I sometimes get the feeling that all she wants is to get married and get comfortable but I want an industrious woman. Formal education or not, I want a woman that can hussle!

2- Recently, I pretended to be unemployed because of Coronavirus just to see if she would send me some money (even if its 10k) or really, anything she can afford. Looking at the fact that I had always supported her month after month, I wanted to see if she would do the same for me.
I pretended to be unemployed for almost a month and did not receive any form of financial support from her. Even when I directly asked her to loan me small money, she would play it off by saying something like "I go write you check for 1 million sef".....

I am thinking of breaking it off at this point by slowly letting her go but before I do that, I want the perspective of people here.
Please, no insult! I am genuinely seeking your insight. Be kind!

ps. My family are doing really well and I support anything they do. I have never neglected my family in anyway, shape or form.

It's not enough but it's enough, have you tell her how you feel about her character? Talk to her if she doesn't change brother move on

Ottyn01:
Nonsense talk
Is she not the same cardi b that bought Lamborghini worth millions for offset

Useless Nigeria girls will support this, person like the one above me but can't buy the kind gift she buy for her boyfriend offset

VeeVeeMyLuv:
yea, should have countered immediately, (though I don't subscribe to physical assault).

he just stood there attentively and was drinking/guzzling and downloading the whole damn thing.

Not to assault her but he should let her know that she was talking to someone she even end it with a curse

Slimslimqq:
this life get money oo, he get why...

since there's no job yet and there are a lot of expenses and debts almost (200k) I pay 6k every Friday to lapo mfb which will end by march ending. the business I borrowed the money for burgled last year, everything inside was stolen, and also I have till February ending to pay another 45k to someone from nairaland I also borrowed from for my babymama school fees or else I don't know what will happen to me cus he's already threatening me, and next month ending another 80k must be paid to someone who borrowed my wife money for her business. so all together 200k must be paid by march ending.

from the look of things, I cant meet up because I don't have a job yet, so I had to man up and start doing a conductor, though once in a while that is whenever I am called by my oga(driver).

so yesterday I was called to work by d driver, from mushin to idumota. so we dropped our passengers @ idumota, meanwhile my oga bus has been showing some fault, he said he will manage to go another round back to mushin so that he can pay me off for today, before he calls on mechanic to check the problem. after calling passengers into the bus, after several hours of waiting, the bus refused to start. then the driver had to tell everyone to enter the next bus, meanwhile the next bus was almost full. so there was this particular woman who boarded our bus, and I think she was in a hurry because her car also broke down, so she had to leave it behind for her driver.

so this woman got angry because the next bus was filled up and she will have to wait for another bus to full before she moves, so this woman started hurling abusive words at the driver(my oga) meanwhile this man is old enough to be her grandfather.

then I couldn't be standing and watching her insult the old man, I begged her to calm down that I will make sure I get her a taxi just to compensate her for wasting her time(I spoke to her in English). I never knew I opened the door for insult into my life. I was embarrassed and ridiculed by this woman because I am looking for my daily bread. I cried sotay everybody passing by started filling pity for me and begging me. here are what she said below.

"See this foolish thing telling me that he will get me a taxi, he's even speaking English, where did u see money to go to school? so u want me to know that u are learned abi? your generation has failed and u are also failing and u are not ashamed. ur mates are in school studying, some have graduated, and some have traveled abroad for their masters and u are here doing conductor, u are telling me u will get a taxi. I will feed ur generation, a good looking mofo, even my dogs will feed u, a failed human, u can never succeed"..

she even said some in Yoruba, I can't type the Yoruba words so I won't mix things up. all those words she said are still singing in my brain, am not sure I can take it off my brain.
she said things in Yoruba that will forever haunt me, mentally I am not stable again.

I only offered to help her with a taxi since we delayed her, but I got the all these? I have been indoor since I got home yesterday. I am just ashamed of myself, I dunno why.

pls what wrong have I done here?

what other jobs can i do to atleast save and pay my debts? especially this one I will pay in February ending?

depression is taking a toll.. the embarrassment was a mad one

I blame you for all those things that happened, why will you take all this insult from a woman and still feel let down about it oga be a man move on their life is like that mostly Yoruba women

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