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Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 4:59pm On Mar 30, 2020
Freelane33:
The question is did they get the girl for you or you got the girl by yourself )1) did you accept her because of the pregnancy or because you loved her (2) did you let her know your do and don’t before you started the flexing with her (3)do you really love ?(4) pls answer this question with sincerity so that I’ll know where to start . I’m not perfect just trynna help with my own little idea ? Actually what has happened has happened so and I don’t think things are beyond repair ,, you can still make correction to the problems on ground but answer my questions first .
They find the girl , I actually accept her because then I was confuse and pressure is too much from my sisters and my mum all she's a good she thing , I told her , I thought I love her but I don't think it's happening
Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 4:55pm On Mar 30, 2020
Freelane33:
The question is did they get the girl for you or you got the girl by yourself )1) did you accept her because of the pregnancy or because you loved her (2) did you let her know your do and don’t before you started the flexing with her (3)do you really love ?(4) pls answer this question with sincerity so that I’ll know where to start . I’m not perfect just trynna help with my own little idea ? Actually what has happened has happened so and I don’t think things are beyond repair ,, you can still make correction to the problems on ground but answer my questions first .
Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 4:23pm On Mar 30, 2020
cooooooks:
Don't marry who you don't know friends so that their smile won't annoy you.
I hope unmarried people will learn from this, at least date for sometime
Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 4:22pm On Mar 30, 2020
JOACHINpedro:
Are you cheating on your wife? shocked
I never cheat on her since I wed her but during courtship I do I newly came back then, a lot of woman was around me it's hard to say no
Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 4:20pm On Mar 30, 2020
Olunmercy56:
All you need how is good communication, patience and also go back to your first love when you both met
She will claim she know anytime you want to communicate with her at the end she made mistake
Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 4:18pm On Mar 30, 2020
Freelane33:
Okay Im here
Okay the thing is this , when I came back 2018 my mum and my sisters put pressure on me about the girl and marriage I refuse but at the end I agree on the condition that if we do courtship and If don't like her I will dump her or she don't like me let her move on but during that courtship she got pregnant for me because of flexing and all those thing that happened when you came back new after a long time abroad, now my problems is this she kind of girl that when borrow 1k from her , no matter amount of money you give her, she will be disturbing you for that 1k , she like to know everything you do or discussed with or even ur family, any single thing she tell her mum and my wife is a king of person that know this thing is not good she will do it after she will start shedding tears and saying sorry , that annoy me so much,she's not adventurous , she keep saying that she maybe the one that will stand me , can you imaging a girl that doesn't have job yet is saying that she will stand already made man like me because I have a little show down , let me stop it here
Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 3:52pm On Mar 30, 2020
Allexey:
Maybe you married the bone of your flesh


Did u guys spend quality time for the 12 months you were together?
You just came back from the abroad, and boom,you found a "wife"
No we live in different state for now
Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 3:51pm On Mar 30, 2020
Realmenlovetruly:
You guys didnt date right?


Ok



Let me ask you brother,



What was those things you see in her that makes you propose to her and even making her your wife?
Respect , honesty , caring ,they're still there but some characters I'm seeing now is very scaring
Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 3:48pm On Mar 30, 2020
Freelane33:
Hmm okay but if I’m to give you a piece of advice I will still need to know somethings ,I don’t know if you will be cool with me asking you the questions on here or you dm me . I’m not a relationship expert but I have a brief knowledge. I think I might be able to help . Awaiting your response
I'm new here and I don't know how to open pm, I will explain my turn off in the marriage so you can understand
Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 2:29pm On Mar 30, 2020
ibkayee:
Yikes

What's done is done sha.

What exactly does she do that makes you angry? Some details would help
I wish you could understand me, nothing special, I just totally lost it , I see her as a disturbances to me
Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 2:20pm On Mar 30, 2020
Freelane33:
Somethings were hidden , if you’re not ready to hit the nail on the head here then we are not ready tell you the bone of contention .. no cap
Bro nothing is hidden, all of a sudden I start losing interest
and everything about makes me angry
Romance › Re: Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 2:17pm On Mar 30, 2020
bigpicture001:
You guys did not date..?

Well, I will advice u get ur mind busy with something else aside your wife...like get very engaged with something( not side chick oo)

Another is you Mk friends that engage u in things outside your house...( not flings ooo)...y I say this is cuz maybe ur too focused on her nd little by little,u would start seeing wrongs in Tina sh does...that has been your p...

Again,like u said...sh is a good woman..u can also start putting ur mind nd focus much on the good side of her...e.g how enduring,supportive, patient,hard working,intelligent etc sh is sh will start to appear precious nd you will start to see her as priceless...

I strongly believe all the problem are in ur mind cuz u never mentions even one thing sh did bad....

Good luck
No we do not date at all
Romance › Please Your Advise Is Needed Here by Bennysam(op): 2:02pm On Mar 30, 2020
I meet my wife immediately I come back from abroad by end of 2018 and we got married this year January , the issue now is that everything she does makes me very angry , she's a good woman though I never let it show through my character , if I see her call my mood will change immediately, what will I do to change back to how I feel before I marry her
Romance › Re: . by Bennysam: 1:36pm On Mar 30, 2020
Please I want to create I thread for someyhing important that I need an advise but I don't know how to do it , can someone help me with that
Romance › Re: How Many Underwears Should A Guy Have? by Bennysam: 10:54am On Mar 28, 2020
As many as you can afford
Crime › Re: Fresh Attempts To Hack My Whatsapp By Them by Bennysam: 7:06am On Mar 17, 2020
How do I monitor someone on what's app
Romance › Re: Have you Noticed This...? by Bennysam: 2:29pm On Mar 15, 2020
It’s true , I have seen many
Crime › Re: Police Nab 3 With Human Skull In Lagos by Bennysam: 7:13pm On Mar 09, 2020
Na them , skull miners
Romance › Re: If You Caught Your Girlfriend Cheating With Proof by Bennysam: 10:27am On Jan 17, 2020
I will confront her , whatever she say will or do will determine if I will stay or not
Romance › Re: How Some Ladies Lose Out by Bennysam: 7:52pm On Jan 15, 2020
You are idiot and your write up is lame
Romance › Re: Everyone Has At Least One Type Of Alcohol You Don't Drink Anymore. by Bennysam: 6:27am On Dec 25, 2019
Mine was Red wine, that thing deal with me
Romance › Re: ‘I Stopped Dating Nigerian Women 6 Years Ago Because They Are Ungrateful by Bennysam: 8:57am On Nov 21, 2019
True talk
Romance › Re: She Rejected Him When He Was A Teacher by Bennysam: 8:33pm On Nov 10, 2019
All of you that comment is all useless, brother you have nothing to worry about because the guy knows the truth and the girl won’t do anything, she is fighting a lose battle
Romance › Re: Pretty Girl Waste School Fees Pics by Bennysam: 7:41pm On Nov 01, 2019
Waste of resources
Romance › Re: Do Women Also Experience Konji The Way We Men Does by Bennysam: 10:23am On Oct 31, 2019
Yes even more than men
Health › Re: Could This Be STD Or Bad Immune System? by Bennysam: 8:16am On Oct 29, 2019
Calm down your problem is anxiety
Romance › Re: I Don't Know If This Is The Right Place To Post This Savagery by Bennysam: 7:55pm On Oct 28, 2019
Just wow
Health › Re: Please Help, Small Painless Bumps by Bennysam: 6:50pm On Oct 15, 2019
Go and do std test
Romance › Re: When A Woman Cries After Sex, What Does It Mean? by Bennysam: 8:25am On Oct 06, 2019
She cheat on you , that's what she remembered while making love with yoy
Romance › Re: The Consequences Of Bad Combinations-daniel Valsanctus by Bennysam: 3:28pm On Sep 20, 2019
You are very wicked
Romance › Re: For The Sisters How Do You Cope If Got Dumped By Your Man? by Bennysam: 2:02pm On Sep 05, 2019
Somebody go die

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