funkmrflexx: We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents , we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old , she’s 22 . I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village . My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends . My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me . And I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes .I’ve spent even more than her father for her school. Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material . She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her . Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship
But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues . I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type . I don’t like hitting a lady expect once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone . Not me , not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her(we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel ) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign . So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out
So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over . So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry . My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself . Then my mom(she the type that always shouts at every body . The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na(If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) . That was the only thing my mom said . Then she sparked . Started shouting my mom . That she should stop talking to her like that that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home . So she carried her bag and started going home . Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way . She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry(na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her
The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry . At least she should have waited till we got home(this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me . Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said . After all the fracas . She went inside the room till we left . I just told everybody to just leave her.
So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue . But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) . And that he would talk to her .
I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue . My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom . But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)
I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her
So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)
But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her . In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allows his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat , a guy who takes care of her . Does everything for her .
I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house .
This woman will kill you out of anger and start crying after Do away with her before it's too later my friend
funkmrflexx: We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents , we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old , she’s 22 . I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village . My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends . My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me . And I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes .I’ve spent even more than her father for her school. Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material . She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her . Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship
But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues . I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type . I don’t like hitting a lady expect once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone . Not me , not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her(we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel ) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign . So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out
So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over . So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry . My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself . Then my mom(she the type that always shouts at every body . The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na(If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) . That was the only thing my mom said . Then she sparked . Started shouting my mom . That she should stop talking to her like that that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home . So she carried her bag and started going home . Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way . She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry(na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her
The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry . At least she should have waited till we got home(this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me . Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said . After all the fracas . She went inside the room till we left . I just told everybody to just leave her.
So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue . But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) . And that he would talk to her .
I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue . My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom . But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)
I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her
So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)
But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her . In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allows his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat , a guy who takes care of her . Does everything for her .
I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house .
You want to marry a woman like this , you will live to regret this mistake you're about to make
IME1: Please tell me who directed the pilot from the control tower? Who authorised it's landing at all? Who were the immigration officers who attended to the new arrivals? Who were the FAAN staff who were on "duty" at the airport
[quote author=DuwaRepublic post=89593748]Why are you people so full of lies, accept and tell the truth for once in your life, maybe your situation wouldn’t be as dire as it is now
DuwaRepublic: Why are you people so full of lies, accept and tell the truth for once in your life, maybe your situation wouldn’t be as dire as it is now
jabor4Naija: Are u God? How dare u mock a woman dat doesn't ve a child? I know a woman at agboju casco she had 7 children and 6 died in one day, d 7th one survived cos she was sent on an errand and 6 got burnt in d house. I ve said anyone dat mocks me is only reminding God of my situation cos i know my Lord will show up at his time
Why are you people quick to judge people ? She's the one that first gossip about her having a child now the table has turn and you're here blaming her , revenge they say is sweet
MelesZenawi: Amotekun had abolished itself. No need for Buhari stressing himself further.
But according to warriors on nairaland who are yet to have sound 2-square meal, Yorubas love themselves and Amotekun has come to staysleep.
An outfit as Useless as Amotekun shouldn't be given a breathing space to waste scarce resources.
It is on record that it was all the One million boys and Awawa miscreants that were rampaging west and making life unbearable for residents that SW leaders are recruiting as members of Amotekun.
What a shame.
Idiot stop writing nonsense about Yoruba , go and put useless north in other , north represent anything poor and sickness in Nigeria
bukatyne: Your mother did not contribute anything to your development and growth?
Till I finished school my mum do not pay any of my fees In school , I didn't say she don't contribute to my growth , most of basic thing in life they don't contribute money in it , take it or leave it
Mstick: Whenever I see topics like this I can't help but LOL! Many of the "men" that come online to bash women if their mothers didn't contribute in the families they wouldn't have gone to school, eaten or even be worth anything.
Now they're "grown" they think bashing women makes them cool and accepted.
My dear most of our mothers don't contribute anything In the family though we as their children still love them
Mstick: Whenever I see topics like this I can't help but LOL! Many of the "men" that come online to bash women if their mothers didn't contribute in the families they wouldn't have gone to school, eaten or even be worth anything.
Now they're "grown" they think bashing women makes them cool and accepted.
My friend most of our mothers don't contribute anything But we still love them though
tellsblinks: I entered school at an early age, and graduated at an early age, if things works well for me I would do my nysc then continue with my business at an early age too...
to answer your question, YES I WOULD BE ABLE
After your nysc please that ur business more two years before taking a wife I know what I'm saying but if you think otherwise then good lucj
tellsblinks: I have never been one and wouldn't be now!
if this is the case then would marry at 30
but I see marrying at 30 to be late
I hope you have a job and your own house or apartment , and ready to feed a woman and ur baby not when they ask you for money you will come to nairaland to tell us that your wife is a waster of money and resources
blessing12345: Never disrespect a lady that made sure you were okay when nobody else did
Gradually, we’re becoming a bunch of ingrates who seek instant gratification and are willing to use people to achieve our parochial interests without much recourse to how they feel. This is seen even more in situations where a lady out of love sticks and stays with a guy during his lows but gets dumped for another when he gets back on his feet.
But one social media user hopes the trend will be reversed and we’ll see a situation where ladies who stay and hold their broke men down are accorded the respect they deserve and kept to enjoy the fruit of their labor.
No Capp Low in a Facebook post wrote “Never disrespect a girl that made sure you were okay when nobody else did.”.
Effectively advising his fellow men to show gratitude and respect to the women who didn’t give up on them.
In other news, Men have been advised to choose a good mother for their kids and not a beautiful wife for themselves.
What if she's disrespectful and rude to you and your family Nigeria woman and there idiotic mentality
[quote author=rhymesu28 post=89400499]My people ,I greet you all.I am a married man with a child.We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks. I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.For almost two months now no salary.i have explained to her but she is not pleased with me,how should I go about this matter please?[/quote I don't know why after reading this your trash I got Very angry why can't some people be a man for once
Top1gun: So your father is the man from bourdillion ba ? Bro cos you are brain dead out of bigotry n chronic foolishness does not mean we all should act as foolishly as you have chosen.
Top1gun: Wait O are Igbos cursed that you see giant Yoruba before your were born n in your dream all tru your life or who how many times have you seen Yoruba compare themselves to the failure your represent ?
Na wa O n it is you people that complain Yoruba can not do without mentioning your tribe. What sort of foolishness is this for God's sake ?
He didn't mentione Yoruba here or has Yoruba changed name to
Why his matter won't tire you people, people like you two Is the problems we have in this world , you two can't think All you do is to insult those that think , two stupid idiot
Romance › Re: Mention That Person When U See For Heaven U Go Shout OJORO!!! by Bennysam: 10:19pm On Jun 01, 2020
I can't imagine how your heart was beating up and down
who directed the pilot from the control tower? Who authorised it's landing at all? Who were the immigration officers who attended to the new arrivals? Who were the FAAN staff who were on "duty" at the airport 
says it all.