₦airaland Forum

mickyeddi:
Black people are so evil and wicked.

It will take several generations for African inferiority complex to be wiped out completely..... I pity you.

mickyeddi:
Libya is an Arab country in Africa, it's not a black country.

Not true...all countries in Africa are black...Arabs are black. Let me advice you as a friend.... stopwatching bbc, cnn and Western media....they are the ones that instilled inferiority complex in u....(pls don't be offended), they have a subtle way of doing it and it's part of their colonial strategy....

Rwanda is a great African country as is Ghana and Nigeria... Nigeria is a great country actually just that it has 200m people which makes it seem unmanageable compared to UK that has just 66m

TempleHouse:
What is so important in UK that people celebrated relocation or visitation ?

This is the general mentality of the BLACK PEOPLE who had obsessed with travelling abroad as a prestige.

Many people in Africa are better placed than many British people, yet it's ridiculous that people still want to relocate with the erroneous impression to pick Pounds on the street !

And brutish French and German companies are fighting themselves to win business in Africa

Zooposki:
Black men are more terrible. You guys can’t even come together to build a functioning society.

Not true. Lybia was great and functional until USA bombed it. Same as Sierra Leone until UK bombed it. SA was brutal because British thieves wanted to drive out blacks from their land. Meanwhile France always tries to install their puppet leader....

lavamaestro:
You don't need to chase a woman for sex. That's y there are women that can be paid for that. If you don't like women , then don't bother going for companionship or a relationship, buy sex and go. It isn't hard. A prostitute has already itemized herself to be sold as a sex object. My problem is believing and trying to make all women into objects to be owned.

Women love sex as men do but that doesn't mean that they lose self control or start begging or worse still invest time and money just to get it. Why is that? Cause there is easy supply from men and that makes the demand of sex from women less.

You are right in ur second paragraph. It's nature's gift to women up to a certain age.... that easy supply doesn't last forever.... each woman has her window to make the most of it... some prostitute away their prime (guys too not just girls) and others make wise use of it.

But by and large the thrust of ur argument is valid.... guys are desperate.... but I think this is because monogamy has been taught instead of polygamy. And also greed...

At every given point, a woman has AT least 7 guys lined up to date her... the vast majority just want sex tho.... this skew is nature.... that's just how it is...

lavamaestro:
Every part of your body has bacteria so it makes no sense. And just because women chase you doesn't change the fact that most men chase women than women chase men.

Men do not chase women for being women.... they only chase sex they can get from the woman. If its a relationship - both people chase themselves and agree to date themselves....

Also men chase women in an equal number as women chase men.... women are just more coded with their chasing so they aren't called ashewo....dassal

Also women love sex just as much as men... they just coded in how they pursue it....

UyaiIncomparabl:
But, what is with you guys and over 30 years old women? The earlier you men had stopped this, the better. Well, it is Nairaland anyways. Anything goes. In the outside world, it is otherwise. They get married all Saturdays.

They get married every Saturday yes but it's not going to be only them during the guys lifetime (but a younger girl can negotiate lifetime exclusivity).... no man will agree to only hv an over 30 woman when he can get a younger more attractive babe (side chicks)....

That over 30s can get married is not in doubt. So long as the over30 girl understands its not going to be only her then its fine. Entitled over 30s still demand monogamy from their husband but it won't happen cos nature can't be cheated.

A fully grown over 30 girl can't expect the benefits of the patriarchy (provision) when they denied the husband his patriarchal rights and instead gave it to boyfriends! So no guy stresses himself for over 30s... they gotta be bring moni to the household

And they will be expected to contribute (a young girl can very easily negotiate that she won't contribute anything and many guys will be fine with it cos she's in her prime)...

Hence its in a girls best interest to lock down a rich man early.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Women are meant to be pampered and shouldn't be stressed. We messed up with the natural order by biting more than we could chew. I hope things go back to normalcy soon.

A man will only take stress for young well brought up girls with good character in her early 20s not for used up girls that are 31 that had bleeped around looking for who to dump their financial responsibilities on. Get it?? Otherwise what does a man get in return for the stress?? Secondly the economy has changed and its ni longer how it was in bible times..

But I agree with you both men and women messed up the natural order

UyaiIncomparabl:
You have just confirmed my suspicion that I have had about you for a while. You're ignorant. How many sub-woke men use sexx toys? Do you use sexx toys or you just want to be funny, silly or both? If you are insecure and you lack game to chase women to get the coochie, just say it, and we will see how you can be helped. Further checks even show that men are the highest instigators and patronisers of sex. If you doubt me, check the Olosho thread on the Romance section and go see men who should be grandfathers parading themselves there asking for joints where they can get coochies for a hefty price.



Gonohrrea says "hi". Just don't make sure to come here and solicit for funds when they finally dump you and you go back to the trenches after you must have exhausted your funds on treating all the STDs in this world. I pity your end.



When you start approaching 50 and your system starts malfunctioning, you'll need a woman. Mark my words today being the 5th of January and quote me back here in 50 years if this forum still exists or you and I haven't left. You'll regret it. You need a woman. No threats here, man.

1. Outside Nigeria plenty men use intimacy gadgets.

2. I use lots of multilayer protection so no std- that can't be used to scare me....

3. Nah when I'm 50, I will go to an elderly people's home in North America or my children will take care of me....

UyaiIncomparabl:
After God sent them out of the garden of Eden, what commands did he give them specifically? That's if you even read the Bible.

Increase of pain in childbirth does not necessarily mean that a woman can never work....of should not work and make contributions.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Of course, and that exception is for me. Other women's choices may be different. Love is usually not the first thing on my list when considering a spouse. At least, not anymore. Been there, done that.

It never was... marriage for a woman is a calculated decision...

UyaiIncomparabl:
You should even be happy you'll find a woman to share in your imaginary wealth. Otherwise, cheers to a lonely life. You all need us after all.

1. Woke men use sexxx toys in lieu of chasing gals up and dan.

2. I have about 150 girlfriends as I speak and I share my money among them... so they are sharing in my wealth already.

3. I don't need a woman biko..... women need men more than men need women because you desire financial security....

UyaiIncomparabl:
God cursed you guys to work, till the ground and be full-time providers. Ours is just to support IF needed. Do you understand?

There's where u get it wrong. Adam fends for himself and eve fends for herself...

UyaiIncomparabl:
Na for una pocket. It doesn't exist in the real world.

Reality is dawning on you lot lolz! I built alone and no leech ("wife" )who holds a degree, has hands legs and brain can steal my sweat from me using her body or some ridiculous bible verses and judeo christian threats!

bigpicture001:
It is not fiction... My said gf works with a federal University and earns 87k..... She actually changed after our very well detailed financial involvement date/meeting.... Doesn't pick my call anymore...

If she had agreed we will hit the alter this Easter..though I read through all the pages..I saw arears where I erred and places where I am right...sh is not on this forum to see these

I really thank everyone on their hard thought responses...

It's cases like urs that made me adjust my belief system a bit.... if you had been chasing 5 girls at once or entered relationships with 5 different girls at once and this happened you would simply shift to the remaining....

Women do this all the time I.e. backing out last minute...

The problem is men are threatened with hell for having multiple girlfriends (risk management).... my reason for having multiple gfs is for risk management but Christianity scares ppl out of reason by threatening them with lake of fire/hell etc

Hence I had to revise my beliefs to include a polygamist approach done in fear of God (I.e. the girls in my concubine must be born again christians so as not to defile the temple of God which we are)....

Monogamy isn't the best for a man yet its instilled in ppl from youth....

Nyascobar1414:
hahahahaaa....
I'm attracted to the opposite sex, thats normal.. But Ion have anything to do with them IF am not ready to marry...
I have also turn down many girls, so it a win win.. When I turn them down, they now claim like they hate me... Ladies value mens attention, that why they post all those naked stinky pussy on media... Just that you have been able to see niggas that beg and chase the other gender...
Me, Ion do that, instead they chase me, which I hate it, cos they will look desperate and weak..
Let me tell you, most men dont love women for sex... That why you see men after marrying the so called wife, especially after pregnancy, they leave her and go for the next hot girl..
So, most men beg ladies for sex disguising it as love...

Thats why some real niggas after sex they will hate you.. Cos that what they wanted. Not love...

Not all men chase or beg ladies..
Its only weak, pussy ass niggas..

When I just remember that any beautiful girl that I fancy is just like another human(girl that menstruate, pussy still has bacteria, smells).. Its likewise a turnoff for me..

You should bcome polygamous....so many guys lose frame, become desperate etc bxos they were sold the lie of monogamy....i believe a person can be polygamous without offending God if its practiced right e.g. all polygamous partners must be born again Christians.... Solomon and so many Kings had so many wives and concubines....

Nyascobar1414:
hahahahaaa....
I'm attracted to the opposite sex, thats normal.. But Ion have anything to do with them IF am not ready to marry...
I have also turn down many girls, so it a win win.. When I turn them down, they now claim like they hate me... Ladies value mens attention, that why they post all those naked stinky pussy on media... Just that you have been able to see niggas that beg and chase the other gender...
Me, Ion do that, instead they chase me, which I hate it, cos they will look desperate and weak..
Let me tell you, most men dont love women for sex... That why you see men after marrying the so called wife, especially after pregnancy, they leave her and go for the next hot girl..
So, most men beg ladies for sex disguising it as love...

Thats why some real niggas after sex they will hate you.. Cos that what they wanted. Not love...

Not all men chase or beg ladies..
Its only weak, pussy ass niggas..

When I just remember that any beautiful girl that I fancy is just like another human(girl that menstruate, pussy still has bacteria, smells).. Its likewise a turnoff for me..

Very nice response....

UyaiIncomparabl:
You will be finished.

I still have time jare. Let me flex small. When I get to 40, I will reason marriage.

Ur finished...

UyaiIncomparabl:
35 this year.

Ur finished! Lol.... but to be fair guys are finished too at 45.....

lavamaestro:
And it's nature that makes men shame, disrespect and abuse women online. And not only young girls are approached. I won't even argue with you on that.

It's only young girls that are approached and that guys are willing to spend on and do crazy things for.... the older girls are only approached by guys who don't believe for one reason or another that they can get the young girls.....

lavamaestro:
Thank you oh. The number of men that approach an average Nigerian lady that is supposed to be "useless" is baffling. Married men, broke men, men with money, all of them. Then, when she rejects them, they would feel bad. Tell them you have someone else, they would be saying it doesn't matter. Accept and cheat on them with another man that says the same thing, they would want to die. With the way men can't take cheating, I'm sure that's why they don't menstruate and give birth. They won't be able to handle it.
Funny that these same men that claim a Nigerian girl is materialistic and a gold digger just because a richer man approaches them and they accept are still the ones that go about sowing their seeds like dogs. They cheat for no reason and even lose money in the process but shame women for cheating on them for money. Like if the said money is offered to them, they would reject.

There's nothing like "cheating"....

lavamaestro:
Thank you oh. The number of men that approach an average Nigerian lady that is supposed to be "useless" is baffling. Married men, broke men, men with money, all of them. Then, when she rejects them, they would feel bad. Tell them you have someone else, they would be saying it doesn't matter. Accept and cheat on them with another man that says the same thing, they would want to die. With the way men can't take cheating, I'm sure that's why they don't menstruate and give birth. They won't be able to handle it.
Funny that these same men that claim a Nigerian girl is materialistic and a gold digger just because a richer man approaches them and they accept are still the ones that go about sowing their seeds like dogs. They cheat for no reason and even lose money in the process but shame women for cheating on them for money. Like if the said money is offered to them, they would reject.

Only young girls are approached and that's just because of nature that's all....

Same way girls like guys with money... its all nature.

Nothing personal

NigeriaIsGreat:
Egbon Sir! Please stop disgracing us please. They would think all Men are dumb upstairs sir

Please rest sir! You will see who will share or take your responsibility as a man. You don win sir!

I won't reply u anymore. Bye

Kwinesther:
You don't seem to know what you're saying, I have realised most men only have ego in abundance but are so mentally weak and lack what is called intelligence so I won't reply your mentions anymore. Bye!

Bye.

Kwinesther:
Last time I checked young guys have sugar mummies that are even in their 50's. You don't seem to know what you're even saying. Bye!

Sugar mummy is a construct of feminists designed to make them feel equal to men in this regard....

No need to argue just observe ur own results.

Kwinesther:
Typical Nigerian mentality... But the 35+ wives does not cheat with younger men while the husband come to nairaland to wail or commit suicide as usual abi. I have realised that people that do certain stuffs (especially cheating) thinks every other person do it. So you are saying daddy kumuyi that married his wife at age 50 typically has younger girlfriends he sleeps with? Just speak for yourself oga.

Younger men do not find 35+ year old girls attractive. Know this and know peace. Feminists cannot change nature.

No need to argue with u....

The truth will speak for itself.

Kwinesther:
Your sole opinion!

Its not "my sole opinion"... all the girls that marry at 35+, the husband has much younger girlfriends... you cant cheat nature....you fit try if you want and see the results for yourself.... men spend money on young girls (you cannot annul the force of nature with logic).... a word is enough for the wise!

Kwinesther:
Not true in anyway. You are funny, so because a woman is in her thirties or close she should just pick any guy that comes her way (and ignore obvious red flags) ? See every lady cannot get married in their twenties oga Bashiru, same way some people bought their first car, built their houses, had their child(ren) at certain age. Destiny and time will decide that.

The ones that do not get married when young should not expect nor demand lifetime exclusivity from the man....

NigeriaIsGreat:
Where is it written that a woman must share part of your responsibility as a man?

If you don't have money as a Man with good mental state and character to be the head of a family. You have no business discussing marriage in the first place.

Marriage to old expiring hags... im happy having young hot girlfriends - good luck with ur silly marriage.... monogamous cage....

ParpahSeventy:
I didn't see your previous comments or his previous comments, there is no responsibility written anywhere that a man must pay all the bills in the house, if the poster wanted to share with his wife then you should know it's his thing and that's the way the marriages in the western world that most of you like copying are made, the forefathers that took all the responsibilities treated their wives as subordinate not a partner, there are so many married men littered in the society choking with poverty all in the name of "marriage is meant for men not boys", most of you just sit down and conceive an idea of who a man is and who is not, do you read books, learn other languages or travel at all?
Or you sit in whatever environment you live in and talk about who is a man and who is not?
The forefathers you are referring to treated their wives like subordinates not a partner, they can never in this world go to the kitchen to dish food, you serve it to them and abide totally by their words, they will never in God's name do any chores, they can marry any woman they want, they don't consult their wives on many decisions before taking it, will the ladies of today agree to that?
Am sure you will criticize that, but that's what a man is, for those of you who care.

I like the bolded. Many men have died before their time because "they want to be the man of the house." by shouldering it all!

For your last sentence - dont mind them, they want to eat their cake and have it.

As i said in my previous posts, marriage is a contract - and the contract has been renegotiated over the past 100 years at least.

NigeriaIsGreat:
Are you a virgin? With the rate at which fathers are raping their daughters, maids and neighbours. With the rate of rapist and peadephile you still have mouth to call a lady non virgin. At least ladies still have sense enough not to sleep with their teens sons unlike we Men

Nobody is pursuing you sir. There's no late commer in marriage. Work hard enough as a man and be financially independent coupled with your mental state

Stop looking for who to share your responsibility with. You are a man sir. I believe your parents must have educated you on the responsibility expected of a man in the society and family. My sister got married 3 years ago and she never shared a penny with her husband. She got married to a man and not a boy sir. My friend uncle got married last year and he said his uncle never discussed that with his wife. He's fully incharge of the family upkeep as the Man. Marriage is meant for Men and not for boys who's looking up and down for who to share their responsibility with

The last time i checked, our fathers, forefathers and present men of this generation whom alot had air their view here didn't die taking their responsibility

The only thing that kills a man including women is over joyous which Yoruba refer to as AYO.

Historically, taking your responsibility as a man has not and will never kill a man. Except a lazy ass man who shouldn't have any business with marriage for the time being. Not until he works on himself and finances

I am a virgin and I expect to marry a virgin too not some used up retired ex oloshos demanding bearing ov financial responsibility at the age or 31 as a right.... it doesn't work that way.... She should go and call all her numerous previous boyfriends to bear financial responsibility and leave an innocent God fearing man alone!

If a woman is demanding a man should bear financial responsibilities she has to bring something to the table... no free lunch....child care is one such thing, followed by good character, youth, ability to raise godly kids and then she should raise some funds to assist in supporting herself...

UyaiIncomparabl:
Will they keep him company till he starts hunching and growing serious grey hairs? Will they be there when all chips are down and no one to fall back to?

See, getting married is a blessed thing. Don't try to force your cursed and sick opinion down our throats.

Have u ever heard of elderly people's homes? They exist thru out North America.... he will go there and he will be happy!