Jodha: 95% of men think money is all women want...and that women will flock around them if they have money. Well I'm sorry to burst yhur bubble they're actually hard-working and contented ladies out there...and if money is all yhu have to offer then yhu have nothing to offer..
Guys should learn to work on their personality, attitude, general approach. I'm not saying yhu shouldn't have money ..but if yhu think having money is all there is...or if yhu have money yhure a total catch and ladies will flock around yhu regardless of how yhu behave...then yhure wrong.
Osashalom: FOUR TYPES OF CONFUSED MEN IN THIS WORLD.
1. A man who after impregnating a lady, he denies being the owner of the pregnancy. Later, After the lady has struggled alone and now the child is a bit older, he now wants to be involved with the child. If the child was not yours while still in the womb, why is it suddenly yours now??
2. A man who doesn't want to raise another man's child but goes ahead and marries a woman who has a child and tells her to leave the child at her parent's home, instead of simply marrying a woman without a child at all.
3. A man who marries a graduate with a degree or a diploma only to tell her to quit job and take care of children. If you wanted a housewife, why not marry a grade 2 dropout instead of killing dreams of someone who has worked so hard to reach that far?
4. A man who is a drunkard but goes ahead to marry a church girl and make her life a living hell. If you are a drunkard, marry your fellow drunkard and drink yourselves to madness without stressing anyone.
Truvelisback: Good day, Fellas. I wanna talk abt Why Some men or most men feel very sad when they hear or see that their wives Keep giving birth to female children. Note: The major reason is that they want a male child who would keep the name of his family. As for the female children, they will be married off. Some men never intend to have more than 3 or 4 children but because a male child is missing and their eagerness to get a male child by fire, by force, prompted to keep impregnating and giving birth to more children they never intend to have.
Truvelisback: Good day, Fellas. Why do ladies feels they are doing men a favour regarding sex? But they rarely see ur spendings, ur effort to meet their needs as a favour.
tantan: i have this lady that i love dearly for marriage, i send her recharge cards of 1500 after evry 3 days but d text i receive is tank you. she doesnt call and i do all the calling ant texting daily but i later decided to quit becos wen i cal her dat am coming to thier house she said NO but she told her family members that she loves me dearly. am confused. but to be candid am from the north and most of the ladies in the north expect u to do all the calling ant texting. THATS REDICULOUS. how will u know that she truly loves u. THIS IS A PAIN IN THE ASS, I NEED ADVISE PLS, AM IN LIMBO.
My boyfriend who I once posted here that he he didn't want to leave my house after coming to visit for the weekend has not called me after he left. I have called him severally after that and he picked on a few occasions and said he was busy with work. What actually happened is we have been dating for close to 3 months now and sometimes spend times in each other's place but for me I have never spent more than a day at his place because I love my privacy and when he came to my apartment for a weekend hangout he refused to go, the day he eventually left he came back by 11pm calling that he wants to spend one more night at my place. The next day I took the bold step and told him to please leave my house because he was going against the arrangement we had to only spend at most the weekend in each other's place. Now ever since he left he has not been calling me. Could it be that he is no longer interested?
IamHeWrites: A Nigerian-based lesbian has sparked reactions online for recording an altercation with her mother over her sexuality, Igbere TV reports.
Many online users have rebuked the lady, identified as Amara, for recording a conversation that should have something private between the lady and her mum.
In the 1 minute long video obtained by Igbere TV, Amara could be heard saying,
Her mother responded that she [the mother] was the one at fault before Amara later ended the video.
While many believe that no part of the video that Amara shared online proves that her mother is homophobic or violent towards her, many believe Amara is trying to use the video as evidence to seek asylum in a country that protects homosexuals in Nigeria is not a country that does.
It was gathered that Amara was sent abroad when she was 15 years old before returning to her home as a 'lesbian.'
See reaction below;
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hashbag1: Nlanders, I have been married for 9 years now, amidst several incidences that gave me suspicions over my wife's infidelity. The one that happened of recent gave me nothing more than great suspicion over any other.
My daughter and son got infection, they were admitted into the hospital. On this faithful day, I was there with them and I left the hospital in the afternoon to get something for them to eat, I got back with the food and quickly rushed down to my office to tidy some work. I felt hungry and decided to drive out, on my way to the restaurant leads to the hospital, I was in traffic when I put a call through to my wife whom I asked how she was coping and how the kids were doing, while on call with her, I heard sounds of car horns so I asked if she was out, she said yes that she was going to get water across the stree, so i was like you shouldnt have stressed yourself since the house maid was with her, next thing she yelled at me saying why am I making ascertion as to who should go get the water or not, I was like but that isnt a big deal to ask, she was like well the house girl have been the one running errands all day, I responded saying instead of yelling at me, you would have just responded by saying the above.
As a responsible and concerned father, I decided to suspend dinner and branch at the hospital which took me 8 mins to get there because of traffic. On getting to the hospital, lo and behold, my wife was not there, just the kids and the house maid. I asked the house maid where madam was, she said she stepped out without saying where she was going. I immediately put a call through to her. "Babes where are you at, just got here now and you are not here". She immediately hung up on me, I called back, she didnt pick, called her again didn't pick, waited few mins and called, she picked and yelled "why are you looking for me" I was like but you claimed you went to go get water but its been up to 15mins and you are not here yet, next thing she said was I'm in a uber car, Wow uber car when you just said you went across the street to get water, how does being in uber car relate to that. I requested a video call, I hung up the normal call and called her on whatsapp call, she didn't pick, I called her back again on normal call and said you aren't picking, she responded saying am in uber car now, call me on video again, I did but she still didnt pick. So I decided not to bother since declaring her whereabout seems frutile. She called back on normal call saying she was on her way home to pick some her items to quickly do an advertising shoot to model to her customers in the hospital room, that she didnt want me to get mad at her reason why she didn't tell me before she left, I was like its not a big deal telling me that after which I have found out she never did go out there to buy water.
Husbands and fathers in the house, in this kind of situation, what could have been your thought? As for me, something was not just right, and the most damning part of all these is leaving the kids at the mercy of just the house maid, I feel if there is something she is hiding from me and leaving the kids like that is what the issue of trust has led us to, I am left in amazement and total disappointment.
Ur wife must cheat because women and prick are like butter and bread....I don Bleep many people wives
binarymachine: Come to think, how did I even meet you? First time I met you, the world seemed not to exist, nothing else matters with just the two of us in the cosmos. The world can move as fast as it wants, or it can wait, it is no concern of mine, so long as I have you beside me.
Everything seems to revolve around this person, you dream about them, in the day your thoughts are filled with them. Even when you are alone, you just laugh by yourself when you remember their face or something loving about them. And yes the mushy feelings that comes with love are the most beautiful; that butterfly that flutters in your stomach when you see the one your heart loves and of course your heart does multiple backflips when you just look at the person and you cannot just help it but to thank God for gifting you with this wonderful person of a human. And because you have this person’s love, you consider yourself the most lucky individual on earth.
The relationship progresses after the confession of feelings and profession of love and one day, you wake up from the bed, or halt midway while dicing an onion in the kitchen, and look up to your partner and then ask the question “how did I meet you anyway?”.
This is really funny, because it is legit and real. One minute we are head over heels with someone. The next minute, we cannot wait to have them out of our hair. They become the most annoying individual on earth. If you are in a relationship already you will find this is true. I mean, maybe before you were her knight in shining armour and she was the damsel in distress, but now she is a fierce woman and does not really need your help as she once did. And that seems to irk you a lot.
See, we tend to fall for the perfect image or character of the person we love. There is this ideal picture we have painted as a result of love, we have carved them out and placed them on the epicentre of our minds. We think the person to be flawless; this comes with emotional love though, it tends to blind us and impede our reasoning even though there are glaring evidences right in front of us.
So we go on and love that character in our heads, forgetting they are humans like us and then one day we wake up, viola!! The scales fallen from our eyes, our feet has touched earth again. We are jerked back to reality and then when we look at the love of our lives, we begin to ask ourselves “how on God’s green earth did I even choose this person?”
“Why?” Because we are back to reasoning, we now realise that the breath of the love of our lives, doesn’t smell like strawberries anymore or roses in bloom, rather they stink like that of a goat. We find that their snore even makes us wake up at night to ask them what is happening. We look at them and we are shocked. We do not know what is happening, how we met this person, how to remedy the situation or cope with the changes; Relax, it happens.
If you see getting into a relationship or you want to let yourself love, you can do yourself a favor by letting go of image of a perfect person in order not to be disappointed. I mean getting to know someone and adjusting to that person and their way of life is one hell of a work, but then, you do not want to sit down to cross off all you had on your list about your ideal person.
It is okay to have an idea of the kind of person you want, but what is not okay is you thinking that the ideal man or woman will be prince or princess chamming; and I mean charming in all sense of the word.
By now it should be no news to you that no one is perfect. Everyone is flawed one way or the other. Everyone has that streak which is going to be annoying to you. If you are looking to get a perfect partner, you are not going to see one. In fact, you will have to wait your whole lifetime to get one, and yet you will not see any; I kid you not. So in order not to get disappointed or box yourself in the corner, let go of those perfect pictures in your head, l’ve and love.
Now, this is not going to stop the surprises from popping up in your relationship. It is not going to stop your partner from farting and telling you they have lactose intolerance. Rather, it will make you look up at them and ask “how did I meet you anyway”, and they will shrug, and you will look into their eyes and realize how fortunate you are to have them in your life while you both laugh at each other, indeed, love happens at first sight. Source: https://flipmemes.com/2021/10/30/is-love-at-first-sight-really-love/
Result of Madu Stephanie Chiemela in the just released 2021 West African Examination Council (WAEC) results has surfaced online and has been the talk of the day.
Stephanie checked her result on the same day it was released and found that she got As in all her subjects.
She also aced her JAMB exam and the Post UTME exam she wrote in Federal University Owerri, FUTO.
Her result sheets have been shared online, earning her praise from social media users.
Godoverevery: After doing alot of research online to see if UNICEF or Government really care about a boy child..... i found out nobody cares.
This a thread to let female folks understand the hate towards them now isn't something that just pop up from nowhere but more psychological which is cause by neglect from society and harsh laws toward men.
There are several millions of campaigns in every part of the world towards fighting for the girl child....infact there are millions of activist fighting everyday for this agenda but no one is talking about the boy child.
We talk about rape,molestation,child marriage etc which are very bad toward the girl child but what about child labour which is actually what most boys up north face everyday. Does it means mothers don't love there son?? or they feel is right for a boy to be on the street survivaling on his own from tender age of 10??
Are we saying having little boys doing labour in site, boy soldiers in war zone,sleeping on the street, going through molestation in hands of there oga etc is a lesser evil compare to rape,child marriage etc.
Everyone talks about what a girl child pass through in the north but not for one day has anyone spoken about what boys are facing which is much more......a boy of 5yrs in the north is on the street already doing various things to survive infact he can even be taking money to his mother and sisters to feed.....some are taken by boko haram forced into fighting a war.
We all talk about chibok girls but no one has talked about some boys book haram kidnapped years back and force them to join the war...those who were not willing to join were executed instantly.
Am not trying to bring a gender war here am just trying to bring this to people mind...the likes of tonto dike, iyabo ojo etc who have sons should also speak up for the boy child....isn't only the girl child that needs protection.
There are several laws created everyday to protect the female gender all over the world even absurd ones (like Ronaldinho paying 13k £ to a ex gf every month as maintenance fee) which is a Brazilian law and Canada is also trying to pass the same law.....how won't this cause hate??
Even though most of this laws are created by fellow men who i think are just simply foolish but ladies need not to exploit it..
Government of the world need to create laws to protect men/boy as well.
Things need to change else this hate will keep on increasing...government and society need to start advocating the boy child rights too so this feel of ño one cares which is transforming to hate towards female gender will stop.
The same way we are condemning rape of minors and child marriages let condemn child labour, boy soldiers, let condemn why the society feel comfortable with seeing minor boys on the streets.
KINGJAJA888: Nairalanders Pls Help a fellow brother with advice so I don't go the wrong route Pls. I'm about to purchase two plots of land at Omagwa Airport road PortHarcourt for 1.4M.
Pls My PortHarcourt people is it advisable? How promising is the environment in terms of development? Help Me with advice and opinions pls. I'm scared of making a wrong investment Pls. I feel it's too far. What do you think?
The Federal Capital Territory Police Command is asking members of the general public to assist the police with useful information that will lead to the safe reunion of a missing 50-year-old man, Lucky Imoni, with his family, Reports.
From The Information Gathered By , Spokesperson of the command, DSP Josephine Adeh, in a statement on Wednesday, said Mr Imoni was last seen on Saturday, November 20, after he left home to an unknown destination.
"According to his Wife Mrs. Imoni Omonigho ‘F’, Lucky Imoni, who is 50years old speaks English and Esan language; fair in complexion, short in height, no tribal marks and wore a blue jean three-quarter and a dark navy blue T-shirt with multiple strips and hails from Esan North-East Local Government of Edo State," the statement read.
"Lucky Imoni was last seen at home, house 13 Redeem Estate Lugbe and left to an unknown destination on Saturday 20th November, 2021 at about 1pm.
"While the Police is intensifying effort to locate and possibly reunite him with members of his family, well-meaning members of the public with useful information about his where about, should either contact the nearest Police Station or call any of the following FCT Police Command emergency help lines:
"08032003913, 08061581938, 07057337653, and 08028940883. Or contact his family on this line 08037671656, 08039128454, 08032709937, 08033172786 and 08064723525.
Celebrities › Re: Angela Okorie: It’s A Dangerous Thing To Build Up A Man Of Low Integrity by Bigpapi: 7:57am On Nov 26, 2021
