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you got a bird of your feather then you coming here for advice, does NL look like poultry to you? Bro abeg settle your lady privately joor deafeyez: |
NA GOD WIN The land is getting GREENER |
HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A LOVE SCORNED This guy is brutally hurt and he will hurt another lady in turn. |
CRAYON For area boys and soldiers |
CARS WILL BE ON RENTALS.... so no need to BUY. that is the REAL FUTURE... #TIMETRAVELER |
some kind of stories we hear..... hmmm.... it looks so superstitious but we can not overrule the fact that someone experienced it. All we can say is GOD HELP US. |
Deliver the message from God And LEAVE. ITS EASY Omuneizzy6: |
NO NEED TO CLICK LINK.... Here I am a student Pastor. I have a burden as regards to my relationship and love life, that I would love to share with you. I seriously need advice and help. I haven’t actually been finding it easy in this aspect, every move I make in this area has always ended in failure. I haven’t been able to meet a faithful and trustworthy sister. I am in my early thirties, and by God’s grace, am still chaste, I vowed that I will remain celibate till I say I do. Unfortunately, it appears this vow has been the issue I am having with my love life, Once I meet a sister that appears good, things will be going well till at a point when without apparent reasons, we will start having problems. By God’s grace, I do my best to the best of my ability to take care of anyone of them I enter into a relationship with, But, I can’t just place my fingers on exactly what causes the rift each time. It happened severally till I met one, who indirectly expressed her desire that we should get have sex, but I categorically told her of my vows. Then she left, but before she left, she told me that if I hold on to my chastity, I may find it difficult to get married. And if I happen to finally succeed in getting married, that I might marry a hypocrite who wouldn’t actually turn down my request, but will still be doing her own things codedly while I will be courting her. What she told me appeared to be nothing but the TRUTH. After relating my ordeal to some of my friends, they told me that most of those girls were not actually bad nor immoral; but that they were afraid as to whether I am virile at all because a lot of Christian brothers hide their sterility and sexual dysfunction under the guise of chastity and celibacy. That some sisters wouldn’t want a story that touches after marriage. Therefore they try to ascertain a brothers virility in such manners before saying I DO. But this excuse did not answer the question why most of the ones I courted were actually playing double games and infidelity. I took a break for some time as it has to do with relating to the opposite sex for the purpose of marriage; until I met a wonderful and committed sister. I tried to establish a relationship with her, it was actually difficult to convince her at first, but later she started responding but yet did not give me her consent. So we just became friends. As time went on I started discovering she was being secretive and hiding a lot of things. Whenever I tried to probe or ask her personal questions, she will become defensive and irritated. I calmed down and applied patience. At a point I made up my mind it was either she gives me a definite answer or I quit the friendship. Because I discovered she was using me material wise, as well as friend zoned me. It was at this point that she opened up to me that she was once in a relationship with a guy who jilted her. The guy met her when she was 17. I told her that since they weren’t in a relationship any longer, that shouldn’t be the reasons for declining my proposal for a defined relationship. Afterall I wasn’t yet forcing her for marriage. Still, she didn’t say anything definite but left me hanging. I then decided to forget her. Yet she wouldn’t let me be; she kept calling me back. I, therefore, did a small investigation and discovered her ex, was still seeing and visiting her; despite telling her they cannot marry. When I confronted her with my findings, she started defending herself again and picked quarrels with me, but later admitted the guy was still seeing her. Little did I know, that they were involved sexually. I resolved to quit finally on finding out this. She cried and begged me; insisting she was still a virgin BUT actually admitted they were having some other sexual experiments and activities. But to tell you the truth Dear Davina, apart from this issue and her weakness, she is a wonderful person. The truth of the matter was that she was sort of trapped. I finally made up my mind and left her; since she was finding it difficult to leave the guy. But all through the time I left, she kept calling and begging me. She even requested that if I could become more intimate with her, it would help her forget this other guy. I stuck to my resolve never to get closer intimately; because I knew the implications of what she was requesting. I know the other guy involved with her and while this guy was deceiving her; he was busy planning his wedding to another lady. The scales fell from her eyes when this guy wedded another lady July last year. Since then, she has been asking me to forgive her and accept her back. like I said earlier, she is not a bad person; that I know, apart from her double game and sexual involvement with this guy. A lot of persons encouraged me to take her back since she has repented; even my mum also thinks so. Secondly, I know I love her. So you see? This is a huge burden for me now. 1. As a Pastor, do you think I need a person with such a history? Am saying this for the sake of my ministry. 2. Do you think she might be unfaithful if I marry her since sex is her weakness? 3. Some people may have known something about her past, is she suitable for me as a Pastor? 4. Do you think she might later get involved with this guy again if I marry her since he was the one that took her innocence though she says she is still a virgin; penetration-wise. |
bro sorry if I sound HARSH.... truth is BITTER and and JUSTICE IS BLIND. ALERT07: |
UNIVERSITY is enough o.... they should add the study to NYSC CURRICULUM... staying back in school is brutal torture. They should just give us a book on life and entreprenuership when we are collecting our call up letters and tell us that we are expected to read it during NYSC. shikena |
Scholar Scholar, if you LOVE the girl.... LEAVE HER. IT IS CLEAR YOU CAN NOT UPGRADE HER BUT HER BEAUTY DECEIVES YOU. WHEN SHE SAID YOU ARE HER FIRST, I HOPE IT IS NOT SEXUAL INTERCOURSE SHE WAS REFERRING TO O? ANYWAY, WHY NOT GO FOR YOUR TYPE SINCE YOU ARE LOOKING FOR READY-MADE? IF A GIRL IS IMMATURE AND YOU WANT TO DATE HER THEN RAISE HER TO YOUR LEVEL, IT IS NOT BY POINTING OUT ERRORS BUT BY PUTTING IN THE PATIENCE AND WORK TO MAKE HER BETTER.... now your brain will have ego and claim U TRIED... my dear you do not have the POWER for relationship... YOU BOTH ARE NOT MATURE. Why not IMPROVE YOURSELF, read books on relationship and stop letting your emotions give you motion with a wrong notion. RELATIONSHIP is BORING WORK.... no lady will be BORED or appear BORING TO A GUY SHE ADORES.... that girl does not adore anything in you, she does not crave for anything you have become so the boredom is just not to say she told u NO.... if you really UNDERSTOOD THE GIRL, then u would know what she loves to talk about, who she likes and who she gossips with, her family, her fears and many other stuff WITHOUT ASKING HER.... she will be the one on your NECK telling u every every. Great relationships are built on sacrifice, not cash, but deep hard bitter sacrifices from both parties... all this CHILDISH "SEMESTER BREAK" Dating you people are doing is just for sex, make outs and night calls.... NOTHING MEANINGFUL. DID YOU BUY HER A BOOK? DID SHE HELP YOU OVERCOME SOMETHING U ARE GOING THROUGH? DO YOU BOTH HAVE PLANS FOR THE NEXT ONE YEAR ON HOW TO BE BETTER TOGETHER? DID YOU HELP HER DISCOVER HER PURPOSE? DO YOU BOTH GO TO PLACES WHERE U CAN LEARN TOGETHER LIKE CONFERENCES AND SINGLES PROGRAMS? you are NOT in a RELATIONSHIP... but in a Emotion-ship and it has no ANCHOR so it is bound to CRASH. if you are having a good C.GPA in school simply bring it into life and know that the relationship on campus is an ELECTIVE COURSE and NEVER a CORE COURSE. So dump it and move on. when you MATTER and become BETTER MATURE FOR RELATIONSHIP, you will find the right lady and be ready to improve her and she will be submissive to u. *IT IS EVEN A KNOWN FACT THAT DATING SOMEONE ON YOUR LEVEL IS FOOOOLISHNESS* So guy, go and study about it from the right books before coming here to expose yourself. ALERT07: |
PLS PLS PLS..... Apostles saw JESUS.... Stephen saw open visions, these guy is speaking from OFFENCE, he is hurt and there is no GOODNEWS in what he is saying. Our Job is goodnews not Fault Finding News. |
something is slightly wrong with u.... EVEN the OWNER OF NAIRALAND... is not SHOWING OFF... and he is a major celeb... yet u want the others to join and show off. IT WILL SHOCK U THAT THEY ARE ON NAIRALAND but not using their real names or any name that can give them away. Am not talking about 10 celebs... I MEAN The main ones u know... that are still reigning... DAVIDO is one of those that gets his news from LINDA IKEJI, some other like tonto are on the BELLANAIJA Blog, and its all over the place... NO ONE HAS TO FLAUNT IT. If they are here.. would it PAY THEM? YOUTUBE PAY THEM INSTAGRAM PAYS THEM FACEBOOK PAYS THEM TWITTER PAYS THEM SNAPCHAT TOO So here on NL, even FRONT PAGE and FIRST TO COMMENT will not pay anyone..... YOU OVERRATE NAIRALAND. many in Nigeria who are digitally inclined do not even know it exists. CELEBS do NOTHING without the MONEY. If there is money being made here... they will show off. I am into digital marketing and I can tell you, that any VERIFIED STATUS you see on INSTAGRAM is making money from adverts and followers... So pls mind your own business till u become a celeb and you will leave NL too frankwealth: |
is it good or bad to help people? THAT EXACTLY WHAT U ASKING. |
pls contact their customer care and MODS should move this to front page o BlueLand: |
if i am, am i to flaunt it. am not a billionaire but i make millions and I want to give back to the society. Your opinion does not count, I only wanted to help u. bye, hopefully u know what u seek. Olalekank: |
well check my profile and you will know how FREE it is to become wealthy. no costs... totally free... and below is the screenshot I have been using for 3years. Olalekank:
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if you are bored, go and read... dont start a game when people are at work..... pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis ![]() blazesam: |
you are a lazy nigerian youth. I gave you access to FREE IMPORTATION CLASSES that charge u nothing so that u can be financially free. SELL THE PHONE U ARE USING TO BROWSE NOW.... GET A MANUAL LABOUR JOB OR SOMETHING other than begging I am trying to show u how to FISH... you are telling me your net is torn... see guy you are not yet HUNGRY. I HATE THE NIGERIAN MENTALITY WHERE MANY SEE OBSTACLES IN EVERY OPPORTUNITY... What do i gain marketing a FREE TUTORIAL TO U.... Yet .... well its your loss. check my profile and topics... OVER 1000 people here have been helped and they too had no money. and I charged them nothing. mtchew Samcine: |
check my profile and see my topics and you will never BEG again Samcine: |
in the chest there is a function to recover it..... BUT first YOU HAVE TO TURN OFF THE AVAST SECURITY FEATURES RUNNING AT THE BACKGROUND OF YOUR WINDOW |
I have and I still do for person use.... its the same process with aliexpress, so if you understand aliexpress then apply the same principles.... check my bio and read my topics on IMPORTATION and you will know what to do..... Its simple and FREE |
kwale weed. or you can export it and make money or import goods and make more money Preciousgirl: |
Sir please get busy with a business that will make you money and she will come back.... I CAN HELP YOU WITH THAT FOR FREE... CHECK MY BIO PROFILE and you will be able to make at least as small as 100k monthly..... I understood that WE BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE WHEN THERE IS MONEY. Pls o... just take heart but don't GIVE UP... for the sake of the GOLDEN PRINCE U BOTH HAVE... it can affect the child if he starts calling another woman MUMMY... once u start making money if she still keeps the attitude THEN find a better lady eazycash: |
IDLE MIND IS THE DEVIL'S WORKSHOP On NL there is business section and even free business trainings on IMPORTATION to start with just 10K and CRYPTOCURENCY yet you claim team BORING!! MY BRO, YOU MUST BE A LAZY NIGERIAN YOUTH. You are not a MAN if you can LOVE TWO LADIES AT THE SAME TIME.... LOVE is not horniness but una no go hear word until pepper reach una eye. If you were busy with a business and money was FLOWING it is the neighbours who would come to KNOW you... even if you had to attend a seminar and pay 10k IT WOULD HAVE HELPED YOUR STATUS... yet you didnt FIND such on nairaland... and you are claiming BORING abi? MY DEAR, YOUR ERECTION IS CONTROLLING YOUR DIRECTION.... you are better than joining the team of those neighbours who use proximity to score sex with their fellow idle jobless neighbours... IF THE GIRLS WERE BUSY you would not even be able to meet them at home. LIFE IS MORE THAN SEX, even if you LIE and claim u want to marry one of them... its a lie... and you know. DON'T YOU KNOW that ladies are more expensive than the 10k THAT WOULD HAVE INCREASED YOUR WORTH AND ADDED MORE RESPECT TO YOUR LIFE? Guy go and get busy doing business before the devil makes your life a super story others will learn a bitter lesson from. you didnt even consider if the girls are spiritually clean. ... Oh this generation... youths wearing shades at midnight. lycannightwolf: |
TELL HER THE TRUTH But really is this how u think? that ethnicity has alot to do with what you can say or how u communicate? Lol....smh |
BROTHER, I must commend you for you MANLY RESPONSIBLE NATURE and how you acted so mature towards the Lady. See I believe you are both meant for each other but the problem is SHE IS VALUING MONEY MORE THAN TRUE LOVE. YOU TRULY LOVED HER AND I KNOW YOU STILL DO.... But all you can do now is to keep loving her and praying for her and she will come. The honorable may even want to sleep with her... but I know she is not a loose person but MONEY has bent her choices. Bro, pls take heart and work on making money and recovery. It is not easy to be in your shoes... YOU ARE GOING TO GET BACK ON YOUR FEET but do not LOOSE the LOVE YOU HAVE FOR HER. BE PATIENT TRULY ITS IGNORANCE THAT IS WORKING ON HER. Just know she is yours, she may make mistakes but she will come to you |
the NEED to LIE is why visions DIE.... you didnt need to use the NAME Emmanuella |
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Meeehhn I feel your pain o but lemme laugh small lolzzzzz hahahahahaha all these small shildren that will be claiming they are in relationship just because they have grown BEARDS n BOOBS..... GUY sit up and wake yourself up from that sorrowful state.... MEN can only MOURN if the Lady was WORTH IT... you lost a HOE and you weeping like you lost a SISTER/WIFE. YOU ARE TO BLAME.... what criteria did u use in entering relationship in the first place? BODY SHAPE, SEX? BEAUTY? COMPLEXION? or loneliness... you fall my hand o.... dont you know that YOU DO NOT GRAB THE PAD IF YOU CAN NOT PLAY THE GAME? You didnt even know the rules of the game... now she has dealt with you and claimed the medal of DUMPING U.... your self worth must be LOW for u to be this distraught .... YOUR VALUES ARE QUITE WEAK... I may sound hard BUT this is your panadol and it will cure your ignorance HEADACHE. NEVER FALL IN LOVE IN YOUR HEART WITHOUT TAKING YOUR BRAIN ALONG. When a lady tells you NOTHING- There is EVERYTHING. WHEN a Lady tells u- "ITS NOT YOU, ITS ME" then you should understand that ITS ACTUALLY YOU and she has simply watched and rehearsed from NOLLYWOOD o. when a lady tells you she is confused then KNOW that IT WAS NOT AN ORDINARY ADVANCE that was done to her.. BUT the other guy may have given her the best sex or shown her a higher life than what she had with you.... LADIES pursue men that do not treat them special= RULE 101 LADIES pursue what they can not have because it gives them a sense of purpose and worth to date someone they do not deserve= RULE 102 ANY LADY(Married or Single) CAN BE WON OVER WITH MONEY or GREAT SEX..... only the most rare cases where she has core belief system then she would stand her ground over time = RULE 103 LADIES CHASE SECURITY and whatever they can define as a SECURE FUTURE IS WHAT THEY WILL PURSUE= RULE 104 GIVING YOUR HEART TO A LADY IS LIKE PLACING YOUR DESTINY ON A PENDULUM. WEEP NO MORE, Go and succeed with your life to an intimidating level... SHE WILL HEAR AND COME BACK TO BEG but then u will NEVER be fooooooled again. IF ONLY YOU READ THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP BOOKS BEFORE JUMPING INTO RELATIONSHIP BY FEELINGS AND ERECTION.... you would not have been in this mess. zerro: |
if she has no CHARACTER ..... she does not differ from a doll blogbaby: |
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