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Kachisbarbie:
Creamish oooo
Do you know I go there for lunch at times, your post just made me flash back. All their waiters are male!
Majority of the waiters in their Aba branch are from AKS, ibibios and co...

Hahaha, it's so funny I didn't even observe it prior to your post.



It's not that bad na. All these adjectives for us?

Chai
Diaris godu ooo

We don't even know why we act the way we do . Lmao

lolzz @signature

boluyongp:
Its because of the way you are dressed. If you dress well, trust me, they'll address you well. It is true that the way you are dressed is the way you are addressed and it is a pointer to your address.

I was at Union Bank yesterday, I needed a pen, the lady was using it. She stopped what she was doing and gave me, she had to look for another.
I then went to GTBank to do BVN, the lady saw me seated with others, she specifically singled me out of the rest and asked if I had done my BVN. I later approached her for her pen which she gave.

So, dress well, smile and speak politely. They are used to rude people, so surprise him/her by being different, you'll get their attention easily. Dress well to get her attention, Smile to break her defences, Talk well to win her favour.

Hope this helps.

so everybody who has had a bad experience wore torn or cheap clothes. even a mechanic on soiled uniform deserves respect. have you noticed those bush air hostesses in bellview airline? I snapped one while she was frowning and if yall dont mind I will share. the person she was rude to was better dressed than a humble billionaire.

boluyongp:
Its because of the way you are dressed. If you dress well, trust me, they'll address you well. It is true that the way you are dressed is the way you are addressed and it is a pointer to your address.

I was at Union Bank yesterday, I needed a pen, the lady was using it. She stopped what she was doing and gave me, she had to look for another.
I then went to GTBank to do BVN, the lady saw me seated with others, she specifically singled me out of the rest and asked if I had done my BVN. I later approached her for her pen which she gave.

So, dress well, smile and speak politely. They are used to rude people, so surprise him/her by being different, you'll get their attention easily. Dress well to get her attention, Smile to break her defences, Talk well to win her favour.

Hope this helps.

so everybody who has had a bad experience wore torn or cheap clothes. even a mechanic on soiled uniform deserves respect. have you noticed those bush air hostesses in bellview airline? I snapped one while she was frowning and if yall dont mind I will share.

Kachisbarbie:
Hmmm.
I wish I knew the answer to that.
Y'know women could be very emotional and petty, you talk/look at them in one kinda way and they feel it's because they are women.

I guess it makes them try so hard to appear and sound tough.

women have issues generally.
I moved to a new compound a year ago, when I first came, I always saw 3 or 4 women outside backbiting all the time. they appeared to be best friends. as I speak to you, they are all keeping malice with each other.

conversely, all the men in the compound have a close knit friendship. we repair light, solve issues, talk politics, funny enough the malice between their wives didnt affect their friendship.

summary; women are petty, trivial, weak, jealous, ungrateful, spiteful, and a thousand other negative things time and space wont let me mention. have you ever wondered why girls cant live peacefully with them selves and yet expect to live peacefully with their husbands? I am a hater of girls. I hurt them everytime the opportunity presents itself. im not gay? never? but beyond sex, and maybe a few mature funny female friends, I keep em at arms lenght for the interest of peace.

Kachisbarbie:
lols.
Hyperactive isn't the word. Rudeness, lack of courtesy is more appropriate.

It has nothing to do with the desk (CS), it's inbuilt. If you take them away from CS to FT or some other desk, they would still be rude.
The best their HOP can do is to remove such person from a desk where he/she has customer interface. This would be done after series of complaints from customers.

Sometimes it could be work pressure, other times irate customers always forming quality controllers have a way of getting on their nerves.

In all, report them. If the HOP does nothing, call the Head Office.

why ladies specifically?

njays24:
WhEnever I'm going to organisations where they have ladies like that,I'm always ready for them. When the want to stat with that attitude,I show them that I also have PHD in giving people like them ATTITUDE!

one thing about me is I believe If I slap a rude lady in a bank, il become famous at least 15mins. besides I have strong military backings that can get me out of any police issue in this nigeria. no time. I go fight like say na 3rd world war.

bongolistik:
I believe this is a serious issue to address, the case of some female bankers that ocupies the customer care units of the bank.

First of all, I don't think that some of them even know what their duties are and what customer care unit entails. When you meet some hyper-reactive female bankers occupying that position, then you get to understand me well and ask what the hell those kind of people are doing at that section.

Some of them are very impatient, so full of themselves (because of maybe one 100k they receive monthly), rude and obviously don't know what their jobs entail.

I have met them in UBA, GTB and some other banks, and I begin to wonder if this is the case of job miss road.

All customer care job in every organization or establishments entails that those in charge are people with good humours, patience, friendly, always ready to attend and help out customers and even respond to the most stupid questions, they are always supposed to handle and treat every customer warmly without any string nor pains attached.

But reverse happens to be the case in many instances. You get to see some female bankers that call themselves customer care attendants: some of them, very hostile and you dare not make the mistake of asking them one question twice even when you repeated the question thinking that they did not hear you well initially, they can even shout at you or squeeze face and hiss, very hyperactive set of people. In fact they are always not happy. They bite at every little issue.

Whenever I see and notice them in banks, I just shake my head in dismay and often say to myself 'who kept this one here as a customer care assistant self'.

baba! I dey cause drama for them well well for bank no be saayyyy one tin one tin

by the time the managers hear my voice, they'll run out to come and settle fight. thats when they'll know that customers are always right.

in Gtb uniben one day, I attempted to climb that barrier on counter to drag one foolls hair when she was forming rudeness. I no get time oh! I go draw rain for your body. next time you see me you go know say kolo wey dey ure head no ripe.

see ehn, in access bank in palms in lekki, in short make I no talk.


one advice; its good to have reasonable amounts in your account. so that when you are shouting and drawing attention, you go get moral. speak good English too. nobody can arrest you for fighting a bank official. its your right to be treated well. if there happens to be a fight in the bank, its their image that will be dented. the shame is on them for employing members of staff that have no knowledge of diplomacy. the banking hall is not her kitchen and im not her husband.

njays24:
It's only good when you have curious kids around. But if you don't have kids yet I don't see reasons why.

what about curious women who want to know your account balance and then start dicussing that the chairs in the palour need to be gold and the shoes in her rack needs to be 53?
btw those fine girls on my gallery nkor?
abeg o

no!

sje will know what I have ad account balance and start begging me to buy unnecessary things.

my response is in question form.

has a virgin ever masturbated?

If yes, are there really mature virgins? thats why we keep it secret cos people will ask.

kay29000:
10-15 minutes instead of 30 seconds.

okay. I thought hours. I last 45minutes on average.

kay29000:
How did the police know exactly what happened when neither of the two is alive to testify? How did they know they used sex enhancement drugs? And how did they know the guy slipped in the girl's drink to gain free access for sex? And how did they know he also took it later after the girl was dead, and lay beside her? Hmm! Anyway,if you have problem lasting long in bed, hit me up on BBM- 7C22F6EC.

by lasting long you mean how many minutes or hours precisely?

andromida:
@believer01 do not try this. He has not asked for your help. Don't fall into transactional relationship where you expect him to marry you because your father helped him. Unless you are helping him out of the goodness of your heart from one human to another but not because you want him to hurry the hell up and marry you. You are not this desperate the world is full of men this man has a right to choose to marry you or not because you've been together for seven years does not automatically mean he owes you the rest of his life. Happily you are still young, fresh and beautiful. If you like you can inform him of your desire to get married and if he is not ready you start dating other available men just as he does not owe you his life you do not owe him your life.

Has it even occurred to you that it could easily have been you who does not want to marry him now or ever would you have felt obligated to marry him? and even if you marry him out of some false sense of obligation would you, could you have been happy? Would you marry a man just because he set up a business for you?

If he does not want to marry you now or ever it is not the end of you again you are young, fresh and beautiful you can even do yourself a makeover if you like.You want a man who is happy, eager to marry you not one you had to persuade, manipulate into marriage or someone who is marrying you out of some false sense of obligation.

Whatever the result of your talks with him Believer01 believe in yourself and go rock your life.

I took time to check your profile and saw something that says you're an estate developer. or at least an agent. we could do something that will fetch us money. if you dont mind we chat over bbm. forget about this topic of marrying him or father assistance. lets talk legit money here. im sure you love it right? that means we have something in common. btw; that house in gwarimpa, has it been sold? see what I mean? permit me and I'll send you my pin or an invitation as you deem fit. lastly; im very decent. so dont worry yourself.

believer01:
THANK YOU

Okay na you know na.

uhalauju:
Dis proposal thing is getting out of hand, we need to tame some guys b4 it gets too late. Dis guy like funny to me.

I tell you.
Before dem go climb mtn mast hold flower for hand.

Will he ever act again so?

believer01:
I won't try that cos I have seen 2different cases of the ladies proposing and making all the arrangements for the wedding but the husbands refuse to show up in the church. When the husbands were later questioned they said nd I quote "I am not ready" imagine d disgrace. Thanks for your advised anyways I will ask him if I am included in his future.

Okay persuade ur dad to assist him in his business so he gets rich on time. Do you love him? Then do it for love. 2pac said " what you can doooooooo, do for love, you've tried every thing, but you don't give uppppp"

believer01:
26yrs

okay.
propose to him and marry him. its not a sin.
Ruth and Esther made the first moves on the men they eventually married and yet they are the only ones who have books in the bible.

ChappyChase:
Well ladies please be sincere, it is your opinion at least one of these must turn you off and be free to point more than one and if you say all of these turns you Off! OYO is your case, cause you will never meet any guy that is free of all these!!!! Picture below...
Guys you are not left out ooo, tell us which is your flaw and if your girl is complaining.... Let's goooooooooo...

so no car is a turn off
isit forbidden for the girl to own one her self?

ForteNL:
A and B.....

Wow. Today is my first day on NL and i made FTC on Front page too? This is a sign of victory for me.

I dedicate this plot of land to my ex, who broke my heart, left me depressed and turned me to social network addict. Make God reward you in your own coins. Amen

first day on nairaland and you know such deep nl terms like FTC, dedicate and plot of land. liar! you think say na pikins dey here abi?

Mogidi:
Nigeria is a free country, why should Christians not be allowed to drink alcohol because it offends the sensibilities of Islam? Rubbish!!

You can ban alcohol in the North but do not meddle in our way of life over here.

read!
read my dear!
it doesn't kill
just read.
so at least you know what to think and type.

Mogidi:
Trust Buhari to ban ogogoro, very soon we would all be required to drink only fura de nono.

I opened this thread just to confirm that there must be someone like you here.

electrical.

Volksfuhrer:
I already have. The post was a real irritant.

when the foollish ones address you, you should say "to me is my deeds and to you be yours, peace unto you, I seek not the way of the ignorant ones"

dokyOloye:
I have never heard anybody say, "I kill U in d name of Jesus", unlike in d religion of 'peace'.
U get d difference now?
Another big difference is that we hardly hear Ur type of 'good' muslims condemn these acts esp when non-muslims are d victims,just like Buhari,Sultan,MURIC,imams,Nigerian supreme council of Islamic affairs,etc all closed their mouths when churches were being bombed every Sunday in Northern Nigeria.
Your type is always more concerned abt d image of Islam than their villainous acts.

dont reply this person please.

Velocitron:
Put yourself out there is all I can say. Visit relatives, join local or church groups, go to naming parties, burials or whatever party you can find but make sure you surround yourself with the right people and not just anybody.

doesnt work. trust me. I feel his cruise. I really know where he stands.


op; drive alone to the sea side, roll a perfect blurnt, spark it and do your thing.
its a cold world out there. only the very lucky and social people think otherwise.
one last thing. the brodaz on the streets have a lot of love to share. play snooker with em and share your wealth with em.
or do you want to adopt a child? I realise baby girls fill that void you what im talking about?

Blizzyblinkzy:
Its irritating... Well am not a village girl, So d question ain't 4 me
waitn 4 d village girls 2 comment.. I knw they would deny it

checked your dp you dont look any better than a village girl to me though

c a l a b a r

let there be a law against climbing trains like monkeys. I know say if law no dey, nigerians for dey climb on top plane.

MrAkias:
HER VIRGINITY You met and dated a girl when you were in the University, she was a virgin when you met her, and you both agreed not to have sex until your wedding night. The two of u became graduates but were jobless for 4yrs. However, after many years of suffering, she later secured a job for you in one Big Company where you were paid close to N900,000 per month. Things were now going well with you n you finally proposed marriage to her, she accepted but after a few sec, tears began rolling down her cheeks. You asked her what the problem was and what you heard was... "I AM SORRY LOVE, M NO LONGER A VIRGIN, I GAVE MY VIRGINITY TO YOUR BOSS BEFORE HE ACCEPTED TO EMPLOY YOU IN THE COMPANY. THAT'S THE ONLY CONDITION HE GAVE ME IF YOU MUST BE EMPLOYED OR YOU WOULD CONTINUE TO REMAIN JOBLESS" Hmmm.! Assuming you were the guy, would you still go ahead with the wedding.? And as a lady, can u do such for your love.? LETS HEAR UR OPINION..........

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