₦airaland Forum

Nsiman:
@ blazay, oh dangote is buying cars to people in atiku's name or dangote is the entire electorates?

All of the above sir!

Too many to count.

^^^
Yes. . .thank you.
I would rather he repaired that marriage than jump into another relationship with an unsympathetic person like you.
Somethings are not fixable indeed. How would you know?
Please, the fact that some of you sucked at it does not mean everyone has to.
Like marriage is a 5 year venture?
You should be encouraging them. . .not discouraging them.


Please, if you are not married, do not participate in marriage palava. . .especially in a thread with a man's palava in it.
Thank you!

^^^

Please, you are giving the man a piece of bad advice.
He has not solved one problem you are now asking him to get a real wife without solving problem #1 first.
Please, getting a real wife is not the solution but fixing the one he married.
The next one might even be more psycho.
I would rather you tell him to get his life together first than jumping into another marriage with another psycho-biatch out there.

Please, stop distracting him and let him work on his marriage.
If you were a married female yourself with your mother in your home, I doubt you would have such views.

The reason married folk should NEVER listen to advice from single people. . .ESPECIALLY single women.

A-hem!
Husband snatcher on the prowl.
The man has not solved one problem, here comes another one.
Women and their issues I tellya.
These are the kinds of women men should not befriend or marry.
Only to make matters worse. . .Jezebels!!!


Ol' boy. . .here comes the 'popular' opinion you were asking for o!

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=572039.msg7384798#msg7384798 date=1292972410]Awwww,this is not fair oh, Nike4luv don de-claw and castrate am come turn am to wuss, sotay he dey fear to read thread properly lest he voiced his real opinion which could again lead to the OP cowering in fear, and run crying to the Moderator that Blazay is e-bullying them again [/quote]Provocation ignored.
You will get your chance I promise you.
I only pitied the original poster on that thread. . .I over-reacted. . . and deleted my insultive posts on my own cognizance.
Not because of your nike[b][size=16pt]0[/size][/b]love or wharreva. Some of us can moderate ourselves.
Thanks for your attention.
Anything else?

_{What a busy body for real.}

justise:
^^^

Blazay is back

I thought you banned yourself, No?

Can't stand the real Blazay? or is it the Z in Blazay you are trying to avoid? Nagging? too demanding? cant keep up? failed Burantashi? which one Chief Blazay?

Had to come mingle with the "bloody Yorubas?"hahahahahahah We the best!

*Ignored*

justise:
@ Mukina2

You can see yourself

An ordinary, barely coherent hausa man has just floored you about the futility of banning your so called tribalists

Deep down we are all tribalists; going by your narrow-minded definition

Blazay right there has said more derogatory stuffs against Yorubas and Ibos than Ileke, fstranger, Akin Egba, Udeuze combined; yet he is still here spewing his rubbish
What conclusion do you want me to come to? How am I supposed to not  believe that he is enjoying such a privilege because he is the only one in real life unashamed to give you some badly needed action? How am I supposed to not believe that there is some sort of corruption going on here?

Untill you do the right thing, blame yourself for any negative comment that comes your way!

Chikena!

alj harem:
have i not been condemning strangerf and blazay
have u been reading my post, i am igbo by the way and i have been condemning this people.

what ploy are u talking about what igbo interest are they defending

do u think i do not defend igbo interest , i think u are very myopic when u post

I repeat. . .I don't care what sick games you and your moderators/super moderators are playing amongst yourselves.
Just leave me out of them. I am not afraid of your stoopid ban threats. . . but stop using my screen name as sound bites for your silly gutter-snipe fights amongst your useless, jobless, NL juveniles ok? Enough of your nonsense. Since my responses to your rants have been erased. . .and your so-called rants masked as complaints are left up there, how could I resist the temptation to reply again? This is your last warning. Do [size=16pt]not[/size] mention my name on this your useless thread one more time. I have told you all to do your 4king worst. Who cares?

I hope I have made myself absolutely clear? Now stick to your 'level' of jobless, cyber riff-raffs!
Thanks.

^^^
No it was meant for this thread and I did not even bother to read the poster's first post till now. . .all I saw was Nairalanders and what motivates you.
So I made a mistake. . . does that mean you pack of hungry hyenas should eat me alive?
You berra retrace your steps before I smack all of ya. I hate to insult females on any public forum.

freecocoa:
Learn how to read and understand a question before answering it.na because of exams i dey talk o.

Yes ma.  Correction noted. Too much shiraz in my eggnog.
You know you "troubled" NL women with your issues eh?
One should always come prepared.

Still the same answer. I motivate myself.
No stories to tell you.
Go and motivate yourself!

Ladies & Gents let us share what keeps us motivated,share your favorite story,pictures,best quotes or even a bit of poetry.Personally a lot of things motivate me I believe as long as I continue to breath I can always change my circumstances.Another thing that keeps me motivated is my family.

I think we should be motivating others. . . not looking for motivation.
When you can start a thread about motivating the young generation call me eh?
Aren't we too old?

Please be a man and take care of your responsibilities.
Quite a piece of work you married from your story.
Utterly ill-mannered and difficult personality to deal with.
You better send that relative packing before your wife kills her like we have read in all those stories coming out of Nigeria.
She sounds like a real biatch. . .over bearing and without any home-training or spirituality.
I hope you do not have children?
Just for their safety.

May God be with you bro. . . some one has sent this woman to kill ya.
This must be one of those tribes in Nigeria with extremely wicked women for wives who beat up, starve. maim and kill their househelps.
Dude. . .I wonder how you can even solicit SEXUAL favors from such a wicked and mean-spirited woman?

I would have sent her packing or left the house for her for sure.
You better flea for your life before this wicked woman poisons you or renders you impotent for life.
It is obvious this kind of woman is not capable of showing love. . .and she was not raised in a loving environment.
Sheeeeeeeeesh.

Oh boy, hau you waka wit dis kain woman?
A man's home should be his castle and fortress of peace for chrissakes.

Who wants to spend old age on Nairaland or any other Nigerian website or message board roaming around like emotionally-starved vultures?
Or be thrown into a nursing home without children to visit or live, die and be buried with aging parents huh?

For love, constant safe and unprotected MouthAction every morning . . . children and a sense of belonging.
Not easy to be loved you know.
Only marriage can give you true love and a stable home.
A great investment for old age by the grace of God.

E nor easy I beg.

No.
Mine cannot be controlled especially at 5AM every morning. . . .when it wakes up looking for food.
If I need it. . . I have to get it. My wife understands that. . .  and has adjusted perfectly well.
2 days maximum is all I can handle without it.
The 'thing' has a mind of it's own and cannot be controlled.

I am a real man and do not 'lust' after everything in skirts only some highly selective and imaginative things in skirts worthy of my attention.
Not everything like housemaids or hookers thank you! You try being a man for one day and you would understand.
Yes, I am an animal. . . .a beast, and do not require any medical intervention.
Thank you.

Mu he he he he he
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Dangote to the rescue


Goooooooooooo "Tikkkkkkkkkkkkku"!!!

ping pong:
@ Blazay - you write so much like BEAF, same passion, same commitment to the cause, but different camps. Have you guy's path ever crossed on this 2011 project?

I hope not. . .for the Jews have no dealings with the Gentiles.
Enemies for ever.
No distraction from South-Southerners!!!

I think he redeemed himself with the tax bill and the don't ask, don't tell repeal bills.

Now, he has to deal with immigration and I will definitely vote for him come next election.

He is doing well. . . I must admit.

The health care bill. . .the tax bill. . .now the gay rights' bill. . . way to go Obama.

Bravo!

Mine is. . . lemme see

Simply. . . [size=16pt]Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious!!![/size]

She bangs!

Wife please. . . not girlfriend.

Not overrated but over-abused.
Many people have no business getting into such an institution.
Too many generational psychos abuse that fine institution meant for only the mentally well-adjusted.

Divorcees should not be allowed to re-marry.
Widows and widowers too.
If it is God's will for a person to be single, he or she should respect the marriage institution and stop polluting it with further tracks of failures.

^^^
Have you been faithful or not?

He was not invited to Chelsea Clinton's either. No big deal.
Who wants to attend anyway?
Please, let them keep their rubbish in the UK please.
Obama is not interested anyhau.

The will not be invited to neither Sasha's nor Milia's wedding .
We don't want them in the US either.
Na by force?

If it is not true, why is it paining you guys?

Fia done dey catch them.

Mu he he he he he

Nsiman:
Atiku mentioning God instead of Allah. This is a cover up

Is it not the same name all politicians use to steal in Nigeria?
Please, he is only going with the flow. . . he should go to Abeboye to pray for him jor.

Thank you jare fstranger!

“I am not desperate about 2011, I have never been desperate about anything at all because if you follow my career you will not find any desperation. If I had been desperate, I would have been President long time ago. I wouldn’t have stepped down for Abiola in 1992, I wouldn’t have given Obasanjo a chance in 1998, I had the PDP in my hands (like this), I would have taken the nomination in my pocket and I wouldn’t have given him the chance in 2003 when everybody said come and take it over.”

“So, I am not desperate about it, I will wait for the right time, whenever God says is the right time and Nigerians say is the right time. I am not desperate about it. What am I looking for?

[size=16pt] I have money to eat till I die!” [/size]

I say you are my man. I say you are the one. . . the one and only sir!

Goooooooooooooooooooooo "Tikkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkku!!!"

Mu he he he he

Back to skwiiiiiiia one!

Advanced Cowards Of Nigeria.

Overwhelming number of Nigerians in the cyber world indeed. . .owned by Ngbatis.

Tomorrow you two-faced cowards will come out and sing. . .we did not install GEJ under new IDs on NL.

God forbid bad thing.
Twa!

Very soon you will be asking for hau the 'stolen' and 'recovered' ballot boxes where counted.

Haba nauuuu. . .
If GEJA. . .JEGA(Goodluck Ebele Jonathan Azikiwe) can bribe the MOPOL angels and demons in Naija. . . why can't A-thief-ku do the same.
No double standards please.

May the bigger thief win. . . remember?

^^^
No need to wait for a 'popular' opinion to make a decision.
You are the one married to your wife. . . not NL.
MOST on NL are single and will not be in your shoes.
If you do not take control of your home, you might just join them on Face Book of recycled jilted, lovers and miserable divorcees.
Goodluck.

I wonder why those jobless Nigerians that attacked BA a few years ago are not marching to Abuja or setting up lynch-mob threads around Nigerian websites and messageboards to protest.

A case of double standards with black on black inhumane treatment huh?

We already have enough prosti-tutes there. We do not need more. Thanks Buhari.

Just keep quiet and not get involved. If that ruins the marriage. . . then the marriage deserved to be ruined.
Any married woman or man should know when his or her spouse is cheating.
If not. . . he or she must be a m0r0n.
I do not expect anyone to get in my affairs or those of my wife. . . so I do not get in any other person's.
Not my business any hau.

Just keep it to myself for my amusement only.
Let them work it out themselves.

Btw, I have caught many and the spouses already knew. . . so go figure.
Thankful I did not get involved. I would hate for my name to be associated with such a mess.

Bottom line.
Not everything your eyes see you need to gossip about.

I guess we will never know now.
Pathetic story.

^^^

If you think your wife will live peacefully with you after her mom leaves on a bad note, think again.
You have to go back home, swallow your pride and act like nothing happened.
You are a man. Do not give into women and their pettiness.
Ignore them and keep the peace.
Use a lot of humor and don't come of as threatening or arrogant.
You goal is to win her to your side and to start treating you like her own son.
Or, you can kiss your marriage good bye.

Women are extremely complicated emotional creatures that should be handled with a lot of care and wisdom.
Your MIL has been living with you for 5 years and your wife is used to having her as a companion and best friend.
Too late. Your MIL should never have moved in with you in the first place.
All you can do now is 'damage control'.
Your only other option is to end your marriage.
You have to accept the total package or get a divorce.

You should never threaten your wife to choose btw you and her mother. As it is now, she has chosen her mother.
It only gets worse. You would have to sacrifice your privacy for peace.

If you suspect your wife of having an affair. . . you may have more problems on your hands besides your MIL. Your marriage is very complicated.
That is why you should be a man and take control of your home or kiss it goodbye. The ball is in your court. You need to make some decisions and stick by them.