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Lol, a powerful testimony is coming up. I want her to type it herself. I don dance tire. Over to u Babes, u must share this one o if not I go disturb u tire! 2 BFPs in one day, my God u're too much o!

@Faith2000, congratulations on the arrival of ur baby Girl. We thank God for safe delivery and we pray this sort of blessing will go round all who desire it. Welcome to our world lil' one.

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Babes I will fight u personally if u don't register on NL and share this testimony!!!!!! This is too much for me to handle Ooooo!!! Hmmmmm, I won't say more than this!

Inwangobio we thank God for her strength. You're in our prayers!

Seza welcome onboard! We sincerely pray ur stay here as a waiting father shall not be long. God who did mine and other expecting mothers and fathers in this forum will visit ur household soonest with bfps. Omni is a serious waste of man hours. I also had 2 ivf procedure with them. Men it wasn't funny as Prof was never around to attend to his patients. Infact the day we did collection for my 2nd ivf, I was told he was receiving chieftancy title in Benin so he seconded the collection to one other Dr. ET was another story as it was also done by that Sowolu so I wasn't even sure if anythg was transferred as the woman kept fumbling with the instruments used in opening the cervix and the catheter. That was the last I went there. Though Prof is a nice man o, correct father figure where gynae is concerned but not for ivf and iui anymore even though they started it in Naija.

Bros Inwangobio, how's Madam and the triplets doing? Our love to them.

Inwangobio, it is well. Congrats in advance Daddy 3!

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Congrats Redeemersave, so happy for u! If tanidabi no mention am, we for no know o. But all the same we thank God for doing His thing without assistance from any Dr. God be praised. Pls rest enough and enjoy ur new status. Tell hubby its ur time for correct TLC and pampering and it must be given to u 100%. So happy for u Girl, God be praised!

Redeemersave, CONGRATULATIONS in capital letters. Why you come do us this kin thing na? Anyways we are happy that the waiting room has finally reduced by one mummy while the nursing room has increased. Congrats my Sister. God who started this will give you the strength and all you need to carry the Super Falcons and Eagles till they are discharged in 9m. Big Congrats Dear, but u no try o, as you come forget all your pallies for ivf thread. Anyways, kiss lil rRedeemersave for us o!

Redeemersave, CONGRATULATIONS in capital letters. Why you come do us this kin thing na? Anyways we are happy that the waiting room has finally reduced by one mummy while the nursing room has increased. Congrats my Sister. God who started this will give you the strength and all you need to carry the Super Falcons and Eagles till they are discharged in 9m. Big Congrats Dear, but u no try o, as you come forget all your pallies for ivf thread. Anyways, kiss lil rRedeemersave for us o!

Congratulations Ivfdaddy. God who started this journey with you guys will be faithfull to complete it. i think her progesterone should be increased (maybe injectables added if she's only on cyclogest) and if her hcg levels keeps doubling, then there shouldnt be any cause for alarm. Another scenerio could be that one of the embies that didnt inplant properly is trying to dislodge for the other ones to remain. About 2 nairalanders who had same issue with spotting during early pregnancy still went ahead to have normal babies. Though one of them was left with just a single embryo after the initial scan had picked twins. I wonder why they are not coming up to reply concerning your post. It is well. Above all, keep praying.

limsycutey: Hi everyone. My baby is three months old and I noticed today that her scalp is flaking in front, I'm really worried because my nephew's scalp too was flaking and his hair was coming, I don't want that to happen to my baby girl, please what do I do?

One of my boys had this same flakes on his head and my ped prescribed chizoderm shampoo. Its produced by Chi Pharmacy. I poured olive oil on his scalp, massage for 10mins and comb out with a tiny tooth comb. Then washed with the shampoo 3 times a week and the flakes disappeared. I can"t tell if normal baby shampoo can remove it with olive oil but try it. I also read on some feorign sites that the flakes disappears on its own after a while, dont know how true this is.

Hummingbird: Good evening...pls what style can I adopt when bathing for my babies,this evening one of the babies inhaled some of the water and it was pretty scary..I sit them on my thighs when bathing them. Secondly,one of the boys suck on his hand n its always sounding loud,people said am not feeding him enough,is this true??

You can use a baby bather as it makes bathing babies easier compared to bathing them on your thighs. It reduces water pouring on their face as you can wash all their body parts seperately and dab while the baby is lying down. Its sold for about N3000 in shops. With baby bather, you can even migrate to bath tubs and shower trays easily when you're in a hurry and also easy to carry around when travelling in case there's no plastic in your final destination cos u can fold it flat. Here's a picture of what it looks like.

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Akintr what happened na? Have u had the ivf done? We all have u in mind and waiting earnestly to celebrate with u so pls what's the problem? Why are u sad na? Remember we are all one here and a problem shared is already half solved.

PikinMama, the boys are great. They salute u too.

Lify, congrats on ur successful egg collection. I pray for BFP with twins and triplets.

Iyabeji14, my Dr also prescribed 1500mg for me but am not too good at taking drugs so I stuck to 500mg for 1 year. It worked for me as I was told my ovaries were looking better and my periods were also regular within the months I took it. I'll advise u stick to ur Doc's prescription if he asked u to increase to 1500mg. He probably feels the 1000mg is not working for u. Also try and shed some weight if u're on the big side. It helps too.

Redeemersave, pray as advised and also form wayo tears when talking to him. Most men can't stand their wives tears. At least that's what works for me. Finally offer to foot part of the bills if u have a steady source of income. From experience most guys see ivf expenses as bad debt since they are not sure of the outcome but they will be
willing to repay everythg spent when u finally get pregnant through the procedure. This is probably because they don't see ivf as investment so those of us that have steady source of income should try as much as possible not to leave the entire expenses to them.

Big congratulations to you and hubby. Finally we get to hear from u. Congrats Sis and welcome on board lil One. our love and kisses to your baby. U no tell us whether na Super Eagle or Falcon u offload. Anyways, our love to him/her.

Thanks a lot my people. We are counting down to 1yr already by God's grace. I couldn't have asked for more. God has truely settled me.

Redeemersave, they've started scattering already. My bb was their first victim. They smashed the screen the very week I resumed work. All mattress in their room and my room is now on the floor due to constant sumersaulting. All na dividend of motherhood.

Inwangobio, u guessed right. This boys have powerful urhobo names that everyone knows them with. This R and B na middle name but most people prefer it cos its easier to pronounce and the 'Oghene' that begins with their native names dey slap Lagosians for tongue.

Iyabeji14, I think it depends on ur Dr's expertise. U can start stimmi in Kad for the first 3-4 days and be in Lag for the remaining stimmi. I also had serious PCOS and with Bridge I was hospitalized (with just 3 bottles per day) for HOSS cos I wasn't scanned till day 10 when it was already too late even with all my pleas and ovarian reserve result. The tendency for PCOS women to be hyperstimulated is there but with constant monitoring, it can be managed especially at the mid-late stages of stimming. PCOS women produce more follicles than normal women who ovulate constantly but it doesn't necessarily mean they produce low quality embies cos my last ivf got me 14 grade A's and Bridge OHSS saga also got me 9AA and AB blastocyte which I was advice to freeze but declined cos I didn't want anythg to take me back there after my experience. Start taking metformin. It helps a lot and also discuss ur fears with ur Dr.

Nene17 and all our newbies, eka bo si ile. Shey I got it? Anyways, welcome onboard. I pray ur stay will be as brief as possible except when u return to give us tips on pregnancy and nursing newborns. God who did those of us who are already celebrating will do urs too. Just be less anxious cos anxiety is the biggest enemy of ttc and try to be in a good frame of mind always. Its difficult but try. It helps.

PM, I thank God for you and ur family. Shame to the devil for rearing its ugly head. Tragedy is not ur portion IJN. Our regards to Madam and our LO.

Subsidy congrats on ur all round testimony o! We go wash am seriously in 9m when the great troup would have arrived.

InwAngobio, I can feel ur pulse from a distance. Am sure u and Madam can't wait to meet the troupe. Its normal. Allow her chop as she likes o, so far there's still enof space to contain food cos na strong generals dey main road dey come so. Congrats Bro!

All, we are fine and in celebration mood as my handsome Dudes turned 6m today. We thank God particularly for keeping them healthy all these months, no health issues, feeding issues, skin wahala etc. They are both very fast as the smaller one is crawling already on his kneels and trying to hold everythg in sight to stand while the bigger one is still crawling on his tummy but can sit very well (no time to waste ). They send their love to all the millenium mommies in the house and said I should tell u that more testimonies shall abound on this thread soonest, that all of u still in God's waiting will graduate soon to God's nursery rooms IJN, Amen! Plenty Love, kisses and tiny hugs from Ryan and Bryan.

Yeni, what more can I say that hasnt been said already? Congratulations my Sister. See testimony! The God who started this good work will be faithful to complete it. I wish u a stress free 9m. Congrats once more and thanks for sharing your testimony.

fruitful Ruby, the birth control pills is just to regulate your period to flow at a particular date. Its different from down reg. Its possible the Dr wants to do the ivf in batches and wants everyone to bleed at a particular time or maybe the Dr is trying to make the lady bleed at a particular date when he will be available. The whole aim is to control the onset of your flow.

Redeemersave, as you've been told, that test is essential. Its used to know what you have reserved in your ovaries. An estimate actually. That way, they will know the dosage of FSH you will need to be placed on. Though not all hospital carry out the test. They do it at pathcare and clina-lab

Wonyi, when I hear comments from stupid people, I just ignore them. You know why? If she was the one who was barren for that long, she won't see IVF as a sin. We live in a country where people who are favoured in one way or the other tend to look down on others who are less favoured. I dont know if its illiteracy or poverty that is responsible. You will see women who gave birth naturally condeming you who gave birth through CS that you're not woman enough. My Sister abeg not all graduates are literates so allow her to wallow in her illiteracy because she has a child. Let it happen to her younger sister, she will be the one doing the research on IVF. IVF in itself is not automatic. Most Drs still pray with you after transfer for success. So God who imbibed this knowledge in Drs to help childless couple will continue to see them through with better technology to reduce BFNs. Encourage your stylist to embrace ART if she can afford it cos its this same woman that will describe her as barren who the time comes.

Congrats Subzidy. This is just the beginning of better things to come.

Inwangobio pls call me, dont have your number again as my bb is bad.

Buccacious so sorry to learn about your miscarriage. Kpele my Sister, it is well. What happened na? Were u under stress of any kind? How did happen? Pls share with us when u have the energy so others can learn. Thank God for your faith. I pray God will bless u with double this time around for all ur troubles. It is well!

iyabeji14: I really want to appreciate everybdy in this forum,I have been a silent reader for a very long time and have drawn enough strenght from people experiences and how God eventually brought solutions. TTC is really a very difficult/painfull experience but I tell you once solution comes you will surely forget the past.

I have also fall victim of some insensitive Dortors that leads to waste of money/time,If each one of us shared his/her experience, it will put the Doctors on their toes and It will also make us discover the right places to go and stands to take even when we are presented with options that will not favour us.

For me the next Dr. I will try is Norbert, since you all testify that the guy is good and for economic reasons.

Blendy77 you are doing a great Job in this forum,even after you got your's solution, you did not logout, you still continue to pull others out of the pit of barrenness. God will surely bless you and your family.

For those that have pass through the IVF procedure, did you hire a nurse to inject you or you did it by yourself in the confort of your room. Because I stay in Kaduna coming to Lagos for this treatment means I will need to come back with the Injections. pls enlighten me.

Babes the injections are not difficult to take. the hospital will teach u how to go about it.

hernyhorla: @Blendy, i sent you a mail but it bounced back. How are u and the boys? Sure u are fine.

Just want to appreciate u

kpele my sister. maybe the email addy u used wasnt correct cos i've been receiving emails with it. its ruonar2000@yahoo.com. The boys are doing great. Thks!

tyin: @redeemersave, why don't you explain to us what he did to you? Is it a crime for a doctor to suggest to you all options available for your choice based on your record and financial capacity? I know Dr. Nobert very well and he would never insist nor impose a donor sperm on you or anybody. Let's be careful and sincere of what we say and write abt others so as not to sin against God (slandering) and cause others to commit sin as well. To set the record straight, Regenesis gate is ALWAYS open to all. And Dr. Ekeh performs iui, ivf and icsi based on patient's choice. The donor sperm is an alternative for couple that doesn't mind and ve had failed ivf cycles with male issues. These sperms are donated by some tested and trusted donors (ages 20-35) and not frm the Dr as you insinuated. At Regenesis, IUI is 160k, IVF is 350k (exludes drugs) while ICSI is 450k (excludes drugs).
Do not discourage others frm trying the clinic because you don't want/ like what dr suggested to you.
Pls, let pple that have tried Regenesis bear me witness!

Tyin,I brought it up because peeps need to be aware of his modus operandi so they dont fall victim. I have like 2 of my friends and a relative who had the same experience. Infact, one of them is a nairalander and I"ve asked her to share her experience here. When my Sis in law first visited him, without conducting SFA on the hubby, he already started convincing her about donor sperm and how she doesnt need to spend too much money on ivf or icsi since her tubes are good. She refused and when she eventually visited with her hubby, he still mentioned it even after the SFA result came out and it wasnt that bad. Same with the other nairalander. Infact her own case was just last week hence I decided to put it up. The guy might be good and very cheap but trying to convince women to use donor sperm without their hubby knowing is unethical. And when a patient has refused ur offer and you still bring it up in presence of their spouse is really bad. Some couples might eventually need donor egg or sperm in the cause of their treatment but its up to them to decide. Its not in the place of any Dr to try to convince any gullible woman to use donor especially when their count is not so bad and they have told u they can afford ICSI.
I had to bring it up here because I encouraged a lot of people, friends, colleagues and family to try him because of the price and success rate and if something is wrong, they need to be informed as well so they can take a firm stand when he tries talking them into using donor fluid. If u're very close to the Dr, pls advise him from doing that because he will only end up running down his business. I talk to my Doc when people complain especially about price, so pls do the same if u have his interest at heart.

[quote author=redeemersave]@Blendy, yes ooo, he did that to me ooo. I tell you I was seriously tempted to accept it, when I mean seriously I was, I meant it. I thought and thought until something told me, whatever you do in your marriage outside your hubby's knowledge is sin, I don't want useless confession and restitution later, so I had to prayerfully deliver myself from the thought and I know well hubby won't accept a donor. We are fit for ivf and worst come to worst icsi. Pls help me with how I can get south africa clinic addy, I mailed them but no reply. Have started making savings towards it and in few months I should go for it. I want triplet ooooo, do south africa do transfer of three embryo? Pls give me contact of that clinic. Am afraid to do my icsi with regenesis.




I cant find their contact again in my box. Seems I deleted all their emails after I got my bfp but Moyinoluwa should be able to help out as I was able to link her to a colleague who got her bfp through them. Moyin pls post their contact here for those who need it to get in touch with them.

VENUSS: Ha ha! This isn't good at all. This Doctor needs to repent o.
@reedemersave. Am sure its his akamu o because its so cheap. IMO I think he thinks he is trying to help couples but his doing it so so wrong.
You know, its cases like this that makes some pple scared of going for ivf and co. Cos there are many "what ifs" eg " what if my eggs or sper m is switched with another persons". God is in Control o.
@ blendy and co, pls at what stage in my procedure should I ask for a progesterone test. Though I personally did a lab test on my own and found out my progesterone is very low. So should I jjust tell my clinic about it so that they can up my dose injectable and suppositories or I should have them run another test just befor or after my transfer?

I dont think you need to request personally for a pregesterone test in ur ivf procedure. The fact that u're on busserelin means progesterone must be given to u because every natural hormone in ur body has been put on hold as a result of this drug. Just before ET, a scan will be performed to see how ur endometrium is responding to whatever progesterone u're given and if they feel you need additional supplements, they might decide to add injectables to cyclogests. Though some people respond very well to cyclogests while others dont but its believed the injectables (PIO) are better just more painful since its oil.

redeemersave: Gbam confirmed, I rushed there when I got some informations from here, seeing my hubby's count he advised nothing but a donor, how can? I couldn't tell my hubby cos he will say I wan go collect pesin kpekus. I was convinced its not of God and had to stop going there. At least he has sperm in him, why suggesting donor? He even told me if am ready and don't want to be induced he will just insert the sperm into me and would cost just 15k, that some women do it there n get get bfp in a week. I ran fatser my legs could take me.

With 12million sperm, IUI is even possible in some very good clinics, they will wash the sperm and seperate the most mobile onces from the slow once, the only thing they will collect a very good volume from the man so that the process won't reduce what they need and then insert into the woman what is needed.

He told me of one pesin who got triplet for it. If both couple don't agree I beg, fleeeeee. Better to spend 1m and be happy (when kids resemble your hubby does he need a DNA?), than 450k with kids that doesn't look like the mother or the father and have pains in the end.

Someone here said her hubby was placed on treatment to boost his fluid before the procedure and she got her bfp in fertil aid, abi is that not a clinic? Dr Eke is good from my experience with him but he is not getting it right at alllllll with his donor prefered, abi he is using his akamu for it?

Na wa my Sister. So the Dr did it to u too? Heard he is good but trying to convince patients to use donor when nothing is wrong with their hubby's sperm is where I have issues with him. Why the urge to use donor? A friend of mine ran away from there cos she kept argueing with him that she would prefer to do ICSI than use donor but the Dr kept persuading her to use donor. The man tire me sha because when I heard, I also asked her jokingly if the man is not using his fluid and sowing his seed in people's body all in the name of helping them have children? Cos this donor madness is really frightening.