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Dtruthspeaker:
A real-eyeity caused by the fact that people do not know their Rights and neither do they know the great importance of doing "just-is".

If just-is was done/is done, 90% of Nigeria's regular problems will go away. That is what so called developed countries have figured out.

No nation can survive without just-is, not to talk of even growing, that one is impossible!

When there are lots of relative truths, which are seen through many lenses and from different perspectives,, any conclusion could be arrived at. And any judgement would be pronounced.
But just-is might not be done.

Dtruthspeaker:
"THERE IS NO VALID ARGUMENT AGAINST THE TRUTH"

You're trying to prove that there is nothing like Absolute Truth,, thus, truth is relative.


But see..
In this matter,, there is no relativity.
The owner of the toy was clearly established.

You left the established arguments and started trying to create more grounds, and trying to establish relative truths which had no initial ground in the original arguments.

Dtruthspeaker:
That is a gift not a grant. And as you already know, gifts are always revocable at the pleasure of the owner and giftor.



How did it land in her possession?

Because, of her power of being the giftor. The gift can always be taken back as some men have done to their exes or father in laws have done to their sons in law or parents to their children.

These guys can never ever disappoint.

Hmmm.

Na waa oo

Islie:
The Director, Press and Public Relations of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), Eddy Megwa, has said that the Minister of Arts and Culture, Mrs…





https://dailytrust.com/its-wrong-to-be-minister-while-serving-nysc-tells-musawa/

So,, why and how did the SENATE pass her.??

Dtruthspeaker:
Now the situation is different because of adulthood.

And now mumsi (whether judge or baker) is still the owner of the property and unless she has clearly transferred ownership to the Petitioner by the petitioner is still not the owner of the property, whether car or land.

And both petitioner and respondent can use the property once they have permission from mumsi.

And when mumsi.says the petitioner can use the property, she can also say and she also says that the respondent too can use it also, unless she precludes him.

Thus, unless the petitioner has been granted ownership, he has equal rights to use the property,split 50/50 as practicable.

That is the correct judgment.

Now,, you need to go back and read the Original TOY-STORY again bro.

The Mom who reported the story listed THREE Arguments.

Now,, try and read the FIRST ARGUMENT again three times.

The mom clearly said that “THE TOY BELONGS TO THE PETITIONER..”

She also said that she was in “Possession” of the toy, pending the time she gave her verdict.

This means that the Toy doesn't belong to her.

Why would you be trying so hard to make us believe that the toy doesn't belong to any of the kids??
Are you finding it hard to understand the simple straightforward story.??

BluntCrazeMan:
Let us tweak the question a little bit.

1. The siblings are now grown.
2. “The toy” changes to “two plots of land”.
3. “Playing with the toy” changes to “cultivating on the land” - (or any useful temporary activity on the land which can easily be removed by the owner within a day or two)
4. “The Mom” changes to “The Judge at a high court”.


The Petitioner is the owner of the land, and the Respondent is the person (a very close relative to the Petitioner) who is cultivating the land without the notice of the Petitioner.

The Petitioner wants everything that was done on the land by the Respondent to be removed, and if possible, return the land to the fallowed state it was before he “trespassed” on it.

The Petitioner is not ready to do anything with the land at the moment, not even to cultivate the land.
He prefers the land fallowed, and overgrown with bushes and thorns.


If you happen to be the judge, what would be your verdict.??

Cc...
Garfield1

Ok ooo

Dtruthspeaker:
The correct decision is that the toy should be granted to the respondent because a toy is meant to be played with and the petitioner has by his/her conduct showed that she is not interested in the toy.

Secondly, by The Law of unlawful deprivation and waste, she is therefore deprived from withholding possession of the toy, on the ground that The Law shall not allow a wrong to be done.

Thus, the honorable court must thereby order that the defendant be perpetually restrained from taking the toy from the respondent.

Let us tweak the question a little bit.

1. The siblings are now grown.
2. “The toy” changes to “two plots of land”.
3. “Playing with the toy” changes to “cultivating on the land” - (or any useful temporary activity on the land which can easily be removed by the owner within a day or two)
4. “The Mom” changes to “The Judge at a high court”.


The Petitioner is the owner of the land, and the Respondent is the person (a very close relative to the Petitioner) who is cultivating the land without the notice of the Petitioner.

The Petitioner wants everything that was done on the land by the Respondent to be removed, and if possible, return the land to the fallowed state it was before he “trespassed” on it.

The Petitioner is not ready to do anything with the land at the moment, not even to cultivate the land.
He prefers the land fallowed, and overgrown with bushes and thorns.


If you happen to be the judge, what would be your verdict.??


Cc...
IconicR, Fergie001, lhordspy, Lotanna2, Penguin2, Racoon, LegendHero, Litigator, Helinues.

Hmm

EDOSBROWN:
Money, body count, past relationships

The day she wanted the story of my past...



Haaahahahaaaa..

I painted a sweet romantic picture of 3-body-counts life-history..
😭😭😭😭


Such a good man I am..

philGeo:
Please moderators should move this topic to front page, I am learning here.

Intelligent people plenty for Nairaland.

Mynd44

philGeo:
Please moderators should move this topic to front page, I am learning here.

Intelligent people plenty for Nairaland.

Lalasticlala, Seun, Nlfpmod

Guys..




Please don't derail this thread.

Just Read And Give Your Decision.

From @General_Oluchi on X-(Formerly-Twitter)

I don’t know about you, but every evening, I get to play the honorable judge at home.

My son filed a petition against his sister with my honorable court, and his sister replied with shocking evidence. I am deliberating and will soon give my judgment because the silver white
toy car belongs to one of them although someone is claiming it with hot tears. The toy is in my possession since no one wants to compromise.

..
.

The arguments to review are:

1. The toy belongs to the petitioner but the respondent loves playing with it.

2. The petitioner doesn’t play with the toy often but only wants to hold it when the respondent is playing with it.

3. Who should keep the toy? The owner or the one who loves playing with it?

You see, this is a tough case.

Source:
https://twitter.com/General_Oluchi/status/1694899224083677230

SalamRushdie:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2023/08/24/huriwa-tinubus-minister-musawa-is-serving-nysc-member

Peter Mbah Case..



This one will end up not passing-out..
And it will become a biigg issue for her later.

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Let me just ask you these two.


ARE YOU TIRED OF THE MARRIAGE.??
..
HOW MANY KIDS DO YOU GUYS HAVE.??

questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on

In Igbo Land,, everybody trains a child.

I don't know about any other place.

In the European Lands,, everybody is on his/her own.
Not even parents or older (or younger) siblings can say anything about anything that is happening in someone's life (that is, after the person had attained certain age)

VinnyBaba:
There is no Gainsaying that Young Pple (Teens) need Love and Affection from the Opposite Sex as they grow Older. 🙂

For Girls, this is a MUST.
They Need Attention, Flattery and Romantic Disturbances From Guys,
the Lack of it which Makes them Feel InComplete as a FEMALE.

So as a Parent,
WHAT AGE WILL YOU ALLOW UR DAUGHTER TO START DATING?
I.E. HAVING A BOYFRIEND. 🤔

MINE IS 20years.

Drop ur Comments.

Once a girl has started seeing her periods,, you better start to teach her everything about womanhood without being so raw and dirty about it.

But she must know the things that are happening to her.
And even let her know that she would start liking cute men.. and that it is normal.

Teach her how to cope with such, and how to control it.

If you teach her enough,, then, whenever she has any man in her life, she will let you know.
So that she wouldn't make some mistakes, whereas she has someone who would take her through the whole phase.

daughters13:
Evangelist Malakhi Dele Banjo and former deeper life member has come out in the open to publicly declare that he is officially searching for a true Christian wife.

Yes I seek a true Christian wife but the issue is that the church has been infiltrated by satan and if you go to the church to find a wife you will probably end up marrying a witch or a girl from the marine kingdom who perfectly disguises herself as a true Christian.

Even if you go to modesty churches like deeper life to find a wife, these false Christians are there as well.

So what am I supposed to do? Should I accept and take one of these witches and marines that have infiltrated the church as a wife?

That's not going to happen and that's why I am here today to publicly declare and hopefully by so doing, I will bypass the infiltrated church.

Okay, I want a Christian wife but there are rules and there are selection criteria which the girl must fulfil.

Here are the selection criteria:

1. The girl must be a practising Christian

2. The girl must be a Christian that practises absolute modesty and outward holiness (deeper life type)

3. The girl must be a Christian preacher.
For you to be my wife, you need "Lady Evangelist" attached to your name. That's the minimum standard acceptable.

4. I want a girl that preaches and not a Proverbs 31 woman. Yes, Proverbs 31 describes how a wife should be; but it is mainly about how she should be good at her domestic chores. What I seek is a preaching woman that will serve Christ and not a hard-working woman that does her chores as described in proverbs 31.

5. Whilst approaching me for marriage, the girl should not come with the belief that her body is needed carnal gratification.
Or do you believe that I am marrying the girl so that I can kiss her lips and caress her body and by so doing get double pleasure; one pleasure from the kissing and the other pleasure from the caressing?
I marry not her body but her Christian fire.

6. The girl must be a vociferously aggressive preacher that is strong and able to stand her ground for Christ even in the midst of opposition. Metaphorically, she should be a true Christian female tiger with sharp claws, sharp teeth , ferociousness and wanting to pounce for Christ.

So that's it, if you have what it takes please send me a message on my Facebook (Malakhi Banjo) so we can begin the screening process and if you pass.....L.O.L, then we can begin the courtship process.

Please note that these criteria are hard to fulfill but yet easy to fulfill. God will not compromise on righteousness and neither will I.

To conclude, there are things we want and there are things we need. You may want a wife or husband but the only person you need is the Lord Jesus Christ. And that's why the title states "True Christian Wife WANTED"


God bless
Your brother in Christ
Malakhi Dele Banjo

ONE SENTENCE..!!


HE JUST NEEDS A LADY-PREACHER..
AND NOTHING MORE.!!

HE HAD NOT STATED HIS EXACT REASONS.
BUT DEFINITELY NOT FOR MARRIAGE ALONE.!!

There must always be blaming..




So,, the Nigerians have gone to Chicago State University to cause them to do Corrupt Practices??


It's time to soil the precious name of CSU, and rub the name in the mud.

ChelseaArmy:
https://leadership.ng/police-unveil-emergency-app-to-tackle-crimes/

“Rescue-Me” App is not working..

Now they added another Nonsense Police-VGS App..

A USELESS APP WHERE NEW USERS CANNOT EVEN REGISTER...

Karemarealty288:
https://punchng.com/return-nddc-to-ompadec-dokubo-asari-tells-tinubu/

Who exactly do you guys say that this man (Dokubo Asari) is.
What does he do most??
What does he do best.??

Image123:
You need help, psychological help. May God help you.

You see yourself.??
You see your life.??

You can't even type epistles again.??

(Now you're calling God to render psychological help??)

Relax.
You're one of the problems we have in this country

I just don't like the closeness this man allows..



The other day he was hugging a crying woman...


Habbaaaaa..!!


I just don't like the closeness this man allows..
I don talk my own shaa..

Image123:
Don't pray to. i have not said anything wrong. The Bible doesn't teach speaking or instigating people against government, rather it calls them ministers of God.
Hoping that Nigeria will be bad or not move forward so that you can say i told you so is petty.

You're the Petty One Here.

You're the one who is putting out words which I didn't say.,, and assuming them to be my words.

And that was why I had to tell you to JUST GO..
So relax...
I will still bring you back to my very own words again.
(And not these words you're typing here and assuming they are mine)

(The worst thing we have experienced in Nigeria, are people who conjured evil in their minds, and projected their evil thoughts on people who are innocent, and then, started punishing the innocent people just because they had believed within themselves that the innocent people were just pretending to be innocent, and they were thinking about the evil which they had assumed that the innocent people were thinking..

These type of bad people are everywhere..
They always make people to look bad, by blaming their thoughts.. Even when the thoughts they are supposedly blaming are blatant lies that are cooked up by them..

For instance: the Police, the dirty politics, etc)

updatechange:
BREAKING:

Anti Peter Obi protest hits Owerri, protesters are saying Obi is trying to force an unpopular candidate on LP in Imo state.

Obi says he wants to fight “godfatherism” but at the same time, he wants to be a godfather.

Shadows??


Only if they know how more popular they are making Obi and the candidate.

Image123:
At least, i am not lying on the Bible or bringing up diversionary points and questions like you.

I will bring you back here sometime again.

For now,, just dey go

Lewisjohnson:
More surprising photos

This relationship is just three days old.


In fact,, they are both testing the waters.
The real relationship never start sef

Image123:
Your 2 questions were irrelevant and diversionary, because i was talking about Kumuyi while you were asking about God. Kumuyi is not God. BTW, your epistle is longer than mine. i guess you prefer one line answers or being ignored instead, i also have the skillset if you ask.




If you are in slavery, i am not. i am not forced to work for the government and i barely know anyone who is. i can get my passport and lawfully travel to anywhere in the world with a valid visa. Perhaps, you need a dictionary for the right word. You mentioned Moses, that's why i mentioned the Israelites that Moses delivered who were in Egyptian slavery/bondage.



You need to be high on some banned substance to say that David formed a sect against Saul. Read your Bible.



i live in the New Testament era, i don't have to rotate there. Jesus NEVER instigated anyone against the political class, Herod or Caesar, stay on track. Tinubu, Buhari, Obi, GEJ and co are not religious leaders.




If you are blind, see a doctor(optician) or God. Stop asking me diversionary questions on what we've not discusssed or i did not comment on.

Dey your dey oga.
..
You're dragging in circles.

chisomkachy:
..

At least...

He is now a musician..

Image123:
Bring up the video of what he(not God) said about Buhari, let me know the context. Newspaper headlines can be misleading. The newspapers obviously say a lot of things about the government that you and i do not agree with.

For instance, look at the headline and read the report. There's nowhere in the report where he mentions Buhari or something, but you're free to convince otherwise or believe what suits you.
https://dailypost.ng/2016/12/26/god-will-give-buhari-solution-nigerias-problem-2017-kumuyi-prophesies/

Like i said, he(Kumuyi)'d never instigate people against government. Moses never instigated the Israelites against Egypt or Pharaoh. The Israelites were slaves and continued their jobs with even more rigour until the last day/pass over day. They never cursed pharaoh, or took him to court or protested. Moses and Aaron went personally with God's direct message to Pharoah after over 430 years. Nobody took anything personal, no senator or minister of Egypt was dragged, disregarded or disrespected.
Same goes for Ahab, it was all personal. Elijah never led any sect or instigated the people against the king or the government. As fiery as Elijah was, he never told anyone to disregard the king. He of course gave God's message to the king as at when due and sent. Arise, go down to meet Ahab king of Israel. Simples. He did not gather a congregation to insult Ahab before them.
You can help look up new testament examples also in your quest to be biblical.

I have long stopped trying to discuss with people who drag themselves in circles.

I asked two simple questions.
And you're dropping epistles.
And talking about the slavery in Egypt....

Are Nigerians not suffering from slavery at the moment?
Both mental and financial slavery?

About God's chosen people who formed a sect (even trained soldiers for themselves) against the established leaders,, then tell me something about the young combatant David.

And then, you rotated to New Testament??
It seems you do not know Jesus’s true offence?
He was against the bad systems that were put in place by the so-called religious elders and leaders, and the elders and leaders after seeing that he wants to make them irrelevant and open the eyes of the people,, they came against him.


Who will open the eyes of Nigerians.??

And I ask you again....
Are we really doing good in Nigeria??
Is Tinubu really the prophesied saviour of Nigeria?
Is he going to open the eyes of Nigerians, and lead us all (individually but collectively) to financial freedom.??

Or are you going to come back in the Future to quote this news-article and say that Kumuyi didn't mention Tinubu in his statement.??