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satandeterrible:
No dy shalaye
Sensible here means someone with common sense.
You're probably mentally okay, but you were not sensible enough to understand my comments.
So it is safe to say you're not a sensible person.
But that does not make you a mentally unstable individual (you might be though, going by your moniker).

IPOB and Boko Haram terrorists are not sensible.
Does that mean they don't carefully plan out their actions?

BadNews:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffstHGBUNB0

A Video of some Female Soldiers twerking has gone viral after being shared online.

In the short footage, the military women who were in their uniforms were seen twerking and having fun in their military base, which some claimed is in a Zimbabwean community.

The officers danced and twerked to Bruk Off Yu Back by Jamaican singer, Konshens.

Candidlady:



When ladies start to behave like men then something is really wrong this world

Only men act/behave this way

allah ya kiyaye

Islie:
Former President Goodluck Jonathan has condemned the ongoing primaries for the 2023 elections....


https://dailytrust.com/breaking-pdp-primaries-a-mess-says-jonathan

nwekeugochukwu:
Earlier Thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7141341/man-celebrates-birthday-party-cemetery


Ghanaian Actor Who Celebrated His Birthday In Cemetery Says Ghosts Are Haunting Him (Photos)



https://www.instagram.com/p/Cd_oZdxj5oF/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

satandeterrible:
Brother, let me tell you.
Forget what everyone else might be saying here.
Your wife's case is not a case or post partum depression or whatever jargon they want to give you.
Its all lies. Stupid lies intended to manipulate you into believing that she is not conscious of the actions she has been taking.

No reasonable woman will fail to take care of her baby, depression or not. No reasonable woman will just wake up and tell you the marriage is over, depression or not.
Believe otherwise at your one peril.
I strongly put it to you that your wife is fully aware of her actions and she is fully thinking out every of her steps.

That being said, you dey eff up. You dey eff up big time. Why will you care about what other people say? That's a very unattractive, low quality from a man. Honestly, how can you give a damn about what people say about your life. Your own life?

My man, as it stands now, divorce is the best option. Divorce that lady now and start looking for a sensible girl to marry, if you're so inclined.

Even if you do not divorce her immediately, take your child away from her.
It is wickedness on your part to allow your own toddler not to receive enough attention and care at this crucial stage.
You have been wicked to that baby and you must now ammend your steps. How do you feel when you know fully well that your wife is not taking care of your infant? How do you sleep at night?
No matter the care from your in-laws, parental affection cannot be matched.
You do not expect that they'll take care of the baby the way you should have done.

I cannot even imagine that my own offspring is not beign taken care of properly by my wife, yet I abandon him/her to my in-laws to take care of. That is so low of you. So, so low. I am disgusted! How can your child be suffering neglect why you, the father, are alive? Please don't give me the bullcrap of in-laws. Unless you want to say your in laws are better human than you are.

Now is time to get over your neglect and wickedness towards your own offspring.
Take back your child now. If necessary, employ a nanny who will help you take care of the child.
But you have to make extra sacrifices. Do not abandon the child to the nanny. Take extra steps to be overly present and involved in the taking care of your own child.

This is exactly what you have to do. If you decide to take any other directly contrasting opinion from this forum, I assure you that it will most certainly not end well.

Kobojunkie:
Why is the mother doing that when it is the daughter's baby though? Does she know something that she isn't communicating to you about your wife?

And how old is this daughter anyways?

InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!

Jamesbally:
Hmmm.
No sensible Investor will buy the EAST. It's not worth it. If it's worth it, I for buy the Region, use am do farming. But it's not productive.

Jamesbally:
Who go buy am? Have you been to the East before? Have you wondered why no foreigners or local investors, invest in the East. The Region is baren. Nothing good can come out of it.

Every abnormal thing is normal in that Region.

Nebulax:
Like wearing one wrist watch for decades?

Like his son not having a car but the guy is riding on expensive car in UK?

Nebulax:
Peaceful state like Sars Akwuzu led by James Nwafor?

Nebulax:
Are you saying Obiano came to destroy all what Obi built in terms of development?

Nebulax:
Let him go and apply for EFCC chairman then

Jamesbally:
Goodnews.
Let's burn down the entire EAST. That Region is of no use to us. It's a baren Region that contribute nothing to the Economy. So, burn the damn tiny underdeveloped Region down.

VictorUSA:
If your uncle lives in the US and send you 30K, and you are satisfied with that you can quote me with this trash again.

Islandlady:
Seriously! Sex is what most men think about everyday of their life! Men think about sex all day long even the so called redpillars

Most times, I'd have different male friends I wish to remain good friends with but all they will be thinking about is how to have sex with me, too bad

Men pls think about something else apart from sex!!! T for thanks

blazingblender:
Okay
Have you condemn yours??
Or are we praising those who killed the legislator
Or have they been arrested and we are violently protesting for their release or the 10m bounty placed
Why was it not also placed on Deborah's killers ??
So who is a coward here??

Igbo:
https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1528651756321783808

Gottiii:
I still can’t believe my elder brother is planning to send me a Es330 (2006) from the United States.

I have told him several times i can’t drive such car, I am already imagining the look of people when they see me. I mean people wey dey my area. People for area know say I be big boy.

I don tell am several times say I no need car wey dey less than yr 2017. The money dey but very stingy. I sure say na the wife dey give am wrong advice.

The car clean sha, full option but below my level. I go just sell am.

Abeg, make una advice me.

JEWELofHELL666:
https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1527939939731746816?s=19[/quote]Reno is thinking about the past two elections.
He forgot even the Election which his own Jonathan won.
..
He thinks the reason for the low voters turnout in the South-East is because we don't have Voter's Card?
..
He thinks we will continue to boycott the Elections forever??

Emma2Seconds:
Tell the OS that your no longer interested.

Judolisco:
Easterners should be very careful... Dis is not how to ask for freedom

myright:
http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2022/05/fresh-blasphemy-in-osun-arrest-akintaro_21.html?m=1

Aonkuuse:
Video here.. https://twitter.com/ChidinmaOga/status/1528127859763691521?s=20&t=Z-eekD0TIylFsqKmdG5MRg

Source: https://salemgists.com/kidnapped-anambra-lawmaker-okechukwu-okoye-beheaded-by-unknown-gunmen-video/