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Very good.

@ carmelion very interesting. Church hawking.... They now require members to call for their services

[quote author=sasi_malia]Boss13, thanks so much. I guess he didnt even care to try and he now understands and if he doesn't care I do. His older brothers plan elaborate plans for their wives, and even ask him for ideas, where they can take them, what they can do etc (I'm not comparing at all oo, and I'm certainly not envious, I don't need all of those elaborate dates, we can do better things with our money) so its not like the idea is totally strange or foreign to him. He just didn't care to make any efforts.
I have also learned to be more assertive. My hubby listens to me a lot and seeks my advice and counsel in almost everything he does; he knows I have a good head on my shoulder and he treats me right although we all have our faults and are not perfect. So thats the most important thing.[/quote]Them no the learn marriage finish oh. I am not married but i am learning a lot from your thread when I do I will not joke with my wife's birthday because I noticed how bad you felt. Assist him sha. Thank God you said elder brothers (it shows that they have experienced bitter experiences and so decided to make efforts). Men are not spirits, we want to love but women will have to teach us the way they want to be loved.

Has she agreed to pay?

it is only when you experience soul travel that you will fully understand what it is all about and of course only the bold and courageous can walk the hallowed path back to God while the timid and meek shall of course inherit the earth

Ben can you explain more on the above especially what you mean by only the weak shall inherit the earth. Thanks

carmelion: Yes sire

Lol I'm not a knight. What is your day going?

Ademola, you are yet to give me a response but I notice you replied someone's comment for prices of cars. Why?

Madam is angry. Just use police and chase them out. I don't think they might have the money for any court action.

carmelion: Hey dolls, happy weekend.hope your week went well?.

I could not post on the thread,partly because there was nothing urgent to talk about and partly because most of us are busy.

Well I have an experience to share with you,but that would later. It happened during the week.

Be mindful of fake men of god who will give you fake prophecies about your "future husband".They see single ladies as the gullible set of people cos they believe you re desperate. I will be back later with the full details.

Waiting for the details

What do u mean by we? If this is a survey can we have your name?

[quote author=sasi_malia]Hey All,

I was going through posts and I am not sure why I never came back and say thank you for all your answers. I'm sorry, I read them all, the encouraging and the less encouraging ones. It's funny how the thread derailed towards the last few pages. Anyways, like I said I am the type of person who likes to put a smile, do something nice or special for someone whom I love and who deserves it. Special attention to people that are dear are important, whether its' your mom, sister or spouse. I didnt request anything extravagant, I said a simple card or even a handwritten note, or text message would have sufficed. I was more hurt that he didnt seem to care after I told him I was hurt.
But anyways, this is behind and I did throw him a nice surprise party with close friends and family, took off work and cooked all day. I wanted to make him feel special. And just the surprised look and the smile on his face was priceless (and he felt pretty bad too ).
I did tell him what expectations oo, I'm a simple person, I dont need flowers or chocolate, just do something different that you don't do on other days. I got a sweet text message on Valentine's morning and red roses on Valentine's evening, a total surprise. I got him a card and a gift as well; this is how you treat someone you love; little attentions.

PS: For people, especially men that mentioned that I was acting juvenile and didn't have other problems to worry about, let me tell you that it is not because someone does not post about bigger life issues that they dont have them. I choose what I disclose and this was rather trivial compared to other things that I wouldnt necessarily share.[/quote]Good for you. You have taught him the way you want to be treated. Thank God you didn't destroy your marriage using the advise given by some women here. Just to point out a few things. Men are not so particular about birthdays. I almost forgot mine last year. It was my mom who called me to wish me happy birthday and that was when I realized the missed calls on my phone were birthday wishes. I bet he would change next year or this year (since the thread was last year). Next time if you notice your huband is doing something contrary to your expectation you can correct him by example or showing him how to do it (like what you did). You know we men are not that emotional. The romantic nature we possess are left overs from past relationships. Things women taught us. So teach your man the way you want to be loved and watch your marriage blossom.

gabbytabby: She is an OSAS wey come Lagos and needs to see the different sides to Lagos.

madam im really surprised how you get her pics. Facebook? But that woman is old for that kind of lifestyle

ademola7: ..Yes I do not want to say a price that will be different from what you have priced..keep in mind....we are going to bid for that car..all you need to do is to do a market structure..know the price and make up your mind, how much you want to spend...... don't go above your budget...if we are lucky to win the bid..then good..if not we wait for the next auction..keep in mind...we involve together as far as you pay the commission..and the commission will be paid after the arrival of bill of ladin....Mostly we normally win bid in the midnight

I do not know the price. that is why I am asking you so that I can plan towards it.

Benodic I view your thread regularly and I am amazed at the level of discipline portrayed by you. You update this thread on a daily basis. I need such kind of discipline in my life. I used to have a a friend who is an eckist in the university. I also attended one of their Sunday conference and I enjoyed myself.

Benodic I have to confess to you, at this stage of my life I am extremely busy. Life is like a fast train and I know I need to develop my spiritual life. I have once seen Jesus (or a Jesus personality in my dream, though I cannot really remember what we discussed). Can I be a practicing eckist without attending seminars, conference or Sunday worship service. Also how soon will I see my eck master who will guide me.

I need answers Benodic. I do need answers.

Ademola, I noticed you do not respond to forum members asking for prices of vehicle. Is there anything wrong. Please I need to know the price is would cost me to purchase a Toyota Camry from you to my house (please include all cost).

The Toyota Camry model I intend to purchase is either 2008 - 2011. You can state their prices to enable me streamline my budgeting. I intend to purchase this car by June and if your price is favorable, then you would be hearing from me soon.

Thanks

Can we ignore bbfever and focus on wunmi Allen. When is she going to pay back the money?

bbfever I assume you are a matured person. Please end this tactics of yours.If our methodology is crude and below standard, that should be left to us. However, I have seen it worked before and I have no doubt that it would work again. You can advise wunmi to pay up the debt as quick as possible.

I believe this thread owes you no explanation and you the same. Sheathe your sword and focus on relevant things.

Good afternoon pretty dolls, thanks for distracting me from work. Mondays could be tough.

@ivynwa nothing wrong to voice your need. We are humans after all, we all want to be loved and to love. It's good you are out of your shell

@ maya you name rings a bell not on nairaland though. It definitely has to be somewhere else. Anyways good afternoon to you.

@ carmelion - you know now. It's today. I'm excited like a 4 year expecting a bday present. Lol

Please ladies nothing wrong to express your intimate needs and the way you want to be treated.

I can see we are still committed to this course. Well done folks.

Bbfever remember my first correspondence with you, you told me you were sitting on the fence and not picking sides. I cannot see that from all your previous comments. I also wish to state that you should respect etiquette and stop responding with CAPITAL LETTERS. it is highly insulting.

Idowuogbo: Hehehe... I like ur person already. Anyways... Dat aside, commendations or recommendations, oGa, to wish u were someone else is to waste d person u are. Let me do me Nd let Carmdoll do her. I choose woteva persona I wanna portray.We clear? Rite...

Well I do not say you must be carmelion. Since you want to do u, I would rather rephrase, be you - then be civil, be decent and I don't mean you should be nice but act matured. Last but not the least, act like a lady and earn the respect of the men around. Good night.

Surveyprof has never failed us and I don't think he will this time.

surveyProf: I can prove it 100% sure!!!, and his pictures are here..

I think bbfever is also an accomplice.

Idowuogbo: And u are? Face front abeg! Trying to call out me to get noticed rite? Professional #%%@ licker! Do u and I'll do me.Judgementalmuch# Mstewww!

Notice what - you. Sorry I do not belong to the I want to be noticed class. Do you? Someone tagged you as a bad lady and you have just proved it so and I think you are (my own honest opinion) but there is room for change. See your mate carmelion opened a thread and she's been getting commendations from both male and female. Take a cue from her, try to create a good personality. Be meaningful and useful.

gabbytabby: The question is does she work. All I see is woman that goes to club almost every night and comes back between 2-4am in the morning. Dont worry too much such just go to Italy.
Unfortunately, I recruited an agent who did no due diligence check and hence the situation that I find myself with.I now do this by myself.

They did not even finish paying the first years rent before they were let into the flat. I was told she transported herself with all her load from Ekiti and they refused to let her move in cos they were not fully paid up and they only let them in cos of the extreme begging from neighbours as she had her 3 year old boy with her. Eight months on she still refused to pay the balance and was going to fight the agent in the street when she was asked about it. She only paid when I came home and gave her hell after I saw what else she had been up to. The agent and lawyer collected their money complete and it was mine that was not complete.

When I land na poster I go first start with you really need to deal with business when people think they can go round taking advantage and disrespecting others.

Oh she is a runs gal. She looks like it. Well this is business, dont bother negotiating because there will be issues later in the future. But it is so sad for people to behave this way. If you don't have money all you have to do is plea for more time rather than fight.

benodic: @ Boss13



seek ye first the kingdom of God and everything else will be added unto you.

Bros speak the English of a naija man. Lol. I used to have a dream diary but now I cannot remember my dreams. I truly want to be close to God. Discover all those my hidden talents. Anyways is there any center in Victoria island.

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Another scammer. Maybe wunmi