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Romance / Re: My Witch Step Mother’s Problem by boxer022(m): 2:37am On Feb 24, 2021 |
All I have to say is Safety first. You did not do wrong by moving out of a house where you are not wanted. Like the previous person said, you and your wife need to be very careful and prayerful, as such a woman is ready to go to any extent to see your downfall. While at the hotel, please try as much as you can to get yourself an apartment so that you will feel relaxed and not spend much money paying hotel bills. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Is This The Truth About The "Nigerian Girls Are Useless Gangs" (NGAUG)? by boxer022(m): 3:43am On Feb 14, 2021 |
People that always write that particular phrase may have forgotten that they have sisters, girlfriends, even wifes and they are all females, some are presently girls while some were girls but due to marriage have upgraded to women. It's always advisable to be very careful with our words. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Dream Of A Lady Giving Me Lap Dance Beside A River This Evening by boxer022(m): 3:31am On Feb 14, 2021 |
As many people have already told you, this has to do with marine forces. They are trying to lure you in with what their best weapon is which is a girl. You have to be very careful and very prayerful. God will help you conquer them. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Help A Brother.... I Need Serious Advise,.. Am In A Dilemma by boxer022(m): 2:28pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Your issue is as clear as day, I believe that the best thing to do is let her go as you are not yet ready to marry her. She is a good girl for wanting to know your opinion. I was in your shoes once though not the same, but I told her to go as I do not want to be a barrier to her happiness and future. She listened to me and went ahead, now she is married. |
Romance / Re: I Had My Baby Today by boxer022(m): 4:28pm On Jan 25, 2021 |
Congratulations on your safe delivery. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Many People Saw Negative Signs And Still Went Ahead To Marry by boxer022(m): 10:24pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
It is a mess in our society today mostly among our celebrities, most of them marry with the hopes that the evil sign they saw will be a thing of the past when they are married. Some even get married for the wrong reasons and once that reason for which they decided to get married is achieved or not achieved, they cheat on their spouses with other people which in turn breaks their home. Some after spending millions of naira just to make their wedding a societal type of wedding they end up getting divorced in less than 5 years, sighting irreconcilable difference. Some rush into marriage out of love for the other person and when that love is no more or turns to hate they regret their action, some even endure their marriage rather that enjoy it. It is a very big problem in our society today in this our present generation. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Can God Ask You To Marry Someone You Don't Love by boxer022(m): 10:04pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Blabbermouth: I understand your points but must point out the following: 1) For Adam, the Bible recorded that God saw that Adam had no companion or helper which made Him create Eve from his missing rib as a helper or companion for Adam. 2) Solomon made his choice of marriage and where did it lead him, after marrying all those women it led him to worship other gods apart from GOD. 3) Samson was also warned not to marry outside his tribe but due to beauty and love, it cost him his life. God specifically warned the Israelites in the bible against marrying outside their nation. Following the topic of discussion you will read that he prayed and fasted for God to show him his wife and the lady God showed him was not the lady he loves. Since he put his trust in God and asks for His direction, which he got response then why is he going against what God showed him in the dream? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Can God Ask You To Marry Someone You Don't Love by boxer022(m): 1:50pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Blabbermouth: I have this belief which is that everyone has destined person to spend the rest of their life with. God can guide you to the right and destined partner who He created for you from your missing rib and you decide to not be with that person in the name of not been in love with that person, for sure you will have yourself to blame. God cannot force you to do anything, He will only tell you what to do, It is now left to you to either accept to do it or leave it. The issue of marriage is not a child's play and if you make mistake in it, you will regret for the rest of your life. |
Romance / Re: Help ! I’m Devastated And Heartbroken by boxer022(m): 1:41pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Morningblues: I understand you perfectly, but as I said earlier the love you had for him was not reciprocated. You cannot continue to dwell on this. Even if he decides to answer you, he is doing it out of pity and not love. I can't force you to do what you don't want to do, the ball is in your court, decide for yourself what you want for yourself. |
Romance / Re: Is There Really Cheating In True Love by boxer022(m): 1:37pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
To my little understanding on the matter, if indeed there is true love in any relationship, there will not be cheating for any reason. Looking at today's relationships, many people get involved in it for the wrong reasons. When that reason or reasons have been achieved then it's on to the next person available. Some will say that because it is a relationship and not marriage then they are free to cheat, forgetting that you will reap what ever you sow. There is a slang that says "once a cheat, always a cheat ".I believe that if you cheat in your relationship and you are not caught, there is every tendency that you will cheat when you get married. To wrap up my point if you truly love someone sincerely with all your heart, you will not cheat on that person. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Can God Ask You To Marry Someone You Don't Love by boxer022(m): 1:20pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Blabbermouth: How do you mean? |
Romance / Re: Help ! I’m Devastated And Heartbroken by boxer022(m): 1:13pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
You need to take things easy with yourself my dear, I have taken time to go through what you wrote and digested every detail. I like the fact that you stood your ground on not allowing him peruse through your privacy. I know for a fact that he will never agree to let you do same. I want you to know that the love you had for him was not reciprocated. You really loved him which he saw and took advantage of it. I am a guy and can't say such a thing to the girl I love. As I said earlier, take things easy with yourself, I know for sure that you will get over this and you will meet a good guy who will love you in return. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: How Do I Get Out Of This Mess? by boxer022(m): 5:56am On Jan 15, 2021 |
From what I just read, I can easily summarize that you saw a lady in need, had some discussions with her and started dating her. You loved her with all your heart but on the other hand, I doubt if she loved you at all. To her you are only a helper in the time of need. Try as much as you can to take things easy with yourself and move on with your life without her as she has moved on. One thing is certain and you have to learn from it, it is not every lady you see out there in need that you will invest in. Disregard all insults rendered on you and focus on the lessons learnt from this relationship with her. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Almost Had A Fight With My Mom by boxer022(m): 6:17pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Murphydrres: You are most welcome. You said your mum is troublesome, can you elaborate on that and how it affects the family so that I can advice on what to do |
Family / Re: I Almost Had A Fight With My Mom by boxer022(m): 5:11am On Jan 13, 2021 |
My brother I have gone through what you wrote and I must confess it is really touching. My advice for you is that since she has abandoned all her wifely duties and motherly duties due to the reason stated, try as much as you can to take care of your younger ones and especially your father. My ernest wish and prayer is that your father does not die from this situation due to hypertension. Talk to him, take very good care of him, console him also, I know he is going through much stress from thinking, please also appeal to him not to give up and wish for his early death because of what he is passing through from your mom. He should console himself knowing he has children who are capable of taking good care of him. As for your mom since she wants to be isolated from the rest of the family, please grant her wish, discuss with your younger ones to dissociate themselves from her, treating her as she is not part of the family. When she sees that you all are taking adequate care of yourselves and your dad I know she will have a rethink. If she doesn't then it is left to her to live her life as she has decided for herself. Less I forget, don't distance yourselves from your uncles and aunties from both sides of the family, go to them for support and advice. 62 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: This Pic Is For All The Small Minded People In Here (warning) by boxer022(m): 11:33am On Jan 12, 2021 |
PrinceofAgoAre: I don't smoke and have never smoked. |
Romance / Re: This Pic Is For All The Small Minded People In Here (warning) by boxer022(m): 9:40pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
This looks like a picture taken from a morgue, the body looks dead. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Nairalanders, I'm Tired Of Living. I Don't Want To Stay With This Man by boxer022(m): 9:28pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
What seems to be the problem, you need to elaborate so as to get solution or advice. |
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Stopped Calling And Picking My Calls by boxer022(m): 9:25pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
From what I just read, I deduced the following, firstly as you said both of you are financially stable, secondly he doesn't assist you financially in return (though you said it was a test). I believe he loves or loved you sincerely but may be acting up based on advices from his friends. They may have told him that since you work and make your own money, which looking at it critically maybe more than his own money, you will not make a good wife and you will not be submissive. I believe what is best for you now is give it one final push (calling and texting him) and if it ends up the same way, know that he has decided to end the relationship. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Guys, Why Do You Do This? by boxer022(m): 6:59pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Well I believe it is a matter of selfishness, foolishness and stupidity. How can a handsome man who has a beautiful wife he married and paid her bride price be looking outside or having extra-martial affair, or even stoop so low as having s*x with his maid. How can a beautiful, attractive, well behaved and well mannered woman in her right senses be having extra-marital affair or even stooping so low as having s*x with her husband's boy, or driver or even gateman. It is stupidity in the highest level and can lead to death or divorce. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Need Advice Pls by boxer022(m): 5:05pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
ochechannel: My brother this your story is very long and explanatory. That your so called friend Isa is a bad friend and a bad influence to you. Do all you can to send him and all the people he brought packing out of your house and your business place. Do not allow them spend another night at your place. They had a place they were staying before you met them so they should return to that place. You said you want to register the girl for WAEC or NECO but she said nothing. Don't bother doing that also. |
Celebrities / Re: Yael Shelbia Is TC Candler's 'Most Stunning Woman In The World' by boxer022(m): 10:21am On Jan 06, 2021 |
Kestolove: For your mind abi? |
Romance / Re: How Do I Forgive A Man Who Used Me And Hurt Me? by boxer022(m): 1:18pm On Jan 05, 2021 |
She needs to take things easy with herself. What has happened has happened and there is nothing that can be done about it. She should tell her colleagues to stop giving out your number without her consent. I don't want to start throwing blames at anybody, so she has to try as much as she can to calm her nerves and take things easy with herself. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Some Ladies Joke With Serious Issues? by boxer022(m): 1:04pm On Jan 05, 2021 |
To me sincerely, I don't see anything wrong in the question you ask ladies. It is better you know where you stand than to end up regretting your decisions. Continue till you meet the right one. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Sincere Apologies Goes To Mr A by boxer022(m): 8:20am On Jan 05, 2021 |
Ngwa continue I am following |
Celebrities / Re: Anyidon Gives E-Money & Kcee Cows (Pics & Video) by boxer022(m): 9:22pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
This is an old story. It happened last week Friday. |
Crime / Re: Man Beats And Butchers His Baby Mama Over Food In Imo (Graphic Pics) by boxer022(m): 1:58pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
tyup: How can I be a disgrace to the male race when one of us (males) connived with his family to kill his baby mama. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions but looking at the story, why did the man in question refuse the lady's brother from coming inside? Why did he run away with his sister after carrying out their failed plan? You have this mentality of seeing women as slaves and men as their masters. You said if I stay in the North you will petition Hisbah to castrate me immediately, but looking at your comment it is you who should not only be castrated but disgraced for supporting murder. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Man Beats And Butchers His Baby Mama Over Food In Imo (Graphic Pics) by boxer022(m): 9:44am On Jan 04, 2021 |
The plan of the man was to kill her, this must have been agreed amongst his family. For the father of the man and the sister also to be there, they have concluded that she must die. Since the father has been arrested, it means that the man and his sister ran away. My advice for her is after receiving treatment, she should press charges against both the man and his family for attempted murder. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Selfie Challenge 2020 (photos) by boxer022(m): 9:08pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
That's me 2 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Modupe Odele Goes Into Exile After ‘Second Encounter With Immigration' by boxer022(m): 10:29am On Dec 31, 2020 |
FarahAideed: This your statement is defamatory, can you prove she looted over 100 million naira, where did the money come from? Did you contribute a dime to the protest, make research before saying what you are not sure of. What happens if you gets this your defamatory statement and sue you for every penny you have for failing to substantiate or prove your claims. Be Wise. |
Romance / Re: See How A Slay Queen Strips Pastor Nak3d After Refusing To Pay For Her Abortion by boxer022(m): 7:33am On Dec 26, 2020 |
This is the problem with some men. God did not call you to work for Him as a Pastor, you called yourself. If not how then can you explain to me that an annointed man of God will stoop so low to this level and even get a girl pregnant, she is not a good wife material but a good bed material abi? See the outcome of your stupidity, what you did in secret has now come out in the open. This is just the beginning of your problems more are on the way. |
Romance / Re: Check Out My Hot Outfit. Will You Smash Or Pass? by boxer022(m): 7:24am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Well even though I can't see your face which I know you hid for a good reason, you look really beautiful. So it is a definite SMASH. Good luck. |
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