₦airaland Forum

narite:
If she really want this whole drama to end, she could do that today. All she just need to do is to carry out the DNA test with or without the family’s consent. That is all.

Obviously, mohbad’s father does not really like her, reasons best know to him, clearly; he enjoys tormenting her with the DNA saga.

If it turns out the baby belongs to mohbad, victory for her and I tell you the sky is her starting point, this will mean a lots to every Nigerians out there, most especially mohbad’s friends, associate and even fans. She will gain immortal honor and respect. In few months time, she will be dining with dignitaries.

She will restore confidence to every home out there whom this event has sow a seed of doubt in their heart about their spouse and if they are the one who fathered their children.

However, if it turns out that; the kid is a bàstârd. I have no idea the words I can use to describe the damage done. The baby and her will be a symbol of shame. This terrible outcome will alter the thinking of this generation. A generation will come and when they look back at history, they will say “It was this event that started it”

In my own opinion, with her doggy attitude towards the DNA test, the baby does not belong to………………..fill in the blanks.

I expected nothing less though. I only blame mohbad for all this, even his own death. Dude is just too naive, has a simple minded heart. Having your so called wife to live with you and come as she likes to a place where you are feed and clothes, where you are treated like an errand boy. Men who has no morals, party hard, lives on drugs are the ones you allowed your wife (a woman) to freely visit and play with.

It like asking a goat to play around yam and being confident the yam is going to be in one piece.

The drama is that she is accused of having a hand in her husband's murder.

It has nothing to do with a test to make the masses happy. There's nothing dodgy about not agreeing to it. Even if it's not his son, it doesn't mean she murdered him. And that is the point of the whole trial by media. Not paternity.

But it has been hijacked because Nigeria is full of misogynists looking for how to slut shame women

DeepSight:
Believe you me, you are preaching to the choir if you are talking equal rights and fair treatment. Women have had the short end of the stick and have been given a rough deal throughout most of history and a lot needs to be corrected there.

This does nothing to take away the legitimate fear of paternity fraud, which really is a thing these days. All too many men only realize in their old age that their kids aren't theirs.

My take on it is the same as with my take on pre-nuptial agreements. Many women will say, oh, if you love and trust me, you will not ask for one. Sorry. I will always ask for one no matter how much I love and trust you. Thats simply because no one knows tomorrow. In the same vein, I would always ask for a DNA test. How much more in any circumstance when there is a controversy of any kind afoot.

What's the point of asking for one in this case? To make the father happy? What does it have to do with her alleged murder of the guy?

Insecurity in a relationship is a good enough reason to end it. If I were to be a woman who did a DNA test to please an insecure man (who is probably cheating but since he doesn't get pregnant he can ACT like its that big a deal), I would divorce him afterwards especially if his insecurity is unfounded.

narite:
You are right though, all the black man brain knows is sex and fraud.

However, this issue is no longer about mohbad, it now about every man and woman out there. This events is about to stir up a new paradigm shift, it nature working.

Maybe, maybe not.

The tests have always been there. Why it is used to slander her is the thing.

1Sharon:
So true. Very sad and pathetic.

Nairaland is a microcosm of Nigeria.

It really is.

It's not surprising the case has turned to the matter of a DNA test. The men are feeling misogynist sentiments instead of facing their jobs. Pathetic.

DeepSight:
At all, but paternity fraud is rampant and its somethings that spooks most of us.

It's good you are not denying it.

But who is cheating with the women? Women? Or is it men?

How many men have been tried for sleeping with another woman as the basis for his alleged crime?

OJ was never tested for sleeping with another woman, but for his crime. Neither did the court care if she did so herself.

See why it's misogyny?

pretydiva:
He’s not an albino🙄. He’s suffering from a skin disease called vitiligo

Only his lips appear to be affected.

Aaaaarghmed:
I dont see why I will hustle hard for money and I am not in any serious relationship and I wont womanize.maka why na.I suppose marry my European babe but we get some issues wey we never got solve.so for now,na chilling things,I have a date tomorrow and on sunday with diff women

But you expect fidelity.

This is why a lot of people don't get what they want. The contrast is too high.

One would think because she's European you would've enslaved and ingratiated yourself to her. Well, she's still got you biting the bit. You'll get there eventually.

labake1:
Why is it difficult to get these qualities in a man?

Lol.

You want them to start frothing and attacking everything about women, don't you?

You know quite well the forum has the dregs of society brandishing themselves as men. It won't be a nice thread.

DeepSight:
BS.
Asking for the truth is now misogynistic abi?

And you want to know it why else? Because you care about her or the child? Or is it the chance to bash women and deny her of something?

1Sharon:
Most people that lose a loved one, tend to feel some guilt. The autopsy results are what should be chased. Once it's out, they follow up from it accordingly.

No body is pushing for the autopsy results any longer. Wunmi has been made the centre of attention and you think that is intelligent behaviour?

It's Nigerian men investigating. You can bet everything revolves around and gets back to sex. It's their only preoccupation: what women do with their private parts.

When the job seller was murdered, all the serial killer had to say was that she wanted sex with him. Once he played his ace in the hole, not one of them had functional brains. It became a debate about if they had consensual sex and that made the guy innocent.

We have a lot of demented people on this forum.

DeltaBachelor:
Sorry to say but I don't think we are on the same wavelength here. You clearly are not rational with your response . I can only pray we don't have any family member(s) who experienced what Mohbad did. I am very sure that you will be among those calling for a DNA test especially when it is something that will bring closure, mend broken hearts and finally lay to rest any perceived or lingering doubt. Nobody will fold their arms and hear cases like that about their son or brother and ignore. I repeat, it is 100% valid if they want to know if Liam is truly their grandson, nephew etc. Nothing like slut shaming anybody. This stuff happens even among couples who are married today. It's just to be very sure . They have been delaying this stuff for far too long. He who brings ant infested woods to the room must not be feel bad when lizards start visiting. The lady you are supporting and the entire family brought and washed their "dirty" linen in public for all of us to see. So, in that vein , it won't be out of place if we want to know if the said "linen" is clean or not. This will be my last response to you on this matter. Do have a great night !

Let's get one thing straight about your wavelength: you want to slut shame her.

There's nothing else to this demand.

You lot were sympathetic until the father played one of your favorite cards. He knew it would buy him the air time he needed. Just the idea that she could be a cheat was enough to destabilize all the logic of the men and some women interested in the case. He knows why he did it. The serial killer of Uwa did the same thing and claimed she came with a condom. Immediately, you all believed him. You needed to slut shame the innocent girl. It was no longer about her murder.

Kudos to the man. Very soon you'll need the deceased guys mother to have a DNA test done, because to Nigerian men no crime is worse than that. Anything else is forgivable. His father only needs to whisper the and all the logic and its wavelengths will be reduced to the same thought process found in porn videos.

You're all tired of wanting an autopsy. Maybe because a man could be found guilty. This is the easier way out. The famous wavelength.

Next!

Gajagojo:
That is not the only explanation
Nigerian crude is the highest quality and higest priced
TODAY We are taking 9 dollars difference
If that difference persists there is no need to ever use Nigerian oil
It makes sense to export our premium crude and import cheaper crude

Even Saudi Arabia imports crude from Nigeria despite being a leading exporter
It is more complex than what you are saying

That doesn't explain it.

If it's higher quality, why pay for movement and extra refining? It has more to do with volume and it's availability. Or monopolistic rebates.

Deepwater or deepwaters, we need you to explain this.

Yadid:
It is better to say so little to show that you know so much, rather than say so much to show that you know so little. Are you always this grumpy and disgruntled? You can't have a conversation without insults? Did I insult you in anyway in my submission? My bad! I assumed that people are often rational, forgetting that there always exceptions. "Wise" man with "common sense", may you find peace sir.

You couldn't have said it better. The person is uncouth and uncultured.

Women trigger MuslimIgbo. He's probably mosdii/savetgeday/kriss/zonedree

Fiscus105:
Must you marry?

Are you virgin urself?

Are you not too aggressive for someone to leave the rest of her life with?

Please, ask that mo_ron some more. All these angry economically disadvantaged boys don't want to improve themselves. Rather they want to put down women to feel good.

Any woman/girl with him needs saving.

MuslimIgbo:
Your stupidity is definitely irredeemable.
Someone did controversially and many accusing fingers have been pointing to his close friends, allies and family members, INCLUDING THE WIFE, whom Mohbad and others have accused to be wayward and you're here advocating for DNA not to be done.

So Mohbad's father should just allow one stranger disloyal wife of few years to reap where she didn't sow?
I pray your son and brother will end up marrying someone like wunmi.

Go back to the cave you crawled out of. Uncouth creature.

MuslimIgbo:
Your stupidity is definitely irredeemable.
Someone did controversially and many accusing fingers have been pointing to his close friends, allies and family members, INCLUDING THE WIFE, whom Mohbad and others have accused to be wayward and you're here advocating for DNA not to be done.

So Mohbad's father should just allow one stranger disloyal wife of few years to reap where she didn't sow?
I pray your son and brother will end up marrying someone like wunmi.

Go back to the cave you crawled out of. Uncouth creature.

theamazonguru:
Exactly.
Now whose opinion are we talking about now?
The law's I guess.

The law's view right now is that the wife go take a DNA test.

If she fails the DNA test, then let's wait to see what the law's view will be. If a wife and bring in another man's child to claim the wealth and properties of yet another man.

I am willing to engage further on this once the result comes out and shows negative.

Of course if the test comes back positive, there is nothing to argue any longer.

My opinion.

How is the child going to claim the wealth and properties of the man, even if it were a blood son, when the wife is still alive?

It's good you're reemphasizing that it's your opinion. The law isn't opinion.

MuslimIgbo:
How did you know that she's not cheating?
Even mohbad fought with her several times about disloyalty before he was killed and the evidence are everywhere.
Also, what's the big deal with DNA if she has nothing to hide?

Daft.

MuslimIgbo:
Daft

You are the one who is daft. You're a daft, myopic, village, backwards thinking thing.

MuslimIgbo:
Daft

You are the one who is daft. You're a daft, myopic, backwards thinking thing.

MuslimIgbo:
You lack wisdom and common sense. What if she's responsible or complicit to his death?
Or is it strange and impossible for spouse to kill themselves?
Won't the result of the DNA reveal an important clue?

How is the DNA test an important clue? You are the one who lacks common sense and wisdom. You're just an empty vessel echoing "do DNA" because you believe she's a slut. You don't even know why else it should be done. Sift your senseless sentiment and culture from facts. Being a cheat does not indicate being a murderer.

Unwise and senseless creature.

DeltaBachelor:
Oga if you don't know about issues, kindly keep quiet. The husband's family has a right to take the supposed wife to court asking for a DNA test. If you dey watch the Paternity court, you go even see say na cases like this plenty pass when the man in question is deceased . There's nothing stopping her from doing it. It doesn't take anything away from her

Why must she do it to please you all? It takes nothing from her, but why should she? To prove what?

Even if it's not his son, she was still his wife.

Why exactly do they want a DNA test done? To prove what? To slut shame her, to prove she murdered him? What exactly does the paternity of the child have to do with anything?

Good news is that you'll all be looking for something new when you discover it is his child. Maybe his mother will be the next one that should prove something to the masses.

DeltaBachelor:
I quite agree with you on this but at least J have seen different cases like this both in real life and from TV. Just try to watch the episode " Paternity Court" on YouTube. I am sure you will stay glued.


.... JSYK, I know she's the wife and is entitled to what's left behind legally, but at least, we would like to know the outcome of the DNA result for posterity sake

That is paternity court, between 2 parents or supposed fathers. The deceased is deceased. The test is only being done to hurt the woman. If it happens to have been his child, what next?

theamazonguru:
Just being the wife means nothing.
Waka Waka wives plenty.

It seems you haven't heard that Naira Marley's diss song "Tani baba baby"
Go take a view.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xky6xQdPYk?si=9QDJUHqTNtaCnBp6

This alone is enough reason why the wife should have voluntarily gone for the DNA test to shut all nay sayers up.

But guess what, it seems she knows her way is not pure, hence keeps running from her own Shadow.

The law takes a different view to your opinion.

Shikena:
We have to clearly define "they" first, with no ambiguity, before the icebergs can melt .

K

Shikena:
When you finally figure out that products of fermentation are not limited to yogurt and wine, let us know.

The question was and still remains: but they didn't smell like hell, do they?

Your answering it honestly would cause all the icebergs to melt.

Shikena:
They do.

When there's smelly yogurt and wine in the shops, let us know.

Roger3D:
The only woman who refuses to do a DNA test on her child is one with something to hide

How old are you?

DeltaBachelor:
Finally, this series will come to an end !

If she's the wife, all this is in vain. Unless a bunch of misogynists are bending it to their will. Sentiment.

WebSurfer:
she probably already did it and knows the result will expose her or know it already as a cheat that she is

How do you know she's a cheat? Are you the father of the child? Why haven't you been attending court proceedings and claimed ownership of the child?

Shikena:
Illiterate. It was fermented, not rotten. Same as yoghurt, kefir, sauerkraut etc that your people rave about

But they don't smell like hell, do they?

GanagiBitrus:
It doesn't, to those who consider it a delicacy.
One man's meat is another's poison.

But everyone knows it's smelly.

It's like durian. Just because some people like it doesn't mean it doesn't stink. It does.